Loose vagina

RatchedAngle · 2024-01-16T16:46:05+00:00

This isn’t a debate.

Your vagina does not get looser from penises. That’s a medical fact.

blushingoleander · 2024-01-16T16:34:33+00:00

Was this by chance a random hook up? It is a pretty appalling comment from someone you are in a committed relationship with.

The vagina is a muscle. It stretches to accommodate penises and also, babies, which are way bigger. Pelvic floor exercises, kegels, kegel weights can all help you tighten up. Also, women are different sizes, just like men.

SunshineSundress · 2024-01-16T17:11:41+00:00

Even one of the male founders of The Red Pill insisted that the notion that women get stretched out from being having too much sex is silly. If that theory was true, wouldn’t the virgin who married her high school sweetheart and has regular intercourse with her husband 1000 times be much “looser” than the promiscuous woman who has 30 one night stands?

This false talking point stems from the instinctual male aversion to female promiscuity, but the fact that he specifically mentions it’s because the supposed other men were bigger than him also illustrates his insecurity regarding his own size, sexual prowess, and masculinity. I’d seriously reconsider spending time with people who maliciously retaliate at you due to their own insecurity. The aversion is instinctual, but his way of vocalizing it and treating you is not.

feral-pixi-starling · 2024-01-16T18:40:34+00:00

He is absolutely lying to you. He is also being mean to you. The vagina is stretchy!! thats not a feminist myth that’s biology. Gynecologists say this. I can assure you this is him being very insecure about his size and pinning it on you. if he’s smaller than all your previous partners that sounds like a him problem.

Closing statement feminists dont say this, scientists do. Sex doesn’t stretch you out it can’t, your vag is like elastic you’re designed to be stretched to the size of a baby and then shrink down! (child birth often alters the vag, but thats the kind of trauma it takes to change a vagina, normal sex will do NOTHING) This man is lying to you.

toiletandshoe · 2024-01-16T16:50:46+00:00

Ok Ik I'm not supposed to answer because I'm a guy, but please make an exception.

I'm sorry girl but that's just a really nasty thing to say. Don't take comments like that to heart. No you should not get plastic surgery for your vagina unless there's a necessary health issue.

Cautious_Respect2184 · 2024-01-16T17:35:26+00:00

The guys insecure causes his penis is tiny and knows he's lacking on his sexual performing skills

Agreeable-Comedian24 · 2024-01-16T16:53:06+00:00

This is ridiculous. You need to step back and figure out why you’re accepting this crude behavior from a man and believing him. You also need to do your own research and understand your own body better than this.

Purple-Poppins · 2024-01-16T17:32:57+00:00

Next time a guy says its your fault he cant cum fast enough, ask him how much porn he watches. Theres a good chance thats the problem, not you. I have yet to meet a man with that problem who wasn't masturbating and/or watching porn way too much.

Objective_School_738 · 2024-01-16T16:39:34+00:00

I personally don’t believe in plastic surgery unless advised by a medical professional for health reasons. I also don’t subscribe to the theory of stretching or loosening with use. It might feel different after a baby or over time with body changes, but not regular sex. A large guy one time won’t stretch you out forever. That last guy was just insecure with his size and tried to put you down.

Ok_Outside149 · 2024-01-16T16:46:50+00:00

What a horrific comment from anybody who is lucky enough to sleep with you. If a large penis was enough to permanently stretch a woman, why would any man sleep with his wife after she had children again? It’s pure lies. Some women naturally have wider vaginas, some have narrower ones - that’s all it is. The same vagina can feel different to two different men because they have different sized penises. The same vagina can feel different to the same man - when you’re dry and unaroused you’re smaller than when you’re wet and aroused. I would’ve told him his dick was just too small for me 🤷‍♀️. No, you shouldn’t have surgery based on the word of one man

ivysaurah · 2024-01-16T20:51:42+00:00

Penises do not stretch your vagina. Look into pelvic floor strengthening exercises. I just had a baby and actually got noticeably “tighter” after birth because of all the pelvic floor workouts I had been doing.

ruggy229 · 2024-01-16T16:48:01+00:00

I can't fathom why you would sleep with a man that would be so rude as to make a comment like that about your body after you've shared it with him...

