Why men cheat.

_differentmentality_ · 2021-04-06T10:43:13+00:00

“it’s his decision to proxy his hand for a real body” this is how many men think of sex, they consider it to be just a form of assisted masturbation. Stay clear of men who think like that at all cost.

fdsThrowaway2021 · 2021-04-06T10:53:47+00:00

My boyfriend worked with a guy who serial cheats on his girlfriend. He's always tried to tell him his escapades and when my boyfriend asked him why the fuck he would do that to someone who loves him, he told him he was "bored" and wanted something new. Foolish girl kept taking him back too

anywaysheresrational · 2021-04-06T10:28:32+00:00

Nothing to add.

Exactly what I've been told by every man in my life I talked to about this.

Saitschik · 2021-04-06T12:05:45+00:00

Men cheat because of their ego. They are thirsty for female validation through sex, that's all. If their affaire falls in love even better. Gives them their desperate boost.

And sometimes also out of sadistic motivation because they like the "forbidden fruit" thing and feel edgy when hurting their girlfriend/wife.

Papaverinum · 2021-04-06T11:03:01+00:00

And they think this justifies their cheating? Hell, no.

throwaway32132134 · 2021-04-06T12:17:13+00:00

Can you imagine if a woman made this same post? Men would be coming through the woodwork to attack her. Meanwhile plenty of men have said this and continue to and there's no backlash. Smh 🤦

LadyWithAHarp · 2021-04-06T12:07:45+00:00

So I'm not crazy? The impression that I've gotten over the last several years is that when most guys hit on me, it is because the prospect of having sex with me was only a slight improvement over their own hand. It's been weird and gross and very off-putting. I want someone interested in me for me, not as a disposable object that would be barely worth bragging about.

shelballama · 2021-04-06T13:21:27+00:00

I read a post a few months back about how "when men cheat on women it's not as bad because it's purely physical, and when women cheat on men it's emotional so it's worse."

No.

Froetsa · 2021-04-06T12:46:16+00:00

"Because I can" is all I see in that post...

2021-04-06T11:33:29+00:00

No one cares what cheating means to men. Or any other cheater. People hate it because it damages the victim, not the cheater. Nothing justifies it and nothing will. There are reasons but there are no excuses. It's easy to justify cheating when you're the cheater.

And if it was meaningless why would you do it? Imagine making the conscious effort to pursue a woman, convincing her to sleep with you and actively having sex just to say "Lol it had no meaning". Bitch why would you do meaningless stuff? You wasted energy, effort and probably money but it had no meaning?

Let me tell you the real reason: they don't respect you. Men never betray men they admire, because betrayal is wrong if he does it to his homies who "deserve" respect. Women don't deserve it. If it's meaningless to him it should be meaningless to her too, as his word is final. Men are trash and you won't change my mind on this.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-04-06T14:04:03+00:00

Another chapter of Women Are Just Fleshlights

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-04-06T13:58:10+00:00

This is so true, a lot of guys explain it like this when they've cheated on someone. Super sad.

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-04-06T15:32:31+00:00

Can you imagine a lagoon creature of this magnitude touching one atom of your body? 🤮🤮🤮 it makes me want to boil my vagina just reading it. And the poor woman who sacrificed her vagina to birth such a shitstain of a person. Yikes. When I see the potential for such disaster it reaffirms my child free position. He’s like the nuclear winter of dating options. It’s a possibility to end all possibilities. scotesque if you will

Lavender_flow · 2021-04-06T11:28:21+00:00

He really thinks he did something there. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ congratulations on being an idiot with the emotional maturity of a toilet paper roll. What a considerate and well adjusted individual.

shutup201 · 2021-04-06T15:33:25+00:00

Everything rotten men do is self motivated and if you're in their path, you're just collateral damage.

IAteTheDragon · 2021-04-06T15:30:22+00:00

Woooow that makes it so much better 😃.

Fuck you

madamejesaistout · 2021-04-06T13:44:16+00:00

This really pisses me off.

I'm a fat woman, I've been fat my whole life. Men HATE fat woman-- it's insane. There's an impression that fat people can't control themselves around food. Like if there's any food around, a fat person can't stop herself from eating it. I think a lot of disgust for fat people comes from the perception that they can't control themselves.

Well it's equally disgusting when a man can't control his lust. He has to have sex with a woman just because she's there.

Also, there are many reasons people get fat, it's not always a lack of control, so that's a prejudice anyway.

rosepinks · 2021-04-06T17:13:12+00:00

this might be one of the more depraved things ive ever seen

WornTheTshirt73 · 2021-04-07T06:22:54+00:00

Easy pickings ..... women who will literally allow this man to masturbate by using their vaginas ... how did we ever succeed in marketing this idea to women as an empowered thing to do ? Time for a massive reversal of the free love narrative .... no boy .. this love is going to cost you time, effort and money

Substantial-Win-7612 · 2021-04-06T18:07:34+00:00

I cannot describe the disgust...

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2021-04-07T17:24:32+00:00

So cheating for physical reasons and using another woman like a fleshlight is better than cheating emotionally like women? He really tried to justify why cheating men are better than women who cheat 😂 Does he know that women cheat for sex too? Men cheat for different reasons but it’s not our job to figure out why. If dude wants to cheat then he’s gonna cheat.

Title	Why men cheat.
Author	avidreader89x
Upvotes	277
Comments	63
Date	April 6, 2021 10:20 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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