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| 4 | I just lost my virginity at 21 years old. Wanted to share my experience and thank you allThat's true, but it does a lot more than that. It's a night and day difference between your before and after pics. The girl basically threw herself at you because you became too hot to resist. The facial aesthetic gains you got (a big deal!) are from lifting, if you didn't lift and you lost the weight you'd just be skinny fat and not looking good. It's nice to see someone who actually read the fucking manual for once and followed the instructions. You did everything you were supposed to and hey … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/21 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Working on looks alone did not improve my confidence with girlsIf you get IOIs like that you just have to escalate. "My room is a mess, let's go to your room. You have netflix?" or whatever. If you live in the same dorm just invite her over to help you study or whatever excuse you want. The worst that can happen is she says no and runs away screaming (but that's not likely to happen.) | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/21 08:51 PM |
| 15 | Oh shit they figured out our resilience method of identity (re)construction. "undertheorizing is the communicative construction of resilience in precarious and problematic spaces online"Gotta give the author credit for figuring out a an excuse to hang out on TRP all the time and get college credit for it. I feel bad for people studying useless "social-science" degrees and having to jump through all the hoops to get loaded with student debt. Sean, do you even lift? Ctrl-F "lift" and "lifting" produced no hits. Not sure how anyone can write so many pages about TRP and not even hit the basics. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/21 08:35 PM |
| 10 | Just read this shit on another sub. Lmao.Creative writing and fiction AKA complete and total BULLSHIT. Look at some of the phrases "my friendship group" WTF. Total gym bro wrote that for sure. And I'm sure "the sister" is going to be calling Mr Red Pill himself who led Dead Brother Character to steroids and this dangerous TRP lifestyle that led him to homelessness and suicide. And we all know that steroids make you start smashing up things in your house when you talk to your ex... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/21 10:27 PM |
| 6 | How dare you want what you want?If you're in a party environment sometimes that works a lot better than you might expect. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/21 12:57 PM |
| 17 | Why you don't do anythingI think a lot of it is fear of failure, too. It's easier to goof off than to spend a bunch of time working to some goal that you're not sure you can achieve. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 16 | Why you don't do anythingThere are some good quotes from Woody Allen about this, he says he meets people all the time who have an idea for a movie or a script and they don't lack talent or good ideas-- they're smart people who could have been successful but their problem is that they never actually write the script. If you want to be a guitar player you're going to have to practice the guitar at least half an hour a day every day, otherwise you're not going to be able to play the guitar. 80 percent of success is showing… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/21 05:54 PM |
| 16 | Skilled conversationsI think a lot of them are just clueless. Being a whiny little bitch who needs to hit the gym doesn't count as "mental illness" or a "personality disorder" so there's nothing "wrong" with you for them to treat. If you had psychotic delusions or panic attacks they could prescribe you drugs. If you're just out-of-shape and 15 pounds overweight and whiny and boring there's nothing for them to "treat". | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Skilled conversationsThat's the problem with "defensive medicine" and the lawsuit-happy culture we live in. If somebody smells bad they need to know that they have to change their clothes more often and take a couple of showers a day. The whole softly-softly thing might prevent patients from getting mad at you, but it doesn't work well for people who can't take a hint. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 4 | My Asian ParentsI've had a few really great hookups/blind dates that worked out (never from my parents, to be fair). It's not about seeking their approval but more like don't automatically reject the little old lady or grandpa who says "my grandniece plays volleyball at Stanford, she's tall and beautiful and hasn't found a man you should ask her out." These sorts of people can be allies or useful to you (they mean well) and if OP isn't interested in 40 year olds he might as well tell his parents that because th… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | My Asian ParentsThat's not what the conversation is about. You should go write some reviews for products you've never tried on amazon, or review some books you've never read. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | My Asian ParentsPost an update in 20 or 30 years after you adopted some kids and let us know if it helped you avoid divorce rape or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | My Asian ParentsI downvoted you because you a 29 year old idiot with no kids giving advice about something you know jack shit about. Go adopt some kids and then tell me about it, until then fuck off. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/20 09:34 PM |
| 1 | My Asian ParentsHow many kids have you adopted? Don't be the DYEL fat kid telling me free weights are dangerous and I should use machines (and using that as an excuse not to work out because there aren't any machines right here.) | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | My Asian ParentsIf you want to have your own kids (which is something a lot of people want) you have to take some risks. Nothing wrong with using your money to support your own kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/20 08:04 PM |
| 9 | My Asian ParentsYou can avoid that problem by telling them outright what your basic standards are. If you like thin women who are under 25 just tell them that. If you like smart nerdy girls who have a big butt (or girls with tattoos who smoke and play guitar) just tell them. "Fix ups / blind dates" aren't always bad. A lot of times people have no clue what you're looking for or interested in, and it saves a lot of time if you give them a clue. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 9 | My Asian ParentsYou can do yourself a big favor and tell her you're not interested in anyone over the age of 23. If they insist on fixing you up with women, might as well allow for the possibility that the blind date is with someone hot. It also gives you an easy way to slow them down since probably 95% of the people they would have tried to fix you up with won't pass this simple screen. Edit: It probably makes them respect you a little more too. Instead of thinking "Bear-with-Bit must be lonely, he can't find … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/20 06:34 PM |
| -1 | My Asian ParentsKids can be lots of fun (a lot more than I would have thought.) If you find someone you know would make a great mom you might knock her up. If I were you I'd focus less on "marriage" and more on finding someone you want to breed with (literally). You can always find sex and companionship and love and other things. No substitute for having a great mother for your kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/20 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Day 1 on “red pill”The hating women thing is like hating ebay because you got outbid by someone else and they won the item you really wanted... even though the other bidder doesn't love whatever it is as much as you do and didn't ask the seller thoughtful questions and isn't as knowledgeable. The blue pill guy says "I keep submitting bids that are only a few dollars below the highest bidder and I never win anything even though I'm much nicer to the seller and more thoughtful and have a great personality and I woul… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 6 | [FIELD REPORT] Girl tells me she’s gay, then proceeds to make love to meEither she's not super-gay anymore, or OP's just girly enough that he's her "type". | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/20 01:54 AM |
| 4 | The Reddit Admin Operate in Bad Faith, They Lurk in the Shadows to Generate Post-Hoc Rationalizations for Ideological Censorship. A Proof and Challenge to Reddit AdminAs I remember it he was a part-time student and student accounts legally have access to free downloads of scientific and technical material using MIT's account. So he decided to download all of it and re-post it so that it would be freely available to the public and not just students. (Not a crime!) Anyway, the Obama administration decided to charge him with ridiculous crimes (domestic terrorism or something, I forgot the exact details) claiming that he was abusing his account and he was facing … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 6 | I met a psycopathThank you! Was looking for this comment. When you realize a girl is DTF you don't have to take her to a second venue to continue a conversation. Just do it wherever you are or get a room in a hotel and video everything. You don't even need to give her your name or ask for hers. Afterwards if everything goes well and if you want to see her again you can exchange some contact information. Wrap Jimmy up and avoid kissing on the mouth if you're worried about diseases. I think OP got too interested i… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/20 06:47 AM |
| 11 | The Reddit Admin Operate in Bad Faith, They Lurk in the Shadows to Generate Post-Hoc Rationalizations for Ideological Censorship. A Proof and Challenge to Reddit AdminReddit turned to shit after Aaron Swartz was murdered. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/20 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Why You Should Even Bother.Besides your own self-esteem and self-respect there are many reasons to "always be prepared" and to invest in yourself. You never know when some random thing is going to happen and that extra effort you spent will pay off. Something heavy falls over on top of someone and you're the only one able to lift it off of them. Even though you live somewhere with no cute girls, one actually appears and you have the confidence to talk to her. Somebody who is in a position to offer you a job or could be us… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Note on BF via Scale vs Navy MethodI'd trust Navy Method over the scale. Sounds like you need to lose some weight. | /r/askMRP | 18/08/20 03:27 AM |
| 11 | How should i try to fuck this girl next weekend?Something like "I think you're sexy as hell" as an answer to "are we just friends". I wouldn't bother answering the second question at all. Or say something like "I want you to fuck me. You make me horny." Obviously if she says no you can't do it, but the idea would be to keep taking clothes off and continue as long as she's enthusiastically consenting as she should be. You shouldn't be doing much talking. You're a horny caveman who isn't interested in logic questions. She's either DTF or not. Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/20 06:58 AM |
| 3 | Against The RegimeI'm not expecting a collapse, I think we'll see a stampede away from the failed policies and stupidity. The pendulum always swings back, and right now it's at the end of its reach where the normies are starting to get alienated and people see that there's no great wizard behind the curtain. Reddit is full of clueless blue-pilled true believers in The System and it's easy to get demoralized thinking that they're representatives of the outside world. The snowflakes will throw their little tantrums… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 25 | What I have learned from dating after 60You'd probably do OK with much younger women too. Even if only a fraction of them are into guys who are much older (let's say it's 1 in 5), you have the over 6ft and not fat numbers working in your favor. I don't know how old Uncle Vasya is but he can chime in here. u/vasiliyzaitzev | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | The carousel in the East versus the WestOP has no conception of game at all, just a very flawed misconception. He thinks game is trickery or deceit, not building attraction. Clueless! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 43 | Proctor & Gamble loses $8 Billion, decides maybe war on men was a bad idea...Box of 100 razor blades is seven or 8 bucks and lasts for years. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/20 08:33 PM |
| 19 | Proctor & Gamble loses $8 Billion, decides maybe war on men was a bad idea...I think it's that even insufferable twats and crybabies are getting sick of the PC bullshit and think it's gone too far. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | "Your" woman likely has strange cock in herA lot of it is opportunity-driven. If she's on a long boring flight to Timbuktu and the man sitting in the seat next to her is hot or interesting and she thinks she can get away with it, why wouldn't she? "It just happened." | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Anonymous Berkeley Professor Shreds BLM Injustice NarrativeCampus culture in general in the USA has gotten Blue-pilled to the max to the point that there's no academic freedom and people are afraid to say what they think in class whether it's about feminism or racism or any other "blue pilled" sacred cows. I think it fits here fine. Good for this Prof for speaking up. Doesn't mean any of us have to agree with what he says. Sad that he feels he'd get shit-canned just for speaking publicly. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/20 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Anonymous Berkeley Professor Shreds BLM Injustice NarrativeAnonymous Prof dropping red pills from the belly of the Bluest Pilled place on earth. Signs of hope for the future? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/20 08:37 PM |
| 3 | LH LabCorp again involved in massive DNA and paternity fraud | Zero HedgeI'm trying to read up more on this too. Apparently another separate issue is with the databases they pull from. There was a court case with a father from Morocco, and their DNA sample database doesn't include people from Morocco, so if you have a child who is half-Morrocan or Moroccan and a potential father from Morocco, it's matching DNA that everybody from Morocco has and concluding "this must be the father" even though everybody in Morocco may have that DNA. Or, if you're Tibetan (or some oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/20 08:22 PM |
| 5 | LH LabCorp again involved in massive DNA and paternity fraud | Zero HedgeThe article isn't very well-written, but if I understand it he's saying LabCorp sells a "Relationship Report" which is widely used but isn't actually a DNA test, that produces an official-looking report that people are passing off as valid paternity tests in unsuspecting courts. The technical details are lacking, will be interesting to see if he's wrong or if there's something there. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Labcorp Fake Paternity TestI don't know. I've never been in a situation where it was needed. I guess at a minimum it's worth ordering your own test from a different company (or at least ordering the proper reliable tests, for many medical issues there are "sensitive" tests available for a higher price.) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Labcorp Fake Paternity TestIndeed. Not sure why "all men are created equal" needs to be addressed or discussed in the article. I do buy the main point that DNA testing is "magic" and courts and laypeople aren't in a good position to argue with an official-looking form from a big company that seems to say someone has a 99.99% chance of being the father [if the proposition that "he is the father" is assumed to be true.] It will be interesting to see what LabCorp has to say in their defense. Quietly dropping the "external ce… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | LH LabCorp again involved in massive DNA and paternity fraud | Zero HedgeI'm a Zero Hedge fan in general, they aggregate stories from different sources and most of the time they prove out or are pretty solid (certainly better than I can say for MSM reporting.) Certainly they get on issues much faster than most other sites. I'd at least treat this as a "where there's smoke there's fire" situation that merits a further look. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/20 05:36 PM |
| 19 | LH LabCorp again involved in massive DNA and paternity fraud | Zero HedgeLabCorp has been allegedly selling a fake "test" that produces a form that anyone can use to "prove" paternity, please see the full article. What a terrible scam! Imagine how many men have been trapped paying for children that they never fathered. Excerpts from the article: https://www.zerohedge.com/news/2020-06-07/lh-labcorp-again-involved-massive-dna-and-paternity-fraud In what may be one of the most disturbing frauds of the year, LabCorp offers a fait accompli system of legal documentation of… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/20 05:04 PM |
| 7 | Looking for some advice on Dead bedroom?My view is you shouldn't turn down sex and you fucked up the make-up issue. When she washed up the make-up you should have told her "I want you to put the lipstick back on" or the eyeshadow or make-up or whatever it is you want her to wear. If she says "what for, I washed it off so we could have sex" tell her "I want you to wear it when we have sex this time because it's kinkier" or something like that. You shouldn't be turning down sex, even if it's kind of "bad duty sex". Instead you should be… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/05/20 07:46 PM |
| 307 | One Thing I Learned About "Quality" GirlsSometimes people who have a very heavy investment into one part of their lives (their education or career), are under-invested in other areas of their life or personal development. All those long hours of being a resident in the hospital or lonely all-nighters in the lab or library take their toll. People don't get to those high positions without making sacrifices. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 12:09 AM |
| 18 | It always gets worse before it gets better. Always. Don't give up on your path.It's also good to keep in mind that if you did it once you can do it again. People come back from all sorts of horrible situations, whether it's suffering from a terrible disease or drug addiction or growing up in poverty or spending years in prison. Even when you're on top of the world you can get knocked back down and have to start all over from scratch. If you're still alive you can work on making your situation better. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/20 06:07 AM |
| 23 | You cannot compete in the beta space for a womanI'd believe she once met some guy who's a pilot who said something to her like "let me know if you want me to take you up some time". The "personal taxi service to go camping" is just teasing OP to see if he takes the bait. OP is taking her story much too seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/20 07:39 PM |
| 15 | Indian MGTOW philosopher dropping red pills on women 2300 years agoIt's always interesting to find out that ancients figured out thousands of years ago the same things we've figured out. Society kind of goes through cycles where everybody forgets the lessons the previous generations learned and then gets to re-learn everything all over again the hard way. Societies get hedonistic and unrestrained and excessive until people get tired of it, then repressive and restrictive and restrained until people get tired of that. People haven't really changed any, but each … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/20 04:23 AM |
| 13 | What happened here?It sounds like your wife went out and bought groceries and you asked her about each item so you could enter them into a spreadsheet. | /r/askMRP | 04/05/20 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Sidebar is same one as on other two subs?https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/wiki/index#wiki_full_sidebar_.28copied.3A_june_12.2C_2019_.40_11.3A30_cst.29 | /r/askMRP | 26/04/20 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Wife had a coronavirus exposure. Would you be sleeping in a separate room? How to handle?Having gone through this already, I don't think you can live in the same house and not infect each other. If you move out of the bedroom you're probably still going to get sick. I'd get a prescription for chloroquine or hydroxychloroquine, plus azithromycin and zinc right away. If your doctor won't prescribe it for you I'd either shop around or enroll in one of the clinical trials below (there may be others that you qualify for.) trialcovid.com Univ of Missouri / Alberta https://covidpep.umn.edu… | /r/askMRP | 14/04/20 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Dual mating strategy can happen at the same time."This is what you must not do, now let that be a lesson to you!" Sounds like the Berenstain Bears | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/20 09:36 PM |
| 3 | A message on asktrp and this quarantine. There is a disturbing trend I am noticing.Reddit quarantined it and then demanded that all the mods be replaced with Manchurian Candidate Mods selected by Reddit, so effectively it's been shut down for good, and exists independently at http://thedonald.win | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | A message on asktrp and this quarantine. There is a disturbing trend I am noticing.You're probably right. A lot of very lazy people out there who want everything to be easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 05:26 AM |
| 10 | A message on asktrp and this quarantine. There is a disturbing trend I am noticing.I think part of the problem is that reddit has made it a real pain to access these subs. On mobile devices and a lot of browsers the sidebar is buried or hard to find, and there are so many warnings of "this sub is quarantined, are you sure you really want to go there?" that pop up it makes it really hard for new people to come and read what they're supposed to read. On top of that the search engines are manipulated and suppress links that come here and steer people to nonsense websites instead.… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 04:18 AM |
| 27 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like?STFU is a good default move, so you probably did the right thing there when it happened. Talking about the temper tantrum she threw the next day is probably a mistake. Either act like it never happened or that you forget all about it just like you would if a 2 year old threw a tantrum the other day. The right move is just to leave when she's acting that way. Come back in an hour (or three days later) and don't offer an explanation for where you've been. Let her parents ask her what the hell she … | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 2 | How often is too often?At 21 and living near each other you should be going at it twice a day or more. Quickie blowjob in the morning, full sex sometime during the day or at night, maybe a couple of makeout sessions at random in-between times. You need to lose the extra weight ASAP and get in really good shape. Her libido will miraculously improve as you do all the sidebar stuff. If not you need a better girlfriend. You're headed for a dead bedroom marriage if you're already having issues with not-enough-sex before yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/04/20 07:23 AM |
| 94 | Lost my virginity. Thank you TheRedPillWell hey, congratulations and good for you! It's nice to know that somebody is working on himself and fixing his own problems. Keep up the good work! It's a much better path than the one you were on before which leads to suicide and despair. Hopefully this cute girl you met will keep you happy for a while, but if not, there are millions more out there. It feels a lot better than being kicked around and treated like shit! Edit: If you keep doing what you've been doing I'll bet your relationship w… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/20 05:45 AM |
| 10 | Schrodinger relationship statusThe best bet with an un-collapsed wave function is to avoid quantum entanglement altogether and just spin particles. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/20 07:22 PM |
| 7 | Want to make my girl more sexual and dirtyIs it good way to verbalise and say what I want and how is going to be? Tell her exactly what you want her to do, and when you're with her do exactly what you want to do as long is she ins't refusing. [Obviously if she says no to something you'll have to immediately stop, hopefully that goes without saying.] Put this on, put your legs here, bend over that way... just tell her what to do. After a while she's likely to come up with some ideas and suggestions of her own, which is great. In the mean… | /r/askMRP | 03/04/20 04:59 PM |
| -3 | On TestosteroneWhy shouldn't he encourage anyone he wants to? Are you the fucking nanny police or something? How about you stop telling other people what to do, say, or think, eh? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 8 | Malaysia's Got Your Back, Fam!Malaysia’s government has sparked outrage by telling women to avoid nagging their hubbies during the coronavirus lockdown. A series of online posters with the hashtag #WomenPreventCOVID19 told residents how to behave while stuck at home — urging women to dress up nicely and wear makeup. Wives were also told to avoid nagging their husbands — and to instead lighten the mood by mimicking the high-pitched voice of Doraemon, a blue anime robot cat popular across Asia. Another poster depicts a man sit… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Boundary or insecure mate guarding?To me it sounds insecure, but you can do whatever you want. The mental attitude you want to adopt is that you're so vastly superior to anyone else she could possibly talk to that you couldn't care less. If she's actually behaving badly or breaking your rules you downgrade her status to plate or cut her loose. In other words, I wouldn't lay down any kind of rule, and if she stays in touch with some ex every month or two, I wouldn't care. If she's conducting an affair or catting around or spending… | /r/askMRP | 01/04/20 05:59 PM |
| 27 | A Note on LeadershipI used to put viruses on a pedestal, ended up with fever and diarrhea. Made Ebola and H1N1 my plates, now viruses treat me like a king. People get excited about Coronavirus, but you can't just have one-itis for a single virus like that. Go out there and just DNGAF about SARS, Coronavirus, HIV... at the end of the day they're just another bug. t. Chad Thundergerm | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Is it too late to confront?From how you describe it the boss guy probably just has a goofy or off sense of humor. Since you're right there, and he's trying to serve you guys drinks, he's trying his comedy. If wife doesn't look at him with a knowing look and seem obviously turned on by him (like they have some kind of special in-jokes) it's probably just his corny/stupid sense of humor. I would have been cracking jokes back at him, like "you know we can't pay you extra for the roofies". That hardly sounds like seductive ta… | /r/askMRP | 10/03/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How to tell if this is a divorce shit-test. [long]I haven't read your earlier posts. Tell her you've gotten bored with this no-sex thing and you've decided to have sex with her now. If you can get back to having sex every day or at least multiple times per week she'll be in a much better mood and easier to get along with. Given that she's already suggested separation and you told her she can leave, you've got nothing to lose at this point, might as well be having sex every day. If you're going to have a female roommate who might move out at any… | /r/askMRP | 10/03/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if this is a divorce shit-test. [long]That was my take on it too. She was kind of shocked that OP really doesn't give a fuck at this point, which is a good thing. | /r/askMRP | 10/03/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to have the characteristics of someone who is abusiveYes, I think you have it backwards. Take the sure thing with Girl A when it's offered. Suddenly Girl B who never even noticed you or considered that you are attractive re-evaluates you because obviously you're attractive or Girl A wouldn't want to be with you. It doesn't matter to you if Girl A and Girl B get mad at each other and stop being friends at some point. Good luck! | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to have the characteristics of someone who is abusiveIf the girl who likes you is still around, go for a NSA or FWB relationship with her right now. Figure out what you want from her, and get it. You'll have fun. Use condoms, be safe, etc. Now you're getting all the sex you want, and the other girl you're still kind of interested in, you can invite her along on stuff you do with the first girl and the group, etc. You're trying to move away from "a nice guy who wants to have relationships with people" to a guy who likes sex and uses people for sex.… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to have the characteristics of someone who is abusiveYou don't actually want to become an abusive asshole. The abusive asshole does well with girls because he naturally has SOME traits in common with people who do well with women (successful player). Things like "knowing what you want and trying to get it while not worrying too much about what anyone else wants" are traits that guys who do well and abusive assholes have in common. You want to be more of a "self-interested jerk", or an "aloof bastard", than an abusive asshole. In your example, the … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/20 07:59 PM |
| 10 | Girlfriend wants me to train her.There are people who combine oral steroids and lived to tell the tale, but it's generally considered to be a risky practice and not very good for your liver. The smaller the doses and the shorter the cycle is, the more likely the user is to survive. Part of the problem with it is that if you start feeling like crap, you don't know which drug is the culprit. I think with people taking var and winny at the same time, it's hard to say if that's what killed them or if it was the cocaine and the ecst… | /r/askMRP | 05/03/20 04:29 PM |
| 26 | Girlfriend wants me to train her.As long as it's fun and you guys have a good time together I would do it. If she's being nasty and complaining the whole time and commanding you around telling you how to be a better personal trainer then drop her. If she's following your lead and looking up to you then it's good and only going to help. I'd avoid var and winny and especially tren unless she's transgender or wants to be. Seriously don't do that. | /r/askMRP | 05/03/20 03:18 PM |
| 20 | Since filing for divorce my wife is acting very nice. Why?Maybe you should stay married and just re-file for divorce every year. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/03/20 06:42 AM |
