I realize this a bit long but if you can last for the 3 minute read it is, it just might help.

On this sub I see plenty of advice seekers. Most of the time the answers seem intuitively obvious to me. Stuff like how do I get this girl to like me or I asked this girl out and it seemed cool, now I'm ghosted. Or sometimes the answers to questions baffle me too. Usually the ones that reply to the aforementioned with; first get a super hot body and then buy loads of cool shit, then and only then you'll be pussy worthy.

Fortunately from my long lense of history I think I got the answers to turn this franchise around.

Most of what I have to say is just erasing some poor assumptions that many men have. These assumptions inhibit your actions and wrongly blame women for your lack of success.

This is where I will lose some of you.

Negative feedback loops and life long indoctrination is difficult to unwind. Here goes nonetheless;

Wrong assumption #1 Only the best looking, wealthiest people with the coolest stuff get laid. Or at the very least have a much better go of it.

If you learn nothing else today, know this; you are good enough as you are today, not someday, not when you get that promotion, that nose job, that perfect body, the big house on the hill, or whatever the fuck else you think you need to get women. But today as you are.

Why? Because attraction works differently with women then most men think.

So what are women attracted to? Well that's a two parter. To answer that we must look at the folly of man.

Virtually all men rate women. We use the 1 to 10 scale. She's a dog, I give her a 2. She's fuckable...a 5. Holy shit look at her what a babe a total 10. You fall instantly in love, like nature is saying let me put a baby in that.

Wrong assumption # 2. Men think to thrmselves, I like hot bodies. In fact, the hotter the body the more atrracted I am. Therefore, if I get a hot body, I will be loaded with women dying to fuck me.

Probably a million gym memberships have been sold on this premise.

But that's not how women operate.

Never in all my ever advancing years have I heard a woman use the 1 to 10 scale. Ever. Why? Because when it comes to your looks and women, its either pass or fail. Oh and there are no bonus points either.

Let me explain. If a woman prefers a slender man and you are one, you passed. That's it. If you are jacked as all shit, congratulations. You still just passed. No bonus points.

The reason for this is that after you pass the looks department, women think what else do you got? Now when I say what else do you got I dont mean bullshit. I don't mean your car, your watch, your house or your job title. I mean; are you funny, are you kind, are you smart, are you patient, are you talented in some way, can you play the guitar, do my taxes? Give me something, anything else.

The key to success is to have that something else and know how to display it.

Wrong assumption #3 women are gold diggers and I can't get laid cause I ain't got shit.

If you look at career paths of men and women, typically women are in the people business (nurses, teachers, counselors etc) while men are in the things business (engineers, mechanics, carpenters etc)

Folly of man # 2. I'm into stuff. In fact I'm into really cool shit. Women must be into cool shit too. If I get a bunch of cool shit, I'll have to beat the pussy off of me. 80 hour work week follows. It's just not true.

Women, especially modern women, are taught to get get there own shit and they're nowhere near as impressed with it as you.

I'm not saying there are no gold diggers but I am saying it's an extreme minority. There are psychopaths out there that view relationships as transactional but they are rare.

Most women prefer human connections to a bunch of horseshit no matter how cool.

Everybody knows somebody who played in a shitty rock band, had no money, shitty car, works at Wendy's and couldn't shake women off of him. Why? He passed the looks department, had that something else and could display it.

Conversely everybody has heard a woman say " yeah he was hot but I don't know, something didn't click". Yeah he was only hot and didn't have that something else. So she bailed.

The reality is that if you can get a number but keep getting ghosted. You passed the looks department but probably have an irritating personality with no ability to display that something else. Or worse yet, you come across as feminine.

Wrong assumption #4; acting like women will get you women.

So what's the final arrow in your quiver of attraction and seduction? Masculine mannerisms.

Bold statement time; Heterosexual women when it comes to attraction, are attracted to all things masculine and repulsed by all things feminine.

What masculine mannerisms am I talking about? Confidence, swagger, leadership, aggression, dominance. This is what makes pussies wet.

I guarantee the shitty rock band dude in the above example had all these too.

Confidence and swagger with talent on display after passing the looks department (btw you can make a 65) is a Trifecta of female attraction. A near unstoppable force. You don't have to be a low rent rock star to do it either.

Btw when I say dominant I dont mean be a dick. Nor when I say aggressive do I mean violent. I mean someone who sees what they want and goes for it. Just like confidence means to be able to handle what life throws at you.

Conversely. as many of you know, being timid is feminine and as such repulsive. Btw I'm not saying all women are timid. Many women are very bold. Who doesn't love that? What I am saying is that only women are allowed to be timid. A timid man will be pushed around by both sexes for the entirety of his life.

Also, don't confuse masculine with macho. Masculine doesn't mean lifted pickup trucks or killing stuff in the forest. Honestly that's a confused sense of masculinity as though it can be bought. You can play video games and read comic books and be masculine if you have confidence swagger leadership etc.

So when I read how do I get girl x to like me, I just think well you cant. But what you can do is act with some confidence and swagger show her you're smart and funny or whatever your something else is and remove the maybe by asking. And you don't have to be a billionaire underwear model to do so.

I hope this helped.