Where is the lie?

cherryloaf · 2020-08-15T14:05:58+00:00

"Lol daddy issues!" says the scrote that watches porn and would be disappointed if he had a daughter

localgirlcult · 2020-08-15T14:41:15+00:00

Men fail as fathers so much that "dad who went out for cigarettes years ago and still hasn't come back" is a FuNnY jOke.

snakeeyesninelives · 2020-08-15T14:49:38+00:00

oh my god how did i not notice that before!!! the kid will idealise the parent they're missing and not notice the parent who's actually raising them and society does that on a larger scale

nowheyrose · 2020-08-15T13:30:39+00:00

Holy shit!

2020-08-15T15:01:14+00:00

The first rule of misogyny: it’s always women’s fault.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-08-15T18:25:06+00:00

As someone whose mother should’ve left but stayed I think single mothers deserve nothing but praise. They put their kids before the image. Some women think they’re worthless outside of image and will deny abuse over it. It is sick. It is so sick.

And so many men resent and hate their mothers; notice we never say “mommy issues?” Everyone just shits on abusive mothers but fathers abusing we have to be quiet about.

Even though paternal abuse tends to be sadistic, maternal abuse is often emotionally immature women seeking their kids to re-parent them.

A mother can also become a narcissist due to spousal abuse and she takes it out on her kids.

Men deserve all the flack they get for failing as fathers; being a father can’t be all the damn hard. They should’ve zipped it if they were going to have kids just to abuse them.

I’m jealous of people with fathers who weren’t there; better off without them. They cause so much damage when they are there.

lizyahright · 2020-08-15T21:10:00+00:00

God I've been doing alot of unlearning during this quarantine and this one got me. I never thought of it that way wtf!? All these mind games and gaslighting.

Brown_chick45 · 2020-08-15T15:06:42+00:00

Holy shit!

AnnieandFish · 2020-08-15T16:18:32+00:00

Well, yes but no. “Daddy issues” cause insecure children, which is great if you want to be a low-effort boyfriend. Single motherhood was antagonized to jump-start adoption as a concept, so children could be signed away from single mothers to more “stable” families. Specifically trafficking children by slandering women isn’t better than creating dysfunction in adults, but it was rooted in a higher likelihood that single parents would be the women who weren’t dying in wars and dangerous jobs, and for profit. It was because of the value women have in bringing life into the world that we weren’t societally-disposable, but the consequence of that would be a campaign to convince at least the US of the dangers of single motherhood (to sell their babies). It’s one of the roots of misogyny here.

Overall: Insulting girls with daddy issues just compounds on already low self-esteem to create weaker women. Dragging single motherhood has deepened misogyny, especially as it pertains to women in the workplace, who can expect an unspoken pay cut for every child. It embedded the notion of motherhood being at odds with professional capabilities through today.

Thank you for coming to my Ted talk

Pasdepromesses · 2020-08-15T16:14:52+00:00

I’d walk away from all of them. Let the men raise these children. If they’re blaming us already, I want to give them something to complain about.

I can be the fun mommy who takes them to Disneyland every year and gives them chips and fizzy drinks in the weekend.

Eva4ever28 · 2020-08-15T14:47:01+00:00

As a single mom with “daddy issues” this shit hit deep. It took me a LONG time to realize this stuff was on the men in my life and not my fault. Having my father leave as a child was soul crushing and it took a long time for me to learn my worth. I was never treated with the respect I deserved because of HIM and ended up having a child with a man that didn’t treat me well. Now I finally love myself the way the men in my life should have and I attract HVM. It’s tough, girls but you deserve better!

travellingtaurus · 2020-08-15T16:57:36+00:00

I swear, the more I follow this sub, the more I find new ways to be disgusted with society

JesusisKingisLord · 2020-08-15T22:09:47+00:00

Well damn

2020-08-16T04:11:27+00:00

It’s pretty insane

chochetecohete · 2020-08-15T16:35:53+00:00

This hits square in the feels.

Single mums are looked down upon for choosing a bad partner. Kids suffer from having a bad dad. And dads somehow escape any scrutiny at all.

Lopsidedbutinvisible · 2020-08-15T14:39:53+00:00

Loving this!

On a side note, I loved Maxim for one section women would choose to pose in bikinis and call out their dead beat dads and ex's who didnt pay their child support.

That is how you shame someone. By talking to their peers and target audience. Weaponize your beauty and turn it against the scum. I wish that was less effective than going to court, but that's how most people work.

amalgamation75 · 2020-08-15T15:20:18+00:00

Anything to place the blame on women, I suppose

Title	Where is the lie?
Author	azngirl7689
Upvotes	4258
Comments	46
Date	August 15, 2020 1:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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