How To Have A Killer First Date Every Time

MikepGrey · 2019-12-02T01:44:25+00:00

How to have a killer date? go out with a axe murder naturally...

doriangreat · 2019-12-02T00:34:07+00:00

This is all great advice. One more thing for date prep, clean your house and your car! Even if you throw everything in the closet.

jh1871 · 2019-12-02T03:56:00+00:00

I’ve always seeded the pull by asking what their favorite Tv shows are early in as a convo piece, and then discussing one that we have a common interest in or whatever, and then towards the end of the date bringing it up again to pull. Never heard of the term though, but I seriously like those terms. I can definitely attest to the efficiency of “seeding the pull” though.

LogeDoge · 2019-12-02T04:22:29+00:00

I have several questions for this:

How do you get her to take her back to her place if you don’t have one of your own?

How do you pull her back to your place if you live 30 minutes away from any decent dating locations?

What should I do if I repress my sexual feelings and keep thing platonic for the 1st-3rd dates because I want an ltr?

What if she really has to go and can’t stay?

pgokc12 · 2019-12-02T00:18:07+00:00

Wow bro, top notch shit

itzReborn · 2019-12-02T00:09:16+00:00

I want to start dating next year and this seems helpful. Hopefully I can put into practice the things I’ve read here over the years.

ZlatanAgrees · 2019-12-02T01:14:29+00:00

Good job, thanks for your effort. Now i need dates to try this.

SeriousBoy2591 · 2019-12-02T09:05:00+00:00

And I thought god don't exist

TheDoctorDreh · 2019-12-02T06:52:58+00:00

The mentioning of axe murderers makes you very suspicious... Mr. Bateman

Great post, though, deserves all the awards it can get. Good to see that I did at least one thing right with the coffee date.

bertamous_bagel · 2019-12-02T07:46:33+00:00

Very solid advice. Spot on.

TheUltimateAntihero · 2019-12-02T11:24:31+00:00

If, however, she agrees to watch the show, lead her to your car (or her car if you don’t have one), or get an Uber, and keep doing what you were doing.

And how to go from there to having sex? Let's say you watch the show, what do you say next to hint sex?

bxnziez · 2019-12-02T01:19:08+00:00

I love reading breakdowns like this but the only problem for me is I’m 17 and obviously don’t have my own place.

anonymous478569 · 2019-12-01T20:51:33+00:00

Hah. Its you again.

SwableKing · 2019-12-02T05:56:51+00:00

This has so much info! Amazing work!

BurnablesOnMondays · 2019-12-02T08:59:31+00:00

physicality can be useful in that it will give you objective feedback that a girl likes you.

Do you have some tips for reading the feedback? I don't have a good benchmark since I never gamed back in the US, but I imagine if the girl is receptive to physicality she doesn't just accept it, she reciprocates. Is that correct?

I'm finding that here in Japan, girls don't reciprocate as much, but they also don't pull away or reject it. Given the submissive/polite culture, I'm not sure how I should read it. If I'm gazing into her eyes with intent, and I see those sparkles of attraction in hers when she holds my gaze, but the physicality is only being accepted without being reciprocated, should I continue to escalate?

le_GoogleFit · 2019-12-02T06:53:35+00:00

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loveopenly · 2019-12-02T10:03:49+00:00

I like the effort you put in Averyghayden

Atriev · 2019-12-02T10:25:57+00:00

This is good. I’d like to hear your input on initiating physicality and eventually, sex, while you guys are watching Black Mirror. I think this is valuable and is the missing piece of his post.

blaj91 · 2019-12-02T11:22:48+00:00

Good advice!

Involo · 2019-12-02T12:23:05+00:00

Very good: I have a house that is big for me but I don't have a car, how do I invite it to go out? This problem is unsolvable, I tell you. The car is essential for the first appointments.

ffatihsann · 2019-12-02T12:24:26+00:00

I miss Victorian times. Things are much simpler than

iedaiw · 2019-12-02T13:02:21+00:00

Most important thing to any date is just to have fun. Make sure both parties are having "the time of their lives" and thats all you need

Spacemage · 2019-12-02T13:35:34+00:00

This information looks like it will help make a date fun16.

2019-12-02T14:17:32+00:00

I'm dislexic and I read "How to have a first date with a killer every time".

Seamonster13 · 2019-12-02T14:23:50+00:00

I wish I saw this 3 days ago. Great post.

Snowpeartea · 2019-12-02T16:02:41+00:00

Do I follow this template if her and I are already friends since we do this common activity let's call it "weekly volleyball" together?

AlMasrii · 2019-12-02T18:17:47+00:00

Very good thanks alot

Aghayden · 2019-12-02T18:21:01+00:00

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orangemanbad16 · 2019-12-03T06:48:01+00:00

Just be really aggressive, and watch your tonality.

A hint of classy helps too.

olronk · 2019-12-03T08:43:06+00:00

Damn man.

Reading stuff like this really makes me wish I have had the chance to go through this kinda stuff.

People talk about first dates, first kisses, first everything, etc.

It typically never bothers me as I know the deal but when I read threads like this or listen to someone's awesome date story I do my best to live vicariously through these kind of words as I never really did get that opportunity to ever date or do anything romantic with a woman before.

Never had any woman consider me attractive looking enough to ever do anything romantic really.

MohammadRezaPahlavi · 2019-12-30T05:45:40+00:00

This is what Redd.it is really for. Thank you.

nicolasrba · 2020-03-27T04:23:40+00:00

This is gold right here

Hinampak321 · 2019-12-02T15:16:30+00:00

Do we have something like this for women? Asking for a friend.

beowulf47 · 2019-12-02T09:56:36+00:00

Seeding the pull (and pulling itself) are my biggest sticking points right now. Live in suburbia about 15/20mins from nearest date locations, and while I’m completely comfortable escalating on a date, pulling back home is where I freeze up. Doesn’t help that I’m living w my folks. Can pull to the back of my car easily, but it’s so far from ideal

Long term solution obv is move out. In the short term, OP, what are your favorite “seed the pull” ideas?

AcrobaticLength5 · 2019-12-02T00:27:37+00:00

Why are these posts so long?!! Shorten that shit up people!

basic_bitch · 2019-12-02T02:51:07+00:00

This is the grossest thing I have ever read. If a guy I was out with pulled any of this shit, at any point in the night, I’d leave immediately. Red flag city

Title	How To Have A Killer First Date Every Time
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Upvotes	1324
Comments	103
Date	December 1, 2019 8:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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