What to say when she says she has a boyfriend/ seeing someone?

jaypb182 · 2022-08-01T18:39:04+00:00

She's either lying or telling the truth. Either way, why would you want to pursue that girl?

bDsmDom · 2022-08-01T19:04:31+00:00

"Bring him, I'll fuck him too "

Content-Philosopher2 · 2022-08-01T19:42:39+00:00

Ask if they’re getting married soon, if he/she say no then say “oh, so it’s not serious?”

If they laugh go on and ask for their number. You won and they got caught out.

sincere_blasphemy · 2022-08-01T18:22:25+00:00

“Oh, my bad! He’s a lucky man. Have a nice day/weekend/evening!” And make your exit

fondlemysausage · 2022-08-01T18:24:01+00:00

"So do I."

Social_cynicism · 2022-08-01T19:23:06+00:00

Doesn't really matter what you say. You have already lost.

Zealousideal6669 · 2022-08-01T18:37:14+00:00

It depends. I usually just acknowledge it and move on in a friendly way then I just tryna close with the idea that I'm just a friendly guy who wanna get to know you, sometimes works sometimes doesn't but I can't remember a time when I couldn't pull the girl when I could ask her out with any excuse. Luckily I hadn't had to deal with boyfriends so far

Kind-Standard-536 · 2022-08-01T19:01:03+00:00

I’ll say something like “well take it as a compliment then, have a good one”

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2022-08-01T21:01:19+00:00

The last time (4+ years ago) a gal used that line on me….

… I’d come back from a winter vacation in Jamaica & mentioned it in conversation with a group. This gal sighs & says “gee, I wish someone would take me to Jamaica.” A couple minutes later I get an opportunity to pull her aside & tell her “if you’re really serious about taking a trip with me to Jamaica, meet me for lunch tomorrow and we’ll talk about it.”

Her: “I’ve got a boyfriend.”

Me: “Is he going to take you to Jamaica?”

She went white as typing paper, froze for 10 seconds, then took off running.

burakbenxd · 2022-08-02T00:30:15+00:00

'Here take my number :)' then walk away. Don't take hers. I mean, this way, the ball is in her court. Now you know your role, and she knows her role. You're that guy that gives her the dick when her boyfriend can't, but that's if she responds/texts you lol. If she does, you're in.

If she refuses that, then say, have a nice day and walk away.

I don't know why these losers keep saying, 'lucky guy' or 'he's a lucky man'. This is such beta shit. You can literally just say, 'Okay. Have a nice day.'

Matt_Bigmonster · 2022-08-01T20:00:58+00:00

"Thank you for our chat anyways. All the best".

Popular_Ad3953 · 2022-08-01T21:01:56+00:00

one way: basically say ok, then change subject, continue to apply pressure, good game etc,

then find a way to basically tell her you're gonna give her your number/snap/instagram, that she's gonna right it off in her phone, and only add you if she ever splits with her boyfriend (and always say "which is not something i wish for you obviously).

A french street cold approacher talked about it and how to do it (this way), but you wouldn't understand if you're not french.

even better: tell her alright i like that you're a loyal person, if you ever have other loyal friends, take my snap/number, and tell them about me (advertise me). i've seen it worked sometimes (the girl actually take the number "for her friends")

Hook_me_up · 2022-08-01T21:44:36+00:00

my go to is "every barbie has it's ken"

andr386 · 2022-08-01T18:53:52+00:00

I say "Lucky guy" and then go on my way.

The veracity of her claim is irrelevant.

Either it's true or she doesn't want to speak with me.
Thus no reason to escalate the situation.

NocturneBotEUNE · 2022-08-01T18:54:41+00:00

If she's lying she's uninterested and you should move on. If she's telling the truth she has a boyfriend and you should move on.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-08-01T19:18:09+00:00

99% of the time I would just say "I can respect that"...and close my conversation.

If I have enough rapport with her, and she's still fun to be around, more like a platonic friend, then I ask about her friends.

MikeRowWave · 2022-08-01T19:50:11+00:00

You could say: "We just me and you're already telling me about your problems?"

But seriously, whether real or not, it just means you showed too much interest for comfort.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-08-01T19:59:32+00:00

You say: I bet he’s a luck guy and you move on

coir551 · 2022-08-01T20:00:45+00:00

Easy use this:

Her- Sorry I have a boyfriend Me- And I have a goldfish.

Works like a charm.

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-08-01T19:22:35+00:00

And i have a math test 🫠

Geaux_tigers69420 · 2022-08-01T19:40:01+00:00

Just say “Cool have a great day” and move on. At the point the conversation is over regardless of what you say afterwards. She either has a boyfriend in which case the conversation is over, or she doesn’t have a boyfriend and just doesn’t want to talk to you, in which case the conversation is also over.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-08-01T19:50:19+00:00

Depends on when she says it, lol

ericviking007 · 2022-08-02T00:15:16+00:00

I say lucky guy have a nice day

incognito3107 · 2022-08-02T11:03:58+00:00

"Cool, I hope he is good for you. See you around."

Title	What to say when she says she has a boyfriend/ seeing someone?
Author	InDaStew69
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Date	August 1, 2022 6:12 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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