How do you game. . .or do you?

Eastuss · 2017-10-16T12:30:12+00:00

I developed my game by stopping restraining myself and actually be me.

I learned at some point to filter myself way less and to try and do things as they come to my mind. That includes not care and not fear, trying to be funny, friendly. Making people comfortable, make them feel they can talk about anything without being judged (that is way more important than you think). Escalating verbally and physically.

But that worked because I am moderated and was stuck in the "show nothing, show no attraction, nothing sexual, fear and embarrassment" extrema. If your problem is the other extrema where you're too direct and do not test and read the other person properly then you might not want take that advice.

BPremium · 2017-10-16T12:01:42+00:00

I just try to be engaging and funny. Alot of women enjoy preamble and a sort of verbal fencing. They call it banter. It can be fun and enjoyable or a painful process, depending on how hot a guy is/how quick witted he is.

squidracer · 2017-10-16T12:46:41+00:00

Honestly?

Tinder mostly. Sometimes bars, but I've gotten lazy. It's much easier to set up a date and just show up.

I can never really tell if women are flirting with me in real life, or just being friendly, unless they ask for my number or something

wtknight · 2017-10-16T12:44:42+00:00

I'm like you, OP, and specialize in internet game. I'm terrible at cold approach as well, and the internet (unless one is face timing right from the start, which I don't do) allows one to have a moment or two to think about what one is going to communicate before one actually communicates it, which suits the way that my brain works better, at least until I get to know that person better.

ASunnyDayInThePark · 2017-10-16T13:21:13+00:00

“Gimme your number I swear I’m a great texter” is a really funny one I heard lately. I know game is supposed to be a specific thing but to me it’s just chatting and interacting with other people which is what people do. I read some advice on trp that said you should flirt with everyone, old ladies etc... I think it’s good advice for people who need to learn.

[deleted] · 2017-10-16T13:35:28+00:00

I have organically developed ''outcome independence''. which makes my interactions and relationships with women so much easier.

I'm in my mid-30's. so I think that it developed as a combination of slightly lowered sex-drive, lack of peer pressure and people generally being deferential or automatically respectful towards me because they consider me to be ''established'' by virtue of my age alone.

alreadyredschool · 2017-10-16T22:18:12+00:00

I am a pretty hot piece of a man. 108 kg 196 cm, handsome. I just wait for an ioi and provide some comfort while letting them know that I am interested. Basically prevent making them feel rejected.

DebatesNotBans · 2017-10-17T11:34:54+00:00

game

"Game" only works if you're physically attractive. If you're not, you'll get shot down IMMEDIATELY by women, REGARDLESS of what you say.

If you're physically attractive, on the other hand, you can get a way with being racist\sexist\abusive and women will still love to be with you.

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Scurvemuch · 2017-10-16T14:09:23+00:00

I game all the time. I see who responds. If I do not like who responds, I move on.

Game is just being fun and flirty. I am not trying to do anything specific at any one time with any one girl. Just have fun. She is either into it, or not.

SkookumTree · 2017-10-16T14:22:41+00:00

I try to make friends first and date within my social circle. It's worked OK for me, so far.

WhiskersNT · 2017-10-16T15:20:07+00:00

Tinder and text and meet for drinks

IMO it's much less effort than meeting women at bars, which I've done as well but that's much more work and the payoff isn't any better. Going out and socializing is fun in its own right though

bornredd · 2017-10-16T16:23:04+00:00

I talk to everyone.

Young, old, men, women, kids, black, white, Hispanic.

I don't give a fuck. I am looking for good times and friends.

If I can get a few good laughs out of making faces at a toddler in line at the grocery store? You bet I will. If his mom is pretty, all the better. If he is with the babushka 90 year old grandma/nanny? I don't care, she is probably funny too.

People like those that have a good time. Have a good time with everyone you meet. That is the best kind of game.

TheBookOfSeil · 2017-10-16T17:32:15+00:00

I don't game. I keep it natural. I do me. If people don't like me, then, good. It probably means that it wouldn't have worked out, had I "gamed" my way into a relationship, so I just did myself and them a favor by not wasting our time.

Afroaway002 · 2017-10-16T18:21:34+00:00

Only games I play are video games.

PracticedPrick · 2017-10-16T19:43:28+00:00

Built my ego up to a level that saw others as slightly below me. Not necessarily PC but true.

Alth12 · 2017-10-16T20:31:45+00:00

Polarization. Screen out girls I won't like using my style and saying outlandish things. Seems to work well, I generally always end up with my type.

Generally though despite reading a lot of pick up years ago I don't really use it, though I suppose TRP would say I've just internalized it.

I just do me, if I feel like buying bottles of champagne and pouring it down people's throats, I do it etc. I can't think about the last time I went out specifically to pick up chicks. I don't do tinder or online apart from travelling, and then that's just to find out good spots to go to.

I guess my games just be myself and screen for girls I'll like who will like me, and avoid the others, no matter how hot she is, as I can't stand boring conversation just to get my leg over.

Arcenturion · 2017-10-17T00:27:45+00:00

I primarily daygame. I've met women off of multiple random streets, college campuses, malls, shopping centers, restaurants, pharmacies, etc. There's nothing quite like talking to an attractive woman in a crowded subway as a 22 year old kid with while everyone is staring at you and using the sheer power of confidence and personality to eventually fuck her.

I've also done a little online game. Haven't really done nightgame yet. I'll start once I move to Manhattan.

Cold approach is a skillset. You're not supposed to be good at it at the start.

Nemobeenfound · 2017-10-17T07:49:28+00:00

Don't game. I just be myself which is being a cocky smartass.

zayelion · 2017-10-17T14:40:24+00:00

Introduce self
Behave in a natural manner
Talk with extra energy on actively listening and UNDERSTANDING what she is saying.
Show empathy
Get her talking or explaining something
Get her to move around with you
Leave
Cycle this till you start mixing social circles

Core of it is "you need surprisingly little permission to do stuff", "people need an out", "build social hierarchy around yourself", and "Be a decent human".

GroovyEFS · 2017-10-16T22:25:25+00:00

These days I do it the normie way. Hit up a party, do drugs and/or get drunk, chat up girls.

In the past I've met girls on random sites like Twitter and Tumblr - before it was infested with SJWs, back when it was just full of nerdy girls who wrote Doctor Who fanfic. Had a lot of female fans, some of them happened to live nearby.

Roosh is full of shit btw. Good for a laugh, not much else.

Title	How do you game. . .or do you?
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Date	October 16, 2017 11:53 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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