Seeing someone on seddit post this article really set me on a tipping point regarding seduction.
http://theplayerguide.com/how-to-get-younger-women/
"This is a fantastic way to keep her feeling insecure" - put her down
"Also, when she asks you how you spent your other nights, when you didn’t see her, you can just tell her about the great venues you went to with your “friend”." - lie about yourself to make you look cool
"As previously mentioned, you should treat her like you’re only using her for sex. Ideally, you should do this to every woman, at least in the early stages of a relationship but, when it comes to young hot chicks, this type of behavior is a must." - treat her like a sex doll
This article, while having some valid points, is overall fucking retarded. I mean, negging and playfully teasing girls is probably one of my most favourite things to do in interactions, but its not to make her feel insecure, it's to have fun and keep the conversation light-hearted. Theres a lot of bullshit, unnecessary pickup material on the internet and it makes seduction seem so much harder and manipulative than it really is. And this doesn't apply just to the 18-22 age group, its about seduction in general.
In my opinion seduction basically boils down to a few key concepts:
1) Be confident (on a more introspective level, accept who you are and be happy with it - it will reflect outwards to your exterior, but never stop working to make yourself better)
2) Be engaging (funny, interesting, mysterious, fun to be around, etc... -- take your pick)
3) Have a strong mindset of self-worth and abundance
4) Escalate
That's all you need to know. Seriously. But, TheRedditGuru, how do I become all of these things??? Most All of the information you need will come from going out and getting reference experiences. It's as simple as that. The more you go out and approach, the more confident you'll get. The more conversations you have and the more you develop yourself, the more engaging you'll become. The more times you leave the house, the more you'll adopt the abundance mentality and see how many girls there are out there. The more you interact with women, the more experienced you'll become in escalation. The more you experience, the more you learn. You learn just as much from rejections (if not more) than you do from closing. There is so much unnecessary crap on the internet which just confuses people and over-complicates things to the point where people dont even know what to think or are thinking about way too many things at once. A lot of people fall into the trap where all they do is read seduction articles and guides and all of that stuff, but hardly ever actually go out. I'd know, because when I first started I did that too. Experience is the best teacher so go out and learn for yourself what does and doesn't work, but take it from someone who knows, lieing to girls and trying to make them feel insecure will only take you so far.
Keep it simple, stupid.
Also, if you guys have any questions feel free to PM me or post them below.
EDIT:
A lot of people are misinterpreting this post as a white knight bash on seduction. I personally love the art of seduction, however it has been diluted with bullshit, manipulative and unnecessary techniques which most of the time will not even help in your interactions. In my lifetime I've found that the behaviour encouraged in this article wont get you very far and will only lead to superficial interactions, but each to their own, and if this is the path you want to take then go ahead. Soon enough you'll find that adopting those 4 key points will help you with women a thousand times more than the crap spewed in these types of articles, but most of all, just go out, try it for yourself and rinse and repeat!
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