She has a boyfriend but is talking to a couple other guys. She invited me over at 3 am at her place. We cuddled a lot, I took of her bra, massaged her ass, played with her lingerie. I try kissing she flat out says no, putting my hand in her pussy worked for 0.3 seconds. She said if I didn’t have a boyfriend it would be okay but not now. How is it okay to invite a guy over and letting him massage your ass? Guys I know it’s too shady but I want to fuck her. She gave me a bj a couple of months back and she’s stated multiple times she likes me and I just don’t want to get to a point where I’m not that hot to her.