Left my number on her truck

NotyouraverageAA · 2021-06-18T20:05:46+00:00

Didn't look at your original post OP but I don't see how that was creepy. Helping someone out, striking up a conversation, and then giving them your number for them to text you sounds pretty normal way to meet someone.

Global-Bridge-6787 · 2021-06-18T21:22:21+00:00

Dude that’s like old school game our fathers and grandfathers might even pull. Nothing wrong with that at all.

delabole · 2021-06-18T22:15:43+00:00

My son wrote his shy friend's phone number on the receipt in a restaurant. She called him. They were in a relationship for months.

ImJustSo · 2021-06-18T21:10:33+00:00

I mean, you had an interaction with the girl beforehand and weren't creepy. Why does this go against this "sub's advice"? Who told you not to act normal in normal situations?

Genuinely not my understanding of all the literature out there, but I've only been reading things here for like 8-9 years and contributing for 7 or so. So perhaps I'm not in the same circles you find yourself in here.

rupeshsh · 2021-06-19T02:36:33+00:00

Straight out of the movies.. Hot Girl with broken down car, isolated road.

Oh and it's not creepy. even your message is pretty well done.

You could be a copywriter

Laizzes_faire5-3000 · 2021-06-18T20:05:11+00:00

Smooth

Mundizzle1 · 2021-06-18T22:44:48+00:00

Actually that was a good move (Thumbs up)

2021-06-19T03:54:10+00:00

You pushed a pickup truck? Are you goku? No wonder she texted you back man, good job

McBlakey · 2021-06-18T19:59:06+00:00

Nice one bro!

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2021-06-19T11:53:07+00:00

This is a perfect example of how taking any shot is better than wimping out completely.

In this case, the huge favor you did for her bought you so much credibility that your passive approach seemed cute instead of pathetic. She could instantly picture how she'd re-tell the origin story if it turns into a relationship. "I was stuck and he saved me and then he left me this adorable note..." Awww, straight out of a sappy movie.

Unless you plan on running around as a superhero all day, though, you'll usually have to build that credibility with smoother moves in more mundane settings.

tl;dr: Congrats! But your overall results will get wayyyy better if you learn how to be more direct.

OrlandoLasso · 2021-06-18T21:25:38+00:00

What did she say?

ddrj · 2021-06-19T00:14:41+00:00

Thank you SO MUCH for going against seddit's advice. Last time you posted, a bunch of people shit talked you. Most people here don't even approach or are women and give you advice on how they would like to be approached. Trust me... only take advice from people who do the actual approaching. You wouldn't ask a beggar for stock advice right? Good shit

RockIsMyth · 2021-06-19T03:05:34+00:00

Awesome. I tried this once and she never contacted me. Saw her 5 years after and was very glad she never reached out. Glad it worked out for you!

RobotGrapes · 2021-06-18T23:43:01+00:00

Old school game, hell yeah

merchant_of_mirrors · 2021-06-19T01:01:14+00:00

Congratulations brother, that was perfectly executed. Nothing creepy about it. You established rapport and then left her your number. No pressure and no creepiness. Just be prepared for the shit tests

Winter_Department_87 · 2021-06-19T05:44:02+00:00

I have definitely done this one and it worked, because it puts the ball in their court. So I don’t see it as creepy at all. With the caveat that you leave it alone if they don’t call.

RustyToaster206 · 2021-06-19T09:39:30+00:00

Women love that shit bro. Tiny little things like that is what makes them want you! Obviously if you push way too hard when you shouldn’t be pushing at all, or are persistent when you’re told off, then yeah you gotta stop! But there’s absolutely NOTHING wrong, with shooting your shot with honest-to-god good intent.

Formal-Confidence-91 · 2021-06-19T12:22:37+00:00

You took action. Congratulations. This is all that’s required.

Rheastar · 2021-06-19T00:05:48+00:00

Definitely not creepy. Sweet and a very nice way to give your number. Says this woman :).

dracomatic · 2021-06-18T20:30:31+00:00

nice

Snoo-20788 · 2021-06-18T23:20:51+00:00

The word 'creepy' was invented by women who have a much too high opinion of themselves and, instead of being grateful for getting some male attention, will berate any man who approaches them. Unless the man in question is an 8, 9 or 10.

rdotskip · 2021-06-19T08:33:07+00:00

Would it have been worse to ask her right after like face to face or did he do it perfectly? Just thinking in my head this situation is so rare like after he pushed the car out she didn’t leave asap? Gave him enough time to do all that. Awesome

Armybert · 2021-06-18T23:03:42+00:00

Are you handsome? I bet you are

TheBYOBShow · 2021-06-18T22:01:40+00:00

You go man. Creative and bold. Welcome to the big leagues.

FlippaDaPostman · 2021-06-18T23:53:10+00:00

Nah thats jus old school asf and nothing wrong with dat

conker1264 · 2021-06-19T03:35:53+00:00

I wouldn't call that creepy. Creepy would be knowing which vehicle is hers without actually talking by the vehicle.

TraditionTraditional · 2021-06-19T03:41:06+00:00

I wish this would happen to me. I think it’s… a little romantic.

seasonedcamper · 2021-06-19T03:53:48+00:00

Had a guy do this to me once. I texted back.

Mommaloo_steamylit · 2021-06-19T04:06:02+00:00

I didn’t see the original post either, but that would have worked on me too! Cute, flirty, original and not pushy! Good job, man! Good luck!

slaphappypap · 2021-06-19T06:36:37+00:00

Not creepy at all.

I’m going back to the drug store next week that I delivered food to on Thursday and am going to ask a gal out to coffee if she is interested. I was too caught up in work mode to seize the moment, but it seemed like she was eyeing me up and being extra nice. She wasn’t the one receiving food btw, I bought a Gatorade while I was there. I thought about her for the rest of the day, super cutie with a great personality.

If she says yes, then sweet. If not I never patronize that store anyways and it won’t make anything awkward.

Sparkle-Tits- · 2021-06-19T07:26:20+00:00

Ooooo! I LOVE this! You charmer, you!

ImeanNoHarm521 · 2021-06-19T08:03:54+00:00

Who the hell names their child “guy who gave ya a push”? What is that? Russian?

SIR_SKINNYPENIS69 · 2021-06-19T08:38:38+00:00

It'd only be creepy if you hadn't spoken to her first. This is totally fine.

GrandRub · 2021-06-19T10:12:48+00:00

nice!

but my dirty mind thinks of all those crazy "bro i got stuck" movies... :D

SR3249 · 2021-06-19T20:38:11+00:00

Sounds like it's straight out of a chick flick. Would watch it. Keep us posted as it's a cute story (and not creepy)

Title	Left my number on her truck
Author	Cobbler_Calm
Upvotes	582
Comments	62
Date	June 18, 2021 7:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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