Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statistics

valteri777 · 2021-12-01T02:11:25+00:00

Let me start. As a South East Asian (filo + chi), I’ve noticed that majority of the women who found me attractive were Europeans of all races. Majority who did not find me attractive were white women from the USA, UK, and Australia. I still pull but it’s either they think i’m really attractive guy or I look like a zombie. Nothing in between.

vamsig66 · 2021-12-01T05:39:07+00:00

I’m Indian but born and raised in America and honestly I’ve never had any Indian women come onto me, only white women and a few Latina women. I really don’t think race matters as much as most guys think. I think that girls just like an attractive guy regardless of what race he whether he is White, Black, Hispanic, Indian, Asian or whatever. As long as you make yourself attractive, you shouldn’t have too much of of a problem attracting girls of any race with the exception of a small handful of girls who actively discriminate against guys of certain races and only want a guy of a certain race.

Queasy-Ostrich-358 · 2021-12-01T14:42:56+00:00

I’m a tall white guy, and the most success I have is with black women.. Not complaining at all, they’re gorgeous and great.

ilovelese · 2021-12-01T15:26:47+00:00

Okay so from a black woman’s perspective, I’ve dated mainly within my own race. I wouldn’t mind dating outside of my race, but statistics have shown that black women and Asian men are the least desired, almost hard to believe when I do see a lot of interracial couples

valteri777 · 2021-12-01T02:31:09+00:00

I’m black and haven’t had trouble with any girls of any race

TheTruth221 · 2021-12-01T07:32:14+00:00

u got to understand the statistics come from post prime or females/males that are online dating

general college age party white women are out taking cock based on what is infront of them

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-12-01T12:30:17+00:00

I’m more attracted to and have the most success with women from foreign cultures in general, regardless of race.

EbonyProgrammer · 2021-12-01T14:55:10+00:00

Black guy in NYC, mostly attract black girls, hispanic girls, and a very small amount of white girls. I havent dated any other demographics, other demographics generally don't pursue me and I generally don't pursue them. I like black/hispanic chicks the most anesthetically speaking cause I'm an ass man 🧐(although this depends on the girl too).

Aside from location, I also think it has a lot to do with who you put most energy into pursuing, I have a friend who is obsessed with white chicks and only dates them, another who is obsessed with Asians and only dates them. Guys have more choice in the dating game than most people like to admit.

2021-12-01T16:49:58+00:00

I think your statistics are wrong. White women and black men seem to be the most desirable these days.

Dsalter123 · 2021-12-01T10:50:36+00:00

I’m black and I’ve been all around the world. Americanized Asian girls in Japan love us. I usually never have trouble except now that I’m cali, I noticed my pulls have drastically dropped (thought they would go up). It seems majority of the girls out here like white guys. Pretty much if you’re white, you’re good anywhere, especially Japan

SpiderBen14 · 2021-12-01T14:45:52+00:00

There are, of course, preferences for virtually everything in the dating world. The general preference, when it comes to race, is typically to date someone a of the same race as yourself. However, for some, it’s not important at all. For cultural reasons, in some families, there’s a TON of pressure to date and especially marry within not just one’s own race but within one’s religion and nationality. Generally, though, preferences are less about race than the specific person, as well it should be.

kylomorales · 2021-12-01T15:45:03+00:00

Would you mind linking whatever article, paper or site you got that from? That's quite interesting and I'd like to read the regional breakdowns and stuff

apollowasntahoax · 2021-12-01T17:35:43+00:00

I’ve thought about this a lot, and this is my conclusion:

Race doesn’t matter if you’re attractive.
Race matters a lot if you’re mediocre or unattractive.

Let me explain that more. In the US, people are predominantly white. They grow up with white friends, they’re used to their opposite sex being white, usually. So when it comes to dating, they see more white people than anything else. Why do I say that? Because you’ll never find an 8 or a 9 white woman with a 5 or a 6 man of another race, but you’ll often find an 8 or a 9 white woman with a 5 or a 6 white guy. Same goes for white men. You’ll never find the attractive ones with a less attractive woman of another race, but you’ll often find an attractive white man with a less attractive white woman.

