[deleted by user]

thetapebaper1789 · 2021-10-21T02:54:36+00:00

The question is can you handle a baddie?

Chabubu · 2021-10-21T03:58:54+00:00

You have to become and deserve that which you want to attract.

Are you fit? Do you work out? Do you have goals? Drive? Focus? Passions? Why would this amazing girl that you want also want you back?

You gotta build the life and lifestyle that they will be attracted to. Then they’ll show up and you’ll have options

rickmackdaddy · 2021-10-21T06:27:52+00:00

I want a girl that every guy is jealous of.

Are you the guy that every girl is jealous of? If not, I have some bad news. Work on yourself first.

GhoulChaser · 2021-10-21T04:06:18+00:00

If you want it, work for it. Start working out, getting your weekly haircuts, buying nice clothes, maybe even a car( if you don’t have one) and have a decent job and woman will gravitate towards you. You do also have to put some effort in meeting new people also. Take a dance class, go to a local bar and just be a regular getting comfortable with people so when you do meet a “baddie” you’re in your comfort zone and confident all in one.

Potential-Avocado598 · 2021-10-21T04:46:41+00:00

Gotta work for one brotha. Work out. Start investing. Get a "sexy" hobby like cooking, guitar/saxophone, or dancing. Also, you shouldn't want a baddie. You should want someone who's right for you. That emotional connection beats having a baddie other guys are jealous of. Keep your mind open and work on yourself.

AddictedDepression · 2021-10-21T04:13:43+00:00

[permanently deleted]

jankybusinessman · 2021-10-21T06:23:36+00:00

You need a BADDIE therapist 😂😂

jesusisnice · 2021-10-21T04:37:15+00:00

You gotta be a baddie (in every way possible outside of looks) to get a baddie. Honestly most baddies are crazy ass little ladies so pick ur poison

Tusker1993 · 2021-10-21T05:52:32+00:00

Being there.. Done that.. But unfortunately they are not so radiant when you have one.. Most of them are just emotionally unstable.. So they try many guys to gain these balance.. One way or another, sooner or later you will regret for having hook up with one..

Women mature faster than us.. So a mature and humble girls are best.. Beauty is additional, because its the first thing to leave the party.. So dont rely on looks heavily..

Please never ever be in a relationship to make jealous for others..choose Relationship for your own peace of mind.. Its the only solutions for your problem here.. 🤝

Interesting-Fan-603 · 2021-10-21T02:59:23+00:00

Start meeting girls/ cold approach. Enroll in college. Constantly switch jobs for the highest consistent female environment. They're out there

2021-10-21T03:35:04+00:00

I feel the same way and I'm the same age

SoberSoldier520 · 2021-10-21T05:09:32+00:00

Most “Baddies” are worthless for relationships, I’ve worked with a bunch of them in my old job. They’re the girl that doesn’t take care of their kids and they’ve always have a few men with money that take care of them until the looks fade. Most can’t keep a real job and a lot of them have drug and mental health issues. I’m sorry, but the term Baddie is a complete turn off.

merchant_of_mirrors · 2021-10-21T05:18:49+00:00

put in the work, learn seduction. Fix your wardrobe. put yourself out there. The baddies aren't going to pull themselves. But if you are a high value man, you'll be able to pull several baddies no problem

Skelvir · 2021-10-21T06:16:37+00:00

Start focussing on yourself. Build a life that makes you happy, filled with hobbies and activities you enjoy. Start working out, stop watching porn, it hurts your mental health. Become the best version of yourself first. Trust me, girls will come naturally.

The truth hurts, but just having a girlfriend won't magically fix all your issues.

SuaveFuck · 2021-10-21T03:13:34+00:00

i want i want i want. sure you're not even entitled to her? we all want someone. just doesnt happen like that.