| 5 | Pregnant wife smokes behind my back, shifts blame. How to handle it?Maybe buy her a vape or some nicotine gum or something? If she can't give it up during pregnancy she's probably seriously addicted (in the sense of wanting to quit and not being able to quit.) I think I'd talk to your OB/Gyn and just go for "harm reduction", maybe there are safer alternatives to smoking that would still give her the nicotine fix. | /r/askMRP | 04/03/20 08:07 AM |
| 106 | The female dating strategy sub inadvertently proving redpill theory correct. Oh the irony.Reddit is run by a small-minded bluepill idiot named "Spez" who insists that everyone has to think like he does or be punished. Don't expect him to use logic or apply rules fairly. It's all about promoting his agenda at all costs. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/20 07:52 PM |
| 10 | Hurt men destroying the integrity of TRPMaybe some people really are hopeless and some never need any help, but for everyone else self-help can be beneficial. The clueless are going to screw it up, just like they always screw everything up. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/20 09:56 PM |
| 82 | Hurt men destroying the integrity of TRPIt's an open forum on reddit so you've got everyone from winners to losers, guys who look like Greek Gods and fat neckbeards... Think of a pharmacy. You can't just walk in and take all the bottles off the shelves and say "Give me all the drugs, I want them all." It doesn't work like that. You have to pick and choose what works for you and what's appropriate for your situation. If you're a good looking guy and in fantastic shape and but for some reason you can't talk to women, maybe that PUA game… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Boxing teacher gets overly aggressive. What would you do?I also don't understand the MRP angle but if you've got a shitty coach or teacher that you hate, leave and find someone else. Sometimes it's hard to tell "tough love" coaching from abuse, but if you're getting no value from this guy then you need to find a different gym. Maybe if everyone swears that the guy is excellent and it takes a while to get used to his style you could decide to stick it out for a while. But if he's an idiot who doesn't like you and you can't learn from him, you need to g… | /r/askMRP | 13/02/20 02:14 PM |
| 15 | The "Eastern European/Middle Eastern/East Asian" NAWALT theory bullshit.Well, Shit. There goes my plan to move to Arabia and become an Arab Prince with a huge harem. Next thing you're going to tell me that magic carpets don't really fly and I can't find a lamp with a Genie in it to grant all my wishes. I'm starting to think this Arabian Nights book I read as a little kid was complete fiction! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/20 02:23 AM |
| 9 | Where is the sidebar?https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/ It doesn't show up for me on desktop. Try using old reddit and see if it appears. | /r/askMRP | 07/02/20 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Alpha Behaviour - an angle worth consideringI've been wondering about that. I'm not sure if they're actually "not attracted" or repulsed by someone like that, or if they're attracted but then overrule their feelings with reasoning. Sort of like you could be attracted to a prostitute (for the sake of argument let's say you didn't know she was a prostitute when you saw her), but then disgusted by the idea that she probably has a lot of diseases and drug problems and bad habits and then turn away in disgust. Sort of like Big Macs and junk fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Alpha Behaviour - an angle worth consideringThat's actually a really good point. I guess there are plenty of women who might consider the loser criminal guy sexually attractive but would never date him, and there are plenty of women who chase after the powerful CEO or star professor (but then end up in a dead bedroom situation.) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 02:51 AM |
| 9 | Alpha Behaviour - an angle worth consideringThe whole "Leader of Men" thing is nice, and great if you're a manager... but it's different from the "alpha" DGNAF attitude that works for one-night-stands. Which is why the millionaire CEO with the trophy wife may get cucked by the pool boy or delivery man. The kind of "alpha" that works for sexual strategy is the Chad Thundercock Fuckboy Alpha, which wouldn't last for 10 minutes as a CEO of a company. People use the term alpha to mean radically different things. The idiot with the facial tatt… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Anyone got a story or collection of stories about fixing dead bedrooms?Don't you have some "action figures" to collect right now? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Wife is approaching the wall and wants freedom to do whatever she wants with zero consequences.No, not seeing that. Do this. Maybe it has some effect on your wife. Not do this to please your wife. You're misreading. | /r/askMRP | 03/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Wife is approaching the wall and wants freedom to do whatever she wants with zero consequences.That's nice, and what body fat percentage are you? | /r/askMRP | 03/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Wife is approaching the wall and wants freedom to do whatever she wants with zero consequences.Some smarter people than you call it "not being a fatso" but you're still too far over 10% body fat to know any better. | /r/askMRP | 03/02/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Anyone got a story or collection of stories about fixing dead bedrooms?If anything interesting comes from it I'll post findings, and no, not in a dead bedroom at all (thanks for asking.) | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 01:42 PM |
| -1 | Anyone got a story or collection of stories about fixing dead bedrooms?I think it will be a useful resource people in a pretty common situation. Lots of men and women out there who could either fix a fixable relationship or GTFO of a hopeless one. Obviously a lot of the men who fixed it probably followed TRP stuff consciously or not. I have no idea what the women have found that works. There's a ton of "advice" articles out there (mostly choreplay and see a counsellor garbage) but not a lot of actual stories from people who have done it successfully. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 09:58 AM |
| 0 | Turned around your DEAD BEDROOM (or have a story about someone who did?)Somebody should do it. It will either turn into something useful or it will just be a no-traffic sub with a couple of stories on it. Kind of surprised at the lack of enthusiasm from the MRP community but I guess the majority of people are either failing or in the anger stages or can't be bothered. Would not have thought that collecting success stories would be controversial, but I guess this is why we can't have nice things. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/20 09:22 AM |
| 0 | Anyone got a story or collection of stories about fixing dead bedrooms?I personally know how to do it (and I'm sure you do too), I'm actually trying to gather up success stories from people who have done it so that they can be gathered in one place. It's like, "anybody know where I can buy the first 20 Spiderman comics?" and everyone says "Peter Parker got bit by a radioactive spider." | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Turned around your DEAD BEDROOM (or have a story about someone who did?)Look, I know you're a perma-virgin who hasn't fixed anything ever, let alone a dead bedroom, so this post isn't directed at you Ketofat. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/20 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Turned around your DEAD BEDROOM (or have a story about someone who did?)Fat people have a zillion success stories, in fact, there's whole TV shows about people who lost weight etc. I'm not trying to cure the fat people or all the dead bedrooms in the world, I just think having a collection of success stories would be a useful resource that doesn't currently exist. Somewhere there should be a collection of a bunch of "fixed a dead bedroom" stories. It can exist independently of the redpill / manosphere as its own thing. Presumably a bunch of people here have done it … | /r/askMRP | 01/02/20 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Turned around your DEAD BEDROOM (or have a story about someone who did?)Maybe you're a retard who can't read but I want people who turned around a dead bedroom to post success stories. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/20 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Turned around your DEAD BEDROOM (or have a story about someone who did?)They're absolutely terrified of red pill over there like it's unconstitutional and against God's law or something. I think we (we as in humanity) need a collection of "wins" somewhere where the tone is kind of upbeat. The main red pill subs are all kind of blackpilled (which makes sense because society is falling apart in a lot of places.) The world could use a collection of case-studies and actual success stories. Maybe it exists out there in the manosphere or somewhere on the internet but I ha… | /r/askMRP | 01/02/20 07:40 AM |
| -1 | Turned around your DEAD BEDROOM (or have a story about someone who did?)You probably won't believe it but there are couples who haven't had sex in a while. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/20 07:23 AM |
| -2 | Turned around your DEAD BEDROOM (or have a story about someone who did?)Ah, Good ol' AskMRP. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/20 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Wife is approaching the wall and wants freedom to do whatever she wants with zero consequences.You might be right. Probably right. Sometimes it's hard to tell just relying on the information the posters provide when they pick and choose the crazy things someone says and does that bothers them the most. But yeah, "I wanna go on Spring Break without you to some tropical paradise teaming with singles trying to score" is pretty much announcing the end of a marriage. | /r/askMRP | 31/01/20 03:16 AM |
| 20 | Wife is approaching the wall and wants freedom to do whatever she wants with zero consequences.It was a dark and stormy night... Jane's heart beat with anticipation of the savage natives that would ravage her on the tropical island away from her Husband, that dull, predictable plowhorse, that slightly chubby, injured, tall, but boring meal ticket. "Imagine being alone on an island for a week, with no one to bother me, except for the Savages. Would they tie me up and rape me? Or would they worship me as a White Goddess?" | /r/askMRP | 30/01/20 07:05 AM |
| 16 | Wife is approaching the wall and wants freedom to do whatever she wants with zero consequences.OP is definitely delusional. If he's an 8 when he's fat, injured, and out-of-shape he must be an 11 or 12 when he's ripped, healthy, and looks like a Greek god on steroids. | /r/askMRP | 30/01/20 06:40 AM |
| 15 | Wife is approaching the wall and wants freedom to do whatever she wants with zero consequences.That doesn't sound good at all! On the bright side, your sex life has been improving, and you've been improving, but you have a long way to go. I'd tell her no, you're not OK with her plan to go party on her own and then work my ass off to go from 17% BF to 9% BF. Maybe now she's got the idea that sex can actually be kind of fun, and imagine how much more fun it would be with someone who's actually hot. If you're lucky maybe you can be that "hot guy" she's craving. I'm not convinced that she's c… | /r/askMRP | 30/01/20 06:11 AM |
| 6 | The red pill on insane difficulty : a marriage story with a progressively debilitating illness – taking suggestionsI guess right now your first duty is to take care of yourself. If you succumb to some mystery disease you won't be doing your wife or your kids any good. Once you're stabilized or have gotten better you can try to play 52 pick up and figure out what to do next. Get your health back first, and then when you figure out where you are and what you have to work with, figure out what to do next. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/20 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Experience with Testosterone Replacement Therapy, specifically if it changes your relationship with your wife.Your testicles make more than just sperm and testosterone, if you shut them down completely it will contribute to the brain fog and other undesirable things you want to avoid. It's better to keep them alive. from https://www.testosteronewisdom.com/human-chorionic-gonadotropin-pregnenolone-and-dhea/ Why we need hCG: 1. IMPORTANT: To produce Pregnenelone; hCG activates the p450 side chain cleavage (p450scc) enzyme which converts cholesterol to Pregnenelone!!! (Read the link above, please.) 2. To p… | /r/askMRP | 16/01/20 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Experience with Testosterone Replacement Therapy, specifically if it changes your relationship with your wife.If you get T over 800 Ng/DL it will make a huge difference. You might still have a year or two before the wife has the reaction you're looking for though. Takes a while for your body to recomp and put on muscle, and then with daily exposure to your saliva and semen wife is getting microdosed with T which starts influencing her behaviour as well. If I were you, I would start on HCG right now too. That also makes a big difference. You're basically doing a sex change back to male from castrate or f… | /r/askMRP | 16/01/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Experience with Testosterone Replacement Therapy, specifically if it changes your relationship with your wife.Yes, if you need it, and if you put in all the work, then it might make a huge difference. | /r/askMRP | 16/01/20 08:28 PM |
| 38 | An Existential Crisis, Impermanence, and TRPRed Pill works well in degenerate Western society for getting laid without paying cash for it. Nobody has come up with a sure-fire plan for how to have a stable family in the West without getting "divorce raped" after you get bored with banging tinderellas or picking up girls around campus. Even conservative religious communities like the Mormons and Muslims seem to have trouble keeping the conservative traditional family life going in the Western Liberal Democracies. TV and movies keep feeding … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/20 05:53 AM |
| 42 | Culturing SMV: Gender Factor12% body fat isn't really attractive on a female. That would be like a distance runner who has lost her boobs and doesn't get her period anymore or a contest body-builder on steroids who doesn't even look female. Even 15% is getting into unattractive territory because it's too low. SMV boosters for women are clothes and makeup, 18% BF and in shape is already very thin. Do a search for "porn stars without their makeup" and you'll see what a difference it makes. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/20 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Throw in the towel, or a life raft?I'd get the T fixed first (you want it over 800) and then see how the next year goes. If you can get pretty jacked that should help a lot. It's hard to make any of this stuff work with low-T, and the anger phase is generally pretty unattractive for everybody. Also remember that you want to be fun to be around. Your wife shouldn't feel like you're "punishing her" or anything like that. It sounds like you're still looking to her for validation, but you're not where you need to be yet. Once you hav… | /r/askMRP | 13/01/20 03:11 PM |
| 6 | How to act sexual?I think the context matters a lot. If you're not getting laid and then you spend $300 on some fancy lingerie wrapped up in a pretty box that you give her at a fancy restaurant in an attempt to get laid then that's a pretty big covert contract. If you spend 99 cents on some lipstick and $3 on a crotchless fishnet body suit, grab her high-heels out of the closet and say "Here, put these on." right before you're already about to have sex together then you're ahead of the game. The message isn't "I'… | /r/askMRP | 08/01/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | How to act sexual?You might search on Amazon or Ebay for lingerie you think is hot that would fit her. They have a bunch of stuff for under $5 that's great. Maybe role-play some. JohnnyA's suggestion of being a pirate isn't all that bad, really. Find some positions you haven't done before and try those (tied to a chair, whatever it is.) Have her wear high-heels or boots. There's nothing wrong with goofy sex but mix it up a bit. Get a vibrator and use it on her while you're having sex. You want to be a little outs… | /r/askMRP | 08/01/20 06:34 PM |
| 22 | Ltr mad about a political party I supported in the past. Where do I go from here?The first fuck up wasn't that bad. "You don't want to know" is not DNGAF but it's not entirely cringey either. Better answers would be just to tease her with "none of your business" or "can't remember" or jokingly insulted "I can't believe you would ask me that, what are you, the thought police? Who'd you vote for?" The second fuck up is a lot bigger with the “my past political support isn’t who I am today” because now you're trying to qualify yourself to her like a wriggly worm who has to confo… | /r/askMRP | 05/01/20 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Red pilled 3 months ago. Impending separation. Need some help.Just because someone was raped, abused, molested, or otherwise had bad experiences as a child, adolescent, or adult doesn't keep them from being able to fuck like porn stars and enjoy it. If you don't do some sex act with her because of some issue in her past she'll go get it and enjoy it with somebody else who doesn't care about her issues. The perpetrator probably drove a car and lived in a house, and she doesn't have any issues riding in cars or living in houses. I'm not saying she wasn't abu… | /r/askMRP | 02/01/20 07:51 AM |
| 10 | Fat versus muscle while bulking25% Body Fat is a lot higher than I would ever imagine anyone wanting to bulk to. If you're above 15% body fat you should be cutting. When you're around 10% body fat or even 8% body fat bulk back up to 10 to 15%. If you're overweight (let's call anything above 15% body fat overweight for our purposes) just focus on increasing your lifts (weight on the bar) and losing weight. Just use the Navy Method calculator. All you need is a tape measure and a scale. It's accurate enough to figure out if you… | /r/askMRP | 29/12/19 06:03 AM |
| 3 | I want to fuck her so now she doesn't want to fuckAs you discovered, spending too much time together doing nothing is a good way to de-sexualize your encounters. If you're really busy and wife only gets to spend 20 minutes with you, maybe ten or 15 of those minutes will be having sex. If you're around 18 hours a day and "not doing anything" for days at a time just because it's "deload week" she sees you being lazy then there's no excitement. De-load week usually means you go to the gym and do your weights at 60%, not stay home. Anyway, even tho… | /r/askMRP | 28/12/19 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Infidelity with 4 Children - Divorce or...???There's your problem: American woman! jk [maybe half-kidding...] Hope you have a good time over the holidays. Use the next year to get everything back together, you'll be all right. | /r/askMRP | 23/12/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Need some adviceAt this point I wouldn't even worry about her. Get the brain tumor fixed (might actually be as simple as just taking cabergoline if you're really lucky) and get your T-levels back where they're supposed to be. You'll feel ten times better. Then once you're sorted out on the health front you can think a little more about the relationship and what you want to do with your life. Sounds like you'll be spending a big chunk of next year getting your health back. Focusing on yourself would be the right… | /r/askMRP | 22/12/19 04:23 AM |
| 17 | Infidelity with 4 Children - Divorce or...???I think he's using mate in the British sense of "Me and my mates went to the pub". "Mate" meaning buddy, friend. I was wtf'ing the first time I read it too. | /r/askMRP | 21/12/19 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Infidelity with 4 Children - Divorce or...???All excellent points! OP should heed the good advice. | /r/askMRP | 21/12/19 03:34 AM |
| 10 | Infidelity with 4 Children - Divorce or...???If I were you I'd go ahead and do all the standard MRP stuff to fix yourself and then take stock and see where you've landed and figure out what to do with your life. It shouldn't be hard to make yourself sexier and more attractive than a loser from yoga class, but the goal is to do a lot better than that. Your wife and family and you should all be a lot happier if you improve yourself. After you've fixed yourself make the decision as to whether you want to stay with your wife and four kids and … | /r/askMRP | 21/12/19 03:28 AM |
| 7 | How do you remind yourself not to engage?When I Say No I Feel Guilty is pretty good for this, worth reading or reading again. Lots of techniques in there. | /r/askMRP | 20/12/19 01:37 PM |
| 7 | How to minimize risks of divorce?This is the only sure-fire way to avoid divorce. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/19 01:18 AM |
| 24 | I finally found a sub reddit that I understand I think, but what exactly is it about? Why is it quarantined?There are a bunch of pickup subs that aren't censored that are more about using manipulative strategies to try to get laid. Pick-up lines or "neurolinguistic programming". Red pill is much more about self-improvement and self-actualization. You're born with your race and your height and your ethnicity, things that you can't change. Red pill advocates self-improvement through lifting weights and introspection/meditation and adopting successful personality traits. Don't have skills to get a good j… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Mate Guarding: Alpha or Beta?Might be worthwhile to draw a distinction between wife/gf decides to go chat with some hot guy/coworker/stranger/friend at a party: don't mate guard, you're not threatened. vs. You're at a bar and some drunk guy comes up and is aggressively trying to kino/pick up/hit on your wife/gf: you can win points for shutting him down and "protecting her" from creep who is bothering her or not leaving her alone and you look weak if you're afraid to get involved. | /r/askMRP | 16/12/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Asking for advice and another look at my situationShe's craving attention and validation and this co-worker guy is providing a lot of it along with some danger and romance. Maybe you're still too safe and boring. Maybe she's just lonely and this married guy is good at getting her hot and bothered. Maybe you just went from starfish uninterested sex to boring married sex. Need to step it up to make it a lot more exciting for her. Obviously she's not getting enough danger and excitement at home and feels cheating would give her some thrills that s… | /r/askMRP | 14/12/19 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Enjoy the decline: Parents Lose Custody of 15-Year-Old Daughter For Refusing to Allow Sex ChangeI thought Sweden was a mess, I had no idea Finland was bad too. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/19 03:17 AM |
| 48 | Declining duty sexYou shouldn't decline it, you should make it better. If it happens just do it whatever way you like the best. Treat it just as if she had said "I want you to do whatever you want with me!" If it makes you happy, it is more likely to make her happy. It's sidebar material, read up on "Caveman". The worst thing if you're offering sex to someone and not enjoying it is for them to do it in some way that they don't enjoy either. Obviously if she's telling you to stop or don't do something immediately … | /r/askMRP | 05/12/19 06:27 PM |
| 11 | Wife wants “space”Thank god I read this before I tried to fuck the cat! :) | /r/askMRP | 05/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 8 | Wife wants “space”Good move on quitting drinking. Read Allen Carr's books, they'll make it easy for you to stay quit without going to meetings (unless you particularly want to go to meetings.) Basically you keep working on yourself and she either decides to come along or not. The general rule of thumb is that wives don't leave men who are improving, but nobody knows what she'll decide to do. Your plan for yourself is the same either way. | /r/askMRP | 05/12/19 03:48 PM |
| 10 | Should i just let it be? Or try to help my dad.If you could get him to start lifting that's probably the single best thing you could do. Maybe you could talk him into going to the gym with you. In general it's hard to get parents to take advice from their kids seriously, so it's probably an uphill battle. | /r/askMRP | 29/11/19 06:55 PM |
| 6 | Gen X vs Millennial TRPers, the main difference..Thank god there are still some sane countries left! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 6 | Gen X vs Millennial TRPers, the main difference..Gen X can still remember life before everyone had the Internet and a smart phone. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/19 04:26 PM |
| 18 | Gen X vs Millennial TRPers, the main difference..As far as I can tell the younger Gen Z kids (who are in grade school or middle school today) are less fucked than the Millennials. The Millennials are kind of like the Boomer Hippies (raised by boomer hippies) and bought into the "everyone gets a trophy everyone is a snowflake and nobody can ever be offended", and the Gen Z kids (with Gen X parents) see that bullshit and reject it completely. If you can find a non-pozzed school to send your son, transfer him right away. It's the whole hard times… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/19 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Workout RoutineYou might consider just doing something too, instead of an exercise bike. I'm a big fan of riding a bike to go places. You get more fresh air, you waste less time. Ride your bike to the store to buy groceries or to the gym or the swimming pool. Go hike up a hill to a lake or climb a tree. It's a lot more fun and does the same thing. If you live in a cold climate, get some studded bike tires from Finland. You can ride across a skating rink or a frozen lake. They're the greatest thing ever if you … | /r/askMRP | 27/11/19 02:56 PM |
| 5 | Evolution of game - Normal is the new blackI think you're right. Once you've got your act together you can be straightforward and just express interest and go far. Mark Manson's book Models is pretty much about that. Rather than trying to score with every woman you meet you just eliminate the ones that aren't into you rather than trying to get them to change their minds. Ultimately you have to be confident in whatever it is you have to offer and find women who want you and what you have to offer. Things that make you stick out from the c… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/19 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Found out fiancé was raped years agoOK, I see where you're coming from, but I think his post is more reasonable than that. Kind of like, "this is a new and unexpected situation, is this a ticking time bomb or not?" This seems like as good a place as any to ask around and see if anyone has more experience. | /r/askMRP | 27/11/19 04:27 AM |
| 4 | Found out fiancé was raped years agoDear god you're right! we should really make advice subs illegal before people's lives are ruined permanently. No one is safe! Drop your phone in a public place, and next all your secrets are out there for everyone to read. It sends chills down the spine. Out of curiosity, why are you here? You seem lost. | /r/askMRP | 27/11/19 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Found out fiancé was raped years agoPosting anonymously on the internet is a big betrayal. There's 7 billion people in the world, half of them are female, all we have to do is figure out which of the 3.5 billion women is his fiancee and then her reputation is ruined. You're pretty on-the-ball. Should go work for the FBI or something. | /r/askMRP | 27/11/19 03:34 AM |
| 12 | Found out fiancé was raped years agoI knew two gf's/plates who had been raped, one at knifepoint on a date long before I met her and one by a stranger with a gun in a parking lot after I had known her for a couple of years. They were both OK telling me all the details about it. The one who was date-raped always carried a Sig Sauer 9mm in her purse in case anything like that ever happened again. Both of them were pretty wild extroverted "party girl" types before and after they got raped. I'd be more worried about your fiancee's rel… | /r/askMRP | 27/11/19 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Is this a "thing" for body recomp?Yes, it's a thing. Read the anabolic diet by Dr Mario Pasquale. You eat keto on non lifting days and do carb ups on lifting days. Other variants are alternate day fasting, cyclical ketogenic diets. They all work well if you do exactly what you're supposed to. The key to all this stuff is discipline. Train with good form religiously. Eat what you're supposed to when you're supposed to. Lyle McDonald's books are good too. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?I do my oly lifting on eating days and squats and other accessory lifts on fast days, after the first 2 fast days it isn't that bad. It's a cut so I don't expect my strength is going to increase any. | /r/askMRP | 22/11/19 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Find places where you have a higher value in the sexual market placeEven if you don't care about Greek life, going to another college or university and hooking up is generally works pretty well. Maybe you're the biggest nerd on your own campus, nobody knows that about you when you go to some other campus, and if you have a cute girlfriend there, when you break up with her there are always a bunch of other girls on that campus who want to take her place. Especially at some of the smaller colleges everybody knows everybody already, so if you're a "new" guy you'll … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?No, never very overweight. I do Olympic Weightlifting and have been for about four years, after doing a couple years of powerlifting. And my face is looking lean not anorexic. I do swimming, diving, and ride a bike around a lot so "cyclist" isn't exactly inaccurate. I was just up at 208 after a bulk earlier this year and it kind of made me look like Bane from the Batman movie. I'm not sure that's really the look I want. Mesomorph classic greek build, roided out. But yes, I agree with you, I'm a … | /r/askMRP | 20/11/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?I was doing about 16 weeks bulking, then 16 weeks cutting. With this alternate day fasting I seem to be losing 3 or 4 pounds a week, which is a lot faster than I expected--I don't know if that will slow down at some point, because if not, I'll have to stop doing it pretty soon. The alternate day fasting really seems to burn a lot of fat, which is great. | /r/askMRP | 20/11/19 03:38 AM |
