Pretty old but still a great response

Haze360x · 2021-01-11T05:11:17+00:00

The comments will be locked, due to the nonstop arguing and controversy. Men and women both have privileges in their own respective ways. Men rarely win custody of their own kids, and are considered second class parents by society (a fact even Judge Judy recognized publicly), and women can be raped and hurt, not taken seriously, and not promoted due to their gender. Let's remember that there are 2 sides to every coin.

realnukka · 2021-01-10T21:08:47+00:00

Yea, I can’t even tell if my wife wears the same thing twice, I don’t give a shit

meme_harder · 2021-01-10T21:24:26+00:00

The worst criticism I have ever heard about women has come from other women.

ayogiggles · 2021-01-10T21:27:15+00:00

If I paid for the dress and I liked it, I’d wear it as many times as I want to any number of events. If they call me out on it, I’d just say “Thanks for noticing. I liked it so much I needed to wear it again.”

Joet19711971 · 2021-01-10T21:42:29+00:00

I think she'd be more upset to find that most people don't give a shit what she's wearing

Asha_W · 2021-01-10T21:09:20+00:00

Most men don't even give a shit if your dress is cute. Wear whatever the fuck you like. Jamie Briggs from Not another Teen Movie still got love. She only wore bent glasses and paint covered overalls.

saltydogdick · 2021-01-10T21:18:53+00:00

Most straight men probably wouldnt even notice it's the same dress, we're all oblivious

finniruse · 2021-01-10T21:16:36+00:00

Men are forced to wear suits to work, while women can wear whatever the fuck they want. Sitting in a crowded train in summer next to a girl is a summer dress is maddening.

Electrical-Bacon-81 · 2021-01-11T02:48:04+00:00

"If I saw a girl wearing a dress I'd seen her wear before, Zero chance I'd date her"

no man ever

Tr0utcake · 2021-01-10T21:29:38+00:00

Funny how this supposed male priviledge comes about as a result of their own vanity. No straight guy gives a crap if a woman wears the same dress twice. Actually, I'm pretty sure a gay guy wouldn't care either...

Pingayaso · 2021-01-11T04:13:44+00:00

Now we have to start explaining women that other women being mean to them is not men's fault? Ffs.

da-dunk · 2021-01-10T21:31:48+00:00

I like how a lot of men say comfort over class. I think girls in a comfy hoodies are way cuter than a girl being cold, feet hurt from heels and layers of make-up.

iamdarosa · 2021-01-10T21:22:55+00:00

This is only in their own head. If someone were to comment on me wearing the same thing I would tell them: I’m colorblind and this makes everything easier for me and also Who cares what I’m wearing!

TWS85 · 2021-01-11T00:27:12+00:00

Nobody hates women like other women

ilhamalfatihah16 · 2021-01-11T04:41:02+00:00

Women creating problem for other women and casting men as the sole creator of the problem. So, the sky is blue, the clouds are white, and grass is green.

LilChickenTender02 · 2021-01-10T21:44:15+00:00

Most guys dont give a damn what you wear. Most of that shit comes from other women. Any man who does in a negative way ain't worth jack shit

BoogalooBoi1776_2 · 2021-01-11T05:06:19+00:00

That's toxic femininity

LilGossipGirlxo · 2021-01-10T21:14:06+00:00

Never a truer word spoken. Look at your own before accusing others

Bstassy · 2021-01-11T04:41:02+00:00

I freaking ask my wife for months to wear a specific dress or outfit again!! She just insists on something new, or even buying a new outfit. It’s like.. dude! You have 8 other outfits that look incredible! Wear that!

