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DaydreamingMister · 2021-11-28T21:52:18+00:00

Remember this for the rest of your life:

When women like you, they help you. They make it easy for you to end up on a date with them.

If she’s not doing that, it is simply a sign of low interest. In which case you happily move on to the next dating prospect.

thisisallanqallan · 2021-11-28T22:39:56+00:00

Listen up matey. Do not text her.

bandsupjay · 2021-11-28T22:53:56+00:00

I know the ass is fat but chill bro. Leave her alone don’t waste time on people like that. U ruin ur self image doing things like that

Sticky__Fingaz · 2021-11-28T22:36:03+00:00

Time to move on from this one, man. If she hasn't respond back in months, it sound like she's isn't into you. I do know women who aren't the greatest texters but show a lot of interest when we're together. Months on read though... hell nah lol...especially if you initiated texts about hanging out... move on from her dude.

passingnotes26 · 2021-11-28T23:32:08+00:00

Your dopamine loop is tricking you into being addicted to her. Look up intermittent reward schedules.

Prekaz5000 · 2021-11-29T01:41:12+00:00

Let me tell you my friend the story of how a girl pretty much did the same to me but within literally 3 days after talking. She hit me up first legit saying how I was her dream guy etc, straight up creepy shit (she was cute ngl lol). She was the most immature girl I’ve met in my 20 years of life and I’ve met A LOT, we stop talking because she was 1000% sure I was a toxic POS because Leo’s are apparently “manipulative gas lighting bastards” LOL, one month later she’s back and pretty much feening again, when I left her on read, oh god, best feeling lmfao. I dodged a huge bullet brother. Point of the story is that, if it’s not meant to be, then it’s not meant to be! She left you on read, time to move on and do the same to her in the future because she’s not worth any amount of your time 🤴. It’s for the better my friend! Billions of other fish in the sea that are 1000x better! Time will prove this true! Good luck friend!

pialox · 2021-11-29T00:01:17+00:00

Being bored as fuck at work is probably a thing you should be focusing on more.

Ancient_Leader5572 · 2021-11-28T23:13:24+00:00

coming from another woman, if she left you on read 2 months ago, don’t text her. she’s not interested. if she was she would have responded or she would have messaged you on her own accord. sometimes we just like to flirt and then get bored (sorry that’s harsh, i know). it’s really nothing about you and more about us and what’s going on in our lives. but if she’s already putting this amount of low energy into getting to know you, nothing much is going to happen mutually and you’re going to find yourself in a situation where you’re the one who has to always put in the effort for anything to happen between the two of you.

IceBerg3000 · 2021-11-29T02:38:06+00:00

In needy times like this you need to use you handy dandy palm pilot ASAP.

2nd. Delete the number, delete the messages.

3rd rub one out again.

Rinse and repeat if problems persist.

MyName_isLame · 2021-11-29T03:27:45+00:00

She hits you when she’s attention starved, and there’s no one else feeding her ego. There’s somebody else right now. If you message her it will fall on deaf ears. She doesn’t care about you right now. She’ll be hitting you again when whoever’s feeding her ego no longer does and she’s thirsty again

kassra25 · 2021-11-29T02:10:52+00:00

Cut her off and move on

ProfessorZoom80 · 2021-11-29T04:20:37+00:00

Women are boring, dont waste your time with Them. You only interact with high interest women. If u want to do,do it, text her but she will do it again and u will feel much worse

intensely_human · 2021-11-29T04:22:50+00:00

Don’t text her.

dark_helmt8 · 2021-11-28T23:32:09+00:00

She's airtight right now with Todd and Chad balls deep in her at each end. And then you send her a text, which she would laugh at but can't because her mouth is full and there are two hands around her throat cause she's kinky. Just picture that scene every time you think about sending your funny little texts to girls who ghosted you.

Cookiedoe_11 · 2021-11-29T00:12:48+00:00

Clearly you don’t respect yourself enough to know when it’s over and to move in with your life. This girl doesn’t react you enough to reply to your messages yet you are focused entirely on her. She prop does not think about you at all.

Hornyonion · 2021-11-29T02:20:33+00:00

As someone veru accurately said

Is she talking with you or just responding?

Women love to talk about having guys talking to themselves.

Just think about how dumb this makes you look

2021-11-29T11:53:21+00:00

You just left her speechless bro

2021-11-28T23:05:01+00:00

Delete her number... I do this all the time, if she wants to reach out to you, then she has your number.

If a girl left me on read once, I instantly delete their number. Doesn't matter how long I know them.

That's her saying "I don't have to respond to you, you should chase me."

People are on their phones more than ever, if she left you on read, she is not worth the effort. IMO

MilkyTokesnGainz · 2021-11-29T03:47:29+00:00

You don't need anyone else to tell you, she already has by leaving you on read.

2021-11-29T06:32:59+00:00

What can help in a situation like this is to save her name as "Rachel-NOT A GOOD FRIEND" or something like that. I've seen this technique used by an ex and have tried it myself, the constant reminder is great.

2021-11-29T08:08:01+00:00

DO NOT TEXT HER. Don't force yourself to someone who has no time to reply your text. She is not interested. Move on.

govindreghu · 2021-11-29T08:18:24+00:00

Just tell your self that you are enough. Most of this texting urge comes from some sort of uncomfortable with accepting yourself as yourself. Also if she's leaving you on read , it means she isn't really interested. If you go on this cycle of texting and not getting the desired reply , it's simply going to hurt your self esteem one way or the other. Keep going king. You are enough.