| 2 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?I haven't hit any new PRs but I have been cutting a lot faster than I intended to with Alternate Day Fasting. For ages I struggled to get below 10 percent body fat--did a bulk from 13 percent 185 lbs up to 208, then cut and got to 11-12 percent. Now I'm 179 6'4, and supposedly 9.5 percent. (Pretty good for an old guy.) Got veins popping out on my arms and legs now, which I am not even sure I like. Face looks really lean though. I am not sure how much longer I should keep it up. Have you been max… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 4 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?Yes, if you want to stay married you should keep having sex with your wife whether you want to or not "duty sex", but I can tell you confidently that as you lose weight and start looking sexier your wife is going to be a hell-of-a-lot more fun to have sex with. Right now you're both kind of fat and unattractive with close-to-zero sex drives. Get in shape and your sex drive will pick up, and she'll be wanting to have sex with you (like everybody else) just because you've become sexier. Don't give… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 03:56 PM |
| 3 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?If you've cut out porn and masturbation and you're still not getting uncontrollably horny around your wife (a human female) you should probably go ahead and try pharmaceuticals (testosterone, viagra / cialis, steroids.) I don't smoke or drink but maybe even consider half a glass of wine or some weed or something. Tell her to do exactly what you want her to do to get you turned on. You, as a man, should be getting sexually excited around a naked woman, if you're not overdoing porn and masturbatio… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 7 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?I'm doing 36-12 right now (Alternate day fasting) and it's working great for fat loss, have gone from 12% to sub-10. The first couple of fasting (and eating) days were really rough though. Supposedly there are health benefits to fasting in addition to looking sexier. | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 03:43 PM |
| 8 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?Stay out of the hospital. Maybe swim laps or something, whatever works for you. | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 03:40 PM |
| 9 | How do I handle a comfort test if I'm not attracted to my wife?I think you should still have sex with your wife. Use viagra or something if you have to. 23% body fat is still way too fat for you to be attractive. Need to get it sub 15% ASAP, preferably around 10-12%. I wouldn't bother with T-boosters, get a different doctor to prescribe you TRT or just keep working on your lifts and losing weight. Your natty levels might increase some when you get rid of the extra fat. Maybe try intermittent fasting. If you keep working on your weight, and put some effort i… | /r/askMRP | 19/11/19 03:15 PM |
| 11 | Wife Threatened Divorce Last NightA spook with depression, eh? Well, first of all, try to avoid getting drawn in to any pointless arguments or discussions with your wife. In general, women don't leave men while they're improving (it could happen, don't stress out over it.) You need to go on a health kick and get in really good shape (fast!). You're too fat. Don't talk any more about your wife's weight. Try to drop to 175 and get your body fat below 14%. Or if you can get your body fat down and be at a higher weight, that's OK to… | /r/askMRP | 08/11/19 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Peacocking still worksToga! Toga! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 02:00 PM |
| 15 | Peacocking still worksHe genuinely believes he is better than other people. Like when he walks into a room he thinks he's the smartest person there and that he's probably in the best shape too. He's sort of aloof and arrogant, he tones it down and tries to hide it, but it still comes through enough that girls pick right up on it. It's not an act he puts on. It's probably a "personality flaw", really, but girls love it. If someone else is sensible or intelligent or thoughtful it's like he's genuinely surprised. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 05:49 AM |
| 37 | Peacocking still worksGood friend of mine is from Bangladesh. High IQ, works in IT / Computer Science (as nerdy as you can get). It's not really peacocking, but he started slaying with girls of all races after he buzzed his hair short and hit the gym religiously, which he's been doing successfully for years. I think a lot of South Asian / Middle Eastern guys need to resist the urge to get a Bill Gates haircut, and go ahead and lift weights. He also has a natural "superiority complex" that he's not very good at contro… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/19 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Why has my wife recently been curious about strip clubs...I'd get her some stripper heels and a stripper outfit and some crazy sex toys and have her practice her stripper moves at home first. (Bonus points if you install a stripper pole at home without asking.) If she really wants to go to a strip club with you I don't see any problem with it. Edit: The only red flag I see is it sounds like she's getting a little bit bored with whatever your normal sex life is, and so she's suggesting to spice it up a lot. That's not really a red flag, more like a gree… | /r/askMRP | 28/10/19 07:22 PM |
| 28 | Regret, Remorse & Nuclear Frame LossAny story about a LTR and her sister and hallucinogenic drugs that doesn't end up with OP banging the sister shouldn't be posted on the internet. With that out of the way, you should be on to the next one. One drug trip isn't going to break up a happy healthy LTR. | /r/askMRP | 28/10/19 06:14 PM |
| 14 | SSRI's and the wife.There's an old antihistamine called ciplactin (cyproheptadine) that's dirt cheap and can undo the sexual dysfunction caused by SSRI's. It's also a big appetite stimulant, so great if wife is a little anorexic or too thin. It might fix the anorgasmia. https://www.drugs.com/comments/cyproheptadine/for-sexual-dysfunction-ssri-induced.html https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/430614_5 | /r/askMRP | 13/10/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take to turn things around?Lifting is probably the single biggest thing you can do. It all helps, but that's the foundation of everything else. Conventional wisdom is two months for every year that you were doing things wrong. | /r/askMRP | 11/10/19 10:47 PM |
| 51 | Only if sexy is on the cardsYou must start lifting. Right away. Reading is good, lifting is better. Do both! So, trading the date for sex is trying to "negotiate sex", which is not what you want to do (it's a bad idea because it doesn't work, and if it does work you're getting transactional sex not genuine desire, like if you paid for sex with a stripper who just wants your money to buy some drugs.) If you go on the date with the expectation that you're doing what she wants so she'll do what you want that's called a "cover… | /r/askMRP | 11/10/19 03:21 AM |
| 8 | Need AdviceSTFU is the right tactic about 80 or 90% of the time. It should be your default go-to tactic unless you happen to think of something particularly funny or witty in which case you can agree-and-amplify, or the problem has a trivial solution in which case you can use amused mastery. [She says "you drove the wrong way and we're going to be half an hour late to the party" and you say "we've already arrived" as you pull into the parking spot.] Don't go Rambo. Figure a month or two for every year you … | /r/askMRP | 11/10/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Differentiating between shit test and comfort test with a depressed wife.Not a shit test. Comfort tests are usually like "you don't love me anymore, you just use me". So not a comfort test either. She might be sick or tired or even clinically depressed. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The RetardJust make sure you're not rounding your back. :) Form has to be perfect or else the rep doesn't count. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 06:42 PM |
| 4 | The RetardThat's an awesome summary of the vibe here a lot of the time! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 05:12 PM |
| 2 | The Retardlol, that guy wasn't the one I had in mind, his post was really funny actually and the towel guy is friendly (just needs to initiate more). I guess it's to be expected but there's a lot of really angry miserable people on this corner of the internet who would be so much better off if they didn't overthink every single thing... It's a process that takes a while, figure at least a month or two for every year that you were doing things wrong. But oh well, I guess people need to vent their anger at … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | What are you going to do about it?We will probably never know. But seriously, initiate when you hop out of the shower, especially if you don't normally do that. Has a high chance of success, and it will at least get you off the topic of towels, especially if she's still thinking about it from last week. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 04:59 PM |
| -1 | The Coma VictimYes, so there's nothing in my post that complains about you or anyone else asking basic questions. I accept your apology. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 0 | The Coma VictimWhere do you see a complaint about basic questions? Just tell me because I don't see it and I think you're full of shit as well as insane. Which part of my post complains about you asking basic questions? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What are you going to do about it?So... (I mean we know it's not about the towels, but) is the laundry piling up or something? Like there's a small mountain of towels that need to be washed? This may go down as one of the great unanswered questions. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 04:30 PM |
| 0 | The Coma VictimYou're here on my post asking me questions, not the other way around. I already told you my post wasn't about you, you think that it is... If I were going to answer your post on AskMRP I would have. My post isn't about you (try to imagine that) even though you could learn from it if you were capable of learning. I'm bothered that people (like you) who were out of it for a long time, wake up and then are upset about things that happened years ago while they were dead to the world and are making b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | The Coma VictimA "rant of YEARS of apparent built up frustration" all from YOUR post? Do you have NPD? My post wasn't about YOU, although YOU in fact do fit the pattern of having gone from "clueless and asleep" to "clueless and half-awake". You sure got triggered. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What are you going to do about it?I'm actually curious as to what happened to all the towels though. Did they get left in the laundry room, or is OP using 8 towels every time he takes a shower? Enquiring minds want to know. :) | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 03:53 PM |
| 3 | What are you going to do about it?Just hopping out of the shower is almost always a good time to initiate. It doesn't have to lead to full-on sex, but builds a little tension for later. Remember she's supposed your wife not a grouchy roommate, so don't let your marriage turn into "I have a really annoying roommate who bitches about towels." | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 03:47 PM |
| 4 | What are you going to do about it?Classic must-read post. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 03:42 PM |
| 3 | What are you going to do about it?Yes, SFTU and gym are very important, essential basics. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 03:33 PM |
| 0 | The Coma VictimI'm not actually wishing anything bad happens to you, just being a bit of a dick because you think everything is about you. You're right to care about your specific situation, because it affects you, but no I wasn't trying to give you personal advice with my post. I just hadn't seen it discussed on here before. What happens when someone who has been "gone" for a long time comes back and how should he handle it? Whether or not you get anything out of it is another question. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | The Coma VictimI'm sure that in your mind you're an important person, but to me your post is one of many I have seen OVER THE YEARS and that's why I didn't write a story about you and to please you (what a surprise!). But yes, please, get divorced and fuck off and be a loser somewhere else, and no I don't care about you and your shitty sexless marriage and I hope you never get any better because you're a fucking idiot who brought this all on himself. OK? Now I wrote something specifically for you. When you hea… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 03:13 PM |
| 11 | What are you going to do about it?You missed out on the quickie blowjob you were supposed to get when you stepped out of the shower. Had you tried to get one (successfully or not) the focus would no longer be on the towels. Don't get worked up or upset about petty shit. "What happened to all the towels? There was a stack of clean towels here yesterday!" may be annoying but it's basically logistical stuff that you shouldn't get upset about. You can still make out or have sex for a couple of minutes in the morning and get to work … | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 02:54 PM |
| 0 | The Coma VictimI've seen a lot of posts over the years, where it's not like "I've been married for 2 years and my wife cheated on me" but more like "I've been working on RP for the last three years and things have been going much better. I'm concerned because 10 years ago my wife did something (after we hadn't had sex in a decade)." To me these situations are a little different from "I married a cheating slut" and the guy should at least acknowledge to himself that when whatever might have happened happened af… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 02:12 PM |
| 65 | Red Pill observations at a coaching seminarIt's funny because a lot of the traditional "good advice" stuff actually works and has been mostly forgotten or ignored in our modern PC clown world. Eat right, get hair cut, good grooming, dress well, stay in good physical shape, set goals... all pretty basic stuff. Important, but basic. The good thing for us is that the average out there is so low, that just by not being fat and doing the very basic things above you're already above average. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 01:29 PM |
| 2 | The Coma VictimReading is fundamental. Nobody cheated on me, I'm saying the BP guy who comes here and then wake up after being asleep for 10 years and gets mad about something his wife did five years ago while he was asleep needs to first recognize that he was asleep for ten years. You can apologize now, Rambo. "Excusing her infidelity", "gynocentrism", "female social conditioning", "you were the first victim", "sunk cost fallacy", "hamstring". How many fucking buzzwords can you put in to one comment? You have… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Husband needed the Red PillIf husband had been lifting weights and reading Sex God Method I don't think wife would be complaining. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Husband needed the Red PillFrom the article: I am a 58-year-old woman, married for 30. Although I like my husband, I find him physically repulsive. His lovemaking is so boring and always has been. I have tried to explain that foreplay is important, but it goes in one ear and out the other. I don’t want to hurt his feelings by saying he is crap in bed, but our sexless marriage has become a thorn on my side. Can you help? Please don’t advise counselling – he would never agree. [Article proceeds to offer crappy blue pill adv… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/19 04:52 PM |
| 0 | The Coma VictimTo me it's kind of more like "while you were gone for ten years the dog got sick and we took him to the vet, but he's fine now." Then you say "well I have no use for a sick dog, put him down!" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | The Coma VictimI like this analogy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/19 02:03 PM |
| 0 | The Coma VictimIf you're getting mad at women for being women (AWALT) you're stuck in the matrix. Kind of like getting mad at the weather. Yes, it sucks if there's a tornado on the day when you planned a picnic... but why get angry about that? If you're doing things right and you get cheated on OK, that's upsetting. If you've made yourself unfuckable for years and then you get cheated on... I guess you can get upset, but that was really on you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/19 06:03 AM |
| 4 | The Coma VictimThe difference between the red pill and the blue pill is that the blue pill is a fairy tale about how the world works, the red pill is how it actually works. Once you know how things actually work, it's strange to me that so many here (who should know better by now) get upset about things not working the way the "blue pill" told them they were supposed to work. I'm not saying the poor guy can't get a divorce or do something else with his life, I'm just saying the anger is kind of misdirected. Ma… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/19 05:18 AM |
| 11 | Sources of comfort/support for dealing with mental illness while maintaining frameLift weights. Talk to your friends. If you have serious mental health issues that require more than self-help, go seek help from somebody qualified to help you, but don't advertise that. | /r/askMRP | 08/10/19 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Struggling with paying for everythingSome might say that moving in with a girl that you're married to is even worse! | /r/askMRP | 07/10/19 09:02 PM |
| 3 | A question about self improvementRead Wattles. He's kind of the original "get rich" self-improvement guru. Think and Grow Rich is more than 100 years old and you can find it for free on the internet. One of the main takeaways is that you want to succeed in your own field, not switch to something you don't know anything about. http://roblewis.com/wp-content/uploads/Think-And-Grow-Rich_2008-10.pdf | /r/askMRP | 05/10/19 03:17 PM |
| 94 | Reddit Admin give /r/TheRedPill a Stay of ExecutionI don't think they're that great at their jobs. Some intern probably got tasked with "Can you go and delete all the subs that don't fit our new policy." Then somebody higher on the food chain said, wait, they have 1 million active users? Maybe this could backfire, don't do anything yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 08:49 PM |
| 23 | Dating after divorce and redefining loveWhether you're talking about friends or lovers you should fill up your time with people you enjoy being around. If your best friend is a jerk who is always borrowing stuff from you and never returning it and annoying you all the time, it's time to find new best friend. I think you should adopt a similar mindset with women. If there's some girl you like who is always a pleasure to be around, go ahead and see her every day if you want. If she's fun and exciting but flaky and unreliable maybe you o… | /r/askMRP | 28/09/19 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Wife ignoring me after an argument about me being “too easy” on our daughter. Should I just ignore her until she’s done pouting about it? And then ignore her more?You've got some role reversal stuff going on here, which is not good. You're supposed to be the one who uses STFU and withdraws attention. You got bitchy and your wife STFU and is now ignoring you. You screwed up with "Well, I'll tell you what.... as opposed to you who can't keep her composure." You need to be a happy guy. Your wife calling you the hero who never yells is not really much of an insult, it's kind of a backhanded compliment. You should have gone into flirty seduction mode, could su… | /r/askMRP | 28/09/19 03:43 AM |
| 4 | Wife ignoring me after an argument about me being “too easy” on our daughter. Should I just ignore her until she’s done pouting about it? And then ignore her more?“Well the hero strikes again. Mommy is the asshole who always yells. Daddy is the good guy, how does it feel to always be the good guy?” You should smile and say something like "The Hero is horny and wants a blowjob now that his daughter has gone to bed for the night." Whatever you do, don't get dragged into some stupid and pointless argument. | /r/askMRP | 28/09/19 02:35 AM |
| 25 | When a plate knows they are a plateA lot of time they have a "boyfriend" and they're hooking up with you (and who knows who else) on the side for sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/19 03:16 PM |
| 11 | One Simple Trick That Doubled My Matches on TinderI am worried that you might attract women who only want you for your body and who might try to have sex on the first date. You should upload pictures of your buying flowers and doing chores around the house and talking about your feelings if you want to impress the ladies. /s | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/19 05:26 PM |
| 12 | Why am I the one feeling so much dread?Gotta work on that deadlift! You're certainly lacking in "abundance mentality". Probably the thing to do at the bar in NoLa would have been to grab the other guy's wife and go dance with her next to them on the dance floor. If the other guy's wife isn't there grab someone young and pretty and dance with her. New Orleans is a party town and I don't think you can get too bent out of shape if people are running around drunk and partying. (Look at everyone flashing their tits at Mardi Gras, etc.) So… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/19 03:08 PM |
| 16 | Putting future plans on holdI guess it all depends on whether you want to spin plates (better for sex) or start a family. Spinning plates is a lot less risky, but if that's not your goal then it's a cause for concern. OP's girlfriend sounds like she's planning to fuck other people and wants to be a plate not a wife. Edit: It's much better for OP if his girl decides to do this now, rather than after he's gotten married to her. So he probably is dodging a bullet even if it doesn't feel that way. Edit2: Be careful OP. You don… | /r/askMRP | 24/09/19 02:27 PM |
| 21 | I created a post on a subreddit and I got banned for "being red pill"Reddit is all about that kind of bullshit. Once in a while I'll comment on a sub that has nothing to do with any topics we care about, like bicycles or the weather or local city stuff. Some idiot always chimes in with "you better downvote whatever he says because he's a Nazi! Check his post history! The_Donald, Red Pill, Big Dick Problems." And someone always responds with "OMG he's a monster! Look at those subreddits! 'Hillary For Prison' can't we just kill people like him with poison gas or so… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Telling Me to ApologizeSTFU and don't complain about your wife's little sister sleeping in your bed. Work on improving your lifts at the gym. (It's the questions that aren't asked that are the most important.) | /r/askMRP | 23/09/19 03:05 PM |
| 6 | Anniversaries.You know, it's OK to mix in a little sappy romantic stuff every once in a while. Bring home a flower or a bag of skittles. Trying to impress with lavish displays is about as beta as it gets though. If you're not actually joking, doing one month and three month anniversaries is nuts. Don't do that. It would be better if you once in a while made some random romantic gesture. | /r/askMRP | 23/09/19 03:52 AM |
| 8 | Why do women love psychopaths?I guess she played by the new rules and mastered the game. I wonder if I had been born a girl if I would do the same thing? The way society is set up right now, that seems to be a winning strategy. Party and be irresponsible but don't worry because when you want to stop someone will be there to rescue you. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/19 06:57 AM |
| 11 | Why do women love psychopaths?Women like strong men too. That's a major idea here. It's not like we're all about becoming criminals or psychopaths to attract women. It's just not a big mystery to us why women are attracted to criminal losers and psycho types over dull-normal honest guys with average jobs. Criminals are more dangerous and exciting and fun (at least for the women who go for that sort of thing.) Meanwhile the AFC beta chump who isn't a violent criminal doesn't understand why any women would go for some violent … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/19 06:06 AM |
| 26 | Why do women love psychopaths?I think they know, they just don't care and they can get away with it. It's like smoking or doing cocaine for them. There are plenty of women who don't smoke and don't do illegal drugs, but then there are no shortage of women who just don't care and do them anyway. They know it's against the law. They know it's dangerous. They think they can get away with it. Society is set up to provide them with a safety net. If the violent guy beats her up she can have the police come arrest him. They're havi… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/19 05:50 AM |
| 15 | Why do women love psychopaths?I think it's a little different than that. Women get bored (especially "bad girls") and they're attracted to dangerous bad guys, just the same way they're attracted to drugs and alcohol and smoking and breaking rules. When you go watch a movie, would you rather watch one about a regular nice guy with a boring job who has a normal life, or one with lots of explosions and bank robberies and guns and knives, etc? Women don't usually get arrested or go to jail for long periods of time for hanging ou… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/19 05:35 AM |
| 12 | Still failing, but not as much"Hurry up" means harder, faster, switch positions, come on my face. When she says that just tell her to do exactly whatever it is you want her to do that would get you off. No joke. You need to treat it as an invitation, not a rejection. Edit: There must be something she doesn't currently do that you would like her to do, tell her to do that. You can mix it up with long and slow once in a while, but it sounds like you need to mix it up. Edit2: Doesn't sound to me like you're failing, maybe not s… | /r/askMRP | 21/09/19 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Is STFU really this effective or am I doing it wrong?STFU is pretty effective and one of the best go-to tactics. 80 or 90 percent of the time it's probably going to be your best option. When you have something genuinely funny or witty to say, go ahead and agree and amplify or make a joke out of whatever it is, but that's a lot easier to mess up than STFU. STFU is always better than getting dragged into any kind of stupid argument about anything. There will be bumps in the road but you're on a good path right now. Keep up the good work. Keep up the… | /r/askMRP | 21/09/19 01:40 AM |
| 10 | SMV is highest it’s ever been yet still struggling to pull girls that I want to pull?Usually it's a when it rains it pours situation. You might go a week or two with no progress and all of a sudden you have too many girls who won't leave you alone. You can't pull from a pool of one-itis, so make sure you're not doing that. Approach thirty or 40 girls, hook up with three or four of them. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Extreme tiredness and low mood ruining my chances with girls850--That's an enviable natty T level. I think you need to work on "work life balance". You absolutely have to get enough sleep in order to function and do well at your job, and also to do well in your social life. You sound depressed. It's pretty normal for residents to work 100 hours a week and have no life. Best bet is to find some girl who understands the crazy hours and wants to hook up. Oneitis is a killer whether you're working or have too much time on your hands. Drugs are only a short t… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Will this method indicate my atractiveness?If you want practical advice, do your best to maximize your looks. Work out at the gym, don't be fat, dress in clothes that fit you well. Then only approach girls you find attractive or are interested in. Don't worry about your attractiveness level and approaching girls you're not attracted to. The girl you approach will either be interested in you, or not. That girls are giving you sustained eye contact is a good sign. You can go over and talk to them. A six who goes over and talks to a girl he… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 05:04 PM |
| 9 | If a random girl locks eyes with me I have a lot of trouble holding it. It just feels shameful and creepy and I feel like it causes me to miss out on potential opportunities how can I fix this ?Just go over and say hi. Usually it's a pretty solid IOI. Maybe sometimes she'll say "you have ketchup spilled all over your shirt" but that's OK because you would want to know that anyway. Either way you get credit for going over and saying hi. Once in a while you'll end up with a new friend or lover. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 04:50 PM |
| 5 | How much do I push and pull?This is a feel thing that you only get from experience. Like how to catch a fish, or how much to lean when you turn on a skateboard or bicycle. I don't think anybody can really give you an algorithm to follow. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Do other girls get this crazy on their period?With any girl you need to wrap it up and assume that she has some disease that you never want to catch. You should both shower before and and after. In addition to using a condom you should take a piss immediately afterwards too. You should also ask her straight up if she has any STD's. You could save yourself a lot of trouble if she tells you she has herpes. But if you like this girl and think you have a chance you should go for it. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:19 PM |
| 10 | The Arnold JuiceHow old are you? If you're under 28 don't do it. What are your lifts and body fat? If you haven't been lifting for at least 5 years and maxed out your genetic potential don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Do other girls get this crazy on their period?Wow, crazy story man. You should hit the gym and lift some weights and stop throwing paperclips at work. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:01 PM |
| 6 | Can a first sexual experience have such an impact on my sexual preference?There are probably more Asian women than any other kind of women on the planet. Being attracted to pretty Asian girls isn't much of a "fetish" and doesn't make you a weeb. You think and worry too much. If your first time were with a fat girl, I doubt you'd find fat girls unbearably attractive. If you were a kissless virgin you'd probably still find pretty Asian girls attractive. I think you're fortunate that your first time happened to be with an attractive Asian girl. If your first time were wi… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 12:48 PM |
| 4 | Self loathingHit the gym. Lift weights. Have to rebuild. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 12:35 PM |