Not only do I not care if she wears the same thing twice, she won’t wear the same things I love cause she has to wear it again

HollowLegMonk · 2021-01-10T21:31:48+00:00

The fact that she thinks a fashion choice is a societal privilege shows just how much of a privileged life she lives. People are waiting in food lines for hours because they can’t feed their family and this woman is complaining about having to wear more than one dress when she socializes.

wafflepiezz · 2021-01-10T21:47:47+00:00

And her privilege is being able to tweet this. Imagine having nothing to do but tweeting and victimizing yourself over nonsensical “mAlE pRiViLeGe” scenarios.

thatlankyfellow · 2021-01-11T05:00:36+00:00

tbh most men can't even remember what they wore last night let alone what a girl wore to some party

hao_kuchb · 2021-01-10T21:24:56+00:00

It’s the social media comments which bothers women the most

hippiegodfather · 2021-01-10T21:44:47+00:00

Every girl I have ever known has had many outfits they wore multiple times

SeptetRa · 2021-01-10T21:16:58+00:00

All 'straight' facts

Goatboy1 · 2021-01-10T23:46:56+00:00

"If there were 3 women left in the world, 2 of them would be over in the corner talking about the other one" - Redd Foxx

rubbarz · 2021-01-10T22:47:51+00:00

Half of male privilege is just jealousy of what guys get away with beside biological means.

Dudes don't give a fuck if your nails aren't freshly painted, makeup isn't caked on, and you have on stilettos. Shit if you just smile at us thats more noticeable than anything else. 99% of negative comments about women come from other women and raggedy ass old guys.

dantemp · 2021-01-10T23:47:56+00:00

You can tell how little women consider men's opinions on their appearance by how much time and energy they focus on their fucking nails.

SultanSaatana · 2021-01-11T00:35:32+00:00

Yes, don't blame the so-called "patriarchy" for this one. Sort your bitch-fights out yourself, nothing to do with guys.

nuggsnotdrugsbruh · 2021-01-10T23:22:44+00:00

Imagine having such an easy life that you have to complain about not being able to wear the same outfit because of made-up male oppression.

Cr0fter · 2021-01-10T23:24:27+00:00

I could never say anything to anyone about wearing the same clothes multiple times in a week or month, or in a row or whatever. As someone who use to only have 3 or 4 wearable shirts and 2 pairs of jeans it hurt so bad when a coworker made fun of me for wearing the same shirt to work twice in a row, even though it was washed. I couldnt even answer, it was so embarassing.

TieranCollide · 2021-01-10T23:50:08+00:00

And this is why modern womens' fashion is utterly atrocious and created with the intention of throwing it out after one season. Women think they have to wear whatever everyone else is wearing so they look like herds of sheep. Once something isn't deemed as "in" anymore they throw it out.

Bloody ridiculous.

ilcasdy · 2021-01-11T00:17:48+00:00

It’s an elitist thing among women. Oh you can’t afford a new outfit every week? Simpsons did it lol.

Abamboozler · 2021-01-11T00:41:14+00:00

Isn't the whole "women can't wear the same dress twice" thing a hold over from Victorian Europe/British Nobility about how wealthy women were flexing they could afford a new dress for every party/event, and that it was the poorer, less Noble women who wore the same dress twice?

Also even though I'm not married, I've noticed girlfriend wear the same thing, dress or otherwise, more than once and the natural response is "That always looks great on you." and then move on.

Willham0 · 2021-01-11T01:31:54+00:00

wow owned that dumb bitch

anotherbigbrotherbob · 2021-01-11T01:45:13+00:00

Can you imagine a guy saying to his girlfriend,

You're wearing that again?! You wore that two weeks ago.! I know it makes your boobs look big and full, but it's the SAME dress!

You have to go change.

Allstar818 · 2021-01-11T01:56:53+00:00

“Men have such privilege that they aren’t assholes to each other about fashion”

horseshoekingdom · 2021-01-11T02:23:36+00:00

The height of materialistic thinking.

Dumble_Dior · 2021-01-10T23:55:02+00:00

Imagine being a straight man and having your straight male friend approach you saying something like “Didn’t that girl over there wear the same dress at the last event we all attended together?”

LetMeBeFrank77 · 2021-01-10T22:22:53+00:00

I love how they attempt to pass some absolutely non-existent thing as a rule in order to play a victim. Wah wah it's so hard to be whamen...

Lagafoolin · 2021-01-10T23:53:42+00:00

I was literally berated by an ex because I would always suggest the same black leggings. She literally screamed at me “do you just like the fucking leggings, or what?!” Can never win.

