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Rule 0: No exceptions

Rian_Stone · 2018-03-13T23:59:06+00:00

There is 1 reason to be here. Learn/assist men in LTR's or marriages with Rule 0. TRP is about sexual strategy, period. Anything else, don't hit your...

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March 13, 2018

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Title	Rule 0: No exceptions
Author	Rian_Stone
Upvotes	25
Comments	111
Date	March 13, 2018 11:59 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/848yye/rule_0_no_exceptions/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/rule-0-no-exceptions.198116 https://theredarchive.com/post/198116

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r/TheRedPill is not r/marriedredpill

IMO TRP is significantly different from MRP. Much more basic and singularly focused on helping relatively unattractive men get laid more.

Many (not all) MRP members were at one time relatively attractive, did fuck, and have lost their way as a byproduct of a multitude of societal pressures and social developments. In addition to not fucking, new MRP members are often suffering from a multitude of life failures, of which not fucking is a symptom, in addition to many others including disrespect, fuckarounditis, poor financial security. The causes for the symptoms are numerous, many of which are unrelated to how fashionable his shoes are, what his belt looks like, and how recently he got a haircut.

While there is obvious overlap between TRP and MRP, I feel that it is too simplistic to restrict MRP to a view only of this one SYMPTOM of a man's failures. And thus, I support posts and content helping to improve the whole man, not just his N-count.

[–]Rian_StoneHard Core Navy Red[S,M] 4 points5 points6 points 8 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

Same instruction manual, different problems and strategies.

Also, when one says 'sexual strategy' that doesn't mean 'just getting as much pussy as possible' It's an umbrella term that encompasses:

removing unatractive qualities (self sabotage, NMMNG, WISNIFG)
Adding attractive qualities (sex god, DEVI, PUA, lifting etc)
manipulation strategies (don't reward bad behaviour, bitch management guide, female manipulation, Practical Female Psycholocy)
Legal protections (divorce planning, killing ultimatums)
increasingly, children management (parenting, single moms, etc)

Sexual strategy acknowledges sex as our base desire in a relationship, but encompasses the entirety of interactions within one.

Take away the demographic differences, the entrance-test (Single guys don't need MRP) and the vibe (flavour posters set this) and they are functionally identical.

You see it from time to time when a TRP-only flaired guy comes in here and gives advice, it reads almost identical to what an MRP-only flaired guy would... Retards aside. Neoreactionsafe would just argue about illuminati lizard people regardless of the situation

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Your first post is "REEEEEE feminism is just about equality!!"

This post is "feminism encompasses a wide range of theoretical thought about patriarchy theory and how women are socialized by gender assignments".

Maybe don't be like the feminists and actually say what you mean.

And get rid of your ego and OYS that you fucked up by not posting this initially and hiding behind hurr durr... Anybody that knows it doesn't need to read it, and anybody that needs it won't read it anyways. What the fuck?? Then why post this in the first place?? So the experts at MRP can nod along in smug arrogance at how they REALLY know what this means while the new guys are going, "huh??"

Oh, but they wouldn't have read it anyways, right?

Fuck off with that shit. They would have read it and internalized just fine.

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I agree. But any of us reading or posting here isnt carnal. Carnal is out there, action, doing shit. This is just post-game. The locker room. But I'm not writing so others comprehend it. I'm writing so I comprehend it. Guys answer questions in askMRP, why? The OP won't learn a thing unless he fucking does something. He likely wont. But if he does he'll stumble along his MAP all the same until he himself acts in a way that brings about that same conclusion. Then he'll think back and go "oh, yeah that's why that makes sense". What he read didn't really help him do...it just gave him a feeling that things will make sense when he finally acts.

But the guy who replied? He's just organizing his thoughts from his experience. We used to say this place was just a collection of notes. Not notes I'm writing to everyone else...just notes I wrote and left somewhere. Each guy writes their notes just leaves those notes in the grand compendium of the MRP library. Some other guy comes along desperate and reads them. He thinks "someone has been here before...maybe there's hope." Maybe that makes him act. Maybe not. If it helps him, good I'm glad. If it doesn't...ok. Another guy of more exerience reads the notes. He replies with his ideas or disagrees...but thats his choice to contact me or OP...who merely wrote notes for our own understanding. Is the replier actually invested in changing my mind? Helping me? Why? Why is he invested in me? Or is he adding some markings to the note I left for his own understanding. And if I choose to come back and read them and it helps me, "good" he thinks. If it doesnt...ok, he thinks.

What Stone is ultimately against here I believe is those who sit there and ruminate...and that's it. They either arent taking action or they post for the purpose of others. They hope to gain approval from posting. They believe we're a bunch of guys in the library at the same time all talking about this, rather than guys who simply write their notes and leave to go continue on with their now improved lives. They believe we are a brotherhood. And while I have met guys on here in person who I consider a friend...those I haven't really are usernames that would disappear unto the void if this place died. So Stone is actually helping the ruminators to help themselves by bucking against it. This will impact internalization by those who do act. We'll get over it.

So...the real question is...why did I just write all that. Was it for me? For you? For anyone?

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I didn't know that. Thanks. It was becoming a pain in the ass.

Thanks for the tips on both counts.

In relation to the body position it shines a light something I noted. I went into the bedroom. I'd been gaming a bit all day. Escalating and been way, way more aggressive than usual. At one point I even thought, shit, this is very hardcore.

I could tell she was up for it.

Sex quantity has been up to the point where I could take it or leave it last night. I went into the room after taking my sweet ass time doing other stuff.

She was lying on her back. She would normally lie on her side. I noted it but did not understand it.

It felt like an invitation but I was playing around. Went off did something else.

When I finally got into bed, I started reading. She fell 'alseep', turned sideways. I had to move her over a bit. I got a little peck but there was something extra in it.

Then I decided. Yeah, I'm into this. Went for it hard. Hair pulling etc. She started getting kinky. Suggesting stuff. Going a bit wild.

Like the kinkiest since we were dating 14 years ago. Perhaps the most ever.

Very immersive.

Now, I know how to read that body language better. Thanks P.

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I drove into the parking lot at work snd my phone rang.

It was my wife.

“You ok ?” she asked

I responded fake crying... ya, you read that right, fake crying. .”I can’t take this much longer, I think we must be moving apart after all these years and it’s breaking my heart “

“No, no. We are just on different schedules, I’ll see you after work the kids have sleep overs, and we can talk without interruptions.... “

As I hung up, laughing, I knew it meant a 3 hour fuck fest later that evening

I walked into the office like any other day barking orders out, handling problems etc.

That night she pulled my pants down for initiation. She got on top. She blew me. As I was grinning ear to ear.

Pure sexual strategy. Through and through

Same this past Sunday night as she was flooding one folded beach towel after another.

Either fuck, or get out. Quit being a victim above all else

Lift, hygiene, wardrobe, game. Dread. Be attractive

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