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Yes. That's part of the reason for this sub existing right? To point out areas of inequality that men suffer and attempt to find ways to rectify them.
Right?
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I think people skills are mandatory for almost every job really.
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I'm aware that genuine attempts to answer the questions are raising will attract downvotes, while ones which shit on women will get upvotes. But here goes anyway.
For better of worse, there's a stereotype of geeky guys as being socially awkward, and being the only sexual target around can get REALLY old for flirting and being hit on. Plus whatever success you have is credited with teachers being soft on you for being a girl. And at some point they look around the room and decide 'this isn't the room for me, I shouldn't be here'.
Most women I know who have gone through tech and are working in industry are basically are on the spectrum and have a fireproof hide. That shouldn't be a requirement to passing a university course.
No, I don't think they are terrified at all. They are sick of being treated as second class citizens and having to plow through an extra layer of crap that male STEM students don't have to endure.
I'm reading a book right now called Raising Cain: protecting the emotional life of boys and it's making the exact same argument as this thread, but gender flipped and for primary school. Basically, because boys are less mature and less literate at ages 5-8, they should have segregated schools so they don't get permanently branded as slow and dumb simply because they are developmentally delayed compared to their girl peers, who can and do outcompete them. Having a 'safe space' where they can just be themselves without a barrage of subtextual messages that they are a poor fit for the class protects their ego and helps them be positive about themselves and about learning.
I don't even know what you are trying to say here.
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Could you please explain further what you mean?
I STILL don't know how much of the difference between little boys and little girls is biological and how much is sociological. The fact is that parents DO treat their little boys and little girls differently no matter how much they think they don't. Nobody is born with emotional literacy. It's something you have to learn from your parents. But 'teachable moments' where a little one is enquiring about someone that they see crying or reflecting on biting someone else are handled quite differently by big people depending on whether the little person is a male or a female. The result is that even by 5 girls have a far measurably greater emotional vocabulary than boys and this then plays out the expected way in the classroom.
But it doesn't have to be this way. I think that a LOT of the problems of boys and men have this emotional stuntedness as the root cause.
And that's not something you can change overnight. I think it's going to take a couple of generations to fix.
I don't really follow this, sorry.
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I think that creepy is a charged term. I think that 'socially awkward' is probably a better term. And yes, I think that geeks are generally stereotyped as being more socially awkward.
Yeah I don't know about that.
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Girls didn't outcompete me at any age. Go fuck yourself. You basically hit every menslib/feminist stereotype. Go fuck yourself. It's so easy to spot when someone drinks the kool-aid because they hit every exaggerated and often made up bullet point AGAINST men and FOR that brave/strong/righteous woman.
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