It's the tightrope between “awesome” and “offensive”.

You have to walk it to attract readers on Reddit - and to attract beautiful women.

A key reason why "nice guys" don't get the hottest girls is because they don't walk this tightrope.

  • They don't make outrageous comments.
  • They don't disagree with anything a woman says.
  • They don't make bold moves.
  • They don't grab a woman's hand and drag her to the dance floor.
  • They don't throw a woman's arms over their shoulders and grind on her.
  • They swap phone numbers instead of trying for a one-night stand
  • They wouldn't dream of getting sexual in public or trying for a threesome.

They play it safe for fear of offending the woman and losing her. Ironically, they’re more likely to lose her by acting this way. It’s a slower process than an instant blow-out from being too forward, but more guaranteed.

Play it safe with your words and actions and you won’t stimulate a woman's emotions. She’ll get bored, say "nice to meet you" and leave. Maybe she’ll swap numbers, but she won’t be excited to text you back. In her eyes, you're no different from every other guy who did a nice chit-chat.

That's why you're better off making the bold moves.

He who dares, wins.

I talked about how to build up the physicality in this popular Seddit post. It explains how to escalate at a pace she’s comfortable with - and how to recover from pushing too quickly. Apply this in nightgame and your results will skyrocket.

It’s not every day you’ll find a woman ready to go home for a one-night stand, but you’d be surprised how many women will - if you actually try for it!

The truth about female sexuality

A lot of women LOVE sexual adventures. There's a reason '50 Shades Of Grey' sold so well.

However, society won't allow them to publicly embrace their sexuality. They're told it's not ladylike. Single women are often slut-shamed when expressing any sexual desires. Even though these desires are completely natural.

That's why women WANT to be led by a man. They WISH for a man to make these bold moves, so they don't have to feel responsible for them happening.

They NEED a man who can take them on these adventures, in a non-judgemental way without anyone else finding out.

They want to be able to convince themselves that "one thing led to another" and "it just happened".

If you can allow them to do this, they’ll ADORE you for it. If they’re not ready for an adventure like this, they’ll still respect you for trying.

All in all, it’s arguably the “nicest” thing you can do ;)

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