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alent3976 · 2022-05-14T01:17:23+00:00

Grabbing the guys arm and holding on to it in public

tes_befil · 2022-05-13T23:08:18+00:00

Hold strong eye contact with a smile. A lot of men will not be able to handle that especially if your physically close to them.

orzhiang · 2022-05-14T01:44:10+00:00

Attack the back on my knees where the joints are. No man can stand straight for a few seconds.

rocksnstyx · 2022-05-14T05:28:06+00:00

Some of the things that really work on me

-Prolonged eye contact with a smile

-Sweet and affectionate

-Wearing a dress

-Easy to talk to.

-Low maintenance.

ta_nyc1090 · 2022-05-14T01:11:56+00:00

light innocuous touches on the arms or thighs

07paradigm · 2022-05-14T10:23:36+00:00

Make him feel manly and strong

Any-678-705Jace · 2022-05-13T22:46:58+00:00

Cook for me naked

Krouser1522 · 2022-05-14T00:41:29+00:00

This is not actually advice just a little humor as the sexiest thing a woman ever did to me..she purred like a cat into my ear and I just absolutely melted like butter..I still tingle all over thinking about it

NoDatabase1552 · 2022-05-14T05:50:48+00:00

I like bold and nonchalant.

Money_Biscotti6265 · 2022-05-14T02:11:32+00:00

Learn to parallel park on the first try and without being nervous. And when asked to make a decision, make one quickly. I'd be speechless and in love. Or at least lust. 😉

caesarfecit · 2022-05-14T15:24:58+00:00

Grace within vulnerability.

There's a lot of women nowadays who run in fear of their own emotions and desires. They fear losing control, and repress. Then wonder why repression inevitably gives rise to rebellion. It also undermines any natural charisma she might have.

The women who's game has really impressed me are the ones who don't keep their emotions rigidly controlled. These ones instead lean into and accept their emotions and drives. They work with them, rather than against them, and as a result they're empowered - because they're not in conflict with themselves.

To be female is to be vulnerable. It's an unavoidable fact of biology and life. That's why the best women are ones who transcend that and use it to magnify their beauty and charm, rather than hide it away, even from themselves.

It's not about being a tease or easy. Nor is it about chaotic or a manic pixie dream girl. It takes a certain amount of self-esteem to accept your own desire for the opposite sex and not be ashamed of it. You have to believe you have value first.

And I see far too many women out there who lack that self-esteem and try to find it in vain in the eyes of an adoring man.

I don't mean to sound all depth psychologist about it, but what I'm trying to drive at is that the girls with the best game are the ones with some self-esteem. Because all the right things flow from that.

It's one of the great ironies of game that many of the most basic truths and principles apply to both genders. In fact, I've come to use it as a litmus test to see if an idea makes sense.

patfetes · 2022-05-13T22:49:44+00:00

You could get more physically attractive by doing some exercise. Mainly squats for that booty.

But in all honesty, just be yourself. You are 20 you don't need to find a man straight away. You can just be single and live your best life. If you do want a relationship, then find someone who wants you for you. Don't force anything, like laughing at jokes or anything else.

Just be the best you Do stuff that betters you. Exercise, read, take up some hobbies.

If it comes to meeting a guy you like and you are at dinner or something. Just be yourself, IF you like him AND want to make a move. Touch them a little, hands and stuff like that. Or like bumping into them when you're walking, fake a trip and steal a kiss.

Obviously if you have trama from your past experience, take it easy, however it seems like it's something you want, make sure they want it too. As long as everyone is safe and you've vetted your date a bit you can move forward.

I'm pretty sure once you get passed that awkward initial moment you'll be just fine. If you make it past that part. Some nice underwear always does the trick. You can obviously do sexual seductive stuff from there....

Good luck

willgo-waggins · 2022-05-14T01:01:02+00:00

Smile. Be nice. Banter and be witty. Make small talk but allow things to get a touch personal to show you are a human being. Be kind. Don’t be needy but be willing to let him be a gentleman for you. Make your intentions clear and don’t play games.

Don’t be gold diggy. I know you’re young, but if you cannot afford to cover your own tab or pay your own way at least, don’t expect a man to do it for you. My girl is 33 and I have had to work hard to retrain her to understand that just because I pay for things doesn’t mean she has to fuck or suck me for it. It’s because I love her and enjoy doing things together or taking care of her. Sadly she learned that mentality because most guys these days do expect that. Be able to avoid that obligated feeling.

And I hope that you have done a lot of therapy and work. Things will come up. You will get triggered at some point. My girl was a drugged SA victim. Just a few weeks ago we were drinking and partying and we had gone to bed but she was overtired and strung out and I woke up to her fidgeting and went to cuddle her like normal and she got freaked out. This will happen. And you need to be ready and be ready to be honest and explain to a partner what might go on. That way they can be supportive and helpful and you will know before hand if they can handle it.

Good luck and I wish you the best.