Dwaynedibley24601 · 2021-10-21T11:36:33+00:00

I see the problem... Your girlfriend is not a toy or a collectible... shes now for making others jealous. She's a person.. and a person you will spend a LOT of time with.. so what you should be saying is "I want a girlfriend that makes me feel awesome about myself, Is supportive of me, and pushes me to new heights of confidence and successes". You should be saying "I want a girl who does sexy stuff". The Baddie Girls are just not into equal partnering, they cheat, lie, steal and get away with it. Every young man wants to walk into the party with a 10 on his arm and it IS a great feeling... but wouldn't you rather have someone who makes you feel great all the time? You are only 21... lots of fish in the sea.. get out there and find her. You got to ask yourself... you have to do a fearless self-assessment... WHY don't people want to hang out... WHY are girls breaking up with you? If you have depression issues... welcome to the club.. go see someone... get it under control and get out there. There is a girl right now who wants YOU go find her.

CoinTimeU · 2021-10-21T04:01:30+00:00

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Sl7jz0qNbH0

2021-10-21T07:20:22+00:00

Honestly. They really aren't worth it. Usuly they're terrible to hang out with.it just takes some post-nut clarity to notice it most of the time. Maybe you just need to get it out of your system. If you manage to sleep with a few, you'll probably find yourself wanting to hang out with the nicer and more interesting girls after a while.

modidlee · 2021-10-21T13:10:33+00:00

The main reason you won't get what you want is because you want it so bad. Don't obey your thirst

Phauxcus · 2021-10-21T13:23:00+00:00

Everyone wants a baddie, until they're girl goes out looking like a baddie and all of a sudden the man has trust issues and is controlling. Then no one wants a baddie at that point. LOL.

WeakEmu8 · 2021-10-21T13:54:47+00:00

I want a girl that every guy is jealous of.

Ego. Check it.

MuertaDeLS · 2021-10-21T14:42:08+00:00

Moderators

Do you guys really think these posts are healthy?

panzer7355 · 2021-10-21T04:59:20+00:00

I want a girl with a mind like a diamond

I want a girl who knows what's best

I want a girl with shoes that cut

And eyes that burn like cigarettes

I want a girl with the right allocations

Who's fast, thorough, and sharp as a tack

Short Skirt/Long Jacket

IntroMystique · 2021-10-21T08:18:11+00:00

There’s 2 things that I would say:

Work on getting your life together.
Work on being physically attractive.

What do I mean by these?

Get your life in order. Things unfold a lot better when you have all your eggs lined up. You have a job, income, a vehicle, a place, a future, etc. Yes, this is hard to obtain, but it’s attractive. You’re only 21. Give yourself some time and don’t compare yourself to others. This is the quickest route to unhappiness.

One or two of the girls I’ve been attracted to in the past have labelled me as “focused” and it’s one of the best compliments you can receive.

Not to mention the confidence it gives you. When you’re life is in order, you have a unique, “quiet confidence” about you. People will pick up on it.

But like I said, give yourself TIME.

This is difficult for a lot of people, but be critical of yourself. If you were a “baddie” - as you quoted - would you date yourself? What are the pros and cons to dating you? Strictly on a physical level, not a mental level; that’s a different ball-game.

Are you underweight or overweight? Is your posture good? Does your hairstyle not frame your face? Do you have a weak beard that you really just need to shave off? Nice teeth? Do you have a skincare routine? Do your clothes fit? Are you clean and well-kept? How do you carry yourself.

These are the things that you’re telling the world to judge you on. Work on each of them and you will begin to feel attractive and confident.

Lastly, carry yourself with respect. Head up, chest out and shoulders back when you walk. Don’t walk around telling the world “I feel sorry for myself”. A great way to achieve this is by working out AND stretching - daily.

I started back at the gym several months ago and I’ve put on a moderate amount of healthy weight. My posture is better and I’ve achieved a lean, round, muscular appearance. My chest and shoulders - for example - are way more defined. Just yesterday I noticed how much more attention from women I gain when I’m in physical shape as opposed to the opposite.

So take your time and work your way through a list of improvements. And be realistic with yourself. Don’t concern yourself with being better than everybody else. Concern yourself with being the best version of YOURSELF. This is what will make you unique to a woman.

thiswaytoalltheporn · 2021-10-21T08:48:47+00:00

[permanently deleted]

yulemguysmmoja · 2021-10-21T08:58:16+00:00

Man you’re only 21!!! Stop rushing life and stop comparisons. Work on yourself brother and everything will workout!!

Whoopidiscoop1 · 2021-10-21T09:54:59+00:00

But, can you afford it ?

