Why does everyone hate r/MensRights?

BestGuessGuest · 2021-04-06T21:24:55+00:00

A decent proportion of the contributions to this sub is men expressing their frustration for the unexplained/unjustified hate they get and pointing out blatant inequalities. Nothing too political or or dramatic.

skymonstef · 2021-04-06T19:16:41+00:00

It's what you would call a propaganda war

They can't admit that we may actually be reasonable well rounded people lest more people join us

Amusingly them constantly trashing us makes people curious so they come and see for themselves

idreamofdeathsquads · 2021-04-06T22:30:15+00:00

because 1% of men are hyper successful so low iq collectivists feel like the other 99% arent worthy of concern because we obviously put ourselves at a disadvantage.

AdikaHUN0328 · 2021-04-06T19:44:06+00:00

There are mysogonistic posts and comments, but they are called out and shamed. And we don't say oh they are not real MRAs.

cabsmom2020 · 2021-04-06T22:14:27+00:00

I think this subreddit is awesome 99%of the time.

I think most people that hate this type of subreddit just don't want to face any truth that challenges their pre-conceived ideas.

Ody_ssey · 2021-04-06T19:35:08+00:00

The loudest group that dominates on social media is feminist group so they control the narrative of what is acceptable.

DownvoteMe2021 · 2021-04-06T23:36:31+00:00

The function of propaganda is, for example, not to weigh and ponder the rights of different people, but exclusively to emphasize the one right it has set out to argue. Its task is not to make an objective study of the truth, in so far as it favours the enemy, and then set it before the masses with academic fairness. Its task is to serve our own right, always and unflinchingly. -Mein Kampf, 1924.

The function of femnism is, for example, not to weigh and ponder the rights of different genders, but exclusively to emphasize the one right it has set out to argue. Its task is not to make an objective study of the truth, in so far as it favors the other gender, and then set it before the masses with academic fairness. Its task is to serve it's own right, always and unflinchingly.

The whole art consists in doing this so skillfully that everyone will be convinced that the fact is real, the process necessary, the necessity correct, etc. But since propaganda is not and cannot be the necessity in itself, since its function. . . consists in attracting the attention of the crowd, and not in educating those who are already educated or who are striving after education and knowledge, its effect for the most part must be aimed at the emotions and only to a very limited degree at the so-called intellect. . . .

By contrast, the war propaganda of the English and Americans was psychologically sound. By representing the Germans to their own people as barbarians and Huns***, they prepared the individual soldier for the terrors of war****, and thus helped to preserve him from disappointments. After this, the most terrible weapon that was used against him seemed only to confirm what his propagandists had told him; it likewise* reinforced his faith in the truth of his government's assertions*, while on the other hand* it increased his rage and hatred against the vile enemy For the cruel effects of the weapon, whose use by the enemy he now came to know, gradually came to confirm for him the 'Hunnish' brutality of the barbarous enemy, which he had heard all about; and it never dawned on him for a moment that his own weapons possibly, if not probably, might be even more terrible in their effects*. . . .*

This is exactly what's happening, the playbook is word for word, action for action. You cannot fight an enemy with words that has been trained to shut his ears.

DarkMage11 · 2021-04-06T19:23:54+00:00

Mainly because it contradicts all of their views with facts and logic instead of emotions. Yes, there are problems women are facing and no one is disputing those. However, they greatly (or should I say grossly) exaggerate them. Like you said we accept the negative along with the positive.

r/MensRights provides a platform for people (mostly men) to share the hardships that they are facing. These hardships are mostly ignored by mainstream media and thus this provides a place for us to seek help and guidance. So thank you everyone on r/MensRights

RarelyVague · 2021-04-06T22:03:09+00:00

look it up on a search engine whose results aren't skewed, like duck duck go.

Willing-Albatross-43 · 2021-04-06T23:39:37+00:00

Because the world sees men as robots. We’re supposed to just go and work shitty jobs for minimum wage all our lives so we can provide. People can’t accept that we have emotions and need a place to vent sometimes, and this is that place for us. Everywhere else on the internet just laughs at us or tells us we’re too privileged to have opinions or emotions. If people actually read the posts they’d realise it’s pretty much just a big chamber of men trying to seek support and acknowledge each other, but for whatever reason a group of men is now socially associated with being a group of rapists, misogynists and incels. There is occasional misogyny but it is always called out and corrected, in contrast to the insane amount of misandry on r/feminism . If you’re one of those people who do spew bullshit on here about how you hate women, please find another place to do that because this is our only safe space and it should be kept as peaceful, supportive and equality approving.

