How to meet 10s?

Snowboard18 · 2021-04-08T17:16:50+00:00

It’s happening because online dating is almost solely based on looks, and the 9s and 10s on those apps literally match with every guy so they have way too many options to pick u out of the bunch

You’ll have more success irl if your game is good. Unlike online, irl you can display your solid frame, abundance, confidence and charisma

Scout_XYZ · 2021-04-08T17:23:41+00:00

Walk around downtown outside of these clubs & restaurants and cold approach women. Do it before they go in.

OLD is a supplement; not a solution.

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2021-04-08T18:03:15+00:00

Forget 10s. 8-9s are money

ignitedwolf9200 · 2021-04-08T18:31:13+00:00

get rid of online dating. it’s probably killing your self esteem. go out. meet people

redditthrowaway1478 · 2021-04-08T18:45:40+00:00

Remember - women are trying to meet HVM, and they expect HVM to approach them, so they are positioning themselves in environments where HVM are known to hang out

You want to find 10s? Find the social environments where the most sought after men go to hang out and go there.

High end clubs are one spot because girls get in free. So you might have to be prepared to spend $$$ just to have a seat at the table. Factor this in if its worth it to you.

maddisser101 · 2021-04-08T18:23:12+00:00

They are not going to be on Hinge. And if they are then they use it for confidence purposes. Attractive women already have enough men in their circle from their friends, work, and getting approached in real life.

The only way to meet them tried and true is to approach in real life or use mutual friends. You can meet the occasional 10/10 on dating apps but like I said they are getting hundreds of messages on there so it is like throwing a rock into the ocean hoping it will come back.

CompetitiveAd4912 · 2021-04-08T17:57:00+00:00

10s are rarely go on dating sites/apps to actually date. They get enough attention IRL and often have many orbiters and just use Tinder etc. for more validation and entertainment

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2021-04-08T18:27:05+00:00

yacht parties for charities, fr

if there aren't wine glasses and butlers, then that isn't a 10

ngyuhnang · 2021-04-08T18:46:50+00:00

It's not worth it, trust me. 9s and 10s, especially those who are active online, are usually aware of their worth so they don't easily give out pussy if there's no profit they can gain. They are not so good in the sack, either.

SuperSpicySpice · 2021-04-08T19:00:28+00:00

You meet 10’s by being one. You keep them by being in the top 1%

DLifts777 · 2021-04-08T18:21:43+00:00

Instagram is everything for 9’s and 10’s. They all want to be famous and filthy rich. That’s why I tend to avoid them, the vast majority have very boring personalities and are ridiculously entitled. They’ve lived life on the easiest mode and don’t understand adversity. Much better to get with a solid 7 that worships you and has a great personality. Though it’s nice to fuck a 9 or 10 just for the ego lol

michael1962-01 · 2021-04-08T17:25:20+00:00

Place yourself at places where they are in RL.

AuberyBitoni · 2021-04-08T18:14:18+00:00

I'm experiencing the same thing. On dating apps I can only fuck 6-7's. At this point it's getting boring. The only way where I could get hot women was in real life. But that's hard now that's everything's closed..

__transistor__ · 2021-04-08T19:38:05+00:00

Move to LA

Prize-Thought-4205 · 2021-04-08T19:55:25+00:00

idk all i know is i've never met a 10/10 girl on a dating app, only through social circles irl. out of 1000s of women there have been a handful of 10/10s, and they actually had really down to earth chill bubbly & fun personalities, came from great strong families with good father figures & established wealth.

I guess you can find the hottest girl on the dating apps but they're usually damaged in some ways or have a terrible nasty past.

tiverma · 2021-04-08T17:27:18+00:00

Grow your social circle and meet them in person. In my experience most "8-10s" don't use OLD. I don't either.

Trp2727272 · 2021-04-08T19:35:30+00:00

You will never meet 10s, get that idea out of your head, they don’t exist. Even if they did, you’d put them on a pedi-stool and inevitably fuck it up.

itiswr1tten · 2021-04-08T18:57:04+00:00

https://theredarchive.com/post/61055

Authority post on the subject.

Notes for 2021:

Spamming instagram is a low hit % but perfectly viable method. Learn how to use geotag search and you will find the hotties in your area
Most model-tire girls don't get asked out - people are afraid to do it
You need level 1 billion NGAF
She has other boyfriends - deal with it (the last genuine 10 I wrote an FR about had oneitis for an NFL player she used to date)

KeyRepresentative · 2021-04-08T17:58:22+00:00

You said it yourself, you’re getting interest in real life. You’ve got to initiate in real life. Go where these women hang out, initiate a conversation, arrange a second meeting.

2021-04-08T20:50:48+00:00

Don’t listen to many of these people. Most “10s” you see in the club and Instagram are “7s” with good makeup and photo game. You meet “10s” through your social circles, not through online or night venues.

nathanielhiggers1 · 2021-04-09T00:00:45+00:00

>5'10 and 167lb

> very muscular

no you are at Nigerian hungry kid level

get real

Optionsmfd · 2021-04-09T00:05:30+00:00

just b glad u dont live in a small city like me cause it takes weeks to see a 7/10 on online

and she has 3 kids and at least 1 ex husband

and its not easy to find a match lol

literally never seen an 8 on hinge..... let alone a 9 or 10.... ive actually never seen a 9 or 10 in person

PhaedrusHunt · 2021-04-09T03:26:30+00:00

Stop thinking about tens. Learn Patrice's 30 point scale. There's no such thing as a ten.

kmf01 · 2021-04-08T17:33:25+00:00

You want 10s? Instagram and high value social sircles

-since · 2021-04-08T18:10:20+00:00

10s you will only be able to meet if you are already in extreme cliques, such as high status social circles.

