Especially the 'how do I show intent without giving my power away' stuff

I see vids where the coach is so desperate to 'not give his power away' that the students are trying to rob the bank without getting inside. Trying to memorise tiny, incremental steps. Start using a 'we frame'. Lightly sexualise a certain convo. Use a little routine etc. Kino ladder'

And guys still come here saying, 'approached this girl but was never able to establish clear intent'

I went out with this aquaintance on the weekend who is a stud. 200+ slay count. Tall. Decent shape. But not like male model handsome or anything.

What I noticed was that he approaches. He doesn't use any 'game' because he believes that attraction is either there or it's not. You can't make it happen. Your job is to find out. (which judging by how often we see coaches get rejected in infields despite their game certainly seems to be the case)

So he actually opens indirect. Says hi, asks her some questions about herself (name, where she's from, who she's with) and if it 'seems' to be going well, he literally just tells her that she's hot. That's it. No complicated 'do I start to use a 'we frame' and then disqualify her and do XYZ to make it 'man to woman'??. He's done it. From there she either plays along and it gets physical very fast or, as is sometimes the case if you've read it wrong and you're really not her type at all, she will essentially tell you that the feeling ISN'T mutual, and you wish her a good night and move onto the next girl

Watching him made me think about why so many struggle with the whole 'showing intent' side of things.