VFsv6 · 2021-01-10T21:51:43+00:00

So true...

thedrunkenrebel · 2021-01-10T22:03:47+00:00

To be honest, i love when a girl wears the same outfit multiple times. I don`t even care if that girl has perfect hair, perfect makeup, pristine nails. Yes, i do notice stuff that looks odd or funny, but it`s not important to me and i don`t make a fuss about every imperfection. Fuck, i don`t even care if she has clean clothes, as long as they`re reasonably clean. All i care about is the girl that`s in those clothes, because i want to spend my time with her, not her clothes.

GeserAndersen · 2021-01-10T22:10:36+00:00

is something that I will never understand, isn't it better to wear suitable and comfortable clothes instead of trying to impress others (in this case other women) with clothes that are beautiful but uncomfortable?

SabrinaSpellman1 · 2021-01-10T22:33:11+00:00

I think every woman has their 'go-to' dress or outfit. I couldn't care less if people have already seen me in it, but I have heard other women comment things like that about someone wearing the same outfit they've seen them in before. Not everyone can throw out their whole wardrobe when there's a new season of fashion. And the man on the post is right, men don't care at all!

2021-01-10T22:43:03+00:00

The women in my family don’t wear heavy make up, in fact most don’t wear any at all, same with the dresses and all the other stuff. These are all collective choices made by you to get people’s attention and validation. That’s why the running joke of “Man doesn’t notice any changes about his girlfriend/wife” is a thing and a joke that has been around for decades because at the end of the day if you look like you actually took a shower and don’t smell like shit NO ONE GIVES A SHIT

Rhododendron29 · 2021-01-10T23:15:46+00:00

Am woman, went to all of my best friends weddings in the exact same dress. Only exceptions were the one where I was a bridesmaid and I finally bought a new dress last year for my brother in laws tiny wedding. No one has ever commented on me wearing the same dress. I love that dress.

2021-01-10T23:51:36+00:00

I mean, is it a privilege to not be scrutinized by your own people?

BaldrTheGood · 2021-01-11T00:10:16+00:00

This is objectively wrong. I know plenty of guys that would notice and care if a lady was wearing a cute dress more than once. They would just like it because she looked nice.

TheWolphman · 2021-01-11T00:31:00+00:00

I guess the real male privilege was the friends we made along the way.

oh_look_a_fist · 2021-01-11T00:52:27+00:00

If you look amazing in a dress, your partner will want you to wear it often

kvbt7 · 2021-01-11T01:16:20+00:00

They'll say: "mUh tOxiC mAsCuLiNiTy"

2021-01-11T01:20:51+00:00

Female privilege is people giving a single fuck about what you wear.

Whisper · 2021-01-11T01:49:18+00:00

If you think I can even remember what you were wearing yesterday, you vastly overestimate how much attention I am paying to you.

sirjuice35 · 2021-01-11T02:41:59+00:00

dumb bitch

Slimonstar · 2021-01-11T03:52:25+00:00

tbh if a dress makes you look cute and you dont think that looks good enough why wear a dress in the first place and go nude.

time_over · 2021-01-11T03:58:03+00:00

Most men dont care if you wear dress or not

GayBlackAndMarried · 2021-01-11T00:02:16+00:00

And female privilege is being able and having time to complain about retarded shit like this all day every day online, because you've got nothing better to do while the men are too busy keeping society afloat, food in stores, cargo running, waste disposal, sewers, water and electricity running and actually getting important shit done without which your dumb bitch ass would die within a week because you don't want to break your nails in your bullshit white collar diversity quota filler job.

Yeah, it's also men's fault that women are catty bitches that bite each other's ass and talk shit about each other any chance they get, this is sexist men's fault! You're absolutely fucking right, holy shit, I've been blind my whole fucking life, thanks for taking me out of my dark cave made of pure solid ignorance and enlightening me with you infinite fucking wisdom!

Bitch, fuck off. I'm so fucking sick of feminist cunts bitching about completely dumb and irrelevant shit online.

I bet that if all men collectively went like "fuck it" for just one week, society would fucking collapse and billions would die within that week. See how relevant femicunts and their inane, childish bitching would be after that. What a bullshit fucking ideology.

