[PSA] Self-Pity Race/Age Whine-Posts = Banhammer

redpillschool · 2015-02-20T22:42:29+00:00

On the opposite side, if you're Asian, short, or challenged in some way, and you've found some useful advice, please share it.

I don't think anybody doubts there are hardships here, they all contribute to SMV. But dwelling isn't very constructive.

HumanSockPuppet · 2015-02-20T21:40:39+00:00

Awesome.

As each trend of noise grows (tone-policing, bro-knighting, whining, etc), it is immediately identified for what it is and it is amputated to prevent the rest of the sub from being drowned out in worthless bullshit.

Mods, you guys are doing a great job.

For everyone else: If you feel this sub is doing you some good, then you can give something back to the community by reporting transgressions of these guidelines whenever you see them.

Keeping the signal strong is what will keep this community alive, and no man's earnest effort will go to waste.

armenia4ever · 2015-02-21T01:36:34+00:00

It shocks me how many foreign guys want to pick up white women. Why?

White girls are often not nearly as attractive as they think and the effort needed is often not worth it.

vengefully_yours · 2015-02-21T16:37:37+00:00

Fucking eh. Whine like a girl and go somewhere else. If 5'8 45 year old me with a belly can fuck hot thin 22 year olds, the only thing stopping younger guys is attitude and work.

I put in the work in my twenties, I'm still doing the work despite it being much more painful and takes longer to heal. If you're under 35 it's still easy, if you're my age and let yourself go, it's your own fucking fault, get to fixing it. If you're 25 and whining, bitch please.

We get better with age, unless you have a bullshit sedentary life and never do anything interesting or hard in it. You whine, you're just like a bitch.

__ROOSTER__ · 2015-02-21T00:52:22+00:00

I've been preaching this my short time here

Control what you can control

For every crybaby there is a dude with your same situation pulling bitches and making money.

I'm 49 and last year had a 28yo live in Gf and three plates younger than her and I didn't spend money on them. The best any of them got was a plate of wings. Oh and I'm a 7-8 at best in the looks department.

If you're not having success CHANGE what you are doing, because you're doing it wrong.

"I've got game and do all the right stuff yet I get shot down all the time" well then NO by definition you DONT have game. You have some shit you think is game that isn't working.

Discard what doesn't work adopt and reinforce what does. Evolution.

Focus on the things that are in your realm of control. Everything that's not in your realm of control, note it and move on.

confuseacatlmtd · 2015-02-21T14:29:15+00:00

Can we do this with height as well? I'm short and get really annoyed by all the whining and discouraging shit.

It's either a short guy bitching about being short, or a short guy writes that being short isn't too bad if the rest of your smv is good, and some pathetic insecure tall guy who only has his height to brag about/pathetic insecure short guy who wants to stay in his comfort zone has to tell him that height is actually the ONLY thing that matters.

TLDR I don't even think about my height until you asshats keep mentioning it over and over and over and over. Stop bitching and improve what you can.

fitnesstested · 2015-02-20T21:52:07+00:00

They should make r/trpwhiners or something. Life isn't fair.

Some people are born with advantages and some with disadvantages.

Red pill 101.

Every Asian and Indian guy I know that gets girls is in great shape and extremely charismatic.

All things an individual can control.

I'll leave you with the thing I say to myself from time to time when a shitty situation falls in my lap I didn't create but want fixed.

"It might not be your fault, but it is your problem"

Stopher · 2015-02-21T04:20:27+00:00

Here here! TRP is accepting truth. Attraction is a multi variable equation. If you don't have x and you can't get more x and women are looking for x + y + z, you better start working on y and z.

And guess what? Some people were born with x,y, and z. Bitching about it accomplishes nothing.

tombreck2 · 2015-02-20T21:49:31+00:00

Something we can all agree on

RedRisingHood · 2015-02-21T17:30:23+00:00

Amen.

If you're some ripped Indian guy, who is confident, unapologetic, masculine like some of these Bollywood stars, women of every type will want you, White women included.

If you look and act as if you are Raj from TBBT, no girl will want you, it's not your race that's the fucking problem, man up. If every White man acted like Leonard would Asian women get White fever? No.

Yes Asian men are portrayed worse than anyone in the media, but complaining is for SJW's and everyone has their own problems to overcome, so deal with it.

GayLubeOil · 2015-02-20T21:49:57+00:00

I have another theory on this phenomenon. So im friends with some very serious NPC bodybuilders and sometimes they get paid to make private videos for their gay fans. Most of the time its just flexing and posing.

Anyway a substantial percentage of the video requests is for the bodybuilder to call the client, hurtful names specifically faggot.

