Is a mildly disabled widow “dateable?”

CloudBerryPunch · 2021-10-03T00:38:11+00:00

Don't tell these predators you have a low n-count and can't run away.

groupme_throwaway · 2021-10-03T00:27:57+00:00

male desperation makes all practically all women dateable, being mildly disabled won't even phase a lot of men

sorry about the legs and the dead husband

Bandit174 · 2021-10-03T00:29:34+00:00

You managed to get a guy before so you can probably get another.

odd_federal34 · 2021-10-03T00:21:13+00:00

Generally it's easier for women because men have natural protective instinct of weaker. Wish you luck.

miketrance · 2021-10-03T00:36:21+00:00

You can find someone. If half the rad fem skanks can find men it should be no problem for you. If you're kind and have a good attitude there would be men for sure that would want to be with you.

JALopo1 · 2021-10-03T00:35:36+00:00

Yes, lol obviously. You're dateable.

TheJim66 · 2021-10-03T01:11:54+00:00

Easily. Not really a big deal.You'll be beating them off with a stick

herefortheparty01 · 2021-10-03T00:27:10+00:00

It sounds like you need mental help. Yes you’ll find love. Gotta find yourself though

TomorrowsWar · 2021-10-03T00:34:13+00:00

I can’t predict the future but I can tell you that you absolutely can find love. Not the same disability but Chelsie Hill just got married this year if you’re looking for some visibility

https://instagram.com/chelsiehill?utm_medium=copy_link

DontwantaFairOne · 2021-10-03T01:21:29+00:00

Of course, you have already shown you have the looks & personality to find someone.

It would be totally different if you were insufferable plus you’re 29

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-10-03T02:50:26+00:00

The fact that you're a widow is a bigger problem to me than your disability lmao

AceOfBlacks · 2021-10-03T00:45:14+00:00

Hey guys I'm mildly disabled, I'm missing two kidneys an eyeball, both of my thumbs and have a raging explosive diahrrea between the hours of 2 Pm to 7 Pm. 😁

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-10-03T00:54:22+00:00

Widows are dateable yes, the disability is a separate issue. There are some who won't date a disabled person.

You don't have kids do you? If not, you'll be fine

xQueen-Bx · 2021-10-03T00:33:35+00:00

i wouldnt call losing both of your legs "mildly" disabled

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2021-10-03T00:20:53+00:00

Will I be alone forever?

Honestly, most likely yes, unless you go for another disabled man. Especially if you're old.

I'm guessing you don't want just sex? Although I can't imagine having sex with a woman with no legs.

Sorry for losing both legs. Must have been awful for you.

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nationearthdotcom · 2021-10-03T00:56:57+00:00

There are some genuinely good people out there, unfortunately they’re few and far between. In the words of Bonnie Raitt, "true love is hard to find" but it’s possible to find someone who is pure and kind

throoowwitalllawaaay · 2021-10-03T01:08:10+00:00

Welp, if you have metal legs like a terminator, just go and find a dude who's into cyberpunk stuff. He might even be envious of you because you have them. lol

Liberal_On_Guns · 2021-10-03T01:55:29+00:00

First of all, why aren't you attractive? I would totally date a girl with no legs who is otherwise fit and healthy.

There are also mental health concerns here that need to be addressed. I don't think you should fear being alone forever, but if that's something that is sincerely on your mind, it's going to affect how you present yourself and view relationships.

Shasta_Soldier · 2021-10-03T01:58:33+00:00

Well, its really hard to answer. I mean, being in your 20s is different than your 70s for this. Do you have a career. Are you able to walk? Could you allow someone to love you and not feel like they live in the shadow of your former husband?

A few details would help to give a more reasoned answer

2Fast2Real · 2021-10-03T02:39:35+00:00

You can easily find someone who is as desirable as you are.

Special-Armadillo-99 · 2021-10-03T02:43:11+00:00

Absolutely not an average women with no legs still higher smv than an average man

Mark_Freed · 2021-10-03T02:44:39+00:00

Dont let retards on ppd tell you that you will die alone. Just take the blue pill, all pills have it's use.

Urbantexasguy · 2021-10-03T03:10:22+00:00

Well you’re incapable of running away……that fact alone, is going to make you irresistible to most male redditors.

gkom1917 · 2021-10-03T03:21:00+00:00

First of all, sorry for your loss.

To the point of your post: depends. Disability alone isn't that much of a deal for many men. I think you understand it's unusual and there are those who will be confused or repulsed. But I doubt they're the majority. Personally I wouldn't mind it.

If there are obstacles, they are more likely in "not that attractive" part. Sorry, can't realistically judge without seeing you. Maybe you're just being humble, and actually are cute, just not model looking. Then no worries. But if you're objectively ugly, things might be harder for you.

Finally, as far as I can guess, past years should be traumatic for you (to put it mildly). So maybe psychological issues can hold you bwck to sone extent. Don't put sll the blame for being single just on looks. Maybe you just need more time to confidently enter the dating market again.

gizzmotech · 2021-10-03T03:39:58+00:00

If you're a good person and put yourself out there, of course you are dateable.

villarconstante · 2021-10-03T05:59:23+00:00

It won't be hard , however you Will face the same problem most woman face of having too many choices leading you pass up good men for the possibility of something better tht may never come.

LeaveThisPlanet · 2021-10-03T06:20:38+00:00

Of course you will find someone but you need to know where to look.

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dobermann333 · 2021-10-03T00:49:00+00:00

I'm so sorry your husband passed away :(

But yes you can find someone <3

Isnt there a community for disabled people? Maybe join a sports club or something for disabled people. Try to put yourself out there so you can actually open up possibilities of meeting someone

Title	Is a mildly disabled widow “dateable?”
Author	skelster69
Upvotes	12
Comments	63
Date	October 3, 2021 12:17 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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