FELLAS I NEED HELP!

_Broatmeal_ · 2022-04-29T12:07:47+00:00

Sounds like you’re just nervous for a date. In that case just be yourself and prepare the same way you’d prepare to go out in public. Don’t rely on a thread on seduction to dictate your mindset

whotfisyouidknikka · 2022-04-29T12:06:34+00:00

If you’re not the rich guy be the fun guy. If you’re funny even better. Don’t clown yourself and look like a goofball though. If she agreed to the date there must be something about you she likes unless she’s using you for a meal or something.

longtonguebooty · 2022-04-29T13:03:11+00:00

Well good news! Is she’s rich and wants to go on a date with you then that clearly means she actually likes you and isn’t tryna get a free meal or some BS

electrisio · 2022-04-29T12:28:43+00:00

You can’t pretend to be something your not. The answer is to have an abundance mindset and roll with the waves.

DingusPrimeHere · 2022-04-29T13:23:40+00:00

Imagine her taking a huge, monster smelly shit. Would you be so nervous then knowing this?

VDKay · 2022-04-29T14:18:03+00:00

Hey mate, I don't think you should be treating her any differently. What would you do if she wasn't rich, or you didn't know if she's rich or not? Do exactly that. If she complains for anything, just keep your cool and don't let yourself fall into her frame.

Having said that, and provided you are not going for a dinner date nor any too fancy cafe (I hope you aren't), insist on pay for her, but suggest that next time, the drinks are on her (I'd make it a half-joke to ask her to take you to one of her favorite fancy places)

stapleduck112 · 2022-04-29T14:22:47+00:00

She wants to go out with you because she likes you. Don’t try to keep up with the Joneses on this one…women like men who have boundaries. Enjoy it, and if its not perfect that is ok too. Confidence will be a good thing to have.video short

dcreased · 2022-04-29T14:31:07+00:00

Yeah best things to keep in mind is, nice rich people are still people, assholes are assholes regardless of money so don't pressure yourself on the material choice, if she like you she'll like the places, if she's worried about status or social stuff and puts you off shes not worth it. 2nd thing is a trick to deal with anxiety, keep in mind that a lot of people can, or have bad hygiene. I'm not saying it's necessary the case, just keep in mind that some people don't know how to wipe well, and while that might be off putting, it's a neat trick to keep yourself in check when you mentally compare yourself to someone else. Good luck!

(P.s, instructions are clear, keep only for yourself that thought!!)

Cookies993 · 2022-04-29T14:44:18+00:00

You’re already done with the hard part which is getting her to want to go on a date with you, now it’s time to enjoy yourself, have some fun, show her the good, funny, confident you, and don’t try to be rich and show off if ur not, just be urself and enjoy the date, calibrate and escalate

And so what if you fuck up, you already got a good looking rich date, you can get another one

cozygrunt · 2022-04-29T13:18:15+00:00

Bhai mere pareshaan naa ho, go with the flow is a better thing than anybody else, just know your value, and be aware of the fact that nothing is more important that you, for atleast you, while being a nice man. By nice man, I don't mean a doormat, just be yourself and kind, and dont let any shit test faze you.

Agar kuch samajh naa aaye toh take a deep breath and take time to think and then take the action. But don't overthink.

AyWhatITIS · 2022-04-29T15:30:58+00:00

FELLAS! lol take some magnesium glycinate lil nigga

Zangief89 · 2022-04-29T12:52:44+00:00

Just play the question game with her. Google question game pua. Then you’ll be fine

Danrob91 · 2022-04-29T13:08:05+00:00

Go somewhere you're comfortable going, balls in your court.

thighclapsz · 2022-04-29T14:40:20+00:00

I think the point of going on a date with someone is to have a genuinely fun time. It doesn't really matter how much you spend or how grand you make it but how you both feel spending time with each other. Just make sure you both have a great time and try to make a genuine connection with her. I hope it goes well !