Only thing more pathetic than a feminist woman (which is somewhat justified, since it's deeply in their favor so I can at least understand why they're pro feminism, because they're selfish) is a feminist man, who only supports feminism to simp and try to get some pussy he's otherwise too fucking pathetic to get.

God, I fucking wish everyone had my superpower, which is to see through people and society's bullshit with incredible ease, what a fucking Utopia that would be. Imagine a world where no one would ever fall for bullshit and screwed up, selfish, self serving narcissistic psychopath ideologies!

All women are beautiful and I don't give half a flying fuck what they wear as long as they're around, because life without women would be even more fucking pointless depressing crap than it already is.

All women except feminists. Fuck feminists (not literally, because you'll most likely end up in jail on false rape accusations, since that's how fucked in the head and evil these bitches are).

I love my fianceé, and guess what, she hates feminists too because she sees that fucked up ideology for what it is, just like me.

FSMonToast · 2021-01-10T22:14:46+00:00

"You dont understand i have to wear make up..." stfu. No you dont.

LazloHollifeld · 2021-01-10T23:17:17+00:00

It can and does happen to women. A female Australian host was called out for wearing the same blouse she had worn FOUR months before. To prove a point her male cohost wore the exact same suit for a year straight and no one said a word.

EuropoBob · 2021-01-10T23:45:23+00:00

He makes a great point but it doesn't address the idea of having 'a privilege', and in fact, misses the point.

A man won't get criticism from anyone for doing that. A woman would, regardless of who the criticism is from.

Don't let some jumped up online feminist tell you this is somehow because of patriarchy. And don't let some online mra/kneckbeard convince you that feminists, in general, are doing this.

Women also pressure women.

Nighters · 2021-01-10T21:57:42+00:00

As certificated male person I would not even notice.

caboose979 · 2021-01-10T23:37:08+00:00

whose fault is that? it’s not men commenting on women wearing the same outfits, it’s women worried that other women will notice.

ovcpete · 2021-01-10T23:59:14+00:00

That post is the most 1% thing I have read today

Kirikomori · 2021-01-11T00:11:06+00:00

is that mia khalifa

2021-01-11T01:01:41+00:00

if a girl looks cute in a dress, she should wear it many times again

BABarracus · 2021-01-11T01:07:03+00:00

That shit is really other women keeping each other down.

Bosurd · 2021-01-11T01:18:40+00:00

Imagine trying to justify male privilege based on optional clothing choices lol

lucyvanp · 2021-01-11T01:43:52+00:00

Seinfeld noticed.

liriodendron1 · 2021-01-11T01:45:38+00:00

Ladies if you find a cute dress with pockets you wear that thing to tatters and guys wont have a second thought about it other than. That's a cute dress.

DizzyFish9 · 2021-01-11T01:47:49+00:00

This must be reposted daily

OMGItsHerdsern · 2021-01-11T01:51:13+00:00

Ugh I had an ex in highschool who used to text me after we'd met up before classes to guess her eye shadow color. She'd be all pissed off because I wasn't paying "enough" attention. Like, girl I'm 16, I wasn't even making eye contact.

EnIdiot · 2021-01-11T03:00:14+00:00

The argument they always seem to throw back is that women judge women on this kind of thing because of men. That always struck me as the stupidest thing. Just stop giving a damn about what I think or don’t think. I don’t want that kind of power and never asked for it.

Stang1776 · 2021-01-11T04:23:25+00:00

If i tell my wife a dress is cute or i like it on her it means "you better wear that fucking thing again."

If she asks and i dont like something on her ill tell her that too but she can wear whats she wants. If its really bad ill just say "that doesnt seem to fit you the best."

stitetes1972 · 2021-01-11T04:24:33+00:00

I can't remember the last time I used a question in a comment.

spicecandy666 · 2021-01-11T04:36:19+00:00

What a wholesome response 👏

Underdresser · 2021-01-11T04:36:48+00:00

Guess this says it all. Bitches, step back. It’s not always a “what is he planning?” thing. That meme of the gf misunderstanding her guy. We all deserve to die as a species

Butler-of-Penises · 2021-01-11T04:46:16+00:00

How fucking retarded do you have to be not to be able to deduct this yourself? lol

Haggerstonian · 2021-01-11T04:54:42+00:00

As a independent who couldn’t make the grade

zodar · 2021-01-10T21:52:44+00:00

how is this a pussy pass denied

mattwb72 · 2021-01-10T21:30:08+00:00

r/quityourbullshit

Call_Me_Ryan · 2021-01-10T22:26:24+00:00

Whose turn is it to post this next week?

