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gurnsey79 · 2021-09-29T09:15:33+00:00

Probably just don't do that

SlevinLe · 2021-09-29T09:38:35+00:00

You have no game experience. Flaunting your salary is try hard and will destroy any chances you might had with the decents girl. You will only attract gold diggers that will use you for your money while they fuck some other dude that has game.

LEARN GAME

Tannerite2 · 2021-09-29T09:25:59+00:00

Don't. Have nice things and experiences that display your wealth. Stories about your trips to Mykonos, expensive clothes and watch, nice car, etc. But if I were you, I would only flaunt those things when looking for a hookup, not a LTR.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-09-29T09:43:32+00:00

Let’s think about this for a second. How many men make less than $300k? A lot right? Ok now ask yourself how do all those guys get women if they aren’t making $300k? Genuine women do not care how much money you’re making. They want you for you. They want a real connection with a real man.

I used to be broke, sleeping on a mattress in a dining room for almost two years when I was 24/25. It never stopped me from getting girls.

ANewOriginalUsername · 2021-09-29T09:44:18+00:00

If you want to use your money to your advantage you'll have better luck just finding a hooker, it's easier and wastes less time.

If you're actually looking for a LTR, my advice is to try and keep your income as one of the last things to mention if possible

Vegan_Otaku · 2021-09-29T10:04:04+00:00

Never lead with your wallet or women will never respect you.

Be happy that women drop you. It is far worse if she stays because you have money.

Change your entire perspective on how women operate. Put in the work to be more social. Hit the gym, smell good, and study how to talk to women.

Hmu if you want some sources and advice. Edit: bro, hmu so I can put you on to the sauce. Not just the OP but anyone who wants to study.

I'll tell you what books to read, content to watch, places to go, etc.

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2021-09-29T10:14:39+00:00

You don't unless you're asked. Bragging about money is a huge turn off for most people. Just act like someone who earns 300k a year. Or if you really want to talk about it, talk about it indirectly (traveling abroad, expensive hobbies etc.).

Also even if you do attract someone by mentioning it, do you really want someone who is with you just because of your salary and not who you are?

Xabierku · 2021-09-29T10:59:52+00:00

Don't tell girls your salary, you have worked hard in your career path for that, just spend the money on things you like. You like tailored and hand made suits, buy a pair, you like nice watches buy one. And so on, I like cars so I will spend my money on nice car. Also keep working hard, genuine women like that, and tou deserve a nice and hard worker genuine women who also earns a good salary.

Voltz_got_a_potato · 2021-09-29T09:43:47+00:00

I have heard this is a turn off. Let her find naturally, use that salary to afford atleast a above than average car, regularly going to the gym, wear watches (I can't suggest which ones since it's your money), always be well dressed, own a good and well maintained property (or rent up to you), lastly have good assets as a back up so you have yourself figured out if your job goes out of the picture (you want a lady to support you not to just dig your gold).

MisterShogunate · 2021-09-29T09:48:49+00:00

Use the money to build a great life, have a great lifestyle and improve yourself. That will help your game several folds more than casually mentioning it.

SoberGerman · 2021-09-29T10:55:13+00:00

She take my money - when I'm in Neeeeeeeeed ....

Shadow__Account · 2021-09-29T11:35:54+00:00

I think it would be the equivalent of a girl showing her ass on her dating profile. Option one, you turn someone off, by making a stupid brag. Option two someone will decide to be with you because of your money. I don’t see any benefit from Enclosing your earnings. To come back to the ass, when a girl shows her ass, she basically says to me this is what I have to offer. This is how I value myself. So if I date her, it will be for the sex, she has already ruined her chance of a relationship with me. So maybe if your only goal is to get some sex you could get some golddiggers in bed by telling them how much you make

Seano16 · 2021-09-29T12:01:05+00:00

Time to take a deep look in the mirror and try to figure out your insecurities bro. It’s easy to hide behind money to try and get people to like you but it’ll just make you unhappier in the end. Self love bro

reddit5000000 · 2021-09-29T09:18:05+00:00

Learn game

originalmovingwater · 2021-09-29T11:03:32+00:00

As an interesting person, I suggest you travel and or develop true stories from experiences.

garrettcw18 · 2021-09-29T12:33:53+00:00

Don’t do that, people and especially women, can sniff any effort by a guy to talk them selves up. Let them find out on their own through your lifestyle, actions and attitude on life

Ironic_Resting_Face · 2021-09-29T09:58:48+00:00

Steer the conversation towards career and say how thankful that you have recently landed a job that you really like and will get you the opportunity to tick off things on your bucket list.

Don’t ever say the sum. And be clear on what it is that you want to do, your dreams and if you are generous. If you are not you should date within your income bracket. Nobody like to follow along to expensive stuff they can’t pay for themselves.

And have dreams. That requires someone to come along and enjoy them with you.

CLAPPERSFARGO · 2021-09-29T10:21:29+00:00

Don’t use your salary to impress women. They’ll either take advantage of you or see this as a way of you over-compensating for something. In your situation, it’s personality. Work on your game.

dontbanmeagaindudes · 2021-09-29T10:22:12+00:00

I want to use my salary to my advantage

Yikes...that's the only thing that you have to offer then? you're doing it wrong.