Sandvicheater · 2022-04-29T15:06:14+00:00

Take her to Denny's. If she likes you she won't care, if she doesn't she will care.

akiba1227 · 2022-04-29T15:43:47+00:00

Just be yourself man. You're on a date because you want to find out if she the person is compatible with you, not her pockets.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-04-29T15:46:43+00:00

U just need to consider that she already got money so she is more likely to be attracted to and interested in the person that you are instead of what u have to offer, the conflict of interest that exist when dating a broker or equal woman don't exist in this situation, if she agreed to go out with u that means she likes something about you, all u have to do is not fuck up, just be chill and laid back and avoid the basic big turnoffs and ur good.

OddFill8336 · 2022-04-29T16:11:30+00:00

Just do like in the movie titanic. Introduce her to poor/mid class social culture/shops/caffes. She might not feel confortable but at least it makes her experience new things.

Thought that perphaps might help: If i was rich where i could buy whatever i want...

knueverl17 · 2022-04-29T16:27:21+00:00

Never fails to amaze me, the problems we create in our heads.

redditor4206903 · 2022-04-29T16:42:10+00:00

Bro, it dont metter if you are poor or rich. As long as you know you haven't been procrastinating and have been working hard to make sure money comes in later. Than you should be okey, you should also be okey with her dad.

But if you have been a fake cunt playing games. Learning how to be an alpha male from youtube and listening to advice like fake it till you make it. Also if you have been lazy af. Than leave the bitch alone for someone who can treat her better. Unless she ugly.

coldbrew18 · 2022-04-29T17:21:36+00:00

Is her dad rich? Because if he is take her out for a meal. If her dad is poor just do what you feel.

jatinr3 · 2022-04-29T17:38:04+00:00

Upadte guys! Just made out with a girl today! Excited about tomorrow

wetsock10 · 2022-04-29T17:40:51+00:00

Just know she’s a human and that money doesn’t mean anything! You two were attracted to each other for reason! Go out there and TAKE CHARGE LAD!

creamyturtle · 2022-04-29T20:23:26+00:00

just know that for every beautiful woman, there's a man out there who's sick of her shit

mabden · 2022-04-29T20:51:32+00:00

I meet a guy, dick job, crappy apartment, kind of a slob, but he had hot chicks in and out of his apartment all the time.

I asked a mutual friend, what's going on here?

They are rich girls with daddy issues who come over to get high, fuck this guy as a,sort of fuck you to dad.

If you have confidence in your self as who you are, what you do and where your headed in life....

don't give a fuck about how rich/hot this chick is, she is just a chick who you want to find out if she is worth your time.

jatinr3 · 2022-04-30T07:47:19+00:00

Lmao she flaked on me

originalgainster · 2022-04-29T13:39:41+00:00

Don't worry, it'll be all over when she ghosts you soon.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-04-29T14:15:12+00:00

Relax.

jatinr3 · 2022-04-29T11:57:41+00:00

It's already doomed even if this date goes well

frenkoy · 2022-04-29T16:44:28+00:00

Perhaps being like pete davidson being funny would bag you a few rich or celebrity type of women. Speaking of which does he have a book or something about his sexploits?

VitaliRayne · 2022-04-29T12:02:51+00:00

What's your objective with this relationship?

Jerbear3454 · 2022-04-29T13:04:15+00:00

Just be yourself and if she can’t deal with it then it wasn’t meant to be

Legitimate_Delay · 2022-04-29T14:31:48+00:00

BRO you are not rich isn't that fucken awesome ! That's what makes you exciting dude. Just say poor ass story like how u lived in a broke ass hostel where u had to share a room with 8 people and guy shat on the bed .it was a nightmare

Like such kinda stories make it advertising imo

youcheekydelinquent · 2022-04-29T14:53:06+00:00

This date doesn't matter; life is ultimately meaningless.

AdministrativeLove97 · 2022-04-29T15:08:54+00:00

Fuck it bro! She gon want you or she won’t. I mean you’ve gotten this far. Be your most confident self dawg. You got this homie!!

krispykreme01 · 2022-04-29T15:31:10+00:00

Chew gum, it makes you less nervous. Also just have fun, crack jokes tease her a bit, and see the vibe. Don’t be afraid to go for the kill if you feel the vibe is there.

