For the haters

vardarac · 2022-05-17T21:06:59+00:00

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sliphitz · 2022-05-17T20:47:01+00:00

The internet is generally a place for people who lack social skills of course it's full of pc idiots and white knights.

7Birdies · 2022-05-17T22:07:28+00:00

Right on brody. Ain’t nothing wrong with taking initiative to respectfully date, have sex, or get in a relationship.

2022-05-17T22:06:55+00:00

I saw the curvy post too, the guy just needed advice but since this is Reddshit the white knights jumped to attack.

AutistNerd · 2022-05-17T23:49:31+00:00

English is my second language. Do you think i can do cold approach? Is that a disadvantage in dating?

2022-05-18T00:32:09+00:00

Cold approach changed my life. Before knowing the dynamics I couldn’t approach anyone.

Now, I set records in sales. My life is easier. I’m a better person.

The_Snake_Plissken · 2022-05-18T00:55:32+00:00

No cold approaches, no human race (before the Internet).

itsazdeen · 2022-05-18T01:32:08+00:00

Someone had to say that. It's Ok if you're newbie but If you're really don't believe in cold approach you shouldn't be in this community, period

ProductivityMonster · 2022-05-18T01:40:10+00:00

reddit is overrun by female supremacists in certain subs. Their "advice" on dating for straight men is extremely biased against men. They also lack the nuance to explain how to do it correctly and instead give horrible blanket advice like never approach women in public. The biggest takeaway from this is that there are assholes of both sexes and many of them are on reddit.

It's honestly more entertainment than taking them seriously at this point. The dating subs are a joke. When you see blatantly oversimplified posts like "why is it bad if I (a woman) like physically attractive men" get 500+ upvotes, you know it's a joke of a sub.

Alecstocker · 2022-05-17T23:34:24+00:00

I agree with you 100 percent man. Doing things old school is the best. You have to make an effort and conquer nerves and be brave instead of just hiding behind social anxiety. It's normal to feel nervous. It's like any anxious feelings are always chalked up nowadays to crippling anxiety. Most nervous feelings are normal and human. I never have done dating apps and never will. It's not as genuine. You can't hear the tone of their voice. See their facial expressions. They can't see you. Cold approach is a gift and I don't care what critics say. If you do it in a nice natural way it's not creepy at all.

OuchCharlieOw · 2022-05-18T00:32:08+00:00

Sometime around the beginning of the pandemic or maybe before, a large amount of incels and a large amount of women joined and now post and comment in this sub. I’ve lurked for years and can see the difference in trends. This was very much a pua/cold approach/field report subreddit a long while ago now idk what

ExtremeNihilism · 2022-05-17T23:00:57+00:00

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willgo-waggins · 2022-05-17T23:03:08+00:00

There is a vast difference between cold approach in a decent, normal and gentlemanly fashion, and being an aggressive asshat and harassing women.

I think you’re getting a little sensitive in your special spots with your post OP. I don’t see hardly anyone here saying that you should not cold approach in an appropriate way. I do see others and myself criticizing the overly aggressive and PUA based crap.

InfectionRx · 2022-05-17T23:08:00+00:00

whats the COLD approach

ExchangePowerful3225 · 2022-05-18T02:56:48+00:00

Lmfaooo the guy who posted about calling a woman curvy on a dating app WAS a fucking weirdo… it was a pretty unanimous consensus that he should not have said what he said. How is that “unbelievably PC” or related whatsoever to your point about the cold approach? 🤨

jsbach123 · 2022-05-18T00:50:12+00:00

I haven't read any post that tells others not to cold approach. But I've read reasonable posts to suggest doing the PUA thing is a bad idea (which it is). Is it possible these two things (being a PUA and doing cold approach) are mixed up? They're not the same things.

Rich-Anteater-9468 · 2022-05-17T22:25:51+00:00

Use dating apps if they work for you, way more efficient than cold approach.

Honest_Confidence804 · 2022-05-17T21:20:57+00:00

so genuine question, when doing cold approach, you only approach women based on their appearance. don't you think it is f***ing shallow? how on earth you know you guys have compatibility on a minimum level? or you are after casual sex only?

Adjustedwell · 2022-05-18T01:12:32+00:00

Cold approach is pick-up. Everything else is a a relative of pick-up.

Title	For the haters
Author	finallypickup
Upvotes	121
Comments	64
Date	May 17, 2022 8:43 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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