Poor timing lol

NoFaiIing · 2021-08-13T19:08:13+00:00

Yes she sounds like a very cool girl. She didnt even have a real problem with it and even joked about it. She likes you bro

2021-08-13T21:36:24+00:00

She is literally telling you she’s into you. Tf you mean should you move forward??

TheManSpider1 · 2021-08-13T19:13:47+00:00

Don’t overthink it, she sounds like a fun girl

Ma_1ik · 2021-08-13T19:53:03+00:00

It’s not even awkward, she being funny asf😂

2021-08-13T22:14:48+00:00

Bruh that's really attractive girls like guys who other girls like... never apologize for it

User_1421 · 2021-08-14T03:22:55+00:00

This actually worked in your favor and you dont even know it haha

Ecstatic-Flounder-48 · 2021-08-13T19:14:01+00:00

Stupid question but what does pof mean?

And this is better for you cuz she knows you got options and you don’t sit at home inside all day. You’re no simp.

Thest0rm_99 · 2021-08-13T22:02:30+00:00

You tell her that if she plays her cards right, "POF girls name" will be lost to the dusty halls of antiquity.

IAmCalhoun · 2021-08-13T22:49:47+00:00

Yea man. She can’t be mad you already in the game. And she seems to enjoy the challenge. That’s a win all around.

Big_Eye_6420 · 2021-08-13T23:37:49+00:00

Hey brother if she had a problem with it she would of never gave you her phone number

dirtysideacc2020 · 2021-08-14T08:13:12+00:00

She's literally telling you she wants to replace that other girl. If you wanna be brazen, you could actually tell the pof girl about that. Like "So, I met a girl the other day, and when she was giving me her number, a message from you popped up on my phone. She later sent me a text telling me to tell you that your days with me are numbered. 😜" Maybe word it more smoothly than I did just now 😅

500Ovechkin · 2021-08-14T03:54:38+00:00

Right on, she’s attracted and nice enough to have brought it up, keep on it. Other girls would care less but she seems cool.

Adventurous_Gene_692 · 2021-08-14T00:58:08+00:00

Bro you actually got lucky with the timing that text gave you preselection and gave her competition anxiety

BulletReaper · 2021-08-13T19:17:34+00:00

Sounds like she’s still interested. But future pro tip, turn off dating app notifications. Just leave the apps on your Home Screen so you can see if you have a new message or match.

BetaCuckSimp · 2021-08-13T22:21:24+00:00

It’s definitely good if she thinks you’re talking to other women. Don’t let it be awkward

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2021-08-13T23:47:07+00:00

Damn I dont miss being young

iamcgome · 2021-08-14T13:39:57+00:00

Embrace the awkwardness, own up to it and you will be respected if you try to hide it she will know and will smell the beta in you

MeganMars · 2021-08-13T21:32:05+00:00

Dude, go for it!! She is into you big time with a response like that!

Accooler99 · 2021-08-13T20:16:33+00:00

Wait you’re actually getting real human matches on pof? I downloaded it a month ago and literally 90% scammers

etherealromance · 2021-08-13T20:33:39+00:00

It’s only an issue if you make it one. Picking up girls is usually messy, not super smooth. Your success will largely depend on your response to the elements of randomness in a giving interaction.

IntroMystique · 2021-08-13T22:46:33+00:00

It’s not something that I would ‘like’ to happen in front of another woman. Usually when I’m with women I’ll put my phone on silent or turn off notifications. I don’t want to appear ignorant or as though I’m texting several other women.

However, when it’s innocently done, it can show pre-selection. It shows that there are other women in your life. Women bring women.

It’s not something I’d be embarrassed about or feel awkward about. It’s something I’d just laugh at.

Plus: she saw the humour in it.

izysolo · 2021-08-14T09:36:41+00:00

Whats POF? I Googled it and it said Plenty Of Fish, but not sure if that's the right abbreviation in this story. Anyone? Help?

DontEatTheFish25 · 2021-08-14T10:44:30+00:00

Sounds more like flirting than awkwardness to me bro, I say go for it.

em2511rah · 2021-08-14T11:57:15+00:00

I really don’t get the problem here. Not only could you show that you’re “wanted” without coming off as a douche, she also said something along the lines of “you’re mine now”. This little accident, or bad timing as you say it, upped your chances a lot without any effort from your side. Stay confident but try not to come off as too cocky and you’re good to go! And don’t apologize for anything regarding what she saw!

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-08-14T02:48:56+00:00

You’re the one being boring/awkward about it really.

She seems like a cool girl

Also plenty of fish is full of bots, catfish, and sex workers

pinkelephants777 · 2021-08-14T02:34:05+00:00

She’s trying to make the situation less awkward for you, it sounds like she’s really into you and has a good sense of humor! You’re on a roll here:)

quantumactual · 2021-08-14T03:32:15+00:00

Jeez ladies..guys really don’t know what tf they are doing huh?

TAA180 · 2021-08-13T20:17:15+00:00

She’s into u

FlanneryODostoevsky · 2021-08-13T23:46:59+00:00

Damn I dont miss being young

TheWhiteWalkerSpeaks · 2021-08-13T19:19:19+00:00

This is why I always keep my data off when give my phone to anyone

Thest0rm_99 · 2021-08-13T22:06:35+00:00

Pre selection is one of the most attractive traits a man can have. I was dating a girl a few months ago who was very anxious about whether or not she was able to satisfy me. We once got into my car and she saw my neck gaiter that I wear in public cuz covid. Without any moments hesitation she assumed it was a pair of some girls panties. She wasnt even mad or sad, just extremely anxious and concerned. She genuinely seemed like she needed to ask or it was gonna break her brain, but she also seemed like she didnt wanna upset me by asking.

That is the kind of competition anxiety you need to install into the mind of every girl you deal with. If she isnt worried about losing you to another girl, you are inviting her to walk all over you. Competition anxiety is the only way you can get girls to walk on eggshells for you the way married men walk around their wives.

JosephBlowFish · 2021-08-14T03:21:50+00:00

It just means you’re pre-selected. It is a demonstration of higher value.

TAA180 · 2021-08-13T20:16:54+00:00

Wtf is pof?

LifesMysteries0 · 2021-08-13T20:46:42+00:00

Yes, she is interested and I interpret her comment as just razzing you.

vanfourello · 2021-08-13T21:19:49+00:00

So she’s joking about it, that’s nice! As per the situation, you could try to joke about such in the future- like - you need to hurry up, pretend to disqualify her. If you approached her very well and she has interest in you, that’s not a big deal, as we see in your situation! Just do not overthinking it

Alextryingforgrate · 2021-08-13T21:51:05+00:00

Just own it and keep talking to her if she starts to ghost just move on you sound like your doing fine.

Lifedeather · 2021-08-14T01:41:43+00:00

So confused. What does pof by her name mean?

waverunnr · 2021-08-14T14:30:47+00:00

That text was perfectly timed. Shows her you have options.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-08-14T17:39:34+00:00

Turn off all notifications when gaming.

markcubelon · 2021-08-14T22:26:48+00:00

What is pof?

RobertoStrife · 2021-08-19T01:09:52+00:00

Sounds like she's handling it in a pretty cool way to be honest, her joke clearly shows that she's interested and not feeling awkward about it. The awkward comes from you.

Title	Poor timing lol
Author	meogdon
Upvotes	227
Comments	81
Date	August 13, 2021 7:05 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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