How does RP explain the BP attraction?

shakedown_st · 2014-08-10T05:26:44+00:00

I don't think anyone says there aren't exceptions to the rule. Of course there are women out there who prefer beta men. If an RP man thinks his reality is the way it is 100% of the time, that'd be foolish.

In my experience it's 80/20. Where 80% of the women I meet prefer a man who with those leadership qualities that RP promotes. Then there's that 20% where the women prefer the men be more submissive. And that's totally okay. I'm not even saying that's bad. If that's what works well for them, by all means, keep on living.

rredfox · 2014-08-10T06:28:26+00:00

RPW don't want men to order them around.

TheScamr · 2014-08-10T07:47:56+00:00

Sure, you love him, but do you respect him? That is a very real question, because love without respect only goes so far.

sleuthoftrades · 2014-08-10T05:12:39+00:00

I didn't know TRP said BP men can't attract women, I thought that it was that they would be taken advantage of. The whole "alpha fux, beta bux" thing says women want both, and women will want the beta after going through a bunch of alphas (if she can), or will eventually cheat on the beta.

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M_rafay · 2014-08-10T12:32:39+00:00

You wrote a whole paragraph about "attraction" to your very nice sounding SO without mentioning your wild, voracious hot sexual desire for him. Res ipsa loquitur

VarsitySlutTeamCpt · 2014-08-10T06:08:06+00:00

He's a beta provider

CallMeMrBadGuy · 2014-08-10T10:19:58+00:00

Uh you're prolly the alpha of the party. Some betas are totally cool being betas so long as they have someone.

polyhooly · 2014-08-10T05:45:36+00:00

It's clearly because you're an ugly feminazi landwhale dyke cunt who has to settle on a pathetic beta, who will leave him if a dominant, alpha male were to grace you with his attention. Duh. This is the only possible explanation as any other contradicts my precious ideology that allows me to rationalize being horrible to women and failing to ever make a connection with them.

adrixshadow · 2014-08-10T07:15:21+00:00

I have a couple of questions which are relevant to analyzing the situation.

How old are you?

Are you on the pill(hormonal birth control)?

How much sex do you have with him?

What is your sexual experience besides him? How many partners did you have sex with besides him?

What is the last thing you did for him? How long ago it was?

SlippyToadsWildRide · 2014-08-10T09:23:18+00:00

Your BF has mostly "beta" qualities, and that happens to be what you are looking for in a man right now. But more importantly, you seem like a decent person who won't take advantage of his kindness and generosity. This is key, because according to RP theory, most women aren't like you.

Sure there are a lot of women who are nice, kind people, but even those women would still take advantage of guys like your BF, or, more commonly, just not be attracted to those guys. This is why communities like the RP exist, because time and time again, guys who have been told all their lives the "happy wife happy life, treat women with respect by default, always be a gentleman and ask what she wants every single time" BS get shit on by women for doing what they thought they should do, or they find that they can't even attract women in the first place.

YOU may be attracted to your BF, and others may be attracted to people like your BF who never make decisions, and ask for permission for every little thing, but for every woman like that, there are WAY more who would completely take advantage of those guys. This is why RP theory doesn't mention your attraction to your BF. Because, generally speaking, women aren't attracted to that behavior. YOU are, and there are no doubt others like you who are, but it's not the majority. If it was the majority, then most guys wouldn't get shit on in past relationships, they'd be able to attract women and maintain relationships easier, and communities like the Red Pill would have never been formed.

tl;dr: Most women aren't like you, and RP theory focuses on what is most attractive to the majority of women.

Pointless_Endeavors · 2014-08-10T13:35:56+00:00

OP, what does this term mean to you: Alpha fucks, Beta bucks?

Not knowing some very vital information about you or you SO, i would contend he is the Beta bucks. Why? Because of all the things you say you find attractive about him, sexual attraction was not one of them.

AF,BB means women do find betas attractive, just not sexually. Otherwise they wouldn't enter a years or decades long relationship with them. What women find attractive is the provider role they fulfill.

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2014-08-10T14:49:06+00:00

He doesn't like to make decisions and asks me often what to do. He cleans and does things for me when I ask.

He comforts me and generally gives back to me much more than I him.

He wants to be my partner which means he doesn't order me around, or expect me to please him.

Sounds like kind of an unequal partnership . . .

rredfox · 2014-08-10T18:17:24+00:00

My guess is you both aren't very attractive to most people so you don't have a very strong hypergamous drive.

rufusjonz · 2014-08-10T05:23:54+00:00

i wonder if you will get tired of his spinelessness and submissive nature

autopornbot · 2014-08-10T07:22:03+00:00

He cleans and does things for me when I ask.

You ask your boyfriend to clean? I'm not even a RP guy, and I've never had a girlfriend ask me to clean for her. I hope you at least live together.

rredfox · 2014-08-10T06:00:57+00:00

Hey, lots of people like their servants.

an_absolute_rose · 2014-08-10T06:27:42+00:00

BP attraction doesn't exist. Go to vimeo and search "Shy Guys: IRL". That is what a BP man is. A BP man is an incel.

If you had spent the necessary time familiarizing yourself with the sidebar you would know enough to not have to ask this question. TRP has always maintained that a mix of alpha and beta is necessary for relationships. Chances are your guy is alpha enough in other ways to make up for his beta traits. If he isn't, then guess what TRP also accounts for this: TRP caters to the average man trying to hook up with the average woman. In doing this TRP acknowledges that outliers do indeed exist.

Title	How does RP explain the BP attraction?
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Date	August 10, 2014 4:58 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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