Blue Pill / Red Pill Thought Patterns

Djandalf_le_Grey · 2014-08-12T12:55:27+00:00

BP: I got a girls number. I will text her here and there for a week or more and then she will like me more! When she likes me more through my texts, I will ask her out.

RP: I got a girls number. I invest as little as needed and suggest a meet up as soon as possible. If she flakes now she will probably flake later.

redpillbanana · 2014-08-12T13:40:25+00:00

BP: My girl is mad at me - time for some appeasement because that worked out pretty well for Neville Chamberlain.

RP: My girl is mad at me - time to ignore her and visit another plate.

Djandalf_le_Grey · 2014-08-12T14:52:55+00:00

BP: I show her that I love her through buying gifts, taking her on dates, treating her well, telling her I love you ...

RP: I show her, through my behavior and not my words, that I love her by making her realize that 'she needs me more than I her', 'I have a higher SMV', 'I am in control even when she shit-tests me'. Because that is the way to keep her around, which is what I want because I love her.

redpillbanana · 2014-08-12T13:38:31+00:00

BP: The world is unfair.

RP: The world is unfair. Time to make it unfair in my favor (HT Calvin and Hobbes).

Invalidity · 2014-08-12T13:33:00+00:00

Redpillers find faults within themselves. They work to improve upon those faults. They will seek to get what they want first and only offer what they have to those who have fulfilled their needs. RPers get what they want because they know what they want and tell others exactly what they want.

Bluepillers find faults within others. They will criticize the actions of others to make themselves more acceptable. They give away their most precious commodities without an after thought, believing that they will be rewarded for their devotion. BPers are afraid to communicate their desires and consequently do not get what they want.

[deleted] · 2014-08-12T11:54:08+00:00

Going on a date or something more casual, but going out with a woman. Question: Where to go?

BP: I don't really have a preference. So I let her make suggestions what we could do. That's nice of me. She has a free choice and I'll be okay with wherever she wants to go. For her!!! (Oh, and I don't really have an idea where we could go). We meet at when-o'clock...I have no idea, I am free anyway or cancel everything, so you decide! This day is all about you!!

RP: Find out in advance where we could go. Party event at club x, club y a friend recommended to me, club z I liked but haven't visited for a while, a band playing...

I suggest two things I would like to do, state my preference for one over the other and suggest that we meet at 7p.m.

I have shown initiative, showed that I'm not a basement-dweller but know where you can go to have fun, showed that I have preferences...and more.

Even if she wants to go elsewhere, no problem. Quick evaluation if it's a shit-test but most likely it won't be, because I've shown rp behavior just before. I expect the shit-tests to come later.

TL;DR:

BP: "I dont care, I'm fine with everything you suggest.

RP: "I do care where we go."

heeb · 2014-08-12T13:28:26+00:00

BP: I am such a nice guy. For instance, I let my ex-girlfriend stay at my house the other day, with her new boyfriend. I don’t think I like him very much, he’s… such a bad boy. He even pissed in my kitchen sink! When I asked him why he would do such a thing, he just smiled wryly at me, with some evil grin. I don’t know why she has fallen for him, honestly. He even has other girlfriends on the side! I hope she’ll come back to me one day… I mean, I’m such a nice guy! I’m so much nicer than him!

RP: Almost time to hit the gym. Phone rings. Some old plate from the past asks if she could crash at my place, so I say ‘sure’. She then says she would like to bring her new boyfriend, so I tell her that’s so not going to happen. I mean, he’s a real nice guy (I know him because he’s the neighbour’s babysitter), but I ain’t got time for that shit. If she wants to come and suck my dick, why not, but as they say: three’s a crowd. And to be honest, he’s a total white night and he annoys the fuck out of me.

Djandalf_le_Grey · 2014-08-12T14:55:30+00:00

BP: I make her feel secure through comforting her, telling that I love her and never going to leaver her, telling that she is the only one.

RP: I make her feel secure through staying calm and uninfluenced when she flips and shit-test me like crazy or when she is irrational and emotional.

heeb · 2014-08-12T12:07:01+00:00

BP: OMG, she’s not happy because I don’t do enough household chores. I’d better start doing all that she’s complaining about, and do some extra, that’ll hopefully make her happy. Maybe she’ll reward me with a hand job later, but even if she doesn’t (she probably won't), maybe I’ll be happier, because maybe she’ll be a bit happier with me.

RP: She says she’s not happy because she thinks I don’t do enough household chores. Let me just look at her amused for a few seconds, then tell her she’ll be getting that rough pounding in her pussy straight after I will have finished working on my project. Shit's important, man.

TheSlowGame · 2014-08-12T14:54:10+00:00

BP: (GF) She doesn't want to have sex that sucks. I don't want to be angry but I am. I will do my passive aggressive thing for the next days. RP: (GF) She doesn't want to have sex. Warning, warning! I should work on my SMV, do some stuff alone, hit the gym ...

This is the lynchpin of RP game.

Joelasaur · 2014-08-12T17:15:15+00:00

Wow.... I've been lurking here for a while now and have read the sidebar, but this thread put it all together more succinctly and better than anything I've read so far. Can we do this every week?

pjewa · 2014-08-12T20:36:22+00:00

BP: Met a girl who seems to be flirting with me. She says she has a boyfriend. Abort! I can't do that to another guy. He's probably a good guy who doesn't deserve to be cheated on.

RP: oh she says she has a boyfriend? And she's flirting with me? She's probably going to cheat on her beta bux anyway, may as well be with me. It's not my responsibility to make sure some other guy's girlfriend is loyal.

heeb · 2014-08-12T12:35:00+00:00

BP: Oh my, what a beautiful girl over there at the other end of the bar! I think I’ll be too shy to go over and talk to her, but that’s okay, I’ll just wait here until she comes over to me. If I just keep staring at my shoes, eventually she’ll fall in love with me. Right? I mean, girls eventually fall for nice guys, right?

