Went on a Tinder date and guy just said Let’s talk more and didn’t ask for my phone number…

millennialpink2000 · 2021-11-28T17:46:02+00:00

When a guy is interested, he's not behaving this way. He's either playing games or not interested. Either way, turf him

europoor24 · 2021-11-28T17:55:41+00:00

He’s not putting in the effort already at this stage. Block and delete.

Carneliancat · 2021-11-28T22:14:58+00:00

The moment a man makes you feel confused, that is your cue to block and delete.

extraodi · 2021-11-28T20:10:20+00:00

Yeah definitely unmatch him. I’ve heard guys follow weird rules like “don’t contact her until after three days after the date.” It’s your typical trope of I’ll call you later, but he never does. It says a lot about him. No man worth it would keep you waiting like that.

oi_oi_oink · 2021-11-28T17:46:57+00:00

Absolutely. It's been two days and he hasn't contacted you. If he wanted to talk more, he would've put in the effort.

bleda_princezna · 2021-11-28T18:37:25+00:00

A guy that's genuinely interested won't put himself in a position of losing you and will make sure you always know where you stand with him and what his intentions are. He didn't do any of these things, he did the exact opposite. Mind games. Time to bin him.

Platipus6 · 2021-11-28T21:42:39+00:00

He put you back on his imaginary shelf. Unmatch.

miwamus · 2021-11-28T20:47:51+00:00

A guy that wants you wants your number. On top of that, a guy that wants you wants to lock down the second date immediately.

plomerst · 2021-11-28T17:42:40+00:00

Yes. I could maybe understand if he immediately messaged you in the app to ask for your number, but now it has been two days…

Pryras · 2021-11-28T20:56:43+00:00

His brain cells are on 2%. Next him

peaches88888 · 2021-11-29T04:25:18+00:00

He picked this tactic up from a redpill/manosphere forum. It’s to get you confused and chasing him and then he’ll get easy sex.

Nope. Not from an FDS girl. Block and delete.

rainbowhelix · 2021-11-29T01:52:04+00:00

Yes, unmatch him! He was probably just looking for an easy lay. When he saw you weren't gonna fvck on the first date, he decided there was no point.

VigorousBeanFlicking · 2021-11-29T02:41:44+00:00

He’s either not interested or he’s playing a game to make you uneasy and chase him for approval.

engineergorl · 2021-11-29T02:00:04+00:00

Hey, you should be careful about giving out your phone number. Your phone number can be used to find a ton of your personal information. Give out a Google Voice number or a burner number (lots of apps for this).

LR_today · 2021-11-29T04:44:53+00:00

TINDER

IS

ONLY

FOR

CASUAL

SEX.

Seriously, tinder is for fucking, so unless you are looking for that (which you shouldn't be on here until reading the handbook), get the fuck off that free sex worker app full of fuckbois and rapists.

I am fucking SICK of seeing women try to convince themselves Tinder is anything but what it is, a hookup app. You got exactly what that app is intended for.

subgirlygirl · 2021-11-29T16:53:50+00:00

Look at their actions, never their words. I'd give him until morning to realize 'Oh dur! I didn't get her number!' before unmatching him and casting him into the shadows for all eternity. Two days?? He'd be all but a cautionary tale.

Title	Went on a Tinder date and guy just said Let’s talk more and didn’t ask for my phone number…
Author	normabelka2
Upvotes	168
Comments	25
Date	November 28, 2021 5:36 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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