| 6 | Your experience with plates fucking other dudes?The other guys free you up to fuck other girls on the days when you're not fucking that particular girl. Do you get upset that your favorite restaurant is serving other customers on all the nights when you don't go there? She loves what you provide her, free sex without any strings attached. She could be charging some fool $2000 a night on Instagram or Seeking Arrangement but instead she's with you being your own personal porn starlet, and you're getting it for free because you're more fun to be… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Don't care anymore (first girl coming over my house)If you want to make yourself a little vulnerable, you can even challenge her. You can say you just got off some psych meds and that you doubt she could even make you hard if she tried. "I'll bet you can't make me hard in ten minutes. Go crazy. Let's see what you've got." | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 04:36 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of a date at the library?Plenty of girls hook up / get laid at the library. Just don't get caught and expelled. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 04:30 AM |
| 3 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?I don't understand. Tinder is like an escort service, but it's free. The girls on there are having as much sex as strippers and escorts whether or not they're actually having sex-for-money like actual prostitutes. The girls on there are horny and they want you to come and fuck them. It's a hook-up app. As long as she's clear that you're not there to pay to have sex, you're supposed to hook-up with her and then leave. You should be using the same precautions to avoid STDs with tinder sluts that y… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 04:24 AM |
| 3 | My LTR is great, but miss the game?Just game hot women and get their phone numbers for fun so that you have a huge list of women who are willing to fuck you (or were at least interested in you) if your current LTR falls apart. I do agree with the poster above though that there seem to be way too many "my girlfriend is perfect, she is smart and amazing and great at sex, should I hard next her?" posts on here. Whenever I see one of those it's like WTF is wrong with these guys? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Don't care anymore (first girl coming over my house)OK, so you were trying to escalate it sounds like. Since she wasn't saying "No, stop, I don't want this" but was joking about your dick not being hard, you could probably take it out and tell her it takes a little more than sitting next to her on the sofa to make it hard. It sounds like you were doing too much talking and not enough making out. I would invite her over again. If she's still willing to sit on your sofa and make out with you after the previous encounter you can keep escalating agai… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:53 AM |
| 6 | Question About Handing Couples CounsellingYou needed to throw the psycho sister out a lot sooner. Wife sees sister walking all over you and has decided you're a doormat and now she's decided to leave you because she can do so much better. Since there are no kids involved I think you should just get divorced and start over with someone who doesn't have bipolar relatives. Or, if you don't want to do that for some reason, just insist that the sister has to go stay somewhere else. Maybe she can go on disability. Maybe she can move in with h… | /r/askMRP | 17/09/19 03:46 AM |
| 8 | Is love bombing ever done by a non BPD with non-sinister intentions?You're overthinking it. She sounds like a great girlfriend or plate. Don't worry about BPD until she starts doing psycho stuff and threatening to kill herself if you leave her, etc. Also, the fact that you were able to next her without her doing a bunch of crazy stuff like keying your car strongly suggests that she's not BPD. You've just found some girl who is really into you and is treating you very well. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:37 AM |
| 21 | Is love bombing ever done by a non BPD with non-sinister intentions?Girls who fall madly in love with you will do the "love bombing" thing, and I don't think they're BPD or sinister. It's a temporary state. "OMG I'm so in love with this perfect guy! OMG I've never felt like this before! OMG I can't sleep I wonder if he is thinking about me right now?" They've fallen head-over-heels in love, and it's similar to a guy with one-itis. Just enjoy it while it lasts. With BPD women every "relationship" they get into may go through that stage. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Don't care anymore (first girl coming over my house)If she sucked your dick for a few minutes and it still didn't get hard, then sure, maybe it's the antidepressant. But the fact that you had a girl in your room grabbing your dick and you didn't get her to suck it is all on you. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Don't care anymore (first girl coming over my house)Then you say, "why don't you see what happens when you put it in your mouth and suck on it"? You have to tell her exactly what you want her to do. She's already grabbing your dick and shit-testing you. You have to escalate! | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:26 AM |
| 56 | Why are women attracted to men who have trouble with the law?Successful athlete, rapper, rock star, actor. Fighter pilot, soldier, Marine. The people with those aggressive and competitive traits who are able to control themselves enough to channel it into something socially useful as opposed to just vandalizing cars in a parking lot or punching strangers in the face. A lot of natural alphas kind of flame out in life. They were big stars in high school or in their early twenties who got laid all the time, and then they're basically losers in terms of being… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:07 AM |
| 30 | Why are women attracted to men who have trouble with the law?Imagine two men: Bold, daring, violent, savage, untamed, fearless vs. nervous, shy, quiet, scared, fearful, learns from his mistakes Which one sounds more likely to go rob the local 7-11? Which one do you think fucks more horny teenagers? Which one is more likely to be a boring IT support person or an accountant? From an evolutionary and survival standpoint the first guy is a lot more likely to kill the chief and take over the tribe, than the second guy who is likely to live his whole life as a … | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Don't care anymore (first girl coming over my house)The only thing you were supposed to say to her is "Let's see if you can make it bigger." | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:52 AM |
| 9 | When Your Motivation ChangedThis article is helpful: Screw motivation, you need discipline! https://theredarchive.xyz/archive/39332 As you progress your focus should shift from "problem solving issues in your marriage" to doing stuff because you want to do it. You go to the gym because you're a guy who likes to break his old PR's at the gym, not because it helps your marriage. You stick to your diet because you like looking sexy and hate being fat, not because your wife also likes it when you look sexy and not fat, etc. Yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/19 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Is it common for wives' friends to try and seduce their husband?Just go for the threesome, or, if that's not your thing, enjoy the show she's putting on. It's actually great for you because, as you noticed, the wife saw what was happening and is fucking your brains out. Having her best friend turned on by you is great for you. It's much better than her friend saying "Ew, your husband is gross. I don't know how you can sleep with him!" Depending on the friend she may or may not actually fuck you. If your wife is cool with it she'd almost certainly be down for… | /r/askMRP | 16/09/19 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Got a super freaky plate that wants to be “raped”Save the text and record everything. If it makes you feel any better, the super-freaky girls I've run into over the years that love that sort of thing never gave me any trouble at all and were all a pleasure and genuinely nice people to be around. It's the "good girls" who say they never have casual sex and claim to be prudes who are likely to spread false rumors about you if you break up with them. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 02:33 AM |
| 4 | What do top 20% of men look like?Travelling always seems mysterious and sexy or at least exotic. Makes it seem like you've gone on lots of adventures. Imagine some guy from some town in Iowa who's never left Iowa. Now imagine that the same guy has been to Egypt, Iraq, Italy, Brazil, Russia, etc. The first guy sounds boring. The second guy sounds like he's a soldier or a spy or pilot (who knows?) at least he gets around a lot. It sounds less boring than being stuck in one place. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 10:33 PM |
| 24 | What do top 20% of men look like?If you eliminate glaringly obvious flaws you can get to the top 20% pretty easily. >In the United States, 36.5 percent of adults are obese. Another 32.5 percent of American adults are overweight. In all, more than two-thirds of adults in the United States are overweight or obese. So just not being fat will put you roughly into the top third. 70% of the population are fatties who will have to compete on being betabux for the leftover women if they get with any women at all without paying for it. … | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Met my first "i dont kiss on the first date" girl who I actually didnt end up kissing on the first dateGo in with low expectations and just enjoy whatever happens. Either enjoy hanging out or enjoy getting laid. Don't invest a lot of time or attention. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 11:30 PM |
| 28 | Met my first "i dont kiss on the first date" girl who I actually didnt end up kissing on the first dateSome girls are weird... I had one (not even plate. barely FWB?) who was almost asexual except when she was horny, when she would be ridiculously horny (fuck me right here right now in public without a condom horny). Sort of no- in-between. No hand-holding, no kissing, no making out, no sexual talk... just either normal hanging out like you would do with a guy, or really aggressive fucking and wild sex. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Met my first "i dont kiss on the first date" girl who I actually didnt end up kissing on the first date"Is this a date? Wait what? We're dating now? Oh shit I didn't know we were serious!" Go out one more time and if you're not getting anywhere then cut bait. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Wife hinting at threesome? Tips?Comments on here are too negative. OP should go for it. What would Uncle Vasya do? What would Chad do? I know what I would do... go for it. If she wants to go fuck Chad she'll do that with or without OP having a threesome. | /r/askMRP | 14/09/19 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Wife hinting at threesome? Tips?Sounds like she's changed her tune since then. She probably trusts this friend more or she wouldn't be saying you're going to be having two girlfriends etc. Edit: If you talk to kids who've never tried French Kissing, they think it's gross and say I could never do that, then whenever they actually start fooling around they like it and it's super-hot and they forget all about how they used to think it's disgusting. There's a thin veneer of "oh no I'm not a slut, I could never do such a thing!" an… | /r/askMRP | 13/09/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Wife hinting at threesome? Tips?In my experience this isn't joking or teasing. Girls love threesomes. They are too shy to make it happen themselves, you have to encourage them. Personally, I would do it. Just tell them how it's going to go down. Say something like "when are you going to have another opportunity like this?" In life you'll have more regrets from not doing things than from doing things. If you don't make it happen you'll regret it forever. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Make her do a striptease again.Bring over another plate to show her how it's done. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Sooo what happened here.Maybe you shouldn't have had no contact for three days and she thinks you were just going for ONS. I'd ask her out again a few more times before transferring her to the injured reserved list. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | How do I get rid of a plate I meet up with a lot?Don't lie. Just be honest about whatever it is that you're busy with that you would rather do than "hang out" with her, and define exactly what you would be willing to do with her and how much time you're willing to spend doing that. So if you're busy with finding a new job, that's fine, tell her that, and if you're only willing to see her for 20 minutes to have sex, that's fine, tell her that too. No need to be dishonest. She can either agree to see you when you want to see her, or she can deci… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 05:52 AM |
| 6 | Do you consider it a red flag for an LTR if a girl has had a ONS or casual sex?Ask Uncle Vasya. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Do you consider it a red flag for an LTR if a girl has had a ONS or casual sex?Being a slut for the right guy is just "having good sex" really. I think the other poster who made the next and promote flowchart has the right idea for you. Hook up with her first, and then if you like everything keep hooking up with her more and more. If you still like everything, hook up with her every day and stop hooking up with other people if that's what you want. Just know that if she's been with dozens of guys and is used to cheating or casual sex, odds are pretty good that the moment y… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Do girls friendzone after hooking up?You shouldn't be talking to her without hooking up. She has girlfriends or friends she can talk to. So you're probably generating these non-attraction vibes by being non-attractive. If you want a relationship, keep hooking up with her every day. After a couple of months of having sex every day of the week she may start asking "what are we? are we a couple?" and then you can say "obviously you're my girlfriend, you're here with me every single day." You can still do other things with her besides … | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Eye rolling? Normal?As long as you're getting laid, who cares. Nothing wrong with getting laid with a sexy bratty girl, especially if you like the way she rolls her eyes. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Do you consider it a red flag for an LTR if a girl has had a ONS or casual sex?Conventional wisdom is that you can't turn a whore into a housewife. I've always wondered though, what happens to actual sex workers when they age out of the business? Some of them must become housewives, right? IF you want a conventional monogamous LTR then yes it's probably a red flag. If you're looking for an open LTR (girl you hook up with on the regular) it's probably fine. It's pretty naive to think that a girl who likes to go out and cheat and drink and party or do drugs and hook up with … | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 05:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of a plate I meet up with a lot?You don't have to ignore her. You can tell her you can't hang out for the next six months because you have to do something you've been neglecting (work, school, helping your mom) but if she wants to get together to (tell her exactly what you want her to do and when) you can do that with her. "I can't meet you today. I'm coming back from the gym tonight at 11:30 and have to get up early tomorrow. If you want to come over and take a shower with me come over, but I have to be in bed by midnight." S… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 04:38 AM |
| 3 | How do you keep yourself motivated for longer periods of loneliness while having low SMV?Take a realistic look at where you're starting from. If you're 100 pounds overweight and that's why you have low SMV, you're not going to lose that overnight, but it's simple to measure your progress. You need to put together a plan and then make it happen. Figure out which kind of diet works for you and then go lose two pounds a week for the next year. I used to know a guy who looked like Jason Alexander (George from the old show Seinfeld) but he used to successfully pick up girls all the time.… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Numbers don't mean shit... EvidentlyMaybe when you first get her number, invite her in person to some party or activity that isn't firmed up yet. "My friends are putting together a house party in a couple of weeks, you want to check it out?" Then when you actually have a party to go to you can text or call her and invite her to the party. It sounds like you're too chatty over text. "Hey, it's that guy, what's going on?" is a big no-no. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 04:21 AM |
| 2 | How to keep a plate spinning while living in another cityJust try to make sure she's having a lot of fun whenever she's with you. She knows it's only a few times a year, hopefully she looks forward to it and wants to keep it going. Realistically at some point she may get involved in an exclusive relationship for a while, but if she's willing to sneak around you could keep it going for years and years. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | How to keep a plate spinning while living in another cityHey Alice, I'm in Raccoon City next week staying at the Umbrella Hotel. You coming over Monday night?" With girls who live out of town you need to be OK with her stepping out on her local boyfriend, so she may have to sneak out to come and play with you. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Told a girl at a bar this past weekend to "lose some weight if you wants to have a chance with me." Later on, her group of friends come up and start insulting me calling me "gay" and other dumb shit like that. What the fuck is that all about?Usually negging is reserved for "Perfect 10" super-hot girls who have a zillion guys fawning over them. OP wasn't trying to get laid so much as to see if this cute chubby girl was any fun to be around or not. She was weighed and found wanting. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Told a girl at a bar this past weekend to "lose some weight if you wants to have a chance with me." Later on, her group of friends come up and start insulting me calling me "gay" and other dumb shit like that. What the fuck is that all about?You did OK. If she had come up with any kind of funny / sexy / flirty reply you could have gotten laid, and there's no shame in getting with a cute chubby girl with a great sense of humor. Cute, chubby, and thin-skinned? Pass. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 03:10 AM |
| 4 | Logistics (Don't have a place to go back to.) 26MIf you have a car, you're golden. If no car, go for a walk down by the waterfront to look at the lights. Make out there. Go on a ferry boat ride or something. Girl lives somewhere. Maybe you can go there. You don't have to let her know that you sleep on the floor, can just say that your roommate is annoying, and you don't want to go back there tonight. Sex is one of those things you can do that doesn't cost any money, so you should certainly get creative instead of letting money stand in your wa… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Numbers don't mean shit... EvidentlyHave her send a text from her phone to yours rather than reading out her number. At least that way you're not showing up as "unknown". Text for logistics. Make sure you have some clear thing for them to do. "My friend is having ice cream party at XYZ at 9:30 tonight for his 20th birthday, come meet me there" is better than "Hey, do you want to go out some time?" If you're never getting laid and not getting any contact back then you might be delusional, but ask them to go to some specific thing w… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 02:48 AM |
| 26 | Help. My psychotic ex is texting me and threatening to ruin my career.Keep the text messages and voicemails with the threats. Go get a restraining order against her for threatening violence and blackmail. If she does act on any of them maybe you live in a state with a revenge porn law or something like that. Restraining order. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 02:23 AM |
| 3 | question about attraction3somes FTW! | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 02:00 AM |
| 2 | What do I even do in this situation?She likes you enough to hook up with you. You're worrying too much about what's going on in her head. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 01:43 AM |
| 2 | What do I even do in this situation?You should stop drinking. In just this one post it wrecked your erection and then later you passed out without getting laid. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 01:25 AM |
| 10 | Cultivating 'sexy' instead of 'cuddly' in LTRTell her exactly what you want her to do. Say "I want you to talk dirty to me." If you want her to wear a latex outfit and boots pick out the clothes you want her to wear and tell her to put them on. After you're doing whatever it is that you want to be doing, reward her with all the cuddly cuddles she wants. She probably has no idea what you really want because you're not telling her what to do. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?Not really. Just make sure your relationship is about sex and not money. Keep your finances private. As long as you have enough to hang out together you'll be fine. She doesn't need to know if you inherited $10 million or if you just have a couple hundred bucks left after you pay the bills. Be a little mysterious. If she's wasting a ton of money on stupid stuff don't feel that you need to "compete" in that arena. There are plenty of rich people who are not flashy and don't over-spend on stupid s… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Finally met a respectable, feminine, old-school, woman— the problem is she expects me to pay for everything.Just do free stuff with her. Instead of going out to dinner, go buy a fish or a steak and a bunch of groceries and tell her to make dinner for you. It will cost you less than if you want out to a fancy dinner with her, and she can contribute her cooking skills so that it's a fair split. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 10:43 PM |
| 5 | I honestly don't know what to say..comfort test?Wife wanted sex. You should have proposed making a sex tape with her, she might giggle and say no to the sex tape or giggle and say yes, and either way you would have had sex instead of getting in an argument. " I politely smile and nod and tell her that I have work in the morning and that we should sleep" --WTF is wrong with you? You should have pulled out your dick and rubbed it against her face. Then she might either start sucking or say "Wow, what's gotten into you? How come you're so horny?… | /r/askMRP | 09/09/19 10:24 PM |
| 17 | Biggest way you improved your game?Lifting is key, but a lot of game is just numbers. Talk to more strangers. The girl who just got married may have a cousin or a sister. People may invite you places you haven't been. If you run into a group of people and there are girls in the group you want to talk to, talk to one of the guys in the group first. The girls will come introduce themselves to you. If you meet a lot more people in general, you're going to meet a lot more girls who want to hook up. Just like going to the gym is bette… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Sustaining sexual favours with platesNo joke it seems to work better. If she asks for stuff like "how come you never give me x anymore" then go ahead and give her x. But about 80 percent of the time you want to just be "out to get your own needs met". Mix it up 20% of the time and be a little more thoughtful, loving, and affectionate. I'm not sure if it's purely biological or if it some kind of psychological dynamic like: "he can get what he wants from any girl, I'm so glad he chose me" vs. "this guy would do anything for me, he's … | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Have we become an echo chamber?Do you even lift? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 08:36 PM |
| 2 | is it true that muscles matter in terms of respect from others?It's as big as the difference you get from wearing a suit in an appropriate place vs dressing like a slob. VIP treatment vs security trying to chase you out of the store. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | is it true that muscles matter in terms of respect from others?It's a big difference. Try it you'll like it. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 03:13 AM |
| 35 | Sustaining sexual favours with platesYou're screwing up by trying to please her instead of just using her for your pleasure. There's a million sweet nice guys out there who would love to try to give her pleasure. She wants someone big and strong who is going to take her and use her exactly the way he wants. The other thing to keep in mind, is that if she's into casual sex, new partners are probably more exciting than familiar ones. Quit trying to do anything for her and just tell her to do exactly what you want without worrying abo… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Is it worth trying to set up another day to meet up? Or should i just next her?It is certainly possible to hook up with girls after they've flaked. You don't want to be like Charlie Brown with the football that Lucy always yanks away at the last minute, but there's no shame in tolerating a little bit of flakiness if you're getting laid regularly (or for the first time with some girl you like.) Just double book yourself and meet her someplace you're going to have fun anyway. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 02:30 AM |
| 183 | Life after the Red Pill?There's all kinds of interesting stuff going on in the world. You only develop nihilism and hopelessness if you let it happen. Let's take your points in order: -You can have a family (and even get married if you want to) but getting married is a raw deal for men in Western society today. -Can't rely on democracy to fix the world. Well that's probably true but why is that your goal? Fixing the world is a big task. Focus on stuff you have control over. -Working for companies sucks. You can start y… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | 3 Girls want to fuck me but we all live in the same hallway dormOP is having the best college experience ever. Since he doesn't even have to leave his dorm and go out on dates to get laid his GPA should be higher too. No need to be hitting on girls at bars and parties and getting numbers. Be sure to report back to us OP. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Lately 0 motivation on leg day, advice?OPSEC! Do you realize how easy it is to identify you now? All someone has to do is log your IP address, trace your number, and then look in your kitchen to see if you have peanut butter and whole wheat bread. Then they could follow you to your gym on leg day and blackmail you with video of you waiting 5 minutes between sets!!!!! | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 04:56 AM |
| 54 | 3 Girls want to fuck me but we all live in the same hallway dormYou should casually mention to each of them that you know a bi-curious girl who is really up for a threesome if they're interested, that way you don't have to hide them from each other. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Can money get you any girl you want?Not really, especially when you're talking about rich girls. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Is there something wrong with me?Stop drinking. Get some viagra. Quit over-thinking stuff. You have anxiety. Lift weights, swim, and read up on self-help tips to reduce anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The Anger/Resentful stageThe anger should go away. Just get in really good shape. You are lifting right? You have to lift. Eventually you accept the way women are, can't get upset with women for being women. If you had a job offer for a job that was less work for more pay and was more fun than your current job with better prospects for advancement, would you take it? Hypergamy for women is like that. Women can be lots of fun to be around. You have to learn how to enjoy them for what they are, and not wish that they were… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 03:14 PM |
| 6 | What do you guys make of this situation?If you're OK with being in an open relationship then just do that. You've already banged a bunch of hotties in Colorado. You know what's out there. Whether you want to stay married now is just a legal or financial decision. Since you've fucked her after you caught her cheating apparently you don't find her physically disgusting now. I'd just keep her in the rotation as long as you feel like having her around. The reality is these days that any new "replacement" you find is going to have had sex … | /r/askMRP | 02/09/19 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Question about lift depreciation in my bench after almost a week.The general rule for getting back into lifting is to spend as much time getting back into it as you were off. So if you were out for a couple of weeks, spend a couple of weeks to get back to where you were. If you have been out for years, better get back into it slowly. For the first couple of weeks keep the weights much lower than your one-rep max. Much much lower. If there's some injury or physical limitation holding you back you want to discover that and get it corrected before you're trying … | /r/askMRP | 02/09/19 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Woman with kids = no no?To me it lowers her SMV and RMV as a general rule, but you have to figure out what you want and who you want to date. Some people like girls with tattoos, some people like fake tits, maybe if you can't have kids of your own or something you want a woman who already has a kid(?) ... you just have to figure out for yourself what it is that you want in a relationship or a date. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 11:33 PM |
| 29 | Girls show alot of iois at my sales jobIf it's entry-level retail with no bright future and you can find another job in a hurry you should just go for it. The rule doesn't apply if you work in food service or retail or as a bouncer... | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 11:24 PM |
| 8 | Weirdest ASD/LMR of my life. Insight appreciatedsounds like the weed made her paranoid | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | 6 month LTR gained weightMaybe change up datenight so instead of dinner and a movie or netflix and chill, it's deadlift and chill, sprint to the top of the hill and have sex at the top, nude medicine ball, tennis and sex, swim across the lake and back.... If she doesn't want to do those things with you and just wants to watch TV and eat, I'm sure you can find someone else who is crazy fit with a perfect body to spend time with. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 10:47 PM |