Tldr: men bad

rabel111 · 2021-04-07T03:54:44+00:00

r/MensRights is not hated by everyone. Just a large number of man hating radical feminist who find any opposition to their ideology heinous and outrageous.

There are nearly 300k members of r/MensRights (and still growing), and many more who visit without joining (cautious men and boys). Some have called out the vocal members of the group (sometimes appropriately) for a variety of woke offenses. But the vast majority of members are just ordinary men and women who are attracted to one of the few pro-male forums on the net.

Mr-Cali · 2021-04-07T02:25:42+00:00

Nicely put. When i first join this sub, i honestly thought it be men just being angry at the world for being treated low class. But nope! It’s far from it. This sub puts out very topics which are discussed in a very excellent manner. To add to your post, we have woman in here who too agree with you that this sub is not toxic at all. Hell! There was a post awhile back about a individual who came from r/feminism and claim how very toxic that sub is. To me, that speaks volume.

bufedad · 2021-04-06T20:12:50+00:00

When you are used to privilege equality feels like oppression.

2021-04-06T20:44:25+00:00

The only people who hates men's rights are those who hate men and/or they have bought into this magical oppression system that men impose on women with secret cult meetings or something that no woman has ever found out about even by mistake.

I honestly don't see how you can see what MRA's talk about and even come to any other conclusion other than it's positives.

connzerjeeass · 2021-04-06T23:37:31+00:00

If someone ever says this sub or movement is a hate group or sexist, ask them to prove it, tell them to give evidence, if they get defensive or don't respond, then what they said was a weak attack on something that can't control, if they actually do provide good evidence or a good argument, then have a reasonable discussion with them

elrd333 · 2021-04-06T23:52:05+00:00

Unless the sub has some strict mod to fit a narrative. You are generally able to nicpick bad comment on any subs and if you add unfaithful interpretation you can call out anysub and call it a whole.

2021-04-07T01:28:12+00:00

I feel like this place is welcoming to anyone, men and women, who are for men's rights. Every time I make a new account this is the only subreddit I search for to sub to. I like this place, anyone who hates this sub has never been here.

fgyoysgaxt · 2021-04-07T03:26:44+00:00

I think it's the same problem as feminism, a large number of people are here to vent and support those who are venting. That can definitely be a turn off if you are a woman and you come here and see a lot of people saying women suck.

Obviously there's more to it than that and more problems with feminism than that, but we definitely need to make sure that venting isn't being used as an excuse to say problematic things.

Wildhouse83 · 2021-04-06T22:35:46+00:00

Women are afraid to lose their privileges and a lot of men are so thirsty and indoctrinated that they would do anything to get laid exept acknowledge the truth.

Tunapizzacat · 2021-04-06T21:56:52+00:00

From the perspective of a lady, who came here to educate herself and be supportive of the men in my life, this sub initially read as very depressing. I’ve seen a lot of very extreme emotions from OPs and you have to read through a lot to find the well balanced folk. So the topics can feel a little heavy. It’s hard to read through the whole sub, so I lurk a little at a time.

2021-04-06T21:25:01+00:00

Feminists don't have a sense of humour or understand sarcasm. Also they keep forgetting that woman is not a synonym for feminist. When you combine this with their years of misandrist indoctrination it makes it impossible for them to understand most of what they're reading here.

PenDownWriting · 2021-04-06T21:15:03+00:00

Because feminists share one single brain cell... They feel threatened when someone with common sense comes around, knowing their dumb, weak arguments won't stand a chance... Oh well.

Siganid · 2021-04-06T22:22:46+00:00

They also hate human rights.

That should answer your question.

craftor708 · 2021-04-06T21:41:41+00:00

The reasons change depending on the group. Feminists see rights as a zero sum game. More for us means less for them, for example.

The real reason is, imo, much more insidious. Society needs men to function, and it needs them working and not complaining. And it definitely doesn't need them complaining about the things society does to force them into those undesirable work conditions. It's mass indoctrination to treat males as disposable, and it will react, in some cases violently, to people who pull down the curtain.

