I never understood this idea that women supposedly don’t care about looks as much as men do. I’ve heard the phrase “men are visual” so many times, it’s sickening.

Newsflash: I, along with other women, notice and appreciate the beauty of physically attractive men. Sure, not all of us have the same taste and we all have different types. I think that’s mainly because women have more unique personalities than men- this means they’re attracted to a wider range. Men have no depth to them so they all agree on what they find attractive and not.

(It could also be because they see women as a collection of sexual body parts whereas women truly appreciate a man’s good looks in a wholesome way)

However ultimately there are some physical features that most women would agree are attractive. (I’m not talking about personality here because that’s a separate topic).

Men tell each other that they just have to be “confident” to get attractive women. They insist that women have it worse off because their value is innate (beauty) whereas men have full control over their destinies because their value comes from what they do/produce. I think it’s cute they have to convince themselves of this.

Sorry to break it to you but no amount of confidence will give you a chiselled jaw and great bone structure. You can get a well paying job and attain a high social status but that won’t give you a broad, masculine build or good facial symmetry. Yes you can go to the gym but a lot of it comes down to genetics. If you have small wrists and a small, scrawny build you will never look like the The Rock. If you have poor facial symmetry and bad proportions you will never look like Henry Cavill or Steven Yeun. Accept your genes instead of insisting that women don’t care about looks.

I’ve seen men say nonsense like “I can’t stick my dick in your degree”. First of all, why do men think so highly of themselves? Why do you even think I want your disgusting, unwashed dick? Clean the fungus of your rotten, porn-abused penis before you make statements like this. Secondly, your degree doesn’t turn me on either. If I’m not physically attracted to you it means nothing to me. Do these men actually think that women are physically attracted to their jobs/degrees?

I just find it so funny because a lot of ugly and average looking men feel entitled to beautiful women because they think their looks don’t matter. Your looks DO matter. I know society convinces you that simply being a man is enough to get any woman but that’s no true. Your looks MATTER. If I find you physically unattractive I have completely desexualised you in my mind. I don’t even entertain the idea of having sex with you. Stop being jealous of good looking men and work towards improving your bland personalities so you at least have something.