Is this something worth breaking up over?

IssaBigLife · 2019-04-01T19:45:33+00:00

“my boyfriend would not like that or else I would.”

Meaning "We will, when my boyfriend isn`t around."

I think you know what`s going on here, but you are denying it. You are not her first option, otherwise she`d treat you like a priority.

Dump her before before she continues to fuck you up mentally

LamboFly · 2019-04-01T19:44:04+00:00

Lmao are you kidding? She blatantly disrespected you..

HotHead121 · 2019-04-01T21:04:18+00:00

You just created a new level of cuck

sterquiliniis · 2019-04-01T19:58:38+00:00

Damn, reading that sent ALL the wrong mental images my way.

When she said "my boyfriend would not like that or else I would.” She is telling this guy she would let him fuck her brains out if it wasn't for you knowing about it. In no way is that shutting him down. Shutting him down would be blocking him.

I think deep down you don't want to dump her because you know he will be fucking her immediately after. You're trying to cling onto this broad to avoid him fucking her. That's not a mentally healthy way to live man.

superomar13 · 2019-04-01T21:43:32+00:00

Ok guys I get the message. Im going to pack my shit and move out tomorrow morning, and ghost her. Currently sharing accomodation, that we both pay for. Already looking for new places to live, and I plan on doing this while she is at work so I dont have to deal with her breaking down and trying to stop me. Will give an update tomorrow.

drakehfh · 2019-04-01T21:07:09+00:00

This hurt to read. How have men gone so low that they need to post shit like this in a forum to get feedback? You should have pumped and dumped.

stripethrowaway · 2019-04-01T20:02:26+00:00

she told me about a guy she wanted to bang

"My boyfriend would not like that or else I would."

she is excited to see him

Dump her.

If she was truly into you she would have dismissed his ass instead of painting you out to be the big bad wolf who told her she can't talk to boys.

She's employing plausible deniability with him.

Dump her now and spin plates till September.

Whisper · 2019-04-01T23:12:58+00:00

It's not about what she's done or hasn't done.

You are option B. Do you want to have an LTR with a girl for whom you are option B?

lilgoatedboy · 2019-04-01T21:40:21+00:00

Fuck her.. fuck her like shes the last woman on earth and this is your last time... get it all out.. nastiest possible things you can think of. Afterwards tell her that "that was the last time" and kick her the FUCK out.

SalporinRP · 2019-04-01T22:17:13+00:00

Yes because a truly loyal girl would tell him to fuck off then block him if his advances persisted.

Her saying "my boyfriend would not like that" instead of shutting him down says it all.

And this is coming from someone who got cucked in a similar manner. My ex-GF (pre-TRP-discovery) had a guy acquaintance that I always felt uneasy about because he obviously was into her. She kept saying that she had no attraction to him, yadda yadda yadda.

One day while she was in the shower I went through her phone and found that during our dinner-date the previous night he was sending her shirtless gym selfies after the gym and her response was "you look good" then "my boyfriend wouldn't like this" instead of fuck off.

I was visiting her at college during all of this. While she was in the shower I simply packed up my backpack and then left her apartment.

Texted her "we're done" and never saw her ever again and only talked to her once over text in a moment of weakness.

Fuck that hurt naive 20 year old me.

CharlesChadworth · 2019-04-01T23:04:22+00:00

She just took a massive dump on your chest and proceeded to smear it around with her hands mate.

If any girl openly tells me she wanted to fuck a guy, that for me disqualifies her as gf material. Let alone if she tells me she wanted to catch up and get throat slammed by a dude she knows wants to fuck...lol

My advice is use her as much as possible for sex, seeing as she is that type of slut, and keep looking around for another girl in the mean time.

