I just learned about hypergamy and…. A all I can say is w.t.f ? If you don’t know what it is, it’s when women date men who are a higher social status than them. Mainly making $90k a year and up. I think gold digger is a better term but nonetheless I snooped around the social media and found a lot of hypergamy pages talk about how they won’t settle for a “broke man” and that they need men to pay 100% of the bills and to have them to give them a credit card so that they could be provided for.

Sadly, I (25f) was just looking for femininity pages when I came across hypergamy. It’s everywhere and I didn’t even realize it. Femininity goes that I followed started to make sense to me. Terms such as “high value women” and “leveling up” meant that us women are trying to find a man with bank. Since I didn’t know what these terms meant before, I was blinded by what these femininity pages were really talking about.

Since when did a person’s value equate to how much money they are making? And why in the world do these women not see this as borderline pr0stituti0n?

Now, somethings that I saw used as excuses for this behavior are :

1. It’s evolution ! Us women are designed to find the man with the best genes, stronger, powerful, socially accepted etc….

•if that’s the case then don’t get mad when men are out hooking up with several female because evolution says men are meant to be out implanting their seed so the human race survives

1. Men look for the most beautiful women! They are beauty-diggers. So what’s the difference?

•I’m guessing these women don’t care what these dudes look like? Aren’t women suppose to be somewhat attracted to our partners and vice versa?

1. We want to provide the best for our future children !
2. I get that but… $90k/ye and up seems WAY more than enough