Also many of the things we fight for mean a whole lot for women. Alimony, child support, divorce all represent massive cash flows from mostly men to women with an entire industry built up to profit from it.

tl;dr people profit from your abuse, and you pointing out the abuse fucks with their money

maxyamongus · 2021-04-06T21:44:54+00:00

I saw a sexist person the comment section fucking called him out like they just said the n word at a BLM protest

kr33tz · 2021-04-06T22:27:39+00:00

Image. Branding whatever you want to call it.

The name itself is exclusionary at first glance and that's all you need for a first impression.

TriassicWade1 · 2021-04-06T23:03:17+00:00

Rule number one of fight club works here too so boys, RULE NUMBER ONE ☝️ !

IFreddyI · 2021-04-07T03:38:19+00:00

It’s because the truth hurts when it’s not in your favor.

SaintBermuda · 2021-04-07T04:13:01+00:00

They don't like it because it highlights their own hypocrisy. We aren't one of reddits approved minorities so by thier logic our lives have been easy and we don't have anything to complain about because we're the oppressors.

Scarlet-Prince · 2021-04-07T08:07:04+00:00

I think Reddit is kind of terrible for politics, it’s encourages echo chambers. That said I’ve lurked around on feminist subreddits and I feel that we share a lot of the same intentions. That said the feminist subreddits are a lot worse then r/mensrights at moderating toxicity and radical view points. Believe me places like FDS gets called out almost everywhere but FDS. Gender politics is a very difficult subject since there are biological and psychological differences in the sexes, but in my limited experience and knowledge there is more in common then there are differences.

However it isn’t that all women want to hurt or exploit man, hell I’m a “low value” man by any standard, but rather that there is a lot for people to exploit with popular movements like feminism.

Companies and politicians push movements like feminism in order to exploit it for influence and money. instead of asking why everyone hates on r/mensrights we should ask who profits off of men’s rights hate.

(But yeah I’ve browsed FDS and their four 6 standards are depressing AF. 6 feet tall, 6 pack, 6 figures, and 6 inches.)

TracyMorganFreeman · 2021-04-07T09:07:29+00:00

Who needs to engage with points raised that call your own into question when you can just poison the well?

It's a tactic of the lazy and desperate.

jonnyhaldane · 2021-04-07T10:59:37+00:00

For the same reason that Jordan Peterson gets lots of hate even though he really says nothing controversial.

People just cannot handle the truth, especially when it comes to pointing out feminist lies.

subtle_vegan124 · 2021-04-07T22:32:02+00:00

People that demonize this group have clearly never been on it and can never back up their claims

Billsplacenta · 2021-04-06T19:35:29+00:00

Bitches man.. bitches... lol

EvilSporkOfDeath · 2021-04-06T23:40:14+00:00

In my experience theres a lot of posts that focus on their idea of modern feminism. Theres people here who seem more concerned about combating feminists or anyone they disagree with rather than actual mens rights. Many people believe feminism simply fights for equal rights amongst the sexes (whether that belief is misguided or not), so when they see a group of people so focused on being anti-feminism they believe those people dont want equal rights.

When I first came to this subreddit, it felt more focused on actual mens rights issues. Things like fathers rights were much more common. Nowadays I find it to be more gotcha moments, memes, or just general complaints about the "other side". Also if someone makes a respectful argument that goes against the narrative here they are liable to receive massive amounts of downvotes (although that's not really exclusive to this sub).

nitr0gen_ · 2021-04-06T21:55:35+00:00

I was on this sub for a while and I don’t think it’s toxic at all.

hi-its-nico · 2021-04-07T04:08:36+00:00

You're not gonna get an unbiased opinion. I like the message of the sub but some ppl go a bit to one or another end of the dilemma, sometimes coming off as a bit sexist. Take it with a grain of salt, it doesn't represent everyone but the sub is far from perfect as is everyone

WeaknessTechnical654 · 2021-04-06T21:54:20+00:00

I know this is an unpopular opinion, but there are misogynists on this sub giving us a bad rep. I think the ones giving us a bad rep are the mainly conservative traditionalist branch of the sub that lurks in the comment section. That's why subs like leftwingmaleadvocates and menslib were created, but I personally don't like menslib because they don't focus on mens issues very much. Leftwingmaleadvoactes is pretty good though. Also there are some people saying that "Women don't face issues at all", and that is also wrong.

omidoggo · 2021-04-06T20:29:19+00:00

its ez think abt it logically. what good would it do for feminists to actually support equality and mens subs? non they just want everything to themselves and lie abt other subs

mikesteane · 2021-04-06T23:32:13+00:00

In Catholicism it is the Devil. Under Hitler it was, among others, Jews. Under Marxism it is the Bourgeoisie etc. Those with an axe to grind need someone to blame.