Wolveryn · 2019-04-02T03:08:42+00:00

Jeezus Christ, let her back onto the cock carousel on your own terms, she’s headed there anyway. I STRONGLY suggest you diversify your pussy stock portfolio, your too heavily weighted on this one stock and this stock is about to plummet due to external forces. SELL SELL SELL

RedHoodhandles · 2019-04-01T20:15:04+00:00

Here, let me help you with this one. Follow me on your own path of stupidity:

she told me about a guy that she wanted to bang [...] before we were official, she wanted to visit him again

->plate only; instead you LTRed her

They texted a bit here and there

Hard next. Ghost.

she shut him down and said “my boyfriend would not like that or else I would.”

Hard next. Ghost.

he is coming to new zealand. She is excited to see him.

Hard next. Ghost.

Before you try to fuck other women now, start having some self-respect. You know, makes fucking women easier.

SeasonedRP · 2019-04-01T21:44:42+00:00

-he texted her out of the blue and told her that he is coming to New Zealand"

Uh huh. Just out of the blue. Kick her to the curb.

YesVeryKewl · 2019-04-01T22:42:12+00:00

Not sure if srs

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-04-01T23:05:38+00:00

This was over a long time ago.

Disappear quietly.

She will try to contact you. Don't talk to her. Don't give her closure. Don't become a part of her story by giving her anything to rationalize.

In the future, keep better control of your bitches by being the best available option.

bruiser18 · 2019-04-01T21:16:46+00:00

Demote to plate.

rare_specimen_indeed · 2019-04-01T23:18:23+00:00

I wish I had found the red pill earlier because I put up with this kind of behavior for years before getting out. It's not worth it!

HurricaneHugues · 2019-04-02T00:13:51+00:00

"Before we left australia and came to new zealand, before we were official, she wanted to visit him again. But I told her I wouldnt stick around if she went to visit him for three weeks, so she decided not to visit him and came straight with me to new zealand."

When people reveal themselves and their true desires to you, believe them. She already showed you what she wanted to do, you just made her pretend being someone she's not, which is a girl who respects you and doesn't want to fuck that guy.

This is not the girl you want to commit. This is the girl u smash.

Deebo211 · 2019-04-02T00:26:21+00:00

Bro. She’s about to fuck this guy. Tag team her with him (which she would probably like and actually might help you get a relationship with her) or either move on from her.

I can’t believe your dealing with this crap. I’d straight up tell her if she sees this dude when he comes it’s over. Simple as that. Put your foot down. Then break up with her anyways.

SickOfIt518 · 2019-04-02T01:22:29+00:00

You're just a placeholder until he gets his turn so don't stick around buddy.

volvostupidshit · 2019-04-02T04:11:01+00:00

What kind of beta shit is this?

Ironic_Gangster · 2019-04-02T04:13:44+00:00

Bust a nut in her mouth, then tell her your breaking up immediately afterwards. This is your only true option.

Seriously, though. Next.

BiscottiGeneral · 2019-04-02T07:40:06+00:00

Bro there is no way this isn’t an April fools joke to troll everyone. If everything you are saying is actually true, you are either blind or stupid or both.

boy_named_su · 2019-04-01T21:23:07+00:00

Your girlfriend should not be meeting other men, one-on-one

JorgitoEstrella · 2019-04-01T23:19:24+00:00

Are you serious? The answers is obvious.

UsernameIWontRegret · 2019-04-02T00:06:04+00:00

Hard fucking next how is this even a question

[deleted] · 2019-04-02T00:19:54+00:00

She's disrespecting you directly to your face. She wants this guy's dick more than she wants your relationship. Leave her.

ainihon · 2019-04-02T03:54:10+00:00

Run for the hills!

AshyBoneVR4 · 2019-04-02T04:17:48+00:00

She is excited to see him. I know for a fact they never banged but this feels disloyal to me.

Cut your loses and bail. End things. If she hasn't cheated on you, she will. It's not worth the heartache.

Andorli · 2019-04-02T06:21:30+00:00

before we were official, she wanted to visit him again.

Should not have made it official after this.

They texted a bit here and there, he was flirty with her and even invited her to bali, but she shut him down and said “my boyfriend would not like that or else I would.”