My theory is that the Asians and Indians who post this shit want to be called out and put down. At some level they enjoy the semi public flagellation. It makes sence because those cultures are very group oriented and social boundries are much more enforced than the west. Maybe these beta men miss/need this enforcement because as adults they are not getting it from their parents anymore.

drrrrrr · 2015-02-21T00:00:51+00:00

Especially short people. Shut the fuck up already with the whining about how people think of you as a joke, girls won't ever consider you sexually, blah blah. It's way more common than the Asian or MTGOW thing. They all have this "hey its just facts girls dont like short guys it's dat evo bio" attitude and then when you ask them if they have been working out consistently, the convo goes cold.

Height-whining hopefully will go out the door along with the other types of pity-me crap.

oldredder · 2015-02-20T23:32:43+00:00

I would like to see the ban-hammer it so hard it opens a micro-blackhole.

I'm 5 foot 3, half Asian and have NO problems like this self-pitying fucks.

FallenHighSchoolJock · 2015-02-21T05:59:50+00:00

About the age stuff, it's really just one guy (/u/artemisnotfowl or something) who keeps making alt accounts and pretending to be a frat boy who experienced the 'pinnacle of life' that is apparently the American college experience. Probably just some envious senior.

Kyuzo_ · 2015-02-21T16:07:45+00:00

...thank you. Have noticed this as well.

[deleted] · 2015-02-21T17:21:52+00:00

I've got to be honest if you come here and your problem is that you can't get with ridiculously hot women, I just don't have a heck of a lot of sympathy for you. People act like they're special in wanting a 10/10 one-in-a-million girl. Everyone wants that.

How do you think it would go over if I made a post whining that I couldn't make a 100 million dollars on the stock market? Or that I didn't get drafted as a quarterback in the NFL in-between fighter pilot missions? Or that yet again I did not get invited to the Oscars to receive an academy award for my lead performance in the latest Scorsese film?

It's great to have goals, and by all means no one will fault you if you try your best and fail, but nobody wants to hear you whine about it.

Padre55 · 2015-02-22T15:21:07+00:00

True, as an older man, have little problems in those areas. Quite the opposite, now things are even easier as women are even looser today than when I was in my 20's.

As for race, one of the keys of TRP is a portable masculinity. The precepts are culturally universal. Good fitness, game, style, works anywhere around the world. If other than white guys are having problems it usually is due to those three areas not being maximized.

IE, to quote Nick Krauser "do not wish the world was easier, wish you were better" I'd go further and say "make yourself better".

seattleron · 2015-02-24T00:48:17+00:00

This is such a relief, the Indian whining is sickening. It's worse than feminism, I don't even know what to call it other than its absolutely fucking pathetic.

thereddespair · 2015-02-20T22:31:19+00:00

I agree.

This place ain't a cuddle box. Go to the blue pill if you want a hug coz you can't get laid.

SimonSesameSeedBuns · 2015-02-21T15:10:54+00:00

There is a reason "dark and swarthy" is a term, you guys are too busy birching about your race instead of using it to your advantage. Get some muscles and mystery and play the hand you were dealt.

nzgs · 2015-02-22T15:37:39+00:00

TRP is getting a lot of exposure on big sites like 4chan, bb.com, and the rest of reddit of course. There are a ton of these people around and I think they conflate TRP with being FA or something.

faroutmate · 2015-02-23T22:54:31+00:00

But....but...I'm an average looking scrawny Asian guy and I want to be able to pickup white supermodels on the street with ease just like all the white guys....it's so unfair.

/s

a2abfcd4 · 2015-02-20T23:41:19+00:00

Good. Ban them all.

TRP is not a place to pour your feelings in, you fucking pussy male hamster. If you don't have anything to say of value shut the fuck up and listen to the veterans.

knitro · 2015-02-20T21:54:51+00:00

To repost what I put on what I imagine to be the inspiration for this thread:

Get this persecution BP whiny shit out of here. Your frighteningly off the mark.

You have some communistic 'from each according to ability to each according to need' view of life that is going to leave you severely disappointed. If you think being brown is this unrecoverable detriment to life - it fucking will be. If you think you're only going to receive the worst outcome possible, you will. Fatalism gets you nowhere.

Read the side bar - 'Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.' That's what rp is about - no brotherhood, no hand outs, none of the shit your whining for. Some of you children don't seem to get this.

Stop gaslighting your own shit insecurities onto trp as a greater whole (it's YOU guys that can't handle a minority with a white girl). Stop trying to make this a team sport and take some personal responsibility.

Brotherhood? Kum ba fucking ya.

planetross2 · 2015-02-21T02:08:19+00:00

Why is it so hard to bang young college chicks since I'm older and out of college now whaaa!!!

On this topic itself, I wanted to talk about addressing the bullshit about college game as an older guy. I see so many guys here claiming that they have college aged girls as plates but I wish they would be more specific.