GrandRub · 2021-09-29T10:48:18+00:00

I want to use my salary to my advantage,

your salary isnt an advantage. your salary is a bait for golddiggers.

IntroMystique · 2021-09-29T11:24:20+00:00

Not something I’d advise to do.

Wait until a potential partner organically discovers this about you, it’ll be 10x more potent.

LightAtEnd · 2021-09-29T11:34:36+00:00

If you want a gold digger than just say it, if you want a girl just cuz of your money.

Reception_Queasy · 2021-09-29T12:43:10+00:00

Please don't do this OP. See if the person is interested in you. Anything and everything else needs to be something like an added benefit.

p00psicle151590 · 2021-09-29T13:07:08+00:00

Don't mention it verbally, it makes you sounds like a douche.

jessiepc145 · 2021-09-29T13:35:38+00:00

Mention it verbally and watch her lose interest. It seems to me that women find over flashiness/compensation as effeminate or insecurity. They really can read us like books. Like other have said. Let the way you dress, walk, and communicate do the talking

TheSunshineMan · 2021-09-29T13:52:44+00:00

Showing off my salary, taking trips all over the world to show off, get in better shape..

All of these don't solve the problem.

There's lots of good looking in shape millionaires with fancy cars who are still virgins..

Instead of trying to dance around what's really important..

Do the only thing that truly matters.

Just learn proper game.

That's how you get a consistent amount of girls in your life.. forever.

kazuechan · 2021-09-29T13:53:28+00:00

I wouldn’t mention your salary unless someone directly asks. You can just say you live comfortably.

Most people won’t bat an eye at dropping your salary once. Always managing to bring it up makes you sound quite arrogant. I can’t speak for all women but personally, salary doesn’t matter if it isn’t being spent on me. That’s like having a bank account with a billion dollar but you can’t access it. It’s useless.

Most people say never disclose your salary unless you want fake people around or gold diggers. However people can only take what you’re allowing. Only you can set the standard. A woman can’t use you if you never spend money. Let’s say a woman only entertains you for the money, she’ll be wasting her time if you’re not investing it in her. And you’ll still reap the benefits of her company until she decided to leave. Don’t spend/share more than you care to lose.

Most ppl should be making enough to take care of themselves, your salary doesn’t matter to potential partners until you’re legally tied.

GreatGalleti · 2021-09-29T14:46:52+00:00

Don’t mention your salary, show the benefits of your salary. By that I mean, show pics or speak about experiences you can afford with your salary. You went scuba diving in Seychelles? Talk about it. Bought NBA finals tickets? Show pics in your profile. Pretty simple. Let them wonder how much you’re making if you can afford these kinds of things

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-09-29T15:51:42+00:00

Don’t it’s non of their business. Only time you should tell anyone your salary is when your applying for a job or getting a mortgage.

Particular_Visual531 · 2021-09-29T16:57:23+00:00

Own who you are, instead of talking about money, talk about your unique skills and why a big company loves your work and what you've accomplished. Showing passion for your job and the rest will take care of itself. Smart women understand that if you're in a unique position at this firm that you're successful and well compensated.

axe122 · 2021-09-29T17:10:16+00:00

Don’t drop your salary in conversation man…… Worst idea ever.

You make great money but you don’t make yacht party money so all your doing is telling the girl you don’t feel your good enough for her but you come with long term provisions…….. This is how you get starfish sex and deAdbedroOm/ divorce papers when you thought things were going okay.

Let her see for herself over the course of dating that you have financial success and she’ll be e yea hot for you.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-09-29T17:42:43+00:00

You don’t. You give hints at it during the date. l

For example, by dressing with high end expensive clothes (armani, dolce gabanna,…), wearing nice watches (rolex, apple watch,…etc) wearing cool sun glasses (rayban,…) and perhaps picking her up in your nice car.

You don’t directly say ever “hey i make so much money, or i am very well off as you can see” because that’s cringy as fuck as well as offensive for many women, because it suggests that they you think they will drop their panties because of that, as if they are gold diggers.

So just dress nice, with nice shoes and girls will be smart enough to tell, that your finances must be good, without the need to tell.

However don’t go overboard trying to impress her, don’t try to go to mega expensive restaurants or anything, just be casual and try to be liked more by your personality.

don’t try to make a big deal about your finances and act humble around it as if you didn’t even think of that and you will impress far more because you are not trying hard unlike other guys.

betterme2610 · 2021-09-29T19:06:14+00:00

Never have told a woman what I make, and typically can stay more busy than I desire. You’re doing yourself no good by sharing private information like that, especially money. Attracting the wrong attention, while looking insecure.

jestercake · 2021-09-29T19:27:27+00:00

Don't

OwYouHitMeInMyWienew · 2021-09-29T21:55:31+00:00

It should never come up.

2021-09-30T06:50:27+00:00

You belong on r/wallstreetbets this is not financial advice

Brandonva804 · 2021-09-30T12:58:23+00:00

Dude if you make 300K you can have any women you want

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