Lokimonoxide · 2021-01-10T21:53:15+00:00

No man will give a shit what your dress looks like when it's on the floor of our bedroom.

ih8pghwinter · 2021-01-11T00:45:40+00:00

How....many.....times.....must.....we.....see.....this......meme?????

gaynazifurry4bernie · 2021-01-10T22:27:45+00:00

If it looks good on you, wear it.

If it makes you feel comfortable, wear it.

This does not apply to Nazi, KKK, or other hate-group clothing.

ancienttruthsdontdie · 2021-01-10T22:41:59+00:00

Most dudes would rather you not wear anything at all.

raze570 · 2021-01-10T23:27:42+00:00

My fucking christ...this is the 10th fucking time I've seen this same fucking post. How about OP post something new...even it it's fake or repost try r/drinkadrankthentellme.

KlausVonBulloks · 2021-01-11T00:02:39+00:00

Replace the word “single” with “straight” my wife has a lot of caddie male gay friends.

Ok-Sell8466 · 2021-01-10T23:15:07+00:00

this post is acting like women can't contribute to sexism against women.

acrobaticdildo · 2021-01-11T01:36:18+00:00

She's not saying straight (gay bit or whatever) men don't care about that. She's saying that, as a man, no one will bat an eye if you wear the same suit two times or more, which is true.

rap31264 · 2021-01-11T02:42:40+00:00

nero1163 · 2021-01-10T21:56:06+00:00

He's right but she didn't say that men are the reason why like he assumed. She also didn't give context to the situations where this is true. Idk what she does for a living but she may work in a fashion conscious industry that does push those ideals and she fell into the trap that most people with narrow life experience have.

Tldr, hes right but assumed too much detail from a simple idea.

2021-01-11T01:21:42+00:00

Yea you got em! Fuck these women being critical. It’s not like I was called a faggot every day by other dudes for years for being a little different. Only women are mean.

Deanonoz · 2021-01-10T22:05:09+00:00

There that bothered why do they wear clothes?

Sketch_Sesh · 2021-01-10T22:30:02+00:00

Same when Finists complain they can’t go topless. No straight man would complain, only other women

LordP666 · 2021-01-10T23:27:32+00:00

Um, there isn't a single straight man who cares if you wear any dress at all.

mmkkmmkkmm · 2021-01-10T23:46:08+00:00

Well, gay men too but the point stands.

2021-01-11T01:07:28+00:00

Tell the media that then

5uper5aiyan5wagger · 2021-01-10T21:47:33+00:00

So she is right, why is this even on this sub?

autocommenter_bot · 2021-01-10T22:33:38+00:00

Fuck this sub's dumb.

If the second comment is completely correct, that is still absolutely describing an example of "male privileged".

EDIT:

No. It's not a privilege if the other gender CHOOSES to behave a certain way.

Yes it is. What the fuck do you think words mean.

Let's say that short people built their shelves, and now only I, a tall person, can reach those shelves. Ok I have a tall-privilege.

This is what words mean you fucking numbskulls.

Analyzing whose to blame is completely separate.

Pingayaso · 2021-01-11T02:43:37+00:00

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pokemon_tradesies · 2021-01-10T22:42:10+00:00

I don’t understand how the top thing is related to the bottom thing. Not sure the top one cares where the pressure is coming from

murder_droid · 2021-01-10T22:19:26+00:00

I mean, she never said that it would be men to judge, just that men wouldn't be under the same scrutiny.

ADHD1080i · 2021-01-11T02:39:45+00:00

The tweeter is not attacking men but the pressure women feel from men, women, fashion, society, celebrities etc.