Yes, you can get college girls as an older guy at a community college or a college in a large city but I want to warn all older guys that the game is hard when you are in a college town.

Also depends on what kind of girls you are targeting, girls that feel like social outcasts during their college careers will go for non-students but a lot of the popular girls that have the looks are not going to go for the older guy that is not a part of the college community.

Just read this here:

http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/college/misconceptions-about-college-part-2

Luckyluke23 · 2015-02-21T10:58:44+00:00

can we just ban people if they don't ask a question about THEMSELVES or help someone else.

most of the posts I see are, I hate women or I am X type of guy and i can't get X type of girl WAHHHHHH!

TheJohnDough · 2015-02-23T00:27:12+00:00

You cant think of all the negatives of your race, you have to make it into positives. Jay - Z lived in a tough ass neighborhood and used all that pain and put it into his music, look at him now. Someone said on one of my posts that the only way to true stoicism is through hardships and deprivation. So you have that going for you. Being a little bitch is not helping your cause and is counterproductive.

watersign · 2015-02-23T05:21:28+00:00

alot of this shit is prob trolling too,

feminist · 2015-02-23T13:53:31+00:00

TL;DR deal with your shit and don't blame society for your problems unless you actually live in a third world hell hole.

Hokuto199x · 2015-02-23T17:08:00+00:00

So basically instead of coming on here to cry, they should call the "whambulance" - I like it.

Lots of dudes realizing that to be anything in the SMP you have to have something of value, and not everyone just gets it by birthright. I know, reality is tough, right?

SquareScrewdriver · 2015-03-01T19:48:39+00:00

I'm going to see if I can get banned from TRP. lol.

smokingmonkey420 · 2015-02-21T01:05:38+00:00

Honestly, I have a problem with this. For a sub that values facing up to reality, why are we stifling independent thought?

The fact of the matter is that certain genetic factors (height, race, looks) can be a major problem for some guys, yet TRP, which is supposed to be a haven for men, is not going to tolerate it? Whom should those men turn too?

I understand that there is a time and place to air your grievances, and if you're just looking to complain instead of looking for a solution then you are wasting everyone's time. But to outright ban someone for saying something a bit "negative" seems quite ironic to me. If you want to ban me for not conforming to your rules then go right ahead but this is bullshit.

ETH_Zurich · 2015-02-21T01:40:20+00:00

I understand that it can be seen as whiny, but for some on the sharp side of the SMV graph, it is definitely an uphill battle.

UrsusG · 2015-02-20T21:53:58+00:00

Good news, everyone!

Better late than never, too.

Heriion · 2015-02-21T00:28:38+00:00

None of the guys you mentioned could go MGTOW; It's not about "giving up", but it's about realizing that the juice is not worth the squeeze.

needathrowawayplease · 2015-02-23T16:47:53+00:00

Perhaps you should add a link to the sidebar titled "Short? Asian? Disabled? Will this stuff still work?" with a link to my beautiful post on the subject: https://archive.today/YRcpb

sup3r_saiyan · 2015-02-21T15:39:56+00:00

Indian and Asians are the biggest racists (not whites) and they want these white women to feel part of what they perceive to be 'the in crowd'. All of this self loathing self-pity and often self defeatist attitude is part of a culture(s) that just wants to be 'assimilated' by intermarrying with whites.

PlebDestroyer · 2015-02-21T08:36:38+00:00

I don't come to TRP to read depressing shit.

Hhahahahahahahah you came to the wrong sub brah. Clicks pussypass thread about woman cutting husbands dick off with no punishment.

Agreed with the rest though.

[deleted] · 2015-02-21T05:13:02+00:00

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DandyReps · 2015-02-21T14:49:46+00:00

Did you happen to see that guy who said he was going to kill himself? Every person who tried to say he should get help, he would say he doesnt want help, he's ready to die, etc. I'm actually not sure if that was on asktrp or here but regardless it was awful

Redpillchapters · 2015-02-21T00:00:36+00:00

I have to confess that I was involved in those whining self-pity threads and would like to take this time to apologize, they were a waste of time. What I do want to know is this, say you happen to want to know what it takes to fuck a particular kind of women while being a particular kind of man those women would normally not go for, how can you properly word it?

Factually, hot blondes WANT white men because it is human nature for women to prefer their own race, right? So lets say you are asian or indian and want to know how you can get those girls that would normally not go for a man of your background, how can you go about getting info on that?

Example, you live in California where there are a lot of hot blondes. Thing is, these women have a particular type they go for and your looks just aren't in with them for the most part. For some reason, you are not having success with this demographic but you really want to have success with them. How can you go about finding out how to have success with these women?

Title	[PSA] Self-Pity Race/Age Whine-Posts = Banhammer
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Date	February 20, 2015 9:31 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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