It's upsetting that your immediate conclusion is to feel bad and consider surgery for yourself when the issue seems to be with his own insecurity about the size of his ween compared to other men.

As far as I'm aware, the vagina is extremely flexible and any realistically sized penis is not going to alter that flexibility and make it "loose"

There's a perpetual myth that women who sleep around are loose, or who have sex often. But, if it were so easy to tell how many people a person has slept with by the size and feel of her vag, they wouldn't have had to use other equally unreliable methods of determining purity and virginity, like checking for the presence of a hymen or blood during a woman's first time. They would know by the feeling alone.

As far as I'm aware, the only thing that affects how tight the vagina is, is childbirth, which very often literally tears the tissue around your vagina apart. Even then, I've heard many people have had their vagina go basically back to normal after having children.

Also remember that the vagina, like any other part of your body, will vary in size from other women's. Some have deeper, shallower, just by genetics, so I'd assume it's also fair to say many will be tighter or looser by default.

Please don't take this guy's comment to heart. I very much doubt it was based in much truth, more likely his personal insecurity - but I'm open to second opinions from others. :)

VasiliyZaitzev · 2024-01-16T20:14:49+00:00

Lulz. That's not how vaginas work, or guys would never have sex with their wives after the first kid.

Cutiekitty101 · 2024-01-16T20:46:30+00:00

This guy grips his dick too hard when jerking off. There’s nothing wrong with you. I would not stick around for a man like that.

aussiedollface2 · 2024-01-16T22:45:06+00:00

Troll

ColeIsBae · 2024-01-16T19:02:44+00:00

You should not get plastic surgery. What you SHOULD do is run as fast away from this man. He sounds like a SOCIOPATH. I say this as an anti-feminist woman who believes in waiting for marriage. This guy is awful. Run very fast away.

ladida1321 · 2024-01-16T19:21:38+00:00

Don’t have sex with guys that are this stupid and rude.

If you feel your vagina is loose (which I doubt is the real issue) start doing exercises to strengthen your pelvic floor. You can google kegals. No amount of penises changed your vagina. Vaginas don’t get “stretched” out, that’s the entire purpose of the vagina, it expands so I baby can fit though and goes back to its shape.

Most likely problem? Porn sick or death grip boys blaming you when it’s really a them problem.

Jewelry_lover · 2024-01-16T19:32:32+00:00

Then what happens when you have babies?

cbunni666 · 2024-01-16T20:39:51+00:00

I guess it's his fancy way of saying he has a small penis. I'm quite sure as there are many sizes of penises there are many sizes of vaginas. One could feel tighter than another but that doesn't mean they are virgins or the town knob. It's just how vaginas work. I don't know what happens when a baby is delivered naturally through the vagina. It might tighten back up or it turns into a hat. Either way, it's just the way vaginas work. No you don't need surgery. Find a man with a bigger penis if it matters. I was with a quite a few men before I got married and til this day my husband says I'm still tight. The problem is the man, not you.

CinnamonNo5 · 2024-01-16T16:46:04+00:00

Uhhh before you jump to surgery, did you tell him that you’ve been with other men? He could have been negging you. Do kegel exercises, speak with a gyno before getting surgery ESPECIALLY if you plan on having children.

Vaginas can adapt pretty well. Other things to consider. Did you just sleep with a guy who’s bigger? Like last 24/48 hours before this guy? (Something to consider, if it was the case, that’s such a short turnaround time to expect your body to return to its former tightness).

If you didn’t sleep with anyone for 6 months, you’d probably tighten up a bit. Maybe even in less time.

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Full text: (26F) The last time I was having sex with a guy he said he could tell I had had sex with guys before me that were bigger than him. I'm wondering if I should get plastic surgery, and also, is it true it stretches with use? Feminists say it doesn't but I know they like to lie.