Break up right there. This is...this just shows how stupid she is and how bad she is at hiding her intentions.

Dude do you really need a fucking explanation here?

"YOUR" CHICK WANTS TO BANG ANOTHER DUDE VERY BAD, MEANING SHE IS WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE COMFORTABLE AND SHE SEES HIM MORE ALPHA THAN YOU, IF IT IS NOT GOING TO BE HIM IT IS GOING TO BE SOMEBODY ELSE IN FUTURE. FUCKING BAIL!

golgynat0r · 2019-04-02T10:15:25+00:00

You came here for a roast party or you like seeing your GF getting wrecked by other man. I can't understand why didn't you react immediately and leave that grill. Now she is closer to that guy thanks to you and has a free living besides. All planned, pathetic.

AstuteBlackMan · 2019-04-02T10:44:36+00:00

Demote to plate

Harambe440 · 2019-04-01T21:56:22+00:00

She’s gonna have to choose. But don’t wait for her to make her decision. Next her.

Avskygod0 · 2019-04-01T23:36:36+00:00

Downgrade her into fucker

Zoddo · 2019-04-02T02:55:20+00:00

Take the red pill before your next relationship. You clearly haven't read shit

TopOccasion29 · 2019-04-02T00:20:48+00:00

Next this stupid bitch.

Bruchibre · 2019-04-02T03:03:39+00:00

You should just tell her to go to Bali with him and that's it, continue your trip. She seems so into him I don't even know why she hasn't dumped you yet to jump in his sheets.

BrunoSardinePI · 2019-04-02T05:34:56+00:00

No, tell your bitch to act right, and to think with her head and not her pussy..

Do you people really think these bitches are gonna listen without your guidance??

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2019-04-02T13:43:17+00:00

She shouldn’t be in contact with someone like this. It’s her responsibility to put a stop to that. IF she can’t conteol herself then NEXT.

MattyAnon · 2019-04-02T15:41:33+00:00

if she went to visit him for three weeks

but this feels disloyal to me

Of course it is

Should I jump ship?

Probably.

Definitely yes if she meets him. At the very least she's meeting him to "see how she feels". She's keeping herself open to be fucked.

Hypergamy never sleeps.

"Look girl, you want to meet this guy and I understand you're curious and that's fine. But not while you're with me. You need to choose.... meet him or stay with me."

ValorElite · 2019-04-02T03:07:26+00:00

Upvote for trust, but verify

isthisalreadyused · 2019-04-01T20:22:59+00:00

he is coming here to visit her

Why did you allow her to have any sort of communication with this guy in the first place? I tell the girls I've had LTRs with they cannot have guy friends, and if they did tell them they cannot talk to or see them any longer. No going out with friends if they bring guy friends either. They don't like it they are free to leave. Cuts that shit out before it starts

willso86 · 2019-04-01T21:18:42+00:00

This is a troll

IMBDD619 · 2019-04-01T21:53:24+00:00

I feel like as long as she only sees him while your with her then it would be acceptable. Obviously it would suck to hangout with him yourself, but then you can judge how she acts towards him while you're there. From there you can decide if you want to leave her or not. If you bring up that you'd like to come along when she sees him and she's super against it or seems visibly upset, I'd be a little worried.

jrr6415sun · 2019-04-02T01:22:42+00:00

Every tiny thing means break up in this sub, don’t even ask.

Is this something worth breaking up over?

Comments

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"Before we left australia and came to new zealand, before we were official, she wanted to visit him again. But I told her I wouldnt stick around if she went to visit him for three weeks, so she decided not to visit him and came straight with me to new zealand."

"Why did you allow her to have any sort of communication with this guy in the first place? I tell the girls I've had LTRs with they cannot have guy friends, and if they did tell them they cannot talk to or see them any longer. "

"I feel like as long as she only sees him while your with her then it would be acceptable. "

Title	Is this something worth breaking up over?
Author	superomar13
Upvotes	59
Comments	132
Date	April 1, 2019 7:35 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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