Personal opinion: 10s are not worth it. Too high effort/reward ratio. 8s and 9s are probably better experience overall to bang.

skippwiggins · 2021-04-08T20:07:50+00:00

I rarely even see 10s. A 10 is jaw dropping and you're thinking about them a week later. Beauty doesn't change how you feel inside. My face is a 8.5 I have been my whole life, with the steroid body. This doesn't change the fact ive had years of depression or bouts of anxiety. It doesn't change that im as easy to approach as anyone. That said im super friendly, so when those 5 or 6s hit on me at the gym im super friendly back. When that 9 is constantly making eye contact with me I dont get nervous..inside shes no different than the 5. If youre not super good looking though it might not be as easy.

AA meetings have some of the easiest hottest girls ever. However 13th stepping is frowned upon. I've never used dating apps. Go to the mall or to a playground, gym etc.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2021-04-08T20:18:46+00:00

For me it’s Meat Reality. Have to outfox the bouncer.

Once you have, see my Guide to Dating Models for tips on keeping those bitches in line.

Fresh_Supermarket · 2021-04-08T20:43:09+00:00

If you’re in a big city, NYC, LA, Miami, Vegas, become a club promoters and you’ll meet models

ripandtearuntil · 2021-04-08T21:15:26+00:00

There are no 10's, anything above a 7-8 and the rating system becomes negligible.

Pussy is pussy. This idea that there are 10's out there is what primarily leads men to developing Oneitis. They all shit and smell bad occasionally.

WeddingCrasher91 · 2021-04-08T18:25:19+00:00

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Islandman598 · 2021-04-08T17:19:51+00:00

You’re always going to be at a disadvantage on dating sites. Even maximizing yourself to the fullest, you won’t get optimal results. What’s your line of work? What kind of pictures do you have in your profile? And what’s an 8-10 to you? Also the height thing, it’s not THE decider because I’m below 6ft as well but on dating sites it’s HUGE.

IAMNUMBERBLACK · 2021-04-08T18:34:13+00:00

10s gotta be less than 1% of the population. You’re asking a very difficult question.

yungcheezit6 · 2021-04-08T19:08:24+00:00

Man I’ve done a ton of research on this. What it boils down to is you have to be in moneyed areas (high end bars, charity galas and the like). Now, your average cocktail bar in Toledo, Ohio, isn’t really going to cut it. Paris/positano/tulum is more on target. Social proof is a must as well— a lot of guys on this thread talk about Instagram and I think they’re right on the money. I’ve pulled some quality off of IG, and a girls engagement with you appears to be a pretty good acid test as to how she feels about you.

kclanton80 · 2021-04-08T20:33:20+00:00

Don't let one bouncer at one bar stop you. If you look at this sub it always the same problem......can't get good tinder girls. ....or whatever app.

Approach in real life.

mraees93 · 2021-04-08T21:12:22+00:00

I don't use dating apps, I only do warm approach anywhere I am. There's no 10s only 9s to me. Most times these 9s will give approach invitations if they see me, I'll smile at them if I see them first then approach. About half the time they were just looking for attention from me. Most of them are fulla shit. Only like 1 or 2 I met had great personalities, both of them grew up fat and lost huge amounts of weight.

unnatural_by_nature · 2021-04-08T21:51:21+00:00

The obstacle is the way, my friend: follow the IOIs and approach in person or through social circles.

More-Platypus-2241 · 2021-04-08T23:59:00+00:00

10s? They won't make you a cup of tea when you ask, come down here to the land of the 3s and get a foot massage whenever you want.

AskTRP_Throw · 2021-04-09T00:21:26+00:00

I know it sounds insane but 5'10" 167lbs is just the start. I'm 6'1" 210lbs and I didn't notice an increase in choosing signals until recently. No 8,9,10 is doing online dating unironically, it's purely for validation. It's the best time to sit your ass down and go monk until covid clears up. Even if you pull an 8+, they can use covid as an excuse to use you as an emotional tampon with no intent to meet up.

drkinferno72 · 2021-04-09T00:29:14+00:00

Be wealthier

fourwindsgold · 2021-04-09T01:48:48+00:00

High end clubs in major cities are the only place you will reliably see 9s. Forget about getting model tier girls from online dating 😂

DoItForDalebaby · 2021-04-09T08:02:33+00:00

It might not even be you or the way you look but possibly the resources you have to offer. Keep grinding and stacking money. If those 10’s saw you in 911 turbo I bet they’d be all about it

curvedbymykind · 2021-04-08T18:13:09+00:00

I’m white, 6’4 and I get my 10s from tinder and bars

mrrooftops · 2021-04-08T20:36:14+00:00

These attention posts are getting tiring. I get it. You want attention because you're questioning your sexuality and this is some plausibly deniable shit. There are other subs for that. Pun intended for you.

jihocech · 2021-04-08T20:38:33+00:00

Why do you want to meet those 8-10? To find mother of your children, or just to boost your ego?

Title	How to meet 10s?
Author	EntitledChadJThunder
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Date	April 8, 2021 4:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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