| 2 | She isn't yours. Its only your turn.All relationships are temporary, even if it lasts for the rest of your life. There's always a risk that something will mess up your relationship, lots of factors beyond your control. You could come down with some horrible disease and lose all your money and your good looks. All you can do is control the stuff that is under your control. Simple stuff like not getting fat, not being a slob, not being whiny and needy, staying in good shape. Most guys screw up the simple stuff that is under their co… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/09/19 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Alphas orbiting/back up?It's always good to keep a list. Girl you hooked up with once when you were in London. Girl you used to date but sort of fell out of touch with. Girl you went out on a date with but nothing happened last time around. It costs nothing to text her "I'm coming to London on the 18th, meet me at the XYZ Hotel..." Zero investment or "orbiting" on your part. Decent probability of hooking up. Even if she's married now or something like that you can hook up with one of her friends or at least meet some m… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Ex boyfriendIt sounds like you feel like you're getting what you want from the relationship. I'd enjoy having the threesomes and have fun while it lasts. Complaining about texts to an ex is just going to make it look like you care too much. At some point she'll probably leave you for someone more beta who will promise to always take care of her and buy her stuff, but that's OK. I'd rather be you than him. She can have all the fun sex with you and let some other guy be her "soft landing" when she needs secur… | /r/askMRP | 01/09/19 11:33 AM |
| 14 | If you ask a girl to go out/hang over text, and she says she’s busy and doesn’t offer a different date, do you soft next?It sort of depends on the girl and how busy she actually is. If this is a girl you're having sex with on the regular, and you say "Meet me at 7 tonight" and she texts back "can't, working until 11" then it's just a legitimate schedule conflict and don't worry about it. People have jobs and school and you can't realistically expect people go bail out on whatever commitments they have every time you want to hook up. If this is someone you've never dated or had sex with and she's busy and doesn't o… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 03:50 AM |
| 11 | Failed Comfort Test>never available after the kids go down wife wants sex. >why can't she text and ask me to hang out she wants you to initiate. --- >Dishes in sink, etc >wife complains >let her know blah blah blah Too much talking going on here. Action not words. | /r/askMRP | 01/09/19 03:25 AM |
| 4 | The struggle of balancing time with/without LTR^^ This is excellent advice. Just tell her what you want her to do and when to show up. If she has some other idea that genuinely sounds like more fun than whatever you have planned you can always say "I like your idea better" and go do her thing once in a while. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/19 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Wtf happened?! Worse before it gets better?Maybe someone already put it in the comments but expect it to take 1-2 months for every year you were doing it wrong to turn the ship around completely. So you were messing up for 14 years, it's going to take a solid year (probably two) for everything to get back on track. Just keep working on yourself. Brothers here have told you mix in a little comfort, so make sure to do that, too. I wouldn't worry too much about these shit tests. If she does run off it's not a terrible loss for you. Edit: Re… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/19 12:06 PM |
| 2 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedYou also need to fuck her the way you want to fuck her. You shouldn't be afraid of playing with her tits, cumming all over her, and that sort of thing. You're already married, when you're having sex with her just do what you want to do in the heat of passion. It's not really something to discuss or negotiate. Do what you want and tell her to do what you want her to do. You may encounter a little resistance at first, but over time she'll be wanting and expecting you to do what excites you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 09:53 PM |
| 3 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedUse her the way you want for your own needs. You should definitely oil up her tits and fuck them and cum on her face. Don't discuss it, just pull out during regular fucking when you're about to come and put them between her tits. (I guess the worse thing that could happen is she could threaten to divorce you.) Increasing the frequency of sex dramatically will also increase her appetite for doing other things. If you just had vanilla missionary sex, then the next time do some other position. Righ… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 09:01 PM |
| 4 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedI forgot about that part in OP's post. Don't kill yourself OP. Still have some of your own demons to defeat before you blame the wife for everything. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 08:50 PM |
| 2 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedOnce a week sounds like duty sex and is kind of a minimal level . Try for 5-6 times a week at least. Put that viagra to good use. Go for twice a day on your days off since you're working 72 hours shifts. Maybe check your T levels if your libido is that low. It should be a fun activity. Take advantage of her while she's around, her mood will improve a lot. Edit: You don't have to spend an hour having sex, especially since you're busy. A few minutes in the kitchen or garage or car or wherever will… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 08:47 PM |
| 9 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedIf she's making $500k per year the odds are that she has a lot of work stress too. It might be reasonable for her to dial back the career a notch or two for a few years until your child is older. It's hard to raise a toddler and also work a high-stress job. There are lots of people making a lot of money who have fucked-up lives and kids that end up being train wrecks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 08:40 PM |
| 7 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedIf it makes you feel any better, my uncle married his sweetheart from grade school, and then somehow got divorced and then got remarried to the same (crazy artist) girl a year or two later. They're still together, he just turned 77. They've actually always seemed pretty happy together. There's no reason you shouldn't be angry, but it seems like you're kind of in anger mode still. I think if you treat it as a big bump in the road or a "near miss" and move on things could still work out. Her hormo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 08:33 PM |
| 17 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedIf she's smart and accomplished and makes money she's not really a lost cause. Women are notorious for mood swings and irrational episodes, especially after childbirth. You've seen her bad behavior, now you have to bring out her good behavior again (Or move on.) I think you're a little too all-or-nothing in your thinking about her. She's a smart girl who went nuts after childbirth, and now she's regaining her sanity. Edit: I guess it's perfectly understandable that you're still pissed off at her… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 06:54 PM |
| 7 | How not to give a F when kids are involvedIf you're in the USA the cash-and-prizes for divorce may seem tempting to your wife and her awful friends. As a surgeon making $$$ you have a target painted on your back. One possibility you might consider is that she genuinely went into a major depressive episode (a "real" one) and that's why she temporarily became a psycho bitch. If she wasn't obnoxious before she had the baby (there must be some reason you married her), odds are pretty good that she'll return to sanity and be fun to be around… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Way of the Superior ManThe writing style is annoying and goofy but the content is great. Relationships need polarity. | /r/askMRP | 08/08/19 02:02 PM |
| 5 | No sex. I left.At least it gives her the chance to say something like "Last week I went to the doctor and he says I have an ovarian cyst and he removed it in his office but I have an infection and I am not supposed to have sex until Tuesday" or whatever the story is. Or she can say "I met Chad" or "Do you love me or only want me for sex?" | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 04:43 AM |
| 14 | No sex. I left.Maybe "misunderstand" the question, "No, I do want to have sex with you, I'm just really busy this week." Edit: You could also pressure flip: "Why, are you trying to control me with sex?" Agree and amplify works too. "You know I'm a pervert, practically a sex maniac, why do you even ask?" STFU also works, probably. Whatever you do don't say something whiny or needy or thirsty. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 04:25 AM |
| 1 | No sex. I left.I would escalate as usual. If you get denied next time the something's up and it's a real problem. I think I would ask her "What's wrong?" and see what she says. But with any luck that won't happen and everything will be fine. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Honestly what if my actual goal in life is to have a family and or at least live happily ever afterDon't date or plate any women that you wouldn't want to be the mother of your children. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 03:28 AM |
| 63 | No sex. I left.You did the right thing. I wouldn't write her off completely just yet. Just go about being busy and increasing your SMV (always a good idea.) Odds are pretty good you'll get some text a few days later with an apology and begging you to come over for sex, she was stressed-out about her interviews, etc. If not, keep working on being busy and increasing your SMV. It will make the next girl more attracted to you. Edit: Every once in a while someone is going to be legitimately not DTF for reasons tha… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 11:24 PM |
| 51 | TRP teaching us how to get laid.Keeping a list works wonders. Take notes. Every now and then call up the ones you haven't seen for months. Especially if you're travelling. "What have you been up to? I'm going to be in LA next week, want to get together for ...?" Sometimes the one who got engaged will no longer be engaged, the one who flaked out is all hot to meet you, the married one got divorced, the one you thought had LTR potential got married.... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants to take a break from sex for a weekendHey, that's great! I think that's the best possible outcome. I would put the pedicure in the "her doing something nice for you that she doesn't have to do category". Don't overthink things. I'm glad you had a good time and didn't fail the shit test. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 05:43 PM |
| 9 | Robert Glover in NMMNG: "Talk About Fight Club."NMMNG is a great book overall, but Glover wrote it about 20 years ago and some stuff in it is wrong, which I think he freely admits now. Don't take him up on the advice to have your wife read the book with you. I forgot the exact details but I think he also has a chapter about not initiating sex which is also just a bad idea (maybe I'm mistaken and that was in a different sidebar book). The toolkit has improved over the last 20 years. His key points all stand, eliminate covert contracts, learn t… | /r/askMRP | 03/08/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | When and why did our gender become so pathetic?Sabotage! | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Shy womenThere's too many people here, let's go some place where we can be comfortable alone. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 05:42 AM |
| 4 | I picked up the hottest girl in the gym last night.You caught feelings, Bro. Sidebar ---> | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Is there any specific content about "leading her on"?I think you'd have more luck with the opposite approach. "Say look, I don't want to give you the wrong idea. I'm probably not relationship material. I've been diagnosed as being a sociopath, they tell me I'll probably end up in prison or a mental hospital. And I'm always having lots of threesomes. You'd probably be better off with a guy who makes lots of money and treats you like a princess. Everyone tells me I'm too rough, kind of a psycho." Let her try to tame you. :) | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Why can’t I dump them?(re)-read When I Say No I Feel Guilty. But stop worrying about it, they leave on their own when they're bored with you. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 04:37 AM |
| 91 | Guy from TIFU gets cucked and branch swungI assumed this was r writingprompts fake, who would actually do such a thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 03:14 AM |
| 5 | Not energetic/fun enough?Generally speaking if you can make out with a girl you can get laid with that same girl, so that's just a matter of your actually doing it. You're going to have to work on your conversation skills. Just keep asking open ended questions about what she's talking about. First date stuff is FORD not RAPE, family, occupation, recreation, dreams (all good topics); religion, abortion, politics, exes or economics (bad topics.) So you can ask if she has any brothers or sisters, what she does for fun, wha… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Finally passing shit tests, but more questionsFirst of all, you're on the right track with lifting and getting the house cleaned up. Secondly, It sounds like she's horny and you're not initiating nearly enough. When she asked if you were mad or you seemed off you should initiate right there (in my opinion). Propose a two minute quickie or warm-up for later. Just start making out with her and if she says "not now" stop and save it for later. Regarding the red lingerie, I would just put it out on the bed and tell her to put it on. If you real… | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | A Death WishYou might like Allen Carr's Easy Way to Control Alcohol. It fits in well with RP thinking. You don't have to accept that you have a disease, you don't have to go to meetings, you can hang out in places where drugs and alcohol are abundant if you want to. Therapy and AA have a lot of blue-pill ideas IMHO (not trying to start an argument with people who have been helped by them.) The book is geared towards alcohol but you could fix your other substance abuse issues with it just as well. I can't re… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 08:37 AM |
| 33 | LTR cheated. Need advice.Skyrocketing your SMV is always a good thing. As your physical health improves your mental health will follow along. Then when you get in really good shape buying some new clothes and getting a haircut makes it fun to go out and approach again. If I were you I'd avoid alcohol completely. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 06:48 AM |
| 15 | Female Friend Being Rude For No ReasonDon't have female "friends" unless she's 100 years old and friends with your grandmother or something like that. "Entertain me, I'm bored" is female friend code for "Fuck me, I'm horny!" You should have said, come over, let's have sex. She wants you to make a move on her. You don't really lose any points for being sexually aggressive when presented with something provocative like "Entertain me, I'm bored." She followed up with the bikini pic because you didn't get the hint the first time. Edit: … | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants to take a break from sex for a weekendI would try to have fun and be fun to be around and still have sex with her. I wouldn't make any effort to take it seriously or to not have sex. From how you describe her she'll probably acquiesce like always. If she really doesn't put out (insists on "no sex") I would soft next, the trick would be trying not to seem all pissed off and butthurt about it, because acting pissy would show that her little experiment gave her some power over you. In my opinion this girl is becoming too high-maintenan… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend was hiding from a guy in publicAs long as she's doing whatever you want her to do I wouldn't worry about it at all. I've had "friends" who are in the same group as my actual friends, who are obnoxious loudmouths who will waste your time asking stupid questions until you literally have to drag yourself away. "Who's this new girl? How long have you been together? Are you going to bring her to XYZ? Did William meet her yet? Did you hear William is getting serious with Karen? Are you going to go to that party with ..." Unless the… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants to take a break from sex for a weekendIt sounds like a shit test. Don't fall for it. Don't be upset with her either, shit testing is what women are supposed to do. You pass it by not being upset, not agreeing to it, and not being worried about the consequences. "No, I like having sex with you too much. That doesn't sound like fun." Just treat it like you'd treat any other stupid suggestion, like paying dolls all weekend long. "No thanks, not interested." Shit test passed. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Trying to progress with sleep issuesTryptophan. | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Plate of 4 months broke. Caught feelingsJust go on living your life, odds are she'll come back. If she doesn't, just go on living your life. The best "manipulation" is just to go on living your life. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 01:58 AM |
| 21 | Girl wants to take a break from sex for a weekendWhenever I start losing faith in mankind, Uncle Vasya restores my optimism. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants to take a break from sex for a weekendI would just say no problem, you've been wanting to go to Las Vegas with your friend who invited you for that weekend, so she can take a break from sex while you're gone and the Lake House can wait... Or you could just have sex in the morning before you leave, and then go do some non-sexual things with her for the rest of the day and see whether or not she's fun to hang around with. If literally all you do with her is fuck like rabbits whenever you're together that's not unreasonable. But I woul… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth joining Crossfit to learn and advance Olympic lifts?You should have a lot of fun, and it will make you stronger too. If you want to max out your lifts though it's probably 70% technique. Especially since you're not competing, make your goal to be the guy with the best technique rather than the most weight on the bar, ultimately that will keep you from getting injured and will help you with your strength goals too. | /r/askMRP | 27/07/19 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth joining Crossfit to learn and advance Olympic lifts?Olympic lifting is great. A lot of Oly lifters these days come from Crossfit. Most Oly lifters kind of make fun of crossfitters because usually their form is terrible. You should check out the r/weightlifting sub. To learn the clean and jerk and the snatch you absolutely need a coach. If you can find someone who can teach you at a crossfit gym then sure, why not, but you might be better off if you can find a dedicated olympic lifting gym near you. Edit: Technique is a huge part of it. You'll be … | /r/askMRP | 27/07/19 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Don't be a haterHaters gonna hate. Put the work in on yourself, and then focus on what you want and getting your own needs met. People are getting mad because the world doesn't work the way they think it should and they feel like they've been lied to. They have been lied to. You want to be a happy guy who is in great shape and fun to be around. Generally speaking when you get your mind and body where you want them to be, it's pretty easy to get girls to come along for the ride. Like anything else, the better yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/19 07:07 PM |
| 7 | How do I start implementing dread.This is like anything else in life that you're not good at. Doing things the right way after you've spent your whole life doing them the wrong way is going to feel awkward for a while. If you've been hunched over and slouching for years, proper posture is going to feel strange and unnatural. By the time you're actually good at it, the rules will probably make more sense to you. You seem to have some ideas backwards. You're supposed to put your own life first, and you yourself deal with your own … | /r/askMRP | 25/07/19 06:08 AM |
| 1 | What can I do if my IQ is 150?Fortunately there are more than 100 countries if he wants to move... Most people have no idea what TRP is, and nobody is going to remember about the doxxing in a week or two. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 03:21 AM |
| 11 | (Emotional) scar ruined my date, how can I recover from post traumas?I don't think you would lose any points for saying your Dad used to beat you with a belt and you're still kind of sensitive about it. Just tell her you're not mad about but it brings back some bad memories or something. Also, once you have it out there in the open it's not likely to break your frame again next time. Edit: In general being successful in spite of having had bad stuff happen to you in the past only makes you look stronger. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 02:59 AM |
| 15 | How does RP apply to women outside of the western world?You still want to be a big strong guy who is fun to be around and who has rock-solid frame and his own mission. All the core RP stuff is human nature so it will still hold. As far as dating norms and customs go, you'll probably have to adapt those to the local culture. If you're in some kind of ultra-traditional community you probably want to keep your sexual relationship well hidden so the girl has some plausible deniability. Maybe your attempt to create a little dread is being misunderstood as… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriends Hypergamy CommentOne of the reasons this red pill stuff is hard is that you're supposed to not give a fuck about shit she says, but what if she says some shit that you actually do give a fuck about? If you get upset about it, it's a failed shit-test because you lost frame. If you let it slide, you have to sit there and be pissed off but try not to seem pissed-off until you can purify your mind and let it go. It's hard to say anything witty and not butthurt when you're actually upset, which is why STFU is usually… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 04:52 AM |
| 14 | Fat man wants to know how light he needs to get to start jogging again?It's harder to fuck up your feet, knees, and joints swimming. All the middle age joggers and runners I know seem to be getting knee replacements... If I were you I'd do something like swimming where the injury rate is low. | /r/askMRP | 23/07/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else desires to fuck Low SMV guys' hot girlfriends?Any hot girl you fuck is going to have dozens of guys who she never fucked hanging around her and wishing she was fucking them. If the guys you see are actually low SMV they're probably not having sex with her, or at least not having non-transactional sex. When you hook up with a hot girl you don't see the guy who's spent the last 3 years buying her dinner and drinks and trying unsuccessfully to get laid. Similarly, if you see a girl out with a betabux type you don't see all the dozens of hot gu… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Cock blocked by a momDude deserves credit for trying. Pretty solid frame to try to win over the mom. Alas, it was not meant to be. Shouldn't have told the mom you thought the daughter was attractive and asked mom for the girl's number. You might have been able to stealth get the number from the daughter by asking her before the mom whisked her away. Like, wait, before you go give me your number! Girl could then make any excuse like you're going to call when the shoes are back in stock or something. Or, this is Kenny… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts about buying a sex toy for a plate?It's fine if you hand it to her in person while you're fucking her and you take the video of her yourself. If this is some girl you see naked on the internet, then no, don't buy stuff for girls you see naked on the internet. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Is the plate spinning me as her plate?She's a 20-year-old tinder hook-up who is fucking multiple guys right after meeting them. That's fine if that's what you're looking for. Wear condoms. Don't fall in love. http://www.cvltnation.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/std12n-6-web.jpg https://thesocietypages.org/socimages/files/2011/05/52.jpg | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 05:35 AM |
| 5 | How does TRP explain this? Woman refuses him because his house plants were fakeIt's probably a good call on the girl's part. It's annoying to be an expert in some field and then run into someone who is lying and bullshitting about whatever you happen to be an expert in to try to impress you. Nobody likes a fraud. "I saw a plane fly overhead once, therefore I am an airline pilot." | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Better to have quick first date before she leaves for vacation, or wait until after?If you have ever lived overseas, women who didn't date you while you were there will suddenly fuck you right before you leave the country permanently. I think it's ASD. They can have a one night stand with you and no one will ever find out about it because you'll be on the other side of the world. It's the same reason women will hook up on Spring Break or a weekend trip to Vegas. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 11:04 PM |
| 16 | Better to have quick first date before she leaves for vacation, or wait until after?Strike while the iron is hot. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 11:01 PM |
| 32 | Won't sign up as the FO despite massive improvement. Kill the puppy?My opinion is you're talking too much about Fight Club. If she's a "damn good wife" then don't get divorced. To me it sounds like she's been moving in the right direction ("sex has improved", "cooks", "cleans", "awesome"). If you didn't get divorced right after she had the affair (your call), then why are you doing it now when she's making all these improvements? I don't think you should be talking about your vision for the relationship and telling her you're going to take the lead. You just hav… | /r/askMRP | 21/07/19 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Negativity and hostility from other menIf you're in high school or similar aged, lets say age 15-21, sometimes you'll get idiots who want to show how tough they are by trying to intimidate the guy with muscles. Maybe they never noticed you before and now they see you as some kind of threat to their ego? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Negativity and hostility from other menGive a few examples of the negativity and hostility you are talking about, and a couple of ideas that you have as to what's going on. Your question is still too vague. Like if I asked you "Why is my friend mad at me?" | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 09:52 PM |
| 16 | Negativity and hostility from other menOP doesn't provide enough information to get any kind of useful answer. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 09:38 PM |
| 13 | Your woman's value add to your life?At least she has a sense of humor, and that's not nothing. I think it's weird to ask her what value she adds. You should figure out what she's bringing to the table and decide whether you want her in your life or not. There's nothing wrong with telling her what you want her to do. Maybe you don't want to eat out seven nights a week and you want her to cook dinner more often, but how is she going to know that unless you say something? To me it would be surprising if she puts your needs ahead of h… | /r/askMRP | 21/07/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Lifting question, herniasI think you need a good doctor and trainer to figure out what's causing the need for all these surgeries and you should probably just avoid anything that makes it worse unless there's a way to fix the problem completely. | /r/askMRP | 20/07/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Red flags...do I bail?I didn't know these other two guys my friend introduced to her. I was like "I wonder why I haven't seen her for a week" and he said "Oh, she's going out with Billy Beta now." I said WTF how'd that happen and he said "Oh he's visiting from Washington DC so I introduced them since you guys broke up." At the time I didn't realize "red pill" was a thing. Maybe what you're saying is true for "natural betas" if there is such a thing, but I believe that there's a big blue pill brainwashing program, esp… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it ok for women to be passive aggresiveYou have to work on yourself to not let things like that annoy you. If things like that DO annoy you, you should avoid people who annoy the shit out of you. It's always a good idea to think a little bit about the various people in your life and ask if they're making your life better or worse. Imagine she wins the lottery and moves to Hawaii and never calls you again. If you say "Wow, that would solve so many problems for me!" then it's time to end that relationship. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Red flags...do I bail?To me this is kind of a funny story. I had exactly one girlfriend / plate with BPD. She was hot AF and not exactly crazy but would fly into a rage over nothing. She would always hang out with me and one of my best friends. She would have sex with me on the regular for a couple of weeks and then get mad about nothing and storm off. Usually she would come back in an hour or a couple of days. Whatever. Didn't really bother me all that much. Anyway, one time after she stormed off for a few days my f… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Did you ever "shitted where you ate"?It's like anything else in life. You have to guess as best you can about the risks and rewards of the situation. If you have a million job offers and your job sucks (let's say you're a bartender or a waiter) why not go for it? If one false move will destroy your billion-dollar career it's a terrible idea. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/19 01:31 AM |
| 45 | Otherwise great LTR has health issues affecting our sex lifeThis is a temporary situation. She's going to get the problem fixed. If I were you I would ride out the rough patch. In a few months she'll have surgery and probably be back to her old self. If not you can re-evaluate then. If she had been a crappy LTR it would be different. Odds are good that the doctor will fix the problem and you'll have been her rock through the bad times. If she gets worse and worse and turns nasty and no fun to be around you can pull the plug then, but I don't think that's… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 11:46 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on bringing your wife/LTR to a strip club?I think it's probably only fun when you're on a vacation to some place that's famous for "sex tourism" or sleazy night-life like Amsterdam or Bangkok or Vegas and the girls want to go to the sex show or strip club because that's what you do there. That has happened to me before and usually I'm thinking that half of the customers are hotter than the performers. I don't think it's going to win you any points to go to a regular strip club especially if your wife or LTR has any reluctance. If she's … | /r/askMRP | 19/07/19 03:46 AM |
