I made the regrettable decision to join this sub and see what each side of the gender spectrum expects from each other and seriously, half of it I never heard until now.

Like how sex is the top desire desire for men, how every woman is chasing the same 5 guys, men are simple yada yada. And more.

Not only that but people claim that a lot of expectations are old social norms and have always existed for the last 100 year. That women never had to work, the men was the primary breadwinner and everybody was happy back in the good old days. And I’ve asked older people if that’s true and most of them will say no, that’s a huge exaggeration about a a not so long ago past. And people will apply these very nostalgia tented views of the past and say goofy shit like “how most men don’t care about theirs wives career” when we live in this horrible economy, so your partners career absolutely matter.

And to make it worse (both men and women) will see the actions of very specific individuals in the internet doing or saying really shallow stuff, and then many of your mfs will use that one lady or guy as to “why (men or women) are (blank) this or that”. Actual cognitive bias. And these shitty people have always existed, but the internet has made it easier to see them.

Truth is no matter how blue or red pill you are, every person is different and depending on their background, surroundings, cultures, or personality. A lot of women will prefer men that are 6 foot tall, from my experience in real life most women won’t reject if you’re not that tall (unless you’re abnormally short which is very rare). A lot of men like big titties, most wont reject you cause you got smaller tits.

Seriously I think many of you need to extinguish what you see in the internet from real life. Don’t be completely ignorant about biology but don’t let the dumb shit you see in the internet guide you or else you will probably lose a lot of good people in your lives.