I think Rebecca Lynn Pope just summarized the entire debate of this sub on whats wrong with dating. Normally I don't spend much time with videos like this but wow did it summarize quite literally everything this sub ever discusses. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SfQDhqUbvLY&t=2279s And the answer is simple. Women need to come back down to planet earth and hit the gym if they want to be successful and find love.

Tl;dw - Women have moved up the ladder in terms of education, finances, job titles etc. They think that because they are at a certain level, that their partner should be at this level as well or above. They don't realize that men don't care about those things as well as this doesn't create a good partner.

Men on the other hand are extremely physical. Testosterone is a hell of a drug and the biological urge to have sex is beyond just a societal pressure for men.