AK1010 · 2021-11-29T09:47:43+00:00

What are you, a pussy. Stop being a simp and start being a man. If a girl is playing games move on to the next one. Stop wasting your time bro.

Voldyz · 2021-11-29T12:19:28+00:00

I'll second what everyone is saying: if she wants you, she'll be there. She'll help you make contact.

If she doesn't like you enough, or if you're not a priority for her: would you enjoy begging her for scraps of her attention?

bewaregravity · 2021-11-29T12:33:42+00:00

You're just the B or even C guy. When " A " and " B " are busy she hits you up. But as soon as they're free your GONE.

ye-sunne · 2021-11-29T13:26:01+00:00

Flaky attention always means she’s not actually interested in you and is just looking for validation, plus it’s usually accompanied by them talking to other guys because they want attention from multiple sources and in their head the less attention they have to give to each individual the less likely they are to expect commitment from her. Just avoid her and find someone who gives you the time of day and actually talks to you normally. Even if you’re star struck you shouldn’t set yourself up for disappointment.

Particular_Visual531 · 2021-11-29T21:18:37+00:00

Until you are in a fully committed relationship and you know she is committed you should be dating several girls. This keeps your mind off the ones that don't work out. This is so important because it's always true we want what we can't have, it's human nature. So you need to get out with others quickly and often!

2021-11-30T06:55:06+00:00

Like many of us who cling on, you’re stuck in a dopamine loop. It’s the same mechanism as being addicted to a substance that rewards you with diminishing returns for consuming it.

https://youtu.be/QmOF0crdyRU

Sensitive-Permit-877 · 2021-11-29T00:07:57+00:00

Dude find someone who will help you. Believe me man from an ugly guy who always gets this from every lady better to give up and move on. I personally have given up all together. But dont dwell and waste time

heatherleean · 2021-11-28T22:21:16+00:00

she doesn’t like you. “ women get who they want and men get who they can. “

Narcan9 · 2021-11-29T06:40:51+00:00

Simply the fact you're hung up on whether she read your message shows you're fucked. It's too bad you have that feature. First off, you shouldn't care if a women is afk for a few days. You're the one who should be busy.

Instead, a month into knowing a woman, she should be asking, "hey why does it seem to take so long for you to respond to my messages?" Sorry, I just have a lot going on. I worked all day, I needed to get in 90 minutes at the gym, my mom needed help fixing some lights at the house, and I taught an old lady at the nursing home how to use email.

Example* Send your message Thursday "hey want to hang out Friday?". Assume the answer is no until you hear otherwise. Make enjoyable plans with your friends. Forget about her. If she responds in time then see if you can fit her into your schedule. If not, too bad. You have better things to do. Maybe next week.

If she is unresponsive beyond 2-3 days, then you can assume she's not interested. No need to fret. Move onto the next woman.

18Mandrake_R00T5 · 2021-11-29T00:07:36+00:00

Resist the rude cute. Go find a nerd who loves you and DON'T fuck it up for at least a year🧐

2021-11-29T02:20:05+00:00

Maybe texting isn’t her thing, maybe she’s waiting for you to take her out not just text her

Mikkster643 · 2021-11-29T02:47:54+00:00

If she isn’t replying to you rest assured those cheeks are getting clapped by another dude. Block her and move on.

DoneWithTheAbuse · 2021-11-29T00:54:03+00:00

Find other things to occupy your time at work.

Leave her on read for two months.

Move on, she could be a thing later on. Right now she isn't showing the right replies to your advances. So move on and revisit it in 6 months. See if she shows ACTUAL interest. If not completely move on.

uliol · 2021-11-29T13:16:17+00:00

Attention whore? Wow. Maybe she sensed your raging misogyny.

bigpizza87 · 2021-11-29T06:04:28+00:00

Maybe there is/was someone else in the picture. If there was some chemistry then things are still possible.

If you have her on socials try her there. Send her a funny video or meme and see how she responds.

Brittany-OMG-Tiffany · 2021-11-29T06:36:22+00:00

you know what i do? delete their number and their thread. if they want to reach out to you, they will!

2021-11-29T06:38:55+00:00

I’ve been in this situation so may times, and the replies to this post are really teaching me a lot (mostly things I already knew on some level but refused to let myself accept). I’m glad I joined this sub.

dingbatmeow · 2021-11-29T09:42:06+00:00

On read?

Lotus_82 · 2021-11-29T09:48:20+00:00

Cause ——> effect You text her when you know she isn’t interested ——> she thinks you’re a pathetic simp and she thinks she’s hot shit.

Is that really what you want?

KxNGsReddit · 2021-11-29T11:29:39+00:00

Don’t

PartyWithArty44 · 2021-11-29T12:11:06+00:00

Bro get on tic tok fuck these unresponsive hoes lol

MrCrestfallen · 2021-11-29T13:07:31+00:00

It's been 2 months tho bro, plenty of time to find a new girl. Good luck!

ScuzeRude · 2021-11-29T14:13:52+00:00

Just a reminder: it isn’t “bad behavior” to not be interested in taking things further with you.

testandreview · 2021-11-29T15:41:21+00:00

She already "told" you...

2021-11-29T18:20:15+00:00

Don’t text her, next her.

aitaix · 2021-11-30T17:33:21+00:00

delete the message from your phone

and her number

her contact information

her everything

2021-11-30T18:02:24+00:00

Move on. This one is lost.

DankNuggetry · 2021-12-27T03:54:58+00:00

Text her, what do you have to lose.

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