EARLY20RAG3R · 2022-05-14T00:35:05+00:00

I love women that act silly and reckless

kanyesbathroommirror · 2022-05-14T06:54:56+00:00

Flirt with him. Buy him a drink. Ask him out.

Most guys would love to have a girl make the first move.

ElephantEarwax · 2022-05-14T12:22:41+00:00

What got me was just spending time with me, (sad I know), we watched a movie one night, ended up holding hands and then arm around her, when it ended she just laid there arms kinda around me just laying/leaning on my chest. I miss her, but it was never meant to be.

U-Gutz · 2022-05-14T12:42:44+00:00

Asking about my family. I feel like that alone is one of the biggest indicators of love and affection.

dutchmangab · 2022-05-14T12:59:36+00:00

This does not apply to all men, but a single firm slap and squeeze of a buttcheek works for me. Bonus points if it's in public and hard enough for people to hear 😂

I'm weird I guess.

AuremYT · 2022-05-14T13:52:19+00:00

The touch at the arm thing is intense

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-05-14T14:49:01+00:00

Codi_Banks · 2022-05-14T16:14:10+00:00

Anything that involves playful touching. Tickle his earlobe from behind. Squeeze his forearm or bicep. Playfully punch his shoulder. Tell him he has giant hands and ask him to compare your hand sizes, that gives you an excuse to touch palms.

Or do that thing where you tap a person's shoulder on the opposite side to trick them into turning the wrong direction. A girl did that to me at work an i still think about it sometimes lol.

Fluffy_Scarcity_5200 · 2022-05-13T23:00:44+00:00

Make a sandwich for me

revente · 2022-05-14T11:19:10+00:00

Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees?

Ass to mouth

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-13T23:51:35+00:00

Take your panties off.

nbh1995 · 2022-05-14T08:17:03+00:00

Since this is mainly a men's group I would advise you to ask women about it. Women are good at giving advice to women and vise versa. My advice is a good genuine smile...that always gets me.

AngeloMacon · 2022-05-14T04:36:24+00:00

Make the guy lose a staring contest.

ElephantEarwax · 2022-05-14T11:48:39+00:00

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zzzrecruit · 2022-05-14T03:56:25+00:00

People are going to say what they say, but being attractive is #1.

Black_Box0110 · 2022-05-14T10:07:27+00:00

Soft spoken feminine tone along with a touch of shyness is immensely attractive along with feminine clothing and general attitude befitting a woman. This will be the most attractive to those masculine, dominant, authoritative men because opposites attract. If you like those 'real men' and not weak, spineless boys that that profess their undying looooveee for you like its a Disney movie then following this pattern is the best one. Simply be pleasant to be around. Have a warm inviting energy towards him, be thoughtful, showing him you care etc...Thats what men are attracted to, a woman that is pleasant to be around, and brings you peacr and rest being with her. Always remember that attraction is NOT symmetrical, meaning; The masculine energy and attributes that make him attractive to you, those same masculine behaviours coming from you are not attractive to him at all, they are repulsive.

dawnofdon_ · 2022-05-14T04:41:58+00:00

Take your debit card while you are sleep and surprise you w an empty bank account 💀

Perfect-Freedom-9953 · 2022-05-14T11:38:03+00:00

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ifonlyYRUso · 2022-05-14T10:35:01+00:00

Settle compliments, laughing, eye contact, and most of all making him feel that your interested and excited to be with him.

blacksmith1993 · 2022-05-14T14:08:24+00:00

Being consistent and selfless

OkPersonality9620 · 2022-05-14T14:39:58+00:00

Start calling him daddy from the moment you meet him

nk9axYuvoxaNVzDbtFhx · 2022-05-14T17:45:34+00:00

Read the book The 5 Love Languages. Learn to quickly figure out what language and dialect a guy is. Play to that language. For example, physical touch (affection and meaningful sex) really fill my love tank fast. If a girl initiates or reciprocates affection, I fall for her quickly.

You will naturally express your love language. It will take some effort to learn to express love in another language. This is also a key to figuring out the language of another person. After reading the book, I discovered what my ex's love language is.

nk9axYuvoxaNVzDbtFhx · 2022-05-14T17:47:39+00:00

Read the book His Needs, Her Needs. When it talks about his needs, learn those behaviors well and become an expert. When it talks about her needs, learn what aspects you like and don't like. At this age, your SO will need some serious training when he is open to it. At older ages, your SO will need some fine tuning.

ImCoasting · 2022-05-14T18:55:02+00:00

We want to be admired and wanted. Also much respect to you for going out there again after what happened to you. Takes a lot of courage!

Greatsage2021 · 2022-05-14T21:33:51+00:00

The simplest flirt to help get a guy is to ask them "if i go home with you, what would you like to do to me?" It shows that you are open to exploring and also will help you weed out types of guys and their interests. If you are a girl who likes guys to take the lead then this is a good way of showing them that you are willing to be explored.

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