I was talking about the US so far, but this applies to all other places too. Just, the races are swapped. In India, for example, of course you can find attractive Indian women with less attractive Indian men. But again, you’ll never find an attractive Indian woman with a less attractive Caucasian man.

Conclusion: If you’re attractive, you’re attractive. If you’re not…well, statistically speaking, as far as the sexual aspects of one’s life goes, it’s better to be not attractive being the predominant race in your region than any other race.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2021-12-01T12:46:26+00:00

OP: Statistics!

Also OP: Let's share self-defeating anecdotes!

Unless you plan on changing your race or location, these thoughts are all pointless.

Even if 99% of nearby women hate everything about your appearance, there's still that tiny minority that wants exactly what you have. Sharpen your game and that minority will keep you plenty busy.

antonthecad · 2021-12-01T07:32:11+00:00

I'm black and banged women from I think 40 different countries now. Some girls just don't like you and it's not necessarily a racial thing. There's plenty who will like you so you have to go out there and flip those stones.

Woujo · 2021-12-01T16:36:03+00:00

This is a stupid idea for a thread. You absolutely cannot think about this shit. No woman will ever admit being racist so trying to read her mind will drive you nuts.

HungDaddyNYC · 2021-12-01T02:44:00+00:00

Asian (especially Korean), Jewish, white, African American and Hispanic women are the women who dig me most.

Character-Current-57 · 2021-12-01T02:48:25+00:00

I’m black. I have dated all races. I prefer Latin and Eastern European.

moonfanatic95 · 2021-12-01T16:09:23+00:00

As a brown Latino male i disagree. Hard to compete when people overall prefer specific races and not ambiguous ones. Am skinny, tall, soft hair, big lips, average white nose and brown. Believe it or not, the fact that i can't be properly categorized did cost me a bit in the dating scene.

recyclablebanthas · 2021-12-01T23:19:54+00:00

I don’t really want to bring up race here....

Please read the rules before posting again.

Check out the Updated Rules post pinned to the top of the subreddit.

Things like race or height are basically settled issues at this subreddit, which is focused on self improvement of things you can change, like inner game, which can compensate for much.

ShampooMonK · 2021-12-01T15:17:33+00:00

I'm Korean. This year, I worked on myself, hit the gym, lost a weight, and developed my game + fashion sense. And I've caught a lot of bodies this year, actually way more than in my entire life. For once, I actually had a rotation earlier on in the year when I went out for day/night games with my friend who's a really good PUA artist. I had another rotation going on after September after my previous rotations pretty much sputtered due to some of them wanting LTR's/commitment, and I didn't really feel the need to give them that.

I am currently in a semi-sort of serious dating situation with a woman that I hooked up with. Unfortunately since she's in sort of my friend's, (female friend,) social circle it was a little tough to really just smash and move on. So I decided that since the sex was great, and she was a pretty cool girl + seemed very trustworthy, I given her some type of exclusivity. I still have some 'female,' friends on the side who have shown me some interest and one of them even plaintively told me that I should just be single so I could fuck her brains out. But I decided that I've been tired of just smashing and would like to see where this one ends up going.

What is your race and what race is usually attracted to you and in what city is this? I’ll start in the comments.

Korean.

I am usually attracted to Hispanic/Latina women. I've predominantly only dated those type of women, but surprisingly my rotation(s) this year was a mixed bag of white women, black, and a few Koreans. I live in the NOVA/MD/DC area so a lot of diverse population. '

No_Acanthisitta5052 · 2021-12-01T15:06:12+00:00

It is not racial preferences, it is strictly about specific features you have/do not have which you can work on.

There are ugly people within any race, and they get less attention. Stop thinking about race, it is counterproductive and imprison you under a false constraint. Some people need surgery, FYI.

Artist-in-Residence- · 2021-12-01T02:22:11+00:00

I've found generally the men who are interested in me tend to be British, German, Russian, Arabic and Japanese.

I've found European men tend to prefer more educated women whilst American men tend to prefer flashy bimbos which is the exact opposite of me.

Not that there's anything wrong with flashy bimbos, of course.

No_Acanthisitta5052 · 2021-12-01T15:11:38+00:00

People that wine about race have not looked at the neurophysiology of attractiveness. It is about chins, ridges, brows, lips etc. It is about every detail that goes into making a face and further details that makes one attractive.

