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cobraCL · 2022-08-03T05:08:36+00:00

It's not too surprising - as we age, we either get better or bitter.

I'll be the first to admit that I am not as beautiful as I was at 19-22, but at the time I was emotionally chaotic, insecure, and didn't know what I wanted.

I'm 28 now and I'm thankful for the past few years from a personal growth perspective. Experience, challenge and loss have forced me to grow into a person I would actually like to be around now. For starters I've grown inner security, I've become empathetic and warm, accepted my sexuality and no longer feel the need to play games. Instead of fumbling around like an idiot I can actually ask for what I want directly.

It could go either way though. A woman of 23 years old could be well-rounded, pleasant and interesting and a 36 year old could be immature and inaccessible. Depends so much on the individual.

Bananabananalou · 2022-08-03T14:07:44+00:00

Life got so much better after 30- also my skincare, attitude, ease with myself and others. Not everyone will love me. I have a lot of love to share. It’s like a load of psychic pressure released after 30 and my inner world becomes less limiting and more and more expensive.

Professional_Base117 · 2022-08-03T12:03:26+00:00

Haha no shit. Women in their 30s are hunting for men if they wanna get married bro. In their 20s , its just YOLO vibes.

sidbunch6 · 2022-08-03T07:27:38+00:00

they weren't glued too an ipad from the age of 6 and know how to hold a conversation. Also 18 year old girls now have been creeped on hard since they were like 13 and tend to think they are Kardashian or something haha. The whole 'aloof'/'what makes you think you can talk to me?' act

3SidedDie · 2022-08-03T14:31:50+00:00

I've always been more lucky, even when looking for just friendship, no seduction at all, with older women.

humptyone · 2022-08-03T14:50:49+00:00

Older women refine their beauty. Young girls like the flash. Older women know the inner beauty is what makes them a total package

Traditional-Month698 · 2022-08-03T15:48:04+00:00

More emotional stability and less drama.

Archyblackcat · 2022-08-03T17:57:48+00:00

Totally !! I especially love that older ladies mostly reject you in a nice way that will make you feel happy Even if you got rejected and the younger girls mostly reject you in a fucked up way that makes you not wanna talk to anyone ever again

fuzzyD_9 · 2022-08-03T18:14:07+00:00

women vs girls. it's not just the positive response mate, it's that conversing with adults is just more pleasant and easy to connect coz your on the same vibes. If it were a 20yr old dude would you vibe? Personally at 33, conversations with anyone close to 20 nine times outta 10 drive me nuts.

Enigmaduke · 2022-08-03T12:33:00+00:00

They have less options

helpMeOut9999 · 2022-08-03T05:02:15+00:00

I don't like anyone in their 20s. Girls OR guys. They are just grown children. Their minds are all over the place and they are hyper fixated on anything that gives dopamine.

It's also a generation that grew up with a phone in their hand and they are MORONIC with its use.

If you are 20s and reading it, yes you are a moron. You'll see what I mean when you are 30.

You'll be like "Ahhhhhhh! Yes! He was right!"

CanUnusual8729 · 2022-08-03T15:18:07+00:00

Couldn’t agree more

Kobe_curry24 · 2022-08-03T18:54:41+00:00

People just gotta talk to more people Lmfaoooo especially women the spectrum is amazing

ozzzy83 · 2022-08-03T21:59:24+00:00

Younger girls are way more insecure/shy, so over time, things get easier, and a person becomes more mature. On the other hand, when they are in their early 20s, all of them think that they will find some tall businessman, aka will get marry well one day, but as soon as they quickly get to their mid-20s or late 20s, their criteria start to drop because they are realizing if they want to have a kid, it is desirable to do it now, and because Mr. handsome tall businessman didn't appear, any decent guy will now be enough, lol.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-03T13:04:00+00:00

Because at that age most of them are usually not in their prime of sexual attractiveness anymore. So they enjoy the male attention since they lost quite a lot of it.

Jasonhardon · 2022-08-03T15:19:04+00:00

They are more experienced

HomeschoolProm · 2022-08-03T17:22:13+00:00

So like how does 24 y/o snag a cougar

retro_169 · 2022-08-03T17:59:55+00:00

They get mature enough to realise that now they need to get rid of their ego

inline6throwaway · 2022-08-03T19:06:47+00:00

Younger women will be cool to you if they like you that much. There can be a simplicity when dealing with them. But yeah older women are nice to interact with

DabusAlmighty · 2022-08-03T19:13:49+00:00

Definitely noticed that's there's a different tonality and attitudes between the two, 30s women tend to be much more relaxed and it's a nice outlet of charisma from them. 20 men and women are much more excited or giddy, both are slight in their presentation but still noticable

Radicalmattitude1 · 2022-08-03T21:08:06+00:00

Yeah big generalization but the trend is a massive level of entitlement from young pretty women stemming from a constant validation feedback loop through social media apps and a persistent social narrative teaching them that men are oppressors. This fun combo can really influence a young lady to act like a brat to anyone that shows sexual interest in them.

porn-chicken · 2022-08-03T22:19:48+00:00

Older people have better conversation skills since they have more experience. Young women are especially poor conversationalists since their experience is limited to other women of their age or men that approach them. This isn't a criticism, it's just an observation.

Elbynerual · 2022-08-03T22:30:29+00:00

Off topic

novasolid64 · 2022-08-03T12:51:32+00:00

That's because she's just happy that you're paying attention to her

j_sev · 2022-08-03T22:30:16+00:00

Emotional maturity rocks.

recyclablebanthas · 2022-08-13T02:51:16+00:00

I've been doing pick-up for a year now and if there's one consistent thing I've noticed, it's that older women (30 and up) seem to be more pleasant to talk to.

There are a lot of things going on in social interactions.

But in particular, our attitude and mindset going into any interaction will heavily bias the kind of results we get.

Certain kinds of personalities and temperaments are going to react more positively towards particular personalities and temperaments. And vice versa.

Easy example: If someone who likes cats meets someone who likes cats, there's a positive predisposition there.

So whatever else is going on, if people are reacting to you negatively or positively every time, then there's most likely something going on with whatever it is you're bringing to the table.

TheRealMe54321 · 2022-08-03T22:31:02+00:00

No shit, their SMV is rapidly decreasing so the power dynamic is less severely slanted in their favor.

Kundalini-Electric · 2022-08-03T15:46:36+00:00

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Character-Current-57 · 2022-08-03T15:46:17+00:00

I find the opposite. Younger people are easier to get along with. The older women are masculine think they know everything. Think their market value is higher than it is.

mikejamesone · 2022-08-03T16:05:02+00:00

Older women are more humble as their dating life is in doubt if they're single at 30. They know the later they leave a long term relationship, the less likely it is that they'll be able to get married and have a family. It is bad as it is scary.

TheTruth221 · 2022-08-03T07:59:30+00:00

not really they all seem eager

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