| 4 | Is it possible for a woman who has already had sex with you to then try to fuck with you by trying to set up a date and then pretend she is busy.OK, if you're not sure if you're coming over or not I'm inviting that girl I told you about... come join us if you want. I've never even met this girl of yours and I'm already sick of her. I think you need to just move on. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a woman who has already had sex with you to then try to fuck with you by trying to set up a date and then pretend she is busy.That's no good. If you just want to fuck tell her to come over tonight at 11 pm. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Is it possible for a woman who has already had sex with you to then try to fuck with you by trying to set up a date and then pretend she is busy.In this kind of situation give her a rock-solid time when you are going to be doing something anyway and tell her to come join you then. "I'm playing pool at Harry's on 43rd St from 9 to 11pm come join me." Or, I'm making salad for dinner tomorrow night at 8, come to my house." Don't just leave it open like "I'm around on Saturday, do you want to do something?" Tell her exactly what to do. That way if she can't it's all on her. "Whatever suits you", and "whatever you are comfortable with, and "t… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Tinder girlSince you haven't met her yet you don't really know what the deal is with her travel schedule or work and school or whatever, so I would hit her up on Friday, and if Friday's no good, maybe go silent until Wednesday and try again. If you can't set anything up by then let it go cold for a couple of weeks and then just randomly text her. It's a long shot at that point but maybe a 20% chance she's ready to just come over. "DTF" status changes by the minute. Maybe she gets a headache or a bunch of h… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 04:51 AM |
| 28 | So I lost a bunch of weight and started using tinder againNice. It makes a huge difference in how they treat you. It is pretty eye-opening when you experience it yourself. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Ex keeps trying to contact meIf you don't want to plate her or hang out with her just block her. If there's some fun thing you guys always like doing together you can do that. Like maybe you only play tennis with her. Or maybe she's fun to hook up with. [This works better if the reason you broke up was logistics rather than something she did wrong, like she lives too far away.] I'd be annoyed that it took 3 months to get my stuff back, but I'd probably send an "I'm doing great, thanks for sending back my shirt" or whatever … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I lower my standards?Just have a couple of drinks, kid. It's called "beer goggles". /s | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 03:49 AM |
| 3 | How to be "the bull" during sex? What separates the alpha from the beta in the bedroom and how can I improve in this regard?Just make sure you're getting your needs met. Quit worrying about what she wants. Tell her to do what you want. She can find a million other guys who will do everything she tells them to do. That's not what she wants. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 03:46 AM |
| 13 | On Paul Janka- In Praise Of Simplicity and ClarityDid an image search on the guy and I have to agree with you. He looks high SMV, like an actor or model. When your SMV is high enough you just have to show up, express interest, ask for what you want, and not totally screw up. Red pill always has you trying to maximize your SMV because any strategy you pursue will work better with higher SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/19 03:12 AM |
| 8 | Women with low self-esteemKind of sounds like a comfort test. Kiss on the forehead and a hug. Offer a little re-assurance. Pull her back into your frame. I wouldn't go the teasing route unless she has pretty high self-esteem and likes teasing. Maybe if she's gorgeous and a model but she thinks her toes are ugly, you can probably safely (in a joking and sarcastic way) say that your friends are embarrassed to be seen in public with you now because your girlfriend has ugly toes. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 02:57 AM |
| 12 | What are some Signs one is a high SMV mofoGirl on the airplane you don't know who isn't sitting in your row comes down the aisle and asks the person sitting next to you to switch seats so she can sit next to you... and then later gives you a blowjob on the flight. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 10:06 PM |
| 6 | How many times a week do you see your girlfriend?You're right! Girl: I'm horny. I'm bored. I wish my boyfriend were here. Oh right, I only see my boyfriend once a week... Let me look at my phone. Hmm, Chad wants to see me tonight. I guess that's OK since my boyfriend's not here... If you're non-exclusive seeing someone (a plate) once a week or a couple of times a month is pretty normal because you're always out doing things with other people. If your girlfriend is actually only dating you, and you're not around, you're almost encouraging her t… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 09:12 PM |
| 7 | How many times a week do you see your girlfriend?If you're not seeing multiple women and you don't want to be hanging out with her all the time you should add in a whole bunch of frequent booty-calls. Let's say you spend Wednesday night and the weekends together. That's all your dating, hanging out, together time. Find ten minutes on those other days of the week to go get a BJ or quickie. (Early morning, between classes, late at night.) Just be busy enough that those are the only times you can see her on those days (when you both aren't booked… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Tinder Threesome with a hottie in Bangkok. Too good to be true?A friend of mine had an 18 year old model hitting him up on Tinder. I looked at the profile and it looked totally like a catfish profile with model pics. But she turned out to be totally legitimate. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Just be careful and be prepared for the worst. Sometimes you hit the jackpot. Your friend who is with you on this trip is a girl? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Could I come off as at least average for looks?You're well on your way to where you want to be. Looks like you're leaving skinny-fat territory. Goal is to get bigger and leaner (which you can probably do without steroids since you're young enough.) Even if you just leaned out a little more you'd look better. For the long term: keep making gains in the gym, stay on top of your diet. For right now haircut and a shave and wear something different. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Worst possible thing happened to me..You should be happy that you fucked her 8 months before he did. On to the next one. Stop paying attention to what she's doing now, it doesn't matter. She doesn't belong to you. Lots of people have a better life than you do. Jeff Bezos is richer, Ronaldo is a better ball player, Kim Kardashian is more famous. You can't get all upset and suicidal because there's someone with more (power, money, fame, intelligence, hair, girls, horses, cars..) than you. Work on yourself, go live your own life. Go s… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 07:43 AM |
| 4 | Could I come off as at least average for looks?I personally don't like the beard. Nominate some friend of yours to help you find stuff you look good in. No need to spend any money on it, just sort through your existing clothes and T-shirts. Your face looks better with a more serious expression, and you should go more "serious" with your hair and look. Your smiling pics in the series you posted come off as overly goofy or dorky, which isn't what you want. Edit: and to answer your question there's no reason you shouldn't be able to go out and … | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 07:11 AM |
| 16 | Could I come off as at least average for looks?You're smiling too hard in your pics and you look unkempt in a bad way. Pics 3 and 5 are better. Comb your hair. Nike shirt looks like crap on you. 6'2 and working out will provide you with a lot of cover. Like the other poster said clean up and dress better. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 06:54 AM |
| 7 | Scarcity mentalityI usually like evo-psych answers. "Scarcity Mentality" probably served some useful purpose in the caveman days. Nature expects you to fall in love and stick around and take care of the girl and make sure her children can fend for themselves and take their place in the tribe. Edit: Almost every personality trait is useful or adaptive under some particular set of circumstances. The paranoid folks successfully evaded traps and hid out until the danger subsided. The maniacs were able to stay up and … | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 03:53 AM |
| 2 | In need of brotherly advice boys.The drinking isn't going to help anything in your situation. Go easy on the booze, especially when you're lonely or depressed. Exes, plates, and all other Girls who are not exclusive to you are allowed to fuck other people. You don't have to see them again if you don't want to, but it's not really a betrayal in my mind. Kind of like you interview someone for a job, don't hire them, and then they go work for someone else. No point in getting upset about it. I think you need to work on not getting… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Advice on what I should do?I wouldn't bother having sex with anyone you don't genuinely want to have sex with. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Ratings questionIf you actually do what you're supposed to do, being a 7 isn't too difficult. Don't be fat, be athletic and lifting weights. (Makes you better than 70% of the male population). Groom yourself well and have excellent hygiene. Do everything in 1 and 2 plus don't dress like a slob. (Makes you better than 80% of the males.) To get higher than a 7 you probably need to be blessed with good genes, tall, good-looking etc. I don't think of 8's as being 1/1000. More like top 10%. 9's are probably 1/100 (t… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 09:59 PM |
| 21 | Never talk about TRP, but how to act?You can always give your friends good advice and put a positive spin on it. Instead of saying "You have the body of a child. These women don't find you attractive and are too nice to completely reject you" you can say something like "I had a friend who looked like you who started lifting weights, and now a year later women are all over him. You'd be great at it, it would make such a huge difference. Download Stronglifts 5x5, it's a free app to get you started." Rather than "you're doing it wrong… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Continue with kino or back off?You're very overweight right now and Type 2 diabetes and insulin resistance goes along with that. If you have that problem, the Metformin might greatly improve your health and make it a lot easier for you to lose the weight. The A1C will check and see if you're getting damage from out-of-control blood sugar / type 2 diabetes. It's in your best interest to check in with the doctor as you start making radical changes to get your health back on track. If you have uncontrolled health problems it wil… | /r/askMRP | 15/07/19 09:21 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with Racism?Maybe 50 years ago. Today the narrative would be alt-right internet-radicalized White supremacist incel Nazi attacks black doctor, calls him N-word, tries to commit a hate-crime by choking him, gets shot. Bonus victim points if the attacker is wearing a MAGA hat or anything tied to Trump. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 03:37 PM |
| -2 | How to deal with Racism?Probably just DNGAF. Give them a look like "Really? WTF. Making racial slurs is the best you can do?" Most people even if they have their own prejudices and bias don't appreciate someone who will just walk up and start harassing someone because of his race or ethnicity. It's just totally uncalled for. If the guy starts grabbing you and shoving you after he does that you can probably safely go ahead and shoot him in self-defence. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Time to get shafted by askMRP, but I want some input.You're young enough that you might be able to recomp your body, meaning lose weight (fat) and get stronger at the same time. 19% body fat is way to high for you. At your age you should be able to get to 10% no problem. That will do a lot for your looks and for your self-esteem. Make sure to get on top of your diet right away. Keto maybe. | /r/askMRP | 14/07/19 03:30 AM |
| 4 | Are there any blogs out there similar to Pook’s Mill?Gonna need some evidence to back up that claim. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Are there any blogs out there similar to Pook’s Mill?There's good stuff on Blackdragon's blog. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Update- on main events and how far I have yet to goEverybody has issues. Most people never work on fixing their issues. You're ahead of the game already for knowing that you have a problem and being willing to work on it. Next time she does it pull her in and make a game out of it. You know she can't really trap you, so just remind yourself that she's shit-testing you and you're going to pass the test. Even if she succeeds in getting a rise out of you because you freak out for a second you could still recover fast and "win" the game as soon as y… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Training WomenI believe you can train women, just like you can train yourself or anything else. You're not trying to change their nature. Reward good behavior and punish (or don't reward) bad behavior. It's nothing evil or magical or sinister. Don't tell them that you're doing it. Where a lot of guys screw up is that they reward bad behavior. Girl gets bored and she wants attention and so she creates drama. If you give her a lot of attention when she creates drama, guess what? She's going to create drama all … | /r/askMRP | 12/07/19 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Training WomenWhat's SGM here? Sex god method or something else? | /r/askMRP | 12/07/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Update- on main events and how far I have yet to gohttps://www.verywellmind.com/cleithrophobia-2671737 I guess there's a name for it "cleithrophobia", fear of being trapped. Probably can't fix it overnight but just take baby steps and pretty soon wife won't be able to trigger you that way. "I'm not trapped in here with you, you're trapped in here with me!" Supposedly the success rates for curing simple phobias like that is super high, too. It's just one more thing to grind away on, nothing you can't handle. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 09:50 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Update- on main events and how far I have yet to goWell, on the plus side you're having sex with your wife. You're pulling your wife into new and unfamiliar territory. Just keep your shit together, don't panic when she's panicking, and enforce your boundaries. Once she figures out you're not having a manic episode or something she'll probably follow you where you go. I personally wouldn't try too hard to change any of her religious beliefs. Maybe some day you should take her up on her desire to see you with another woman if she really wants to h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/07/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | FR: She tried to bring the starfish backYes, agree with you completely. It's not wife offering starfish it's husband's chance to engage in a little dirty talk and accuse the wife of being kinky. | /r/askMRP | 12/07/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | FR: She tried to bring the starfish backWhen you go to the bathroom with her to do it "fast and quiet", be a little noisy and tell her she's a slut who wants her parents to find out. She'll be fake-upset about it but it will make her wet. Don't say it too loud or too seriously. Just say it while you're fucking her doggy style with her hands on the door. I don't think your wife is giving you starfish or being weird. It's pretty normal chick behavior to be worried about having sex with her parents in the next room, but you have to treat… | /r/askMRP | 12/07/19 04:26 PM |
| 18 | How to stop idealizing a relationship? And be comfortable with myself?Dude, count your blessings. Men pay thousands of dollars to "sugar babies" who won't fuck them as good as this ex of yours will fuck you for free just because she likes your dick. Briffault's Law says women will stick around when there's a benefit to them and disappear when the benefit goes away. Women aren't going to "love you" the way you think they should love you, where they care about you and would take care of you and wait around even if you were broke and in a coma for years. You need to … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 03:55 AM |
| 4 | What to do when anniversary is coming up?Wife isn't choosing a sexless marriage even if it seems that way because she always says no to sex. The key thing with all forms of redpill is you have to fix yourself. When you fix yourself, lots of women will want to have sex with you. Your wife, who is also a woman, will also most likely choose to have sex with you at that point because any regular woman would. You need to get yourself in top physical shape through lifting weights. It's an absolute requirement. You have to lift. Do you even l… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/19 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Continue with kino or back off?Long road ahead going from 29% body fat to under 15%. You might benefit from Metformin. You should have your A1C checked to see if you're pre-diabetic or type 2 diabetic already. If I were you I would keep doing kino anyway, fuck it. Since you're going to the doctor anyway to have your A1C checked have them check your testosterone level and thyroid too. If you need additional thyroid or testosterone (and don't get it) it will make your body transformation a lot harder than it needs to be. If tes… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/19 08:37 PM |
| 5 | If you could go back and do anything differently at the beginning of your marriage, what would it be?Be more egotistical and less open to compromise. It's fine to consider your wife's wants and desires, but you'll do a lot better putting your own needs first most of the time. Wife will have a lot more respect for you. Treat unreasonable requests as shit tests, and not as genuine requests or needs. It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking "I don't really care that much about X, I guess we can do X her way instead of my way if it makes her happy." But then you end up in a situation where you'r… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/07/19 07:35 AM |
| 27 | "I don't think we should hang out again"Don't hang out, have sex. You have to escalate. Otherwise it's dead. You want her to be your lover. You don't want to hang out with her either. It's your job to make it happen. Make your intentions known. Go for it. If she says no, what have you lost? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 07:26 AM |
| 3 | What age does it gets too hard to spin plates to be worth it?You shouldn't ever "settle" for an LTR. If you meet some girl that you're having more fun with than any other girl you move her to the top of your list. Why would you call up #2 or #3 if #1 is available? If you get bored you invite #2 or #3 over for a three-way. If #1 is not making you happy then it's time to find somebody else. Either meet someone new or go further down your list. If #1 is always making you happier than anybody else you could be with, you stay with her. If this goes on for mont… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 07:19 AM |
| 9 | Got caught by girls boyfriend that I was talking to girl. Now he wants to fight.Forget about the loser and just fuck his girlfriend. He'll be too busy crying to fight you. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Female Psychologist want husband to become BetaThat's a risk I am willing to take. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Female Psychologist want husband to become BetaMaybe so, but the high heels and bunny ears should offer her all the protection she needs! | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 06:45 AM |
| 4 | Other guy's plateJust do it. Don't ask about it or talk about it. I don't understand these posts that go "My friend has some girl he talks about constantly and hasn't fucked. She wants to fuck me not him. I should wait forever until this girl loses interest in me to protect my friend who never makes a move, right?" Is it your duty to your co-worker to sexually limit yourself in case some girl who is not interested in him suddenly becomes interested? WTF. "I'm up for a promotion at work. My co-worker wants the jo… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Any thoughts on the Bagel Boss Guy Fiasco?The short guy seems legit psycho. It sucks for him that he's short, but he has more problems than just that. I'm not sure the tackle was called for but he certainly had it comin'. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Female Psychologist want husband to become BetaIf you're not having sex with other women, find a doctor to give you an STD test so you can show your wife you have a clean bill of health and there's no reason for her to be using condoms to give you a BJ. What's she protecting by using the condom? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 02:19 AM |
| 109 | Female Psychologist want husband to become BetaRead entire sidebar on Married red pill sub. Basically you have to make yourself attractive so that women (in general) want to have sex with you. This means you need to be lifting heavy weight regularly and not carrying any excess body fat (ripped, shredded, jacked.) You also need to be flirting with other women so that you have many women who want to have sex with you. This means that you have to be fun to be around and have interesting hobbies. Your wife, being female, will want to have sex wi… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with this annoying fucker?Break into his house and spray pepper spray in his underwear drawer. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 08:25 PM |
| 25 | How would you react if you find that one of the girls you're seeing is an "easy catch"?Unless you fucked his girlfriend and his mom a week ago or something it's a pretty clear violation of regular guy etiquette. You should tell your roommate you came down with HPV and a couple other STD's after his date. Casually mention he needs to go to student health and get tested. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 11:18 PM |
| 16 | Going on day 4 of the Silent Treatment - Holding Frame and Next Steps?Fire up Tinder and start dating other women. If she's giving you the silent treatment before the wedding it's only going to be ten times worse after marriage. RUN! Get out while you have a chance. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/07/19 09:32 PM |
| 3 | DesireMake sure you're not masturbating or using porn and that your Testosterone level isn't low. Make sure you're fucking the wife the way you want to fuck, tell her exactly what you want her to do, like your personal fucktoy. It's normal to be horny some times and not others, but if your desire is just not there, something's wrong. Have your testosterone level checked. | /r/askMRP | 06/07/19 04:13 PM |
| 3 | why does everyone here try to talk like a drill Sgt?I kind of agree with you. While it's true that we get a lot of whiny faggots, I see quite a few guys coming in and asking reasonable questions who get (in my opinion) a harsher welcome than what's called for. It's almost a "haze the new guy" culture here, but that's how it is. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Navigating RP with Medicated WifeThere's an antihistamine called cyproheptadine that can help with SSRI induced anorgasmia. It's super cheap and you only need a tiny amount. That's one thought. All the usual rules apply, keep working on your own SMV until you look like a male model or movie star and all the girls will want to fuck you, depressed wife included. If she doesn't, you have your choice of countless other women. In general with RP stuff all the work you do goes into fixing yourself, and the wife either comes along or … | /r/askMRP | 30/06/19 11:14 AM |
| 177 | Feminist Teaches Husband About Consent. Now She Has to Beg Him For Sex.Biological gender doesn't exist but somehow it's always the guy's fault. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 12:21 AM |
| 7 | How the fuck do people pick up girls in clubs/barsIf you get obvious IOI's just go over and grab her. Dance with her for 10 minutes or so and then lead her to the bar for a drink or out of the club or go make out on the sofas or something. What the fuck are you doing trying to talk to a girl at a club where average-looking guys are pulling women? It's not a place to talk. Your goal is not to go to a club so you can talk to girls. You talk to them outside the club or at her place. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 02:09 PM |
| 9 | How the fuck do people pick up girls in clubs/barsIf it doesn't work for you don't go there to try to pick up girls. Maybe it seems like taking sand to the beach, but it can be more fun to go to clubs with your own girls or friends if you like the club scene. As the other posters said, looks and physical attraction matter a lot more in loud environments since nobody can hear a thing. If you're smart and witty and have good verbal game, you're nerfing your advantages by going to some place where nobody has a clue what you're saying. If you look … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 01:56 PM |
| 2 | LTR watches gangbang porn, red flag?I really wouldn't worry about it. I had one super-nice girlfriend who was awesome who was into to crazy rape porn. (It's not real rape... it's popular in Japan.) I had a crazy BPD FWB who was into she-males. Some girls like hentai. Some watch lesbian stuff. There doesn't seem to be a whole lot of connection between what the girls are like in real life and what kind of porn they think is hot. I think a true Red Flag girl would be going to actual gangbangs and being the performer in these videos r… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 04:56 AM |
| 6 | Well no shitSTFU: Literally, "Shut the fuck up!" Don't say anything. It's not so much for actual arguments where there is something of substance to be discussed, but for bitchiness, nagging, harping on pointless stuff. Lets say you bought eggs. "How come you bought Extra Large size organic eggs? I always tell you to get Large Size not Extra Large size!" What you should not do is DEER: "Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize". Don't ask "What difference does it make?" or say "they were out of Large Size eggs, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/06/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Make out after date but why no text back?Might just be a logistics thing. She might have a full-time or live-in boyfriend who she's out cheating on with you. Now she's trying to figure out what to do about him, and whether or not she wants to try something with you. Could also be that she didn't charge her phone or left it somewhere. Could also be that she has to deal with parents, school, work, some minor emergency or another. Just put her on the back burner "injured reserve" list and ping her from time to time to see if she comes bac… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | 3rd date no sexRPB your girl sounds like a lot more fun than OP's girl. I'm pretty sure you'll be fucking her in no time if you just keep escalating. Maybe it's not progressing as fast as you want, but it's progressing nicely. OP's girl is too much of a prude. https://blackdragonblog.com/2018/06/14/how-long-should-you-wait-for-sex/ I think OP should drop his girl but not complain about it so directly to her. OP's girl might suddenly develop an interest in sex if she sees OP out and about with some hottie. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 12:29 AM |
| 3 | What is this chick's hang-up?Things are going great, don't quit now. Stop worrying about some other guy. Make-outs and hand jobs are not nothing, I wouldn't even call that "no sex." She just likes to be a tease. Keep doing new stuff each time and each time you'll go a little bit further. Probably have actual "sex sex" the next time you see her. If not at least get a blowjob or fuck her tits or something. The camel has his nose under the tent. I like Blackdragon's take on this subject. https://blackdragonblog.com/2018/06/14/… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Senior TRP members, what would you advise (financially wise) to guys in their 20s?Keep more than you spend! | /r/askTRP | 19/06/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Sugar Babies: You will be stunned!Alpha guys do well with free sex apps like Tinder where women go to get laid with Chad. Be hot, get thots. Betas rule on pay-for-pussy apps like Seeking Arrangement where you can trade a $2000 per month "allowance" for sex a few times a month with somebody eles's Tinder slut in a so-called "girlfriend experience." I'm sure I will get downvoted for pointing out that provisioning is the Beta strategy, but oh well. Betas gonna beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 10:08 PM |
| 21 | How many women actually ride the cock carousel?I think it's probably fewer than 10% of women have never had a boyfriend or a sexual relationship by their mid-twenties. Maybe half of those are cute. These women are probably shy, introverted, live with their parents. They might care for their elderly relatives or be serious students who don't go out much. They exist, but you're not likely to find them because they make themselves invisible. You won't find her on Tinder. Might be able to meet her through one of her relatives or something. "How … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 09:04 PM |
| 21 | How would you respond to this shit test?I wouldn't worry about it. She's trying to say "You're great in bed. I've had so many lovers who were trash. Even ones that I thought would be really hot (like that one idiot with the giant cucumber, he was useless!) Why can't every man be like you?" Can't be insecure about the size of your dick. "A lot of girls have told me my cock is amazing, they say all say I have the perfect dick." Say something like that. Edit: Also, remember, average guys are invisible to women. "Normal sized" to her mean… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 04:41 PM |
