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Fluffy_Risk9955 · 2022-05-26T16:30:03+00:00

And all the boys who don’t get any, think at least you’re getting something.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-26T18:48:28+00:00

I’ve NEVER made fun of a hookup and I’ve had a few. Any guy that would do that is lame and immature. I have way to much appreciation for women and their pussy to make fun of it. What would be the point ?

Calamity__Bane · 2022-05-26T20:56:53+00:00

Trust me, if you’re actually that unattractive, nobody will make fun of you after fucking you, we’ll either pretend you were average, or pretend we didn’t fuck you.

Codi_Banks · 2022-05-26T16:45:07+00:00

Guys will use a woman's desire for attention/love to get sex from her just like how girls will use a man's desire for sex to get attention/love from them. A girl getting boned then kicked to the curb is pretty much the female equivalent of being strung along only to be friendzoned.

If you don't want to get used, make a guy work for it. Make him prove his feelings are real and he actually respects before you give it up.

Psychological_Radish · 2022-05-26T14:48:56+00:00

Easy solution. Stop fucking guys that are obviously way more physically attractive than you.

Like most guys, I'll plow into a fat chick once in awhile on the DL when I'm horny. I certainly won't be making fun of her, though... my buddies don't need to know that I bang whales

Emmy-bby · 2022-05-27T10:27:10+00:00

I know how shallow and demanding some men are and that others just look for average girls to bone bc they can’t keep it in their pants but ill tell u my experience when I was heavier and “less attractive.” I still got plenty of good looking dudes hitting me up, wanting relationships or casual hookups. I met my husband while I was 40lbs heavier, your weight and “attractiveness” to these dudes doesn’t matter because YOUR person is out there shitty men attract shitty women in the end even if ur not model status you will be the one who’s married and settled down with a man who meets your every need and these guys will still be 30,40,50 years old single and boning “unattractive” women because they can’t see what true value is. This sub Reddit is full of incels, “alpha” males, and misogynists who truly do not see the value in a woman past their looks. You’re perfect keep on doing your thing miss girl ❤️

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-05-26T16:24:23+00:00

If you're ugly/fat, we wouldn't make fun of you because we wouldn't want anyone to know we fucked you so we wouldn't even bring you up in the first place.

Archyblackcat · 2022-05-27T01:24:00+00:00

I have a friend who used to fuck model looking girls one day and the next day they were fucking a big BBW he would say “so what, pussy doesn’t have a face”

Liberaler · 2022-05-26T14:39:10+00:00

Yes, western hook up culture is totally decadent. But it's not just men, women do the same thing. Said situation is easily avoided, just don't immediately go to bed with the guy. This gives you time to check out the guy's personality and whether he is really interested in you.

yo_saturnalia · 2022-05-27T06:25:39+00:00

Don’t seek self worth from men and sex . Know your worth - so you are treated with respect. Anyone who disrespects you here is not worth your time .

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-05-26T14:11:29+00:00

Ask a guy when was the last time he got laid. If it was more than 2 months ago, you're probably just the girl he's breaking a dry spell with.

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2022-05-26T21:13:12+00:00

If you read pure shit like that on this sub you can rest assured they don't know jack about picking up women. Trust your instincts and you'll be able to spot those trolls a mile away irl.

2022-05-27T10:24:16+00:00

Find a nice guy to take care of you. Plenty of them on this sub

supersaturning · 2022-05-27T11:09:30+00:00

Trust, if you are ugly to them they will never mention it.

Own-Meeting5760 · 2022-05-28T03:45:21+00:00

Throwaway account, obvs.

This sub can be toxic, but the best way to see it is as a reminder that there are people like this in the world. Hookup culture rewards it, because the honest truth is that many people want the validation of being fucked even if just for a night. And that's fine - it's a whole culture for a reason, with people on both sides enjoying it!

However, you have no control of what happens afterwards and your partner owes you nothing. You might think you deserve some common courtesy/decency, but to them that just might not be in the contract. An ONS is just that.

The advice below is spot on: if you don't want to be in the game of being used, then don't play. Go on dates, don't have sex on first meeting and make deeper relationships. ONS aren't for you and that's fine.

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