How have AWDTSG groups affected your dates?

bring-back-70s-bush · 2025-07-25T19:01:03+00:00

Only the people I already avoided.
No, I already wanted that. It sucked long before AWDTSG.
No, unless they were lying about me for some reason.
Not married.

Coincidentally, a very close friend of mine just got posted in one of those. His gf was immediately notified by one of her single friends who was in the group. Turns out he was fucking 3 different girls and none of them knew. As you can imagine, he’s not fucking anyone now.

I don’t see any issue with sleeping with multiple women, as long as you tell them on the front end. I am big on honesty though so I don’t believe in lying about this kind of stuff. I openly tell women I’m not going to make any commitment to them but if they still want to hang out and have fun then I’m down.

The only issue I see with these sites and apps for someone like me, a woman could potentially become attached to me, want more than I’m offering, get mad when I don’t reciprocate, and go on to describe me in all the terrible ways scorned women tend to describe the man who scorned them.

SexCrispies · 2025-07-25T18:57:29+00:00

If anything, i could only imagine i get raving reviews.

RealScientist2215 · 2025-07-25T19:06:00+00:00

If you look at the dating app data 80% of women want to date the same 6% of men. So it just really surprised these men who have no reason ever to commit to one woman dated multiple women? They’re very open about the fact that they are not going to commit to one woman and yet women don’t care and think somehow they’re cheating on them when they have multiple girlfriends.

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xxTheMagicBulleT · 2025-07-26T11:55:15+00:00

Easy made me give up on dating. Keep my information a lot more private. Use social media a lot less.

Even had a different number for when I did do dating cause people would harass call me and stuff.

Not that I have to deal with that much now been in a relationship for almost 10 years.

But the stupid group shit women do on men. Has existed in many forms from 2005 and most of the time its just women that got rejected or exes smearing men.

Just look at how most women use and interact at dating apps. Its just a app or place to gossip and tear down men.

But anytime men do the same thing ow no my misogyny.

While stuff and platforms like that try and witchhunt and trying to get information or even trying to get men in trouble at there jobs or lose there jobs. Based on some catty women that are gossiping. Its compleet bullshit.

And just think of men doing that on mess and getting women in problem. Local list of how women go around. The local garden tool list with all type of very personal information up to where they live and often go too.

Its honestly creepy weird and disgusting that its a thing at all. But its especially disgusting how its allowed only one way cause "my women safety" what's the biggest cope ever. Its just stalker behavior and women would be outraged of men did the same thing but honestly what they deserve if women can do it why should men not be able to do the same thing. I would never do it cause it find it so distasteful and I'm actually disgusted by any women that takes part in it.

Every mosquito becomes an elephant. Just like many reddit story's of am I the ashole. When anything about relationship. Is like insteady leave them you deserve beter. Ow that is so bad bla bla bla. For like the smallest thing. It shows a ton even in lesser context how that goes. And those actual places it goes 15 levels further. Its actually wild. With doxing and trying to get people fired or to even harassing men at there house and stuff.

Its a toxic place for toxic people and it should be illegal and it is actually. Seen as baseless defamation what people do get sued for a lot. Cause you cant say well this person SA me and smear somone no no then you have to go to the police and proper channels. Baseless without proof destruction of character. Is a easy win in court. But many people dont have the money or funds or even know who or where its said or done and especially when people do that anonymously. Is what makes it hard to fight.

What also makes it so disgusting. Like honestly how would women like the fact your real life gets affected by something you only find out a bunch of years later that has been happening. Like your hiddenly been blacklisted. cause that what it is. And its a horrible experience and i honestly wish it on every person that has tried to do that to someone else wish it on them for a very long time. The bullshit you do to others they definitely deserve the same bullshit and treatment.

Cause its not about protection its just toxic people getting together doing toxic things. Scum those people are

James_M_Croft · 2025-07-25T21:10:49+00:00

Improved my chances. If anything. The "he is a fuckboy" propaganda help me. I do not want relationships and they know lol.

kvakerok_v2 · 2025-07-25T19:01:10+00:00

No. I was always picky.

No. Apps are already sub par, these groups do nothing to improve or lower quality of that experience.

It depends. Getting posted there is only indicative of the woman's insecurity. If there are additional red flags I would probably dump her. I don't want a partner that is incapable of trusting me a year into a relationship.

Not really. By getting posted there you simply limit the dating pool to women that are willing to compete for you against each other. It's no fun if you're mid, it's lots of fun if you're in the top.

Zabadoodude · 2025-07-26T00:05:24+00:00

I never did any shady shit thay would have me featured in these groups, so not at all.

onlyaseeker · 2025-07-26T12:47:56+00:00

That was always my approach, because I'm not compatible with most people.
Capitalism and current era humans make me want to avoid online dating. People are the problem.
Hmm, depends on what was posted. It is a red flag, though I understand the reason women may do it, and it's a symptom of deeper issues and my focus is on those issues instead of the manufactured men vs women wedge issue. Nobody is perfect, I'm not into treating people as disposable commodities, and issues like this can be addressed through communication, even if I mostly focus on what people do, rather than listen to what they say.
I don't cheat, nor have I ever cheated, so that's not a concern. I have been cheated on, and no, it wasn't because there was something wrong with me.

PlainTundra · 2025-07-25T23:14:03+00:00

No. I have a gf, I don't date. I've never used online dating. No. I'm not married but I don't cheat.

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