| 4 | What am I missing? Never really hit the anger phaseI think this is a good answer. If you didn't have any pre-conceived ideas about what women were like, and you learned red-pill, you'd just go OK, so this is what women are like. The anger comes from having been lied to all your life, believing in the lies, and then acting on your false beliefs, suffering, and having wasted years and years all because you believed in lies. Those lucky souls who never bought into the blue-pill lies in the first place have a lot less to be angry about. Why wouldn't… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Girl from brazil I randomly know wants to fly 14 hours to visit me?To me the 14 hour flight and the fact that she doesn't have a lot of money makes me think she is marriage-minded and possibly totally in love with you. So if I were you I wouldn't let her spend all her money to come see you unless you feel the same way about her, just because it's her life-savings. Too much bad karma if you plan to just use her for sex and dump her. If she were some rich girl who flies to Europe all the time for fun, sure, let her come see you and have sex. But she's not. Is she… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Signs that she might be cheating need pep talkJust line up other girls to date / fuck. When she's out with condom guy just go out on your own dates. If she asks about it just say you didn't think she was serious about the exclusivity. If she says why not you can say because she's hanging out with condom guy. If she says she didn't fuck condom guy you can say that's fine you also didn't fuck him. If she gets all pissed off and leaves, oh well. If she wants to stay around and be your fucktoy, that's fine, just use condoms yourself. There's no… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:28 PM |
| 208 | Starting day game tomorrow, plan on being absolutely honest - no fake clowning, no bullshit. Still have some nerves, however. Welcoming all advice.You can chat up women standing in line, waiting to cross the street, at the grocery store, wherever you find them. Just approach everywhere you run into an attractive woman and keep it non-sexual and normal. "This light takes forever." "I hope it doesn't rain today." If you get a mmmmf and a dirty look, don't push it any further, just walk away and on to the next one. If you get some conversation back like "It's not supposed to rain until midnight tonight, do you go to XYZ college across the str… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop using alcohol as a crutch? I hate depending on itRead Allen Carr's Easy Way to Control Alcohol. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Is it ever ok to be directYou have to read the situation right. If she's giving you massive IOI's and looking at you like you're a god and holding on to you like she doesn't want you to leave then it might work. Better be prepared to drop everything and do it right then and there though. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 07:08 PM |
| 16 | Girls love to be choked during sex..?When confronted with a decision in Life or in Love, first ask yourself what would Uncle Vasya do? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever ok to be directIf you haven't made out with her yet, don't talk straight about fucking. Just invite her to some place where you could go make out. "Hey, my roommate is gone to Boston this weekend. I have the whole place to myself. You want to come over?" You can escalate very fast, but you usually have to go through one stage to get to the next stage. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it ever ok to be directIf she already has her hands down your pants or is giving you a blowjob or putting your hands in her underwear so you can feel how wet she is, then it's OK. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Is it ever ok to be directI think it works better when you're making out aggressively with her and people are thinking "get a room, you two." If she's grinding on you at the bar and grabbing your dick through your clothes and saying stuff like "let's get out of here, I want to feel you inside of me" then it's totally appropriate, even if you just met. If you've just been talking about some class you have together and she suggests "let's exchange numbers" you probably shouldn't jump straight to "I want to fuck you." You h… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:20 AM |
| 31 | How to not get too attached?Everybody's advice is pretty good. I wouldn't worry about it. Just remind yourself going in that all relationships are temporary, even the ones that last until the end of your life. A Buddhist monk had a fancy teacup. It was some kind of valuable antique, but he liked using it every day. He knew sooner or later somebody would knock it off the shelf and it would be smashed, so in his mind the teacup was already broken. Maybe you'll fuck up with this new girl and she'll cheat on you a week from no… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 04:50 AM |
| 2 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?You make a lot of valid points. Just because something is more effort doesn't make it better. You could grow your own wheat and grind your own flour, but why bother. I'd argue that buying sex isn't really the same thing as having sex with an enthusiastic lover who is turned on by you. Fructose and water isn't real orange juice. So you're not really buying the same thing. But maybe it's close enough or some people can't tell (or don't care) about the difference so for them buying it is a better u… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 11:06 PM |
| 2 | The 'Best Friend' - How to DealIf you're fucking this chick on the regular, I think you should just consider her to be a plate who's in your rotation who might spin out at any moment. If you're not fucking her you should forget about her. Maybe the girl has a high libido and she fucks the guy you think is her "best friend" and then she leaves and goes and fucks you. I don't know who's cucking who. She sounds like a typical slut. If she's running off to spend time with this guy you describe as a typical Low Value Male, that's … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 10:59 PM |
| 2 | The 'Best Friend' - How to DealIt's kind of hard to figure out who's the cuck and who's the bull in this situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Theory Discussion: When is beta game the better strategy?It has been said that when you're rich and famous enough you're "paying her to leave." | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 10:51 PM |
| 3 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?You're not wrong, but by the same token, why lift weights and be strong when you can just hire strongmen or robots or use machines to do any task that you require? I'd argue that there are intrinsic rewards from self-improvement that you just don't get by paying for it. In theory, if you had a drug that lowered your blood pressure and kept you healthy, you could lead a life of weakness, gluttony and degeneracy and pay for all the sex you wanted. Hell, it worked great for Harvey Weinstein for mul… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?You can hire servants to lift the weights for you and send your agents to the finest restaurants to eat the richest food on your behalf, but it doesn't make you any stronger or healthier. You can pay actors to pretend to be your friends and even set up your own comedy club where people pretend to laugh at your jokes... an entire fantasy world of convenience! Why are you wasting time at Princeton instead of hiring people a lot smarter than you are to take the tests for you? Hell, you could just h… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?There's no high horse, Friendo. I'm just lamenting a bunch of blue-pilled faggots thinking that buying pussy is alpha. It's not. It's the logical conclusion of beta game. For sure, there are some people who are so far below alpha that could never become alpha no matter what they do. If you lost the genetic lottery, well, maybe you're stuck with beta game and buying sex no matter what. If you're in the bottom 5% maybe there's no way to climb out of the hole. But the whole point of red pill is tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 09:42 PM |
| 26 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?The hordes of beta males with $500 to spend and no hope of getting laid all agree that prostitution is a lot cheaper than standard beta game of marrying some post-wall slut. It's a more efficient betabux transaction to pay as you go and only buy what you need. Alphas get laid for free by being sexually desirable. At the end of the day the $ for sex is just another simulation. You pay your money, she pretends to find you sexually attractive until you stop paying her. Prostitution is better for th… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 09:06 PM |
| 0 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?Then there's Princeton Grad Jeff Bezos who has to spend $40 billion so he can pursue his post-wall dream girl... Imagine what a super beta you could be with his money! You could have all the prostitutes you wanted every day! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 09:04 PM |
| -8 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?Nobody says betas can't get laid by paying for sex. If you want to pretend that they are paying for sex they could have gotten for free, but they choose not to because they like to pay, what can I tell you? Your guy likes to play his video games, be fat, go out on his boat, and pay for sex with women he couldn't get if he weren't paying for sex. It's his life. That's OK. He can pay for it if he wants to. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 04:26 PM |
| 11 | HD/LSE Wife... any tips?Will staying the course cause improvement in this scenario? Probably. If she doesn't react well to jokingly passing shit tests, you can still pass them by refusing to comply without any humor. Example, she drops something on the floor and tells you to pick it up. Just say no, you can pick it up yourself. If she doesn't get any kind of "reward" for the lengthy temper tantrums they'll get extinguished over time. It might take several months. Edit: Probably she learned early in life that when she t… | /r/askMRP | 13/06/19 04:14 PM |
| -8 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?Whether they love their jobs or not you're paying for sex. I guess if you're fat and have lots of money it's easier than getting in shape so you can get hotter girls for free. I hope you don't think guys like Elliot Spitzer are alpha. Edit: Pretty funny all you betas who spend money for pussy are hitting downvote. Betas gonna beta. Easier to hit the down arrow then hit the gym when you're an AFC. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 04:07 PM |
| -6 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?Paying for sex is literally the definition of Betabux, but I guess you get as much sex as you pay for with a hooker. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 04:02 PM |
| -12 | I know the redpill isn't too warm about prostitution, however, given the extreme double standards wouldn't it make sense to destigmatize and legalize it?Paying for sex is as beta as you can get. Find some girl who doesn't think you're attractive and doesn't want to have sex with you, and then give her a lot of money so she can pretend to enjoy having sex with you for an hour? No thanks! If you're legitimately deformed or you lost your hands in a war or something, then sure, go ahead and enjoy yourself. But if you're healthy you have no business paying for it. Make yourself more attractive. Edit: I have no problem with making sex work legal or de… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 03:22 PM |
| 2 | My ltr wants to watch me with another girlGo for it. I don't see what the problem is. Call up one of your other plates and tell her to come over. Maybe she wants to fool around and join in with the other girl, maybe she just wants to watch you get laid like she said. Not saying this is you, but I feel like a lot of askTRP posts go "My girl who is great and always trying to make me happy just made me a sandwich. Then she told me she's turned on by handcuffs, is this a red flag? Should I hard next or soft next her? Does this mean she chea… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO!Roosh has always been a master troll. I haven't seen any of his stuff since he turned over a new leaf, but if you ever watch any of his old youtube videos the guy is hilarious. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 01:28 AM |
| 0 | Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO!It's always funny to me how people will take drugs, and then think they've had "amazing insights" as opposed to just the drugs making them think something is really interesting and important. Not that nobody has ever had an amazing insight on drugs (like the double helix of DNA), it's just that it's pretty rare compared to the people who get fucked up and think they've found God etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 01:26 AM |
| 2 | Next my wife? Easier said then done.When I read it I thought you meant that you were an old ugly motherfucker and your wife blew you like a free whore. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Sales Bros and STEMlordsOneitis is deadly in sales. You can't say "I'm only going to sell this one customer and if he says no my career is over." You have to go out there and make it happen and deal with rejections and play the numbers game. I don't know if the guys following TRP are really STEM though, I think it may be the more nerdy and analytical guys who decide to write articles and post theories here. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Research article studies Dating Inequality. Majority of women are rating men unfairlyI think you probably end up with a "Meat Market" situation. Like at the Olympics, supposedly all the athletes are fucking each other every night. They're not all hooking up with the Gold Medalists. The number 47 best swimmer has dozens of hot girls who will jump into bed with him. Practically an orgy. It's the carousel. Girls are thinking "Wow, Chad from Russia was so great last night, and Chad from France is so great tonight, and I still want to hook up with Chad from Brazil tomorrow night...." | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO!It's pretty shocking to me that husbands would even consider allowing "girls night out" let alone weekends to Vegas or South Beach. They must be totally naive, or into being cucked. Probably totally naive. "Hurrdurr! Wife hates sex, why would I worry about her going to Vegas with her girlfriends?" - t. The Kind of Husband that is OK with Girls Night Out | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Research article studies Dating Inequality. Majority of women are rating men unfairlyIt would be an interesting experiment if Tinder only served up men in the top 20% of Tinder and see if the women still rate 80% of THOSE men as below average. I think they'd say "holy shit, all these guys are hawt." It's amusing to see the downvotes from all the frustrated beta chumps who think it's somehow women's fault and "unfair" that they cant get laid with a girl out-of-their league. Unfuckable neckbeards gonna beta, click downvote. I agree with you that for most guys there's no excuse not… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO!I mean, maybe being married as a guy isn't such a bad deal in Pakistan or Saudi Arabia. I don't know. But here in the West it's for sure not a good deal for men. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 07:32 PM |
| -6 | Research article studies Dating Inequality. Majority of women are rating men unfairlyIs it that the women are rating men unfairly? Or is it that the bottom 80% of men have become unattractive obese neckbeard unfuckables who the women are accurately rating as unattractive? It would be interesting to see how average-looking guys who are in good physical shape do on Tinder. I'm guessing that guys who are coming out of military boot camps and common laborers and construction workers do pretty well. Edit: If you look at pictures from 100 years ago obesity was much less common and the… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Watch your shoes...big vomit post...Sounds like you're on a good path. Getting back in shape and losing fat is a huge part of the battle. Next you need to get some routines and discipline in place and your own source of money. STFU works wonders. 90% of the time it's the best answer to "wife said or did something bitchy". | /r/askMRP | 11/06/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | I get girls I don't want and don't get the girls I wantIf you're able to consistently pull girls, instead of going for a new girl a couple of times a week, just set your bar much higher. Then think more in terms of dating than hookups. If you hook up with just one hot girl every two or three months, try to keep her in the rotation. If you don't genuinely like a girl and wouldn't want to be with her for a while, don't try to hook up with her in the first place. Having 2-3 plates and a main girl for a year or two can be a much happier situation than a… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 09:21 PM |
| 130 | Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO!At some point in your life you may want to start a family. TRP is still super-useful but nobody has really figured out a safe way to have kids in the West without risking all the problems of women trying to get custody or take your income away. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/19 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Have you broken off an LTR because you felt you needed to grow?With a girl that's genuinely a joy to be around, rather than breaking it off you might try being more demanding instead. Let her know that you want threesomes with another girl or whatever it is that you actually want. Before you say she's holding you back, make sure she's actually holding you back and wouldn't try to do anything you want to make you happy. You might find out she's down for anything and isn't holding you back at all. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Well no shitSTFU works really well. Lifting works wonders. The other thing to remember that a lot of guys seem to not pick up on fast enough is be in a good mood and be fun to be around. Don't get drawn in to stupid arguments. 90% of the posts on askmrp are: "Wife said this, so I said that, and then wife said this, so I said something, then wife said something else and acted bitchy, so I said... Did I handle this right? Should I have said something else?" STFU almost always would have worked a lot better. K… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/06/19 02:43 PM |
| 25 | Would you fuck a 4?Had one girl who looked like maybe a 5 with clothes on, looked like she was overweight and was trying to hide it by wearing clothes that were too big or didn't fit well. As it turns out she had huge, huge, huge amazing tits (really nice ones) and wasn't overweight at all. Amazing body. Clothes-wise, nothing fit her. Easily one of the hottest girls I have ever seen naked. This kind of happy surprise has only happened to me once though. edit: You've seen those "porn stars without their makeup" pos… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 10:38 PM |
| 2 | New ways to fuck her?Threesome with another girl, obviously. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 10:31 PM |
| 10 | When money gets in the wayYou pay this time I pay next time is reasonable if both parties are reasonable about it. It prevents you from having to say, OK, you owe $27.83. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 03:48 AM |
| 6 | When money gets in the wayI have lost girlfriends over shit like this before where they get a friend who is dating a beta and bragging about all the stuff he buys her. He bought her a car, he bought her this, he took her shopping that, he gave her a credit card. How come you never buy me anything? Just let the plate spin out and go find herself a provider / plow horse. You could compete at that Betabux game but what's the point? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Rollo drops out the 21 ConventionI believe it. In university I did tutoring (paid by the university, not the students) and people couldn't figure out how to get a better grade on their exams. "OK, so you didn't go to the classes, read the book 3 times and work all the practice problems. See if you can borrow notes from someone who went to the class." Dude can you read the book and do the problems for me? You're good at this subject and I'm not... "I can show you how to do the problems, and help you if you get stuck, but you hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Rollo drops out the 21 ConventionLose weight without diet, exercise, drugs, hard work or willpower! Only three easy payments of $799. :) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/19 09:02 AM |
| 5 | Children and TRPYour best bet is probably to move to a family-friendly country. Second best bet is to be part of some crazy tight-knit religious community like the Amish or Chassidic / Orthodox Jews or maybe the Mormons. If you're here in the Good Ol' USA the deck is stacked against you. I'm only half-kidding. Women expect cash and prizes if they initiate a divorce. I don't think there's any safe way to have kids in the USA, you just have to take the risk that your woman can run off with your kids and half of y… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Building intimacy in marriageFor me it only shows "Add to custom feed" and "Add to favorites". I'm on Chrome. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/06/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Building intimacy in marriageFWIW The sidebar here (I read it ages ago) seems to be invisible for me using new reddit, anyone know how to make it visible short of switching to old reddit? Rules and Moderators show up on the right for me. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/wiki/ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/06/19 04:38 AM |
| 5 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.I always feel that's the best option. If sex is good, use for sex. Just be more and more demanding, ask for whatever you want. If you get it, great! Win free sex! If she bails out, oh well, you don't even have to bother breaking up with her. I think a lot of guys become sexually boring after they get in LTR's and underestimate their girl's wild desires. If you were having threesomes with her and another girl, she wouldn't be so bored and asking for a break so she could get some strange. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 03:32 AM |
| 2 | girl that friend likes is seemingly interested in me now?I would just say, "I'm really attracted to Stacey, and if you're not going to have sex with Stacey I'm going to." Then he'll probably come up with some bullshit reason why he won't. And then you say, OK, well I think she likes me. I had a friend at university who was a virgin. He had the hots for a girl who came over to a few parties we had. A week later the girl called him up on the phone, saying it's her 20th birthday and she's home alone and wants to drink and can he come over. He gave her a … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | I read rationale male and a few othee books but im still confused how to talk to girls.Just have to lose the weight and use game when it's appropriate. You're 20 so you don't even need steroids. Just get back in shape as fast as you can. You could find some outdoorsy girl who loves hiking and that sort of thing. It's going to take you a year to lose the weight so in the mean time you can find girls who like to go on hikes. I wouldn't run straight pick-up if I were in your situation. Also, you didn't say how you got fat, but if you're drinking heavily cut that shit out right now. T… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 05:22 AM |
| 18 | A plate of mine answered two phone calls while we were together in secrecy. Makes me wait. Soft next is overreaction ?Are you sure she doesn't work for the CIA or something? It's not necessarily another guy, although it could be. If her job involves dealing with clients on the phone it could be a work call. I always find it annoying when I'm on an important call and somebody sees me on the phone and wants to come talk to me. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 05:11 AM |
| 2 | So the weirdest shit happened to me today during and after having sex with my GFI wouldn't confront her. I would assume that she probably cheated and just quietly demote her to plate status. I would point out, however, that teenage girls are notoriously flaky. So it's entirely possible that Her mom and dad had a big fight and she's afraid they're getting divorced Her family is supposed to move far away at the end of the Summer Her dad told her to stop seeing you and to get a Summer job... who knows The point is there could be a million things going on, and she doesn't commu… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 04:05 AM |
| 2 | UPDATE: Went on a date with the girl that asked me outYou did good. Next time just keep escalating more. Make out in the car or try to go back to her place or your room. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/19 03:40 AM |
| 8 | Call Her DaddyBe hot. Run around with a bottle of booze and a bag of drugs. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 03:14 AM |
| 8 | Call Her DaddyYou hear stuff like this and you can kind of relate to the Taliban or the Amish on some level. Sort of like watching otherwise attractive young people get shit-faced drunk and shoot up drugs. Sure, it's a free country, but they're throwing their lives away and they don't realize it. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 03:10 AM |
| 6 | What’s your “walking around” Dread Level in your marriage/ LTR?You want other women to be checking you out and flirting with you. I like to think of abstract art. If you spent $200 buying some paintings your wife hates at a garage sale the wife might say you're an idiot and put the paintings out in the garage. Then imagine she's at a friend's house and they have book on the coffee table and it turns out the paintings you bought sell for hundreds of thousands of dollars at auctions. All of a sudden she loves the paintings and wants you to find more of them. … | /r/askMRP | 08/06/19 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend lost her virginity at 14 - is my relationship doomed?2 guys per year | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend lost her virginity at 14 - is my relationship doomed?I wouldn't expect the relationship to last for more than a year or two. I would expect her to continue the pattern of picking up a couple of new guys every year unless you can keep her really busy. I would go for threesomes with her, since you know she gets bored easily. Here's your chance to try everything sexually you ever wanted to without a lot to lose. At least she's honest about cheating. Most good-looking single 25 year old girls you meet probably have similar body counts and have cheated… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 12:01 PM |
| 4 | What are common introductions for cold approaching?I'd comment on external things. For example, the loudspeaker announces that the flight is delayed. You then look at the hottie waiting across from you at the airport and say something like "Looks like this may be a long night". | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Bumps in the roadThat sounds good. I don't know why she'd stay mad about any of this. When she says something like "You're a liar and a financial cheat" I would just look at her like she's nuts and not say anything, just like if she accused you of taking a spaceship to Jupiter and scheming with Martians. I guess she has some anxiety about money. | /r/askMRP | 07/06/19 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Bumps in the roadIt's your house and your money so I don't see what the issue with the HELOC is. My wife and I are totally financially separate, I don't ask her before I spend money on anything. We don't have any joint accounts. [Unless there's some weird history you're omitting, like you borrowed money on a HELOC before and bought cocaine with it and then borrowed the wife's money and never paid it back.] Seems like it's none of her business. I didn't see anything that struck me as terribly wrong in your post, … | /r/askMRP | 07/06/19 03:42 AM |
| 2 | FR: Losing My ReligionI'd try making one change at a time and really incorporate each one into your life. I've never been a Mormon but have a basically positive view of the organization (especially if they brought back polygamy....) I'm sorry to hear they've taken a hard-Left turn. At the end of the day, you have to do you, but I'd implement maybe one new change every two or three weeks or so. You want your wife and family to follow along (probably) and if you suddenly go off in what to them seems like a dangerous di… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/19 08:51 PM |
| 10 | How to avoid possible attraction killers?With online dating, Tinder especially, assume that they're looking to hook up. I wouldn't be doing a lot of talking other than to find a place to go make out or have sex. These girls are looking to get laid and instead you're interviewing them. Try not getting to know them better until after you've had sex three or four times. Evaluate them for friend or romantic potential after you've already established that the sex is good. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 07:56 PM |
| 12 | Where do you make new friends after swallowing the pill?There are plenty of players out there and guys who were always "red pill" who have never heard the term. When you're out improving your SMV you'll run across other guys sooner or later who are doing the exact same thing. Say hi to the other guy deadlifting or using the squat rack. If your current friends are fat fucks who play video games all day long, it's not a bad idea to spend less time hanging around with them because they're probably a toxic influence on you. There's no reason you can't ge… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Plates want commitmentWith 7 billion people in the world there is no shortage of beautiful 18-25 year olds who aren't going to start talking about marriage after you fuck them three times. If you're looking for casual sex, why choose a demographic that is desperate to settle down before hitting the wall? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Plates want commitmentIf I were you, I would avoid women age 26-35 completely. That's the age where they have to find someone fast if they want to have children, and you'll be under intense pressure to get married or get them pregnant or make a commitment. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 01:44 PM |
