“It’s like he has nothing else to do.”

CopperFox3c · 2016-11-17T21:31:50+00:00

Women are not the goal in life ... they are simply the by-product of a life well lived.

Perfect example of this. You can see how women react to a man who makes women his mission. It is the pursuit of other things, however, that makes you valuable as a man in the sexual marketplace. Even women instinctively know this. Too many men unfortunately conflate the by-product of pursuing goals with the goal itself.

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Conceited-Monkey · 2016-11-17T22:07:10+00:00

I have inadvertently listened in on a lot of women talking about the guys they date, and I have revised a lot of earlier opinions on how "nice" women actually are.

SetConsumes · 2016-11-17T18:57:41+00:00

Paragraphs of nonsense.

Women in a phrase.

Toolman890 · 2016-11-17T23:17:09+00:00

Your girlfriend sounds dumb as fuck brah. Literally, like omg, amirite?

askmrcia · 2016-11-17T22:06:05+00:00

I know the guy is wrong here, but I look at it differently then you OP.

All Lucy had to do was communicate that she wasn't a fan of that behavior then maybe the guy would stop.

A simple "hey you don't need to send the GM texts and text me all the time. I never was a fan of that and plus I'd like to take it slower in the early stages of dating."

Saying that to a guy who's "totally perfect" (her words) will give the guy an idea to cut back. Instead she complains about all the negative stuff. Had she just communicated with the guy then IDK, maybe she be in a decent relationship (ha we all know that's impossible now adays).

Not every guy is perfect. While this chick is complaining about this behavior, some other chick that is obsessed with attention would absolutely love it. I should know, I had a few girls who bitched at me for not texting them often or bitch about their dates not texting them and all that other stuff.

Also when I hear stories like these from the woman's perspective, these types of things are GREATLY exaggerated. The guy probably sent one good morning text and liked a few IG photos (like all her other male followers).

I can keep going, but from what I see on this story, is that this chick is branch swinging hard so any guy that she meets has to be flawless. You said so yourself that she normally dates (keyword there) guys "making over 80k+, driving nice cars, decent bodies etc"

She has tons of options so losing this guy isn't a big deal. You mentioned she is on IG so that says a lot right there. I bet even if the guy wasn't doing what she said, she would find something to complain about.

"OMG he's perfect BUT.....he took me to some hole in the wall bar and the food was shit, omg he listens to rap music, OMG you should have seen this shirt he wore, OMG he can't dance, ect..."

Get my point? They never satisfied and her being 25 in her prime... Yea good luck keeping this chick satisfied.

RetailCon · 2016-11-17T23:52:32+00:00

I have to call this out for the shit post it is - I can't imagine a girl saying something like "He's literally saying I have no mission, I have no other Women in my life". It's just too convenient to hear a word for word red pill truth coming from a womans mouth like that.

The real truth here is that if you like everything on every one of her social media accounts and spend all day texting her it's just going to come off as needy and creepy.

MK_D · 2016-11-17T22:55:52+00:00

Lesson: a guy hooked up to his phone never gets hooked up with a girl

WhatUPbRUTSKI · 2016-11-17T18:43:27+00:00

Yea I was like that. Trying to totally wean it off!

Booty_Canoe · 2016-11-18T00:01:42+00:00

My philosophy for text communication with women: Only use it to set up dates. Start with a tongue-in-cheek reference to your common past (maybe a running gag you two have), then propose a time and location. If she agrees I tell her to wear something sexy and that's it.

That's not even some special strategy, I just can't be bothered typing on phones. I use it as an alarm, a notification tool for my mails/calender and for browsing reddit on the shitter.

Venicedreaming · 2016-11-18T01:19:27+00:00

While I believe stories like this happen often, that's not how women talk. Main point is still good

cloudmax40 · 2016-11-18T01:43:37+00:00

Post seems fake. Good post and good lesson though.

the_strasburger · 2016-11-18T14:01:25+00:00

Have you ever had a girl who wouldn't stop texting you random crap? Such as she texts to confirm a date, you reply with a "yes" and then she comes back with a bunch of random shit about her day, how she's feeling, what she ate, etc.?

How did you react? In this scenario I just don't reply to anything other than simple logistics. The point is women are attracted to men with options. It sparks that female competitiveness anxiety. Sex is a woman's commodity; attention is one of ours. If you flood the market with your attention, you destroy its value.

crabyjoe · 2016-11-18T18:31:59+00:00

I hear women talk like this all the time. I've had plates lay naked complaining about their boyfriends. This is very common when they are comfortable with you.

CalvinHobb3s · 2016-11-18T05:44:51+00:00

*A pretend story that I made up. Redpill fan-fiction.

PissedPajamas · 2016-11-18T02:31:20+00:00

Yo this sounds like the script to a TRP wet dream so I'm calling BS

d3gu · 2016-11-17T21:58:59+00:00

I think the guy in OP's field report showed that, whilst - yes he was initially a 'Good Catch' and ticked all the Pros column, he also exhibited one of the major red flags: too clingy too soon, which often is a warning sign of things to come: possessiveness, jealousy etc. Maybe not, but what if?

