Guys asking to come over for cuddles?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-11T17:16:37+00:00

Read the handbook or get banned

Platipus6 · 2020-10-11T09:32:04+00:00

Expectation: spooning

Reality: sexual assault

AnniaT · 2020-10-11T11:08:17+00:00

They want sex. This is another way of saying Netflix and chill which we all know what means. And if a guy uses the term "come over for cuddles", that's so cringe... block and delete.

slythergin23 · 2020-10-11T09:17:57+00:00

yeah no. they're gonna use you.

sewingmachinesavior · 2020-10-11T11:13:29+00:00

I straight tell men I don’t do platonic snuggles.

UnstrirringCoffee · 2020-10-11T11:44:57+00:00

Don't! It's actually in the handbook. This is classic predator trick.

creamtart_ · 2020-10-11T09:13:27+00:00

They either want sex or weren’t loved enough by their mother and need a fill-in.

TheLastUBender · 2020-10-11T11:40:18+00:00

Booty call. They'll try and manipulate you into having sex. And have a sad if you say no.

Novemberinthechair · 2020-10-11T13:01:07+00:00

They want to fuck.

But honestly, an adult guy using the word cuddles makes me throw up in my mouth. It's something only grade school children should say. Infantile as hell.

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-10-11T13:14:51+00:00

I’m surprised this question was posted

AnniaT · 2020-10-11T10:44:34+00:00

If it's not a close friend? Definitely dressing up a request for something else. Cringy, too.

Davina33 · 2020-10-11T12:46:28+00:00

Cuddles? Yeah like they're only/or interested in that. They think they are being slick.

DoeEyedBrownSkin · 2020-10-11T13:24:00+00:00

Lol which man have you met looooves to just cuddle?

fim_de_semana · 2020-10-11T12:04:54+00:00

Methinks they wants the sex.

goatismycopilot · 2020-10-11T13:08:40+00:00

He wants to have sex.

muricaxoxo · 2020-10-11T14:36:08+00:00

It's for a hook up and sex

daisy_0720 · 2020-10-11T16:39:36+00:00

Cuddling = Sex.

They know that once they get you into that kind of position and suddenly their dick is hard, there is a level of social pressure for you to then have sex or otherwise help him with something that happened accidentally.

And if you don't, well then maybe he can grind it against you. In the end for many men, cuddling is an excuse to try to get their rocks off in some way. It's not intimate or romantic.

2020-10-11T16:29:44+00:00

Sex. It's always sex.

2020-10-11T16:39:54+00:00

He wants to cuddle alright. eyeroll

riseaboveagain · 2020-10-11T16:49:34+00:00

Wants sex and lies to get it

lhatw · 2020-10-11T16:57:57+00:00

Girl........... 😐. Tell him you are not a therapy dog and then block him.

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notgoodwithnames153 · 2020-10-11T15:34:45+00:00

Discount Netflix and chill.

Title	Guys asking to come over for cuddles?
Author	luckygolfergirl
Upvotes	39
Comments	41
Date	October 11, 2020 9:11 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j928s1/guys_asking_to_come_over_for_cuddles/
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