Scared money don’t make money.

Sweaty-Ad8574 · 2022-04-29T16:16:36+00:00

Cliché, just be yourself. No really. You like her and she probably likes you, else why plan an event together? Act as if you normally do around your friends, peers, or siblings. That is how you be yourself. For me at least, with a girl I liked, I never denied my feelings, but always made it a point in my mind that we're still friends right now and if any of my topics or displays catch her attention I would use that to know more about her. Being shy and nervous isn't a bad feeling either, means you're alive. Another person makes you feel alive. Be happy that you feel so much regardless of the turnout.

agpc · 2022-04-29T16:28:02+00:00

Fake it til you make it fella

BenNewcomb1 · 2022-04-29T16:43:09+00:00

Your cortisol levels are high so do something fun before you meet her so you're in a good state of mind. Be entertaining. That's all you need to do. Don't worry about how much money she has, whether yiu can take her to fancy places, etc.

But do create a fun experience.

For example, I took a woman on an international super spy date. She loved it. Nerf guns, silly talk about taking out targets, being playful is powerful. So go have fun.

der_zog · 2022-04-29T17:10:46+00:00

all that anxiety is going to be a huge cognitive load for you and might make you do silly things. But that's alright, It is an endearing quality to fumble from time to time. Also I can see why it can be intimidating if she's super rich but snap out of it, she's going out with you. Just have a little drink or a bong rip before you go see her and have fun. Get to really know her and shit

lefthandedaf · 2022-04-29T17:39:42+00:00

Always keep in mind that a ton of girls will flake, so you might be getting all psyched up for nothing. Not trying to be negative, just letting you know.

thesunfk · 2022-04-29T17:57:31+00:00

In my experience rich girls are the filthiest

lutk78 · 2022-04-29T19:19:16+00:00

Just remember rich girls love bad boys and if she is that rich it won't matter if you are not. As long as you are not a lazy deadbeat, have some goals in place and employed you are golden

Terrible-Surprise718 · 2022-04-29T19:30:47+00:00

For me theres this girl I've been dying to talk to her but she's of those mean girls so I'm nervous asf to talk to her

TheAestheticKing · 2022-04-29T19:37:45+00:00

My advice — play to win but give yourself permission to fail. Ever notice how when you try to not fuck it it gets fucked up, and when you care less you prosper? So much of dating is about the energy you exude and women pick up on that subconsciously. Literally go in there saying yes this can go wrong and I might be naturally anxious a little but imma go in the batting cage and give it my best swing. You got this champ, I’m rooting for you 👏🏻

thaughty · 2022-04-29T19:54:03+00:00

Get a drink with as little caffeine as possible

DeJuanBallard · 2022-04-29T20:02:37+00:00

Workout before you go, the pump and muscle tension will make you look better and feel ripped, and you'll be too tired to exhibit the typical nervous behavior ie. Tapping foot , bouncing leg , being jittery or fidgeting.

Take a shot or 2 of liquor , it's a depressant but it won't cause you to be inebriated, you'll appear more relaxed, less self conscious and more comfortable.

Beat your meat before you go, less tension, and more relaxed.

tigersgowoof · 2022-04-29T20:31:58+00:00

I dated a girl with a rich dad and bought her anything and I was intimidated . Insecure of my finances for sure , but looking back just have enough to be able to take her on a date and enough to have fun with nothing to extreme , if she likes you , she likes you regardless of your pockets . We dated for 5 years if that helps.

mtgxbuster · 2022-04-29T20:37:13+00:00

Stay in your financial lane man, you'll thank yourself later

Peacefulwarfare · 2022-04-29T21:14:17+00:00

Especially if it’s just the first date, don’t go anywhere expensive. Tacos and drinks are fine 👌🏿

Minimum_Boss_6540 · 2022-04-29T21:35:28+00:00

Good luck brave person.

Spinuchi · 2022-04-29T21:35:36+00:00

Paint your dog gold with spray paint you will be good

Title	FELLAS I NEED HELP!
Author	jatinr3
Upvotes	96
Comments	107
Date	April 29, 2022 11:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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