Sammy_TheLostBoy · 2021-10-21T12:48:44+00:00

Baddies are more trouble then they are worth my boy, I promise you...get you a girl with a bomb body and a 'okay face'...I promise she will appreciate the relationship more, and put in more effort than a baddie will. The baddies have most of the time been ran through and doted on so ther is often nothing you can do that hasn't already been done. Get you a But-her and skip the Baddie this is coming from a dude who has only dated baddies.

Darshk06 · 2021-10-21T07:21:17+00:00

you need to go to fight club every weekend.

mrrooftops · 2021-10-21T10:26:38+00:00

Be what you want so they can have their ideal too.

Mc_Dickles · 2021-10-21T06:31:11+00:00

LMFAOOO I don’t know if I’m being harsh but yo snoo ugly af so I feel like you are too 💀

Limitlesspappy · 2021-10-21T12:35:09+00:00

Are you making over 6 figures? Are you fit and masculine? You got mad clout on social media? You’re not getting a 9/10 baddie anytime soon. Go for a cute girl within your range otherwise. Be a man and lead them. Don’t be a feminine guy cus you will lose any girl like that.

MentalCelOmega · 2021-10-21T05:01:04+00:00

If you want a baddie, here is how you do it:

Step 1: Close your eyes.

Step 2: Imagine the baddie, sexy, smart, and funny female in your head.

Step 3: Are you imagining her? Good, because that's the only way you, me, or any sub 8 male can get one. In our imaginations.

Noblejunior · 2021-10-21T07:31:42+00:00

What you want is to improve yourself and all that you listed shall be grant to you easily on a platter

Buno_ · 2021-10-21T07:45:52+00:00

Yeah man, sorry, but a baddie isn't even remotely looking at you. They aren't looking at me either. Work on yourself. Find the positives. Find some fucking confidence.

effreek · 2021-10-21T08:11:42+00:00

be a good looking bad boy, then. That's who gets the 'baddies'

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-10-21T09:10:59+00:00

My brother who doesn’t want a baddie? It’s just majority of the time they tend to be whores.

RXisHere · 2021-10-21T09:37:41+00:00

do you love yourself? Honest question. If you don't like yourself why would an alpha chick like you. Work on yourself and it will happen.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-10-21T09:44:21+00:00

What the fuck is a baddie?

GravelRoad730 · 2021-10-21T14:01:21+00:00

Women love men in uniforms...so join the Marines!

theprufeshanul · 2021-10-21T09:02:36+00:00

Sell drugs.

templario765 · 2021-10-21T04:22:39+00:00

You’re my spirit animal brah😂😂. Feel you though we’re all gonna make it.

drekoho · 2021-10-21T05:27:41+00:00

This is the right place. Don't feel low, just rant on! We understand you!!

scenesick2 · 2021-10-21T06:51:22+00:00

if you want something you've never had you have to do something you've never done.

AsuraTheWonderer · 2021-10-21T12:06:44+00:00

You are most likely having one of the 4 moods that men have.

soccer-boy01 · 2021-10-21T13:57:42+00:00

You have to work on yourself. It has to be a mental shift. Im in the same boat, im only 20 myself, but what ive realized is to STOP CHASING. Working out, eating good or doing hobbies you like is way more attractive and fulfilling than constantly chatting up the next hot girl. If you haven't been good with them, you will soon. Keep grinding and improving yourself. It's a slow journey, but the rewards are immeasurable.

sammatheson · 2021-10-21T14:38:07+00:00

What things have you tried changing to get different results in your life?

Clumsysneaker145 · 2021-10-21T14:38:10+00:00

Being honest with you if you are ugly or fat or poor a girl with such a high caliber literally has nothing to gain from you she doesn’t owe you to date you if you don’t have anything in it for her she will find a girl more on her level. My advice is to get shredded, plastic surgery and/or get your money up

AOldschoolRULE · 2021-10-21T14:48:52+00:00

Whats a baddie?

Title	[deleted by user]
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	147
Comments	120
Date	October 21, 2021 2:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qchrd4/i_want_a_baddie/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/deleted-by-user.1273898 https://theredarchive.com/post/1273898

Comments