I am a woman and unlike the typical picture RP paints of women I love and am attracted to my sweetheart BP boyfriend. Some things about him that are BP is that he treats me with respect, love, and kindness and as an equal. He doesn't like to make decisions and asks me often what to do. He cleans and does things for me when I ask. He comforts me and generally gives back to me much more than I him. According to RP I'd have no respect or attraction to this man so why do I? Because I see RPW as the way I should treat my man, like a king, except he doesn't want to be a king. He wants to be my partner which means he doesn't order me around, or expect me to please him. He supports ME. He listens. He cares. I'm not saying RP men are incapable of this but they are supposed to be stoic, leaders/captains, etc. He compliments me and is OK with expressing his emotions, fears. I love him anyway. Why?