I have been talking to a man on the Internet for a few months before meeting in person. We were both in different countries at the time. We grew fond of each other - or should I say he seemed more interested in me than I in him at the start. He promised me the moon. He said so many powerful things to me and I began to believe him. I am a young woman, no relationships in the past, been abstinent for 5 years before knowing him and thought that he was the one. He was married in the past but now divorced.

We met in person, we spent about a week together. He said he felt good with me and so did I. When it was time to leave, he said we will carry on talking to me. He said he has plans with me for the future. And then...nothing. He all of a sudden became so cold and ignored all my messages until I asked him if we were still the same? He said he didn't know, that he needed time to figure it out, that he likes me but doesn't know how much, that I seem in a hurry and that I am forcing him for an answer. He asked me what should we do, I said I wanted to continue, but I wanted him to take part in this relationship. He agreed. And then...here I am, about 6 months later. No messages, no nothing. I stopped contacting him altogether.

I just do not know what all this was about. I am confused, angry, frustrated... I cannot understand how someone can change so quickly from one extreme to the other.

He knew I wasn't looking for a one night stand, he said neither was he...oh, it is terrible, so, so terrible. The only explanation I received was that he was undergoing major changes in his life (work-related) and needed time to sort out things in his life. I suppose if any has any advice on this, I will gladly receive it. Thank you.