What is interesting is that neither men NOR women care when people stick to uniform rather than mixing it up.

https://www.fastcompany.com/90356060/we-asked-two-of-our-female-editors-to-wear-the-same-thing-every-day-heres-what-happened

CanBernieStillWin · 2021-01-10T21:56:34+00:00

It kind of feels like the guy responding is too wrapped up in gender wars bullshit. There's nothing wrong with the original tweet, and it makes a fair point.

Kn1ght_4rt0r14s · 2021-01-10T23:41:53+00:00

My best friend can confirm.

BoonesFarmCherry · 2021-01-10T23:48:12+00:00

now now that’s not fair

gay men are also super bitchy about what women wear

Pillagerguy · 2021-01-10T23:58:28+00:00

Fuck all reposts.

RocinanteMCRNCoffee · 2021-01-11T00:03:02+00:00

It's not just the women. The men in my office gossip and actually did call me out for wearing the same dress twice in one week.

A) I love that fucking dress so I bought two B) I wore the same design twice that week because 1) fuck you and 2) I was going to a movie party after which was costumed and the dress was perfect - this was back in the Before Times

Pingayaso · 2021-01-11T02:17:53+00:00

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TheChiefsBowl · 2021-01-10T22:50:49+00:00

As a woman y'all are so full of shit. I've had a woman once in my life negatively comment my clothes but I've lost count how many times men have told me I'm wearing too much make up or not enough make up or tell me I should dress more feminine because guys like that more.

But keep on telling women what their own experiences have been

fap_spawn · 2021-01-11T02:45:54+00:00

Negative comments that you won't get if you're a man....so it's still something that is a concern for women, but not for men....hence why it's an instance of male privilege. My dude makes a true point, but he's missed the point quite handsomely

motsanciens · 2021-01-11T03:45:18+00:00

Both of them are correct.

shittyfucknugget · 2021-01-10T23:05:02+00:00

What kind of pass was denied here? She didn't think she'd get special treatment for being a woman.
She pointed out a problem women face, that yes, men do not generally face. That does not make it a non-problem.
Women around me wear the same shit all the time, what reality is this even from
Please smash that like button and ring that bell

xlkslb_ccdtks · 2021-01-10T23:13:06+00:00

It's almost like throughout the centuries men have conditioned women to care too much about how they look!

2021-01-10T23:22:37+00:00

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ExtremeZebra5 · 2021-01-10T23:02:05+00:00

In the girl's defense, she never claimed that men were responsible, just that we benefit from it.

never_pm_me_ok · 2021-01-10T23:48:41+00:00

I mean, she’s still technically right.

BoredErica · 2021-01-11T00:09:24+00:00

You understand that guys can have a privilege that women don't have and the proximate cause can be more due to other women and not guys right? Unfortunately most men and women don't understand how the assumptions and expectations about men and women in society perpetuate forces that are unfair to both men and women, but in different ways. Seeing feminism as just men vs women is surface level and vapid.

But you all know the answer. A subreddit named 'pussypassdenied' is full of men dedicated to shitting on women, so they are not dedicated to viewing gender relations with a neutral lens. They're not much different from women who shit on men all the time.

tylerden · 2021-01-10T21:24:47+00:00

Yeah but it's a problem men don't have that women do. So you could say guys have that privilege. This dude is just saying it's not they guys fault, rather kattie little bitches.

ChaoticBraindead · 2021-01-10T23:18:51+00:00

Honestly I don't think that this response is a valid point. It doesn't really matter what gender the criticism is coming from if you're still receiving it, just like how the fact that men are far more likely to be the victim of a violent crime is still valid even though the perpetrator is also far more likely to be male. The original feminine post is still stupid though, since that's a result of a woman's own vanity, while most straight guys wouldn't give two craps if someone wanted to criticize their outfit.

dudinax · 2021-01-11T02:39:16+00:00

She's not saying who's fault it is.

doings-needing-done · 2021-01-11T03:08:47+00:00

Ok? And? That somehow makes it less male privilege? No, it doesn't; it's a concern men do not have to worry about.

I know thats not gonna be a popular sentiment here, but I'm right. I'll take my downvotes just like I have every other of the 600 times this has been posted here.

Pretty old but still a great response

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Title	Pretty old but still a great response
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