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RatingHonest · 2024-01-16T17:39:57+00:00

That sounds like something a guy with a cuckold fetish would say because the thought turns him on. A regular guy, even if redpilled, would just say "many guys", not be talking about size. As for surgery, I haven't heard of vagina tightening surgeries - to my knowledge surgeries can only be done to change the external appearance of the inner labia.

Creative_Doughnut599 · 2024-01-16T19:00:34+00:00

Bu yorumu yapan adamın kesinlikle düşüncesiz olduğunu düşünüyorum. İki çocuk doğurdum ve belki de vücudumda deforme olmayan tek yer burası 🙈 Adding; My daughter was born weighing 4,200 kilos.

KingOfTheNightfort · 2024-01-16T20:24:55+00:00

Keep something in mind. Just like the penis, the vagina comes in different sizes. You don't get looser, it's a myth.

Infamous_Big_9926 · 2024-01-17T05:07:38+00:00

(1) he absolutely had no right to make that comment, sounds like Negging to be honest (2) even if you are looser than you would like that is nothing to do with your body count and everything to do with your pelvic floor. If you're concerned then start doing kegels and working with a pelvic floor therapist. I did that after my first baby and after 2 babies in 2 years my bladder control and pelvic floor strength is better than before I had my children. My husband enjoys how tightly I can clench during sex.

oooKenshiooo · 2024-01-17T05:41:44+00:00

As others said, it has very little to do with the number of sex partners u had.

However, some women tend to feel wider when they are not comfortable with the situation. Their canal reflexively widens to avoid unpleasant sensations.

I suggest you experiment a bit with pelvic floor training and find a partner you feel safe with.

niziaoshenme · 2024-01-17T08:20:47+00:00

Maybe his pp is smol

Kasumyi · 2024-01-17T16:40:55+00:00

Women’s bodies are literally made to give birth up to 15 times and you think vaginas can’t handle d*ck??

When we get turned on our vagina muscles relax and expand (same way men get harder). Obviously it’s because of evolution and it helps us do it better. That’s why when you’re in the shower and fully turned off, your vagina feels shorter and tighter (I’m saying this so you know how your body operates more). When you pee, your bladder also empties, so sometimes your vagina feels spacious because it’s right next to it. Unless you just peed before sxx then the guy is clearly a goofy.

Our mouth and throat is made of the same muscles of our vaginas. I’ve personally been eating all of my life but my throat/tongue/mouth hasn’t changed shape or gotten looser lmao???? Our insides are made of really stretchy muscles, unlike normal skin such as earlobes and even those heal shut after a while.

I promise you it’s all in the guy’s head (likely because of the placebo effect). Some girls know this and take advantage of it and do certain things right before sxx like holding their thing and making sure it keeps on missing the hole (according to guys this means right), some pretend it hurts and ask to go slow, in extreme cases if the times align they even have sxx right after their periods when they’re spotting and claim that they were virgins. Honestly it’s disturbing and gross for me personally but guys are just easily fooled like that, so when they meet a girl who doesn’t do those things they’ll assume she’s looser and therefore she feels looser too.

I promise you all vaginas feel the same, whether they had 500 partners or 1, they all feel the same. Please believe me when i say they do. Clearly he’s a guy that doesn’t know women’s bodies & is an NPC that listens to goofys. How old is he? Because after a certain age it just gives me the ick.

Pls believe me, it’s BS BS BS. Literally think about when you smile or yawn, it’s the same effect.

i cAn TeLL yOu hAd pAsT pArTnErS That phrase is the same logic of saying “I can tell that you eat a lot because you got a big mouth” or “you pee a lot because he got a loose d*ck hole”. Stretchy muscles are different than normal skin, i can swallow as much food as i like, my throat will never get wider.

Title	Loose vagina
Author	Mental_Garbage2204
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Comments	52
Date	January 16, 2024 4:26 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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