Yes, all the advice and books on seduction are important and hold golden information, but all of it comes second to the greatest advice you will ever hear. "You are nothing. Everyone is basically nothing." You are just smaller than a grain of sand in the time of the universe and everything you do will be forgotten in the infinite time of universe. No one really cares what you do and we are just biased. Go out and ask the woman you find attractive out, be super confident, if she rejects you, then who cares, it is NOT that important. Learn from your mistakes and move on. One day you will not be here. Use your time as most effectively as you can and enjoy the hell out of it.