Very weird pre-date invite condition/terms given. Thoughts? Anyone else come across this before?

Thestral-glow6 · 2021-09-27T10:13:55+00:00

🤡🤡Mental and physical connections. Fu*k off with that shit.

He’s looking to get laid and just dressing this up so you don’t automatically pick up on him saying “physical connections”

Block and delete him. 🚩🚩🚩🚩

Technical_Moth248 · 2021-09-27T08:03:43+00:00

He just wants casual sex lol. Wanting to “see how you vibe” is usually a good indication, the need to emphasize physical connection confirmed it. Once you learn to spot it these types usually write pretty identically. I also personally wouldn’t accept a drink date. It’s low effort and not very safe for you, which are both things a HVM would avoid.

Platipus6 · 2021-09-27T07:28:05+00:00

Drinks = sex

vibe = sex

physical = sex

08__80 · 2021-09-27T10:17:22+00:00

No Kyle, I am not open to "physical connections" on this "drink date" / "looking at dinosaurs date."

(Also, friends don't let friends says yes to drink dates.)

throwaway-fds · 2021-09-27T08:28:28+00:00

Ok..Not into the dating scene and even that seems like too much words as well. What kind of text is "Yay let's meet as long as you're open to both mental and physical connections?" A HVM would just say "Great! What days are you available?" Sounds like he's jumping through hoops to sound deep but will end up using you for sex

RabidWench · 2021-09-27T07:46:32+00:00

Ladies. I am begging you. Stop accepting drink dates. They are solely to lower your inhibitions and get in your pants with a minimum of time and cash invested. If you plan to give that to them, what on earth are you doing in FDS?

Insert Cher slapping Nic Cage and screaming "Snap out of it!"

Worldly-Efficiency-9 · 2021-09-27T07:23:08+00:00

Block and delete. He is just looking for a hook up.

GigaKarenEnergy · 2021-09-27T07:25:15+00:00

He’s going to push for casual. He wouldn’t have mentioned physical at all of that wasn’t the case. Also LV for suggesting drinks.Dumbass. Block delete bye

“I’ll meet if I know I’ll get my dick wet”

Literally don’t tell him what he did wrong

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2021-09-27T08:40:18+00:00

He wants to have sex on the first date. Time to block and delete him.

miss_peach94 · 2021-09-27T08:43:53+00:00

Physical connections lmao

He wants the coochie sis

Frogspocket · 2021-09-27T11:05:49+00:00

"as long as you're open to connection" is manipulator speak for: "DTF?"

ilovewinniethepooh · 2021-09-27T07:49:06+00:00

He’s trying to make it seem like he values mental over physical, but it’s actually the reverse. He’s trying to elevate himself by shitting on physical (which he does by including mental). And then if you say yes (with you valuing mental) he has an automatic in for physical (which is what he wants). If that doesn’t make sense let me know and I’ll do my best to clarify further.

DrippingWetPeach · 2021-09-27T10:55:16+00:00

Code for fucking on the first date. Block and delete. He already gave you a hint in the first message by suggesting drinks.

Good luck out there😉💜

Belgian_jewish_studn · 2021-09-27T10:26:25+00:00

I can’t put my finger on it but something about the way he talks is strange.

NinjaCynic · 2021-09-27T08:30:29+00:00

"No drink dates!" [in Edna Mode voice]

InjuryOnly4775 · 2021-09-27T07:44:29+00:00

Wait…what? Love how he just sneaks that in there. Sleeze .

kolsen92 · 2021-09-27T11:01:58+00:00

“See how we vibe” 🤢

DuchessDurag · 2021-09-27T08:57:25+00:00

He’s obviously trying to meet as many women as possible with the least effort.

Sweet-yet-not · 2021-09-27T09:25:11+00:00

What is "Mental and Physical" connection?🤣 He sounds like a cheap person.

Davina33 · 2021-09-27T11:46:14+00:00

He is looking to have sex with you that day. What a scrote! He isn't even asking for your consent. He is telling you.

purasangria · 2021-09-27T07:28:41+00:00

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Title	Very weird pre-date invite condition/terms given. Thoughts? Anyone else come across this before?
Author	janeaustenfan99
Upvotes	85
Comments	25
Date	September 27, 2021 7:17 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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