It is never about race. It is about having the physical components of attractiveness. Again, many people need surgery and fake stubble.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-12-01T08:31:18+00:00

I mean we’re biologically programmed to find certain races more physically appealing than others but I think there are so many individual factors that it’s barely relevant (unless the person is racist and rejects people of an entire race because of the connotations of value they’ve applied to people of that race)

Next-Length-7691 · 2021-12-01T13:29:54+00:00

What if I tell you there is only one race : homo sapience sapience.. 😑

2021-12-01T05:50:34+00:00

Hispanic and racially ambiguous, have dated white, black, Asian and ofc Hispanics. I will admit I prefer dating Hispanic girls.

Bouldershoulders12 · 2021-12-01T05:56:25+00:00

I’m Indo-Caribbean. (East Indian ethnicity/Caribbean-West Indian Culturally). I mostly date Afro-Caribbean women due to familiarity with our culture. Being how the Caribbean is a melting pot and I live in a city where there’s a lot of Caribbean people culture is more important than race.

Outside of that I do get attention from other races as well. I just think it’s about appearance, attitude, and confidence. Some women will never find me attractive and that’s fine I just know I’ll find the majority that do

Jhinn11 · 2021-12-01T15:45:45+00:00

I’m black in Canada and been approached by girls in every race. Be it at the bar/club, at the store on the bus ect. It’s not because I’m black but good genetics

UnknownWolf719 · 2021-12-01T16:56:59+00:00

Alright I’ll give my example. The majority of the women I match with on dating apps are Black or African American, no problem with me. I love all women of all ethnicities and races. I’m Hispanic and Eastern European, a quite rare mix I would consider. P.S. ladies I’m single ;)

Sunlitstream264 · 2021-12-01T17:03:06+00:00

White American, most attracted to shore women’s and Asian women, Latina #3 if ranked

BrexFlexx · 2021-12-01T17:15:10+00:00

Preferences are a thing for sure, but like others here I think it comes down to attractiveness in the end. Let’s take me as an example: Blondes with blue eyes are my type. If I see a hot brunette, asian, black woman or whatever you can be sure that I’ll go for it not thinking twice. I believe it’s the same for women.

natod12 · 2021-12-01T17:21:10+00:00

Black guy in USA mostly black girls are attracted followed by white girls, very few Latinas or Asian. I travel quite a bit and in south east Asia, Japan and s Korea I was shocked how much attention I got. Eastern European ladies very interested also.

Johnny_boba97 · 2021-12-01T18:56:54+00:00

I am African American living in NY and I noticed Black, Hispanic, and a few White people are attracted to me and a little bit of Asian mostly middle Eastern find me attract too. But, from online dating, from face to face mainly black, and they just catcall which creeps me out. The only thing that really attracts me first is their personality, energy, and how they look.

Ashtothelight · 2021-12-01T20:43:46+00:00

I'm black. White women are not into me in almost any way. That's mostly fine because I'm more interested in nonwhite women. My partner is black. White women often seem flakey and not into me. I did date a British girl for a year or so, but it's only been Black and Latina women for a long time.

All in all, it doesn't matter much for me. The White women thing could be a combination of my lack of interest in them and their lack of interest in me.

Laie_Boy_THP_808 · 2021-12-01T21:33:15+00:00

I'm black. I struggle with Asians all day everyday day, they only like white dudes and other Asians. Absolutely kill it with white and black girls though.

devnasty009 · 2021-12-01T22:14:13+00:00

I identify with hunter Biden’s thing. 😂

Jk though it’s true I’ve never slept with an Asian woman. I’m attracted to all races as I’ve seen hotties from all over and every ethnicity. For me it comes down to either you hot or not

Dry-Caterpillar-3628 · 2021-12-01T22:19:41+00:00

Haitian American man(28) living in Northern California. Growing up, there was always a mix of different races but white was the majority. I’ve found that mostly white and Hispanic women are attracted to me and I can’t keep a black woman around for some reason even though I’d like to. If I’m being honest though, I’ve been feeling like a piece of meat for the last few yrs tho

Title	Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statistics
Author	valteri777
Upvotes	33
Comments	137
Date	December 1, 2021 2:07 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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