I also think it shows a remarkable lack of well-roundedness. As Lucy put it 'I spend all my time trying to contact you'. Who wants someone hanging round them all the time? Only boring people, that's who. I wouldn't personally have jumped to 'I have no other women' (I wouldn't mind if I was the only one), but more - Christ man, get a life. Don't you have anything better to do?

The healthiest relationships are the most balanced. I look to my parents' marriage for this a lot of the time: married for 30 years, they spend a lot of time together, but also time apart with separate hobbies and even some holidays apart a few times a year ('girls trips' for me and my mum, e.g. theatre and posh hotels, 'boys trips' for my dad and brother, mucking around on safari).

frerri · 2016-11-18T07:08:41+00:00

Question : how to go about the girl who constantly hits you up and reacts incredibly well when you give fast and sincere replies?

BestSC86 · 2016-11-18T15:25:26+00:00

"Literally, like leave me alone and let me do my thing. I’ll call you when I need you amirite?"

Knew it was fake when OP put this stupidity in the story.....the number of 10HBs whom don't want to see the guy's ability to lead and be dominate in the relationship plus go out of their way to call a new dude whom they just started dating is equal to NONE.

Nice fiction which got a lot of votes though...so keep writing fiction.

jellybeanIN89 · 2016-11-17T21:40:35+00:00

It makes me sick that these dumb whores sit around and talk like this about men. It makes me sick how much ego they have.

ser0402 · 2016-11-18T05:06:40+00:00

This whole post seems like a crock of shit if I'm being honest. If it isn't then whatever, but just from how you wrote it, yeah seems like you're bullshitting to me.

Alpha-as-fuck · 2016-11-18T00:29:07+00:00

Treat them mean, keep them keen.

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kellykebab · 2016-11-18T05:43:12+00:00

I have a hard time imagining a woman expressing her exact, honest lack of interest in a guy this clearly and directly. This dialogue sounds like Red Pill robots. The gist is believable, but their speech sounds weirdly unguarded.

tino125 · 2016-11-18T06:50:28+00:00

I'm with the guys calling BS. A girl actually said "he's literally saying "I have no mission...""

Girls don't fucking talk about guys and 'missions'

If you're going to bullshit us, at least make it a little more convincing you tryhard.

aanarchist · 2016-11-17T23:38:54+00:00

sounds like he met someone better suited to be a pump and dump.

Toussant · 2016-11-18T04:05:10+00:00

Have you tried to plate Lucy?

AnjaJutta · 2016-11-18T07:16:13+00:00

This comment is for everyone who raised their eyebrow and checked if someone was looking at them curiously whilst reading this text.

[deleted] · 2016-11-18T15:10:40+00:00

So I’m in the kitchen crushing a protein shake and two bananas post-workout.

I stopped reading after this.

TomFoo · 2016-11-17T19:08:24+00:00

Nice, quick field report, bro. SMV is everything.

drallcom3 · 2016-11-18T10:14:36+00:00

Sounds made up (even if it's true)

rathyAro · 2016-11-18T02:23:19+00:00

There have been two times recently I went back and forth over text with girls a lot. Like all day every day for a few weeks. I think it really depends on the girl and how attracted to you she is.

Betterthanuatlife · 2016-11-18T08:01:04+00:00

Taking a protein shake with you to play basketball

Such protein abuse, your gains will curse you for this.

justthebeliever · 2016-11-18T13:32:41+00:00

yeah bro - just having a snack and overheard this convenient conversation that illustrates a minor point about not showing too much interest immediately. not busting your nards or anything - but it was a good thing you mentioned this snack was post-workout or i would def had to dock some major bro points. who needs girl talk when you can shoot hoopage on the homies though right

BestSC86 · 2016-11-18T15:33:55+00:00

"Previously we were talking about pursuing big goals, passion, purpose, and missions in life. "

Then you should not have started the fable with you were just in the kitchen and overheard a random conversation....

You overheard something but then let too many of your Redpill assumptions loose in your story.....

Basically, women don't like guys whom are too into them too soon everyone knows that but she isn't going to jump the shark on a "perfect guy" after one date because what you described...

And she most definitely is not going to think to this "perfect guy"....leave me alone until I call you.....that is letting your Redpill lesson run away with itself.

Oz70NYC · 2016-11-17T23:48:25+00:00

Wow. Dude fucked up his plate and doesn't even realize it. I get a gal's number, wait maybe a day or 2 to contact her, set up a meet and greet and she doesn't hear from ne until the day of. Leaves her in suspense of if I'm gonna blow her off or not, and when she DOES hear from me, she's wondering why I didn't contact her after agreeing to the meeting. Do I have other women orbiting me? (I do) Did someone come along that made me lose interest in her? She's got all kinds of questions in her head, and now she's going to try and impress me to "try" and get answers.

And I'll usually give her a few to tide her over...as we're laying in my (or her) bed following me blowing her back out. It's chess, fellas. Not checkers.

“It’s like he has nothing else to do.”

A quick reminder on initiating contact with women, and a conversation I overheard between my girlfriend and her friend.

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Title	“It’s like he has nothing else to do.”
Author	lietruth
Upvotes	590
Comments	111
Date	November 17, 2016 6:41 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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