RP: Ah, that’s a 7, right over there at the other end of the bar. Nice that she keeps on staring in my direction, but I’ll just keep on talking to the 3 girls standing around me. If they start to bore me, I might go over and get that number she seems to desperately want to give me. Oh wait, my friend is texting me I should come over. Bye girls!

let_terror_reign · 2014-08-12T13:16:01+00:00

BP: GF is being snarky and a little rude, better contest her arguments and shut them down. Then afterward, make her feel better and loved.

RP: Her talk means nothing, observe her actions alone. Let these things slide and pay her no real heed and do my own thing. Let her stop being a 5 year old and then we can talk

Johnny_Shades · 2014-08-12T20:17:39+00:00

BP: Shit, that girl just insulted me. I better mope around and be hurt and angry.

RP: Girl just insulted me. Haha that's a good one. You're not getting to me.

heeb · 2014-08-12T12:52:35+00:00

BP: Ah, my best female friend whom I met just last week needs a place to sleep! I don’t have a spare room, but I just offer her the other side of my bed. Sex is not too important to me anyway (I can always jerk off in the toilet), so I’ll totally respect her and won’t make advances. I’ll make breakfast for her in the morning! She’ll probably need money for a taxi, and who knows, maybe she’ll give it back to me one day, but if not, then I’m totally fine with that. I mean, she’s such a good friend!

RP: My plate whom I first met last week needs a dick to fuck. I will throw her over my shoulder and carry her to my double bed, where I will skilfully drain her love juices by infiltrating her cave of delight. If she behaves, I might let her stay till morning, and she can buy us breakfast.

heeb · 2014-08-12T13:08:54+00:00

BP: I don’t really know what I want in life. I mean, I studied to become Bachelor of Arts in Economic Andragogy In The 17th Century, and I studied to get my Master’s Degree in Theoretical Sociopathological Psychology From A Feminist Perspective, and they told me I would totally get a job straight after, but it’s hard to get up in the morning to look for jobs. Jobcentre closes at 4pm, but often I’m still sleeping at that hour. I’m a night owl, really. That’s not my fault, is it?

RP: I wish my days would have more than 24 hours, because I have the desire to start up another business. A dude I met in the gym has a good business idea, and I want to pursue this with him. I’ll inform the wife she’ll need to take over the household chores from now on, because shit’s important.

Ambiguousdude · 2014-08-12T15:59:14+00:00

I love this format, puts everything in perspective. I wish there was more of this than blocks of text

TheSKSpecial · 2014-08-12T18:19:42+00:00

BP: She's matured from her days of dating all those bad boys and assholes? Great! I'm getting her at her best! I shall marry her!

RP: LOL, marriage? To her? Sheeeeeeeeeeeeit.

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slappywhyte · 2014-08-12T22:29:40+00:00

BP: I'll string along in this shitty relationship passively until she breaks up with me.

RP: I'm going to take control of my own destiny and end things when they need to be ended.

AdmiralVonJackass · 2014-08-12T17:30:13+00:00

Before: I've spent 8 months with this girl, taken her places and bought her things. When are we going to have sex?

Now: I've spent 8 minutes with this girl and she has been offended 3 times. Next.

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stealthcreeper · 2014-08-12T12:44:50+00:00

thanks for this post ma good men

SAVED!

socio_j · 2014-08-13T04:11:33+00:00

This thread is perhaps one of the best threads in quiet some time, precise and concise.

cherrypoptart27 · 2014-08-12T23:21:32+00:00

A man chooses...a slave obeys.

hohamocha · 2014-08-20T20:40:39+00:00

Good post. But

RP: (GF) She doesn't want to have sex. Warning, warning! I should work on my SMV, do some stuff alone, hit the gym

Need to add "talk to other girls as well"

RP: This girl likes me! I better keep my emotional investment low in the beginning and increase it when she earns it.

Should be "I better keep my emotional investment low in the beginning and keep it low even if she tries to earn it.

heeb · 2014-08-12T12:25:10+00:00

BP: OMG, GF has been catcalled by gentleman living down the street. I’d better recommend her not to go that route again, she should just go in the opposite direction. We don’t want trouble.

RP: GF has been rudely catcalled by asshole living down the street. I’ll go over there now and tell him in no uncertain terms that that was the very last time, or he will have to scrape the remains of his balls out of his arsehole. I’ll also inform him that catcalling with no teeth could be difficult.

masturbator9000 · 2014-08-13T08:39:12+00:00

I did something similar. Created 4 rules I wanted to live by back when I was 16. Now 22. Stumbled across TRP at 22. Dropped those rules 3 weeks after swallowing the pill.

BP: I don't cheat on girls I'm with, no matter what. RP: Break it off if it gets miserable or at least turn her into a plate while going after other girls.

BP: I won't get sexually involved with a chick that has a boyfriend. RP: Had sex with too many girls only to find out later she had a bf. Fuck this rule. If she's down for sex, I'm having sex. No matter what.

BP: I won't have more than one chick at a time. RP: Yeah right.

BP: I won't ever have sex with a friends ex, no matter what. RP: If it's a close friend, I'll ask if it's okay first and rethink the whole thing. If it's not a close friend, I'm gettin glaid.

Cdiddles · 2014-08-13T02:09:48+00:00

Yes, tell me how to think because I have no idea myself.

Title	Blue Pill / Red Pill Thought Patterns
Author	Djandalf_le_Grey
Upvotes	199
Comments	100
Date	August 12, 2014 12:00 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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