TigPlaze · 2021-04-07T16:10:14+00:00

They hate men's rights for the same reason the Catholic Church hated any view other than the geo-centric view of the universe. They're stubbornly locked into their belief system and feel threatened by anything that would contradict it.

MynameasGaeilge · 2021-04-06T20:49:25+00:00

I'll be honest: I have mixed feelings about here. I am all about men's rights and protecting them, but sometimes when I read the comments section here, it just feels downright uncomfortable.

I've often seen some incel-y, sexist, and downright anti-women comments on here and it just doesn't sit right for me.

That's probably where a lot of it comes from.

adam-l · 2021-04-06T21:49:30+00:00

MensRights is trying to be "the nice guy" of the Manosphere, mainly by shutting down all discussion around men's sexuality. I understand the rationale, but it won't work: eventually they will censor it too. The feminist authoritarianism doesn't tolerate an inch of dissent. The "nice guy" strategy only succeeds in forcing men, especially the younger, to look elsewhere.

MoonFlowers420 · 2021-04-06T22:23:40+00:00

For what it's worth, I don't hate women and don't expect anything from them.
I'm a feminist for God's sake.
I just recognize and acknowledge men have unequal sexist bullshit we have to deal with in our society as well.
True equality is supporting women and men.
I'm a southern gentleman though, so I always live by "Ladies first."

angry_viper · 2021-04-06T21:48:07+00:00

There’s examples in r/against men’s rights of misogynistic posts. The true men’s rights is like feminism, it’s not about putting others down, it’s about equality.

iainmf · 2021-04-07T02:44:05+00:00

People see Men's Rights Advocates like they would Millionaire Rights Advocates.

IE Millionaires already have the power and resources to advocate for themselves. Advocating for millionaires will only increase inequality.

It's easy to understand that if people see it this way they would be hostile to MRAs.

Natsuki98 · 2021-04-07T03:02:34+00:00

I crossposted something from here to another sub I'm on. I had a guy say I shouldn't crosspost from here, that it was a septic tank. It's mind boggling.

Pwr-usr69 · 2021-04-06T21:14:01+00:00

Misogynistic posts are sometimes upvoted here and instead of critiquing the attacks on other people and places, most people here blindly upvote because they're emotionally driven and angry.

That's different from enforcing moderation and clamping down on ragebait like any good moderation team is supposed to do.

You'll see a lot of posts about it being a conspiracy or everyone being against us here but if you critically analyze the way people here speak about women, feminism, other subs, etc, you'll notice a lot of anger and hostility in people's words that doesn't get called out.

Herobrinedanny · 2021-04-07T10:44:53+00:00

There are some people on both this sub and MGTOW so whatever toxicity exists it likely comes from those ppl

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biff64gc · 2021-04-07T13:11:14+00:00

It's going to be a mix.

Some people just hate men and therefore will hate the sub
Some think it's existence takes away from feminism and therefore hate it
We get clumped up together with other subs that do tend to spout hate
And I presume the rest just hate us based on assumptions and word of mouth.

The last one is probably the biggest reason. Since you never hear about media talking about men's problems the world follows the feminist viewpoint that men have all the power and therefore have nothing to complain about. So they hear about a men's right sub or movement and they can only assume it's a bunch of men bitching about losing their control over the women around them.

Obviously if you spend more than 5 minutes on this sub you realize that there's a ton of double standards all around us that favor women and the majority of guys aren't as well off as the media portrays.

pacsatonifil · 2021-05-02T05:41:34+00:00

Incels? I’m In a happy and stable relationship. I love the women in my life. I just care about justice and health for my fellow men. Is that so bad?

Pure__Satire · 2021-04-07T06:24:44+00:00

I like this sub, there's a bunch of cool people... but it is also the only sub where I gave out my opinion of something and it eventually led to someone saying my country deserved 911.... so you know its hit or miss

Title	Why does everyone hate r/MensRights?
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Date	April 6, 2021 7:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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