| 128 | Rollo drops out the 21 ConventionI'm surprised people would spend money to go to a convention. All the info you need is available free online, and if you want to talk to some bros you can just go to the gym. I never understood the whole PUA boot camp or "spend money to go to a convention" thing. I'm sure it sucks to waste time investing in something only to be kicked out of it, but in this case, it's probably the best thing for Rollo and everybody else. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/19 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Am I correct in assuming in order to fuck you never bring it up, it’s simply taking her from place to place?I think a lot of it comes down to whether or not the girl considers herself to like sex and be good at sex. There are definitely girls who love talking dirty and get horny talking about sex, then there are the "I wasn't planning on doing anything but one thing just lead to another and it just happened" girls. Overt sexual talk and direct game works well with a lot of women. Some girls don't like it. Girls who like to role-play usually like openly sexual talk. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 01:14 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle it when she starts feeling you're not emotional enough or (insert any shaming tactic that tries to convince you you're wrong for not being a softy)I picked up a good tip from reading a book about how to talk to toddlers. You want to respond back with about 60% of the emotional intensity she's coming at you with. The example in the book was, suppose you got fired from your job and you called your best friend. If your best friend says "You and your family are going to starve to death now, Fuck! Its all over for you!" That's not going to help, because your friend is now making you even more freaked out. If the friend is like a robot and says … | /r/askMRP | 06/06/19 04:30 AM |
| 7 | First time a girl I didn't know approached me, asked for my phone number and invited me to get coffeeIt's easy to be the "situational alpha" when you're surrounded by geeks. Even better if you can beat them at their own game. Then the girl is thinking wow, this guy is so smart and good-looking. You might be the shortest guy on the basketball team but the tallest guy in Computer Science department. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/19 05:36 PM |
| 29 | First time a girl I didn't know approached me, asked for my phone number and invited me to get coffeeSmash first, friends later. No reason you can't tutor her doggystyle while she's trying to learn how to code. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/19 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Girl Will Only Provide IG?Legal is legal. Ignore people giving you shit. The same people will give you shit for dating a 21 year old in college if you're 26 and out-of-college. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How to break a porn addiction?How much time do you spend watching it? If you're having trouble going cold turkey, why don't you just schedule some time for it each week, that's less than you currently spend. If you're watching it 4 hours a week, just make Monday Night porn night and allow yourself to watch 90 minutes. Then don't watch it on other days, if there's something you want, just remind yourself that you're going to watch it on Monday night. If that works then you could go for half an hour only on Monday, etc. You co… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Girl Will Only Provide IG?This was a loss, but you were still right to chat her up in my opinion. You should just drop it after you said you deleted your instagram, I wouldn't have asked for her number. When she said she doesn't give her number to strangers that's a firm rejection. A win would be she asks you what you're doing later or which hotel you're staying in and tells you what time she finishes work. Usually that would be easier if you were with a guy friend rather than your family, and she can bring one of the wa… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 07:42 AM |
| 5 | Girl Will Only Provide IG?Don't do it if it's awkward. You can ask them if they want to hook up after work. You need to be able to figure out if you're getting actual IOI's or just the normal "friendly to customer" treatment. If they're actually into you it's going to be much more than normal customer service. Like, "I have a break coming up in 10 minutes, do you want to come out and smoke with me?" Touching you, rubbing up against you, flashing you, taking selfies with you, asking how long you're in town for... these ar… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 07:19 AM |
| 3 | LTR asked why I dont just break up.Women love to freak out about stuff. You're calm and collected and not bothered by this stuff and you don't care about anybody's feelings. Just fix the washing machine problem without saying anything about it. Let her be the one to apologize, but don't ask her to apologize. I'd let her clean up the mess in the kitchen. In her mind she will say, Fuck, u/Resolution437 really has his shit together. Why was I panicking about that. You have to decide how much mayonnaise throwing and freaking out you'… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up with a plate. Need advice/criticismAs long as you're getting your needs met, I don't see anything wrong with talking or doing non-sexual stuff with a plate or OLTR. I don't think this is that big of a fuck-up. Some girls are fun to talk with. Getting sucked into her frame and being "mushy" isn't going to break you. The situation you're in isn't a bad one. Fucking a girl who's trying to get some other guy(s) to marry her by playing hard-to-get is the classic Alpha Fucks situation. She goes out to the fancy restaurant with Richie R… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Some things that I've noticed. On me and her.I think you should try a little harder than that. | /r/askMRP | 04/06/19 10:03 PM |
| 0 | Some things that I've noticed. On me and her.I don't understand why you didn't follow through after she said "Babe" and started talking about the weather. That doesn't sound like a hard "no" to me. But anyway you need to lift more. | /r/askMRP | 04/06/19 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Funny thing just happenedDo you belong to a gym? The single best thing you can do for yourself is lifting weights. Download Stronglifts 5x5 for your phone if you're not lifting already. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Too beta or she moved on?I'd stop planning dates and just go for whatever you were doing beforehand when everything was going well. Hook up and fuck. Drop out of sight for a week or two and then hit her up for a booty call. She may not want anything serious right now and just wants to get laid, and now she's weirded out that maybe you think she's your girlfriend or whatever. Or it could be nothing, sometimes girls are flakey, get busy with work or school or family or whatever. Don't put too much thought or emotional inv… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Am I missing something or AWALT?I'd just stay the course. Get body fat below 15%, continue to pursue your own hobbies and goals, initiate sex morning and night, be genuinely fun to be around. Eventually she'll get bored trying to figure out why you changed and she'll come along for the ride. It can take a long time to overcome all the baggage from the past. She's freaked out because things have changed and it doesn't make any sense to her. | /r/askMRP | 03/06/19 08:22 PM |
| 7 | Charlie BrownGood advice! Nice FR. Get in the habit of doing that all the time and some of the girls will want to trade numbers or keep in touch without your having to ask. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/19 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Am I missing something or AWALT?Are you fun to be around? Remember that you're always in a good mood and fun to be around. To me it doesn't sound like you're necessarily screwing things up, but why is your wife emailing your therapist? Since wife is an Instagram addict, maybe you can go to some scenic spot with her and tell her that it will look good on Insta. I wouldn't worry about it too much. She was convinced you were a stupid beta loser that she could control, now she's freaked out because she doesn't know who you are any… | /r/askMRP | 03/06/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | One Year On TRP - Updates & Lots Of Soul SearchingHey OP, great work, keep it up! You'll find things get a whole lot easier when you drop from 27% body fat down to under 15%. You're lifting weights, right? Keep lifting. With the job, you're already doing great to get your income up 2.5x but to really break out of the issues with your boss you'll need other job offers that pay more. Then it's a lot easier psychologically to push back and request the resources that you need. Frankly, if I were you, I wouldn't worry too much. Just keep doing what … | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Funny thing just happenedHow do you have a girl sit on your lap and not have sex with her? Doesn't he take her clothes off? That sounds like cruel and unusual punishment or something. In my experience if you can get a girl to make out with you, you can generally go all the way. Does this dude Blue not know how to escalate? Is his idea of initiating like "Hey maybe one day you should be my girlfriend?" I don't get how this is possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/19 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Latest Gillette Ad Features Dad Teaching Transgender Son To Shave For The First TimeSomeone needs to start making Gillette ads featuring self-harm and suicide. We should re-brand them. Toxic Gillette, the suicide and self-harm company. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/19 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else wish it wasn’t all so true?I'm always a lot happier knowing what's going on. As a soon-to-be doctor, you know that with current medical technology we all die someday. But you don't let that depress you. That's the way it is. It was probably kind of depressing to realize that the tooth fairy and Santa Claus were made up bullshit fairy tales, but you're not still upset about that, are you? The blue pill Disney fantasy is just that. Girls dream that some Prince Charming is going to come and grant all their wishes. You have t… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 04:48 AM |
| 5 | Should have I reacted differently?You take her out to lunch and she treats you like this? Unless you guys are "declared open" like you know she has a boyfriend and she knows you have a girlfriend but you guys are fucking each other on the side for fun, I would instantly demote for even considering such bullshit, along with the goofy story to go along with it. She's basically asking whether or not you consent to being cucked. "A doctor suggested I go see a guy I used to fuck". It's bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 09:51 PM |
| 8 | Kissless virgin since 16, making progressWhere did he say anything about getting money from Clinton and Soros? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/19 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Realizations and swallowing the red pillGood luck! Don't be shy, I'd tell her exactly what you want her to do. Worst case scenario, she says no. Best case she says "What took you so long? I thought you'd never ask." | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Realizations and swallowing the red pillI don't think I understand this post. Are you saying you're "friends" with a girl for 3 years and you never fucked her? I don't get it. Just tell her to come over and fuck you because you're horny. If she says no, then why are you hanging out with her? Blowjobs? For all these people saying ghost her, have you actually told her to come fuck you? If not, try that first. If she doesn't want to (which is her right), then ghost her. You can't put all the blame on her for no sex if you haven't tried t… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Want to quit alcoholAllen Carr's book Easy Way to Quit Drinking. Just get it and read it. It will save you a small fortune and you can have fun watching your "friends" self-destruct while you zoom ahead. When you go to a bar just tell the bartender that you're the designated driver, hand him a few bucks, and ask him for water. It will be pretty eye-opening if not shocking how drunk and sloppy your friends will get and then deny that they were all that bad. It's much easier to pull women when you're sober, too. It t… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 04:54 AM |
| 6 | How do I secure the kill?But I don't want to fuck his cat, I just want to pet his girlfriend. I think I misread something. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 04:37 AM |
| 6 | My neighbor sent a message on Instagram to a girl I brought overMaybe he misunderstood your relationship with the girl and thought he had some connection with her. Especially if he's drinking. I personally would do nothing except make a mental note that neighbor is an idiot weasel who can't be trusted with anything. One girl's creep is another girl's Chad. I've seen people who I thought have no chance score from moves like that. If it had gone the other way we'd be reading a post about how your LTR cucked you for your neighbor. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Dating someone that has more "advantages" than youBe good in bed. Fuck her better than anybody else could. Make sure you are always fun to be around. She has her own money and career and status, she doesn't need you for that. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Bored of sex in LTRGo for threesomes. Tell her you know some girl who thinks she's cute who is DTF. You can always make your own porn with her, and watch it while you're fucking her, or watch somebody else's porn together too. Have you played Barbie with her? Get a cosplay wig and some fun outfits for her to wear. Sex toys? Whips and chains? Mix it up a little bit. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Pulled my hottest chick ever , couldn t get it upUsually just tell the girl to suck you to make you hard. If that doesn't work you should probably use viagra or one of the other popular boner pills. The key thing is to do something about it for next time and not worry about it. The consensus seems to be that girls are used to this sort of thing and will usually give you another chance. Don't fuck up twice in a row though. Also, make sure you're sober and not giving yourself whiskey dick. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 08:10 PM |
| 17 | How do i start daygaming?Whenever you see an opportunity to talk to ANY attractive female, married or single, old or young, do it, even if there is ZERO chance of anything developing. You can easily, very easily, approach 10 women a day this way. Lady cop directing traffic? Hi, how's your day going. At least the weather is nice. You get to write any tickets today? Cashier at the grocery store? I heard it's supposed to rain this weekend. Girl waiting to cross the street? I hate this intersection, I almost got run over by… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Can't cum during sex lately.Are you on any drugs? Prozac and zoloft (SSRI's) are notorious for causing this sort of thing. Alcohol could also have the same effect. Lay off the 8 beers for a few months. If you're able to cum through masturbation, you can always just pull out at an appropriate time and masturbate on to your girl's face or tits or feet or whatever floats your boat. Have her help you out so she feels involved. If you're not trying to get her pregnant, there's no obligation to cum inside her from fucking, I wou… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Is it bad that I just don’t care about women right now?I would have her come over for sex on the regular. Don't masturbate and have her take care of you instead. You just tell her truthfully that right now you're really busy and focused on other things and don't have time for a relationship, but if she wants to come over for half an hour at 10 tonight, that's fine. For a half hour a day just do whatever you want with her. She'll be thrilled, you'll be happy, it won't be wasting much of your time. Don't communicate with her on the phone except to tel… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 07:27 PM |
| 9 | What is it about the dark triad personalities that usually alpha widows most girls?There's a "primarily non-fiction" book called Sperm Wars that's supposed to be pretty good. Athol Kay also has a brief summary of it in Married Man Sex Life Primer. The main takeaway for me is that this stuff (what women find attractive) is not under conscious control, which is why you can't negotiate attraction. It's hard-wired. You can be the most devoted, kindest, hard-working, self-sacrificing, loving fat schlub in the whole world who would do anything for some girl, and she'll find you disg… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 07:18 PM |
| 26 | What is it about the dark triad personalities that usually alpha widows most girls?If you believe in evolutionary psychology, you'll understand that sexual attraction lies deep in the limbic system, the paleomammalian cortex from caveman days. Even though the world has changed, what women are attracted to hasn't changed any. Back in the caveman days, all those dark triad traits were super useful for survival. Rival tribe coming for your food and your women? Beat their heads in with a rock or a stick. Wild beast nearby? Kill it before it kills you. Hot girl walks by? Grab her b… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Both girls I’m talking to will be at an event today. How do I handle this?Threesome. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 06:25 AM |
| 0 | Want to smash her friends, what's the play here?Have hb5 break-up with you. Tell hb7 that you and hb5 broke up because it's not working out and that she's not your girlfriend. If hb7 has any interest in you she should act on it. It only works if she thinks hb5 was punching way above her weight and you're out of her league. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 06:23 AM |
| 107 | Why so many white knights?White knights, betas, omegas, chumps everywhere... Makes it that much easier for you to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 06:03 AM |
| 8 | How to change personality to be more outgoing?You don't have to change your personality, it's what you do that changes. You have to go up and approach. Treat it like sales, like a numbers game. One reason your goofy friend is getting laid and you're not is because he's going up to the girls whereas you're hanging back cringing while he does whatever goofy thing he does. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 05:59 AM |
| 3 | IOIs in naturally touchy/social/friendly girls?"It's OK to experiment and follow your heart. It's not like when we have sex you won't still get to be a lesbian anymore whenever you want." | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 05:56 AM |
| 0 | Essential starting material?Lifting is about 80% and diet is the other 80%. You absolutely must lift weights. Download Stronglifts 5x5 and do it religiously. Take a shirtless picture of yourself. You absolutely must clean up your diet. If you're overweight, guess what, you have to start losing the weight right now. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 05:14 AM |
| 2 | This is removed from any day game, but why do women seem mildly revolted and will avert from any guy in a neutral public space, especially stores?It might sound silly, but if you're going to do day game at Target, take a disco nap and dress up a little bit when you go there. Be showered, shaved, well-groomed, etc. You can wear T-shirt but wear one of your "A" T-shirts. Being exhausted or looking sick or run-down isn't going to cut it. You're trading on your first impression. You want her to think, fuck, that's a good-looking guy. It's pretty easy to do because unlike going to a night-club, nobody puts any thought into what they wear to Ta… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 05:04 AM |
| 6 | An example of trickle truthYou know she's not LTR material now but I still think you should plate her for fun. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 04:05 AM |
| 6 | A few years into TRP, I obviously find women very attractive, but much of the "magic" is gone. Does anyone else feel this way?I think it's a good thing. The better you get at any game, usually, the more fun it becomes. If you suck at poker you'll lose a lot of money and get lucky once in a while. Once you understand all the odds, strategies, and tactics your success goes up a lot. Same thing with Chess. Same thing with women. Same thing with life. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Want to fuck an older woman as a virginSame rules apply as to any other girl. Look for IOI's, approach, kino, escalate, isolate... escalate more. If you can game a 20 year old you can game a 30 year old or a 40 year old. While there's nothing wrong with wanting to bang a 30-something woman, since you're new at this I think you'd be better off just finding any woman you're attracted to and making it happen. If you meet some woman at this party and things are going great and then you find out she's 26 are you going to cut bait and look… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 06:41 PM |
| 9 | Can sperm survive on a wet wipe and can it be used for something afterwards?No, and go lift weights and stop worrying about stupid stuff. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 12:39 PM |
| 5 | Encountered the Weirdest Instant ASD. Did i proceed accordingly?Life goes on. As a dad myself I am sure dad would want him to have a happy sex life. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 11:43 AM |
| 17 | Latest Gillette Ad Features Dad Teaching Transgender Son To Shave For The First TimeI wonder if they're really trying to sell to actual trannies or to what they perceive to be the much larger "wokester SJW" market. I think this is a classic case of a major corporation losing the plot, and being completely out of tune with the trends in the world around them. They're going to be caught dead in the water when their customer base abandons them. They could have run this stuff in the 90's on college campuses and in certain markets and been on trend. This is like printing up "Madame … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/19 03:37 AM |
| 3 | I failed! LTR asks for permission to "have a coffee" with a fuckbuddy she used to date before. I didn't react well, how can I save this?"Thanks for letting me know. It must be Springtime because all these old lovers are wanting to get back together. Go see him if you want to. My old fuckbuddy keeps texting me saying she wants to hook up again. I guess I'll go spend Friday night with her since you're busy with what's his name." Edit: Maybe someone already mentioned it in the comments but Friday night isn't a time when girls just casually go out to meet people they're not interested in for coffee. It almost sounds like she's seein… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Is RooshV and his followers making a mistake by going Christian?Roosh is very funny guy. He's running for President, so for sure he has to clean up his image. https://www.rooshv.com/6-policies-i-would-enact-as-president-of-the-united-states I have no idea if he's trolling as usual or found Jesus. If you haven't heard him before, he's always bright and entertaining and genuinely funny. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 08:11 AM |
| 15 | Would you demote/next LTR if she lied about her whereabouts?Why would you want to LTR an untrustworthy liar? What's she doing in bars without you? Demote! | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 07:18 AM |
| 2 | I lose interest in people over time. Is it a mental condition or I'm just out of sync socially? Like every girl I've ever thought I like, every friend I've ever had, i just lose interest interacting altogether. Any input? It frustrates me.There are a bunch of different personalities, and they're all good at different things. Find what works best for you. Some people form lifelong friendships, some people are loners. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Got called a psycho last nightI would just smile and laugh. Yeah, I've always had a reputation for being a bit of a psycho. Can't deny it. *Stare deeply into her eyes* Remember the old adage, "Why did she leave me for that nice guy?!" Said no escaped mental patient or criminal ever. Psycho is just saying you're a sexy bad boy or not a "nice guy", you should take it as a compliment. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with loneliness.If your testosterone is truly low, raising it will also make it easier to lose weight. Maybe your doctor can prescribe clomid for you, or testosterone. Hang in there. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Handling wife's bitchy behavior in public.Calling her out on the bad behavior might transfer some of her anger from him to you. I think STFU is best here. Maybe kind of give a knowing look at the guard like "Must be that time of the month, huh." If this kind of stuff happens regularly maybe you can jokingly call her out on it, like "OK, if I walk in to this store with you tonight you have to promise not to get in a fight with the security guard. I'm worried they're going to sentence you to anger management classes." You don't want to se… | /r/askMRP | 23/05/19 04:26 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with loneliness.The good thing for you is you can probably be where you want to be by the time you're 23 if you keep putting in the effort. You can still chat girls up now and maybe you can find some who want to cuddle with you when you're fat, but it will be soooooo much easier when you lose the 100 pounds. A hundred pounds overweight is probably like a minus 6 on your SMV. You're one of the few people on the planet who could realistically increase his SMV by 5 or 6 points in a year or two. That ought to provi… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:14 AM |
| 5 | for those of you with a GF/LTR. how did yall get tell your other plates you were about to be committed?Wish I could, been too busy for that lately, hope you're doing well. In general she doesn't need to know all the gory details of your love life. She knows or suspects there are other women chasing you, which isn't a bad thing if you want to get back together again later. "I had this really hot guy I hooked up with on Tinder but now he hasn't called me for three weeks and he's dating some stupid cheerleader, why can't he see that I'm the better girl for him." Then her friends will be saying maybe… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Easy to get laid in a hostel ?Dorms are still full of international students for Summer Session. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 03:08 AM |
| 4 | MISSION HELPStop smoking weed and playing video games. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 11:05 PM |
| 7 | I think im getting cuckedYes, there's still a chance. Making out and oral sex is progress, much better than nothing. Do you have condoms? Maybe she's afraid of getting pregnant. Just keep escalating slowly every time she's back in your room. Is she a virgin? Keep trying new things. Your situation is much better than if you were taking her out for fancy dinners and then she leaves you alone to go fuck Chad. Your phone move was probably good, making her stay was bad. Next time she comes over hopefully she'll be a little m… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 11:03 PM |
| 20 | for those of you with a GF/LTR. how did yall get tell your other plates you were about to be committed?I wouldn't say anything. If they're plates there's no expectation of exclusivity or fidelity. In a few months or a year when the LTR thing is over you'll be happy to call them up and see if they're still around. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 10:45 PM |
| 9 | Easy to get laid in a hostel ?Save your hotel money for when you actually have a girl to hook up with. NYC is full of beautiful girls. If you can't get laid here it's on you. If the hostel is cheapest I would probably budget for a few nights of that, and maybe one stay in a decent hotel and an AirBNB. If you really want to put your skills to the test, see if you can hook up with a college girl and stay a few nights in her dorm room to save on your hotel budget. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Can you "increase" your frame?Passing shit tests and enforcing your boundaries will increase your frame. Maybe it's a dumb example but if you're vegetarian and your girl is trying to get you to eat steak and bacon for some special thing just this one time but you don't do it, she might get upset with you but she'll respect you more. Not getting drawn into stupid arguments, not getting upset when things go wrong, having your own plan and agenda and sticking to it.... all these will increase your frame. edit: It's pretty hard … | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 10:31 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with third party shit testing?If this is the girl's friend and it's said playfully. I would probably say, hmmmm, let me take a good hard look. *Stare at her really hard.* Yes, I think I probably could. Maybe. Are you rich? What kind of car do you drive? Edit: Typical PUA move after the pressure flip would be to disqualify yourself. A Ford? Oh, no. I don't think we could ever be together. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Can I Get Your NumberI don't know. Sometimes I get a new cell phone or switch providers and I don't know my own phone number because I never dial it. If she's DTF you can set it up by email or carrier pigeon. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 09:25 PM |
| 37 | Post wall women wonder why they can't find a guy to marry and have kids with...I'm pretty sure she'd only be interested in lesbians who are 2 or 3 SMV points above her and make at least $250k per year... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you guys follow some TRP but not all? Do you find value in it?If you correctly apply TRP you'll be more attractive to women in general. Ultimately you have to live your own life. TRP is a toolkit of things that work, and a collection of basic knowledge and wisdom. You have to figure out how to apply it to your own situation. There's nothing in TRP that requires you to be dishonest or disrespectful to anyone. You can do whatever you want. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Did my value go up?I wouldn't talk about starting a new job with girls I just met, especially if you're going to be a narc or a detective or something. Just be more mysterious. If they actually ask you what you do for a living say "no comment" or "I can't talk about it right now." See if that goes over better. Let them wonder if you're a spy or a drug dealer or hitman or whatever. If you're going to be some kind of cop they're afraid that you will see the "diet pills" in their purse or arrest them for smoking a jo… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Escorts TipsI think you should save it for when you're 84 years old or you lose your leg in an industrial accident. If you're nailing 7's and 8's just work on yourself more and you should be able to pull some 9's. 9's are really just "the type you prefer", somebody else would think one of your 8's was his perfect 10. It's a personal choice but I would never do it. Shelling out $ for pussy is the ultimate beta-bux move. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 05:58 PM |
| 11 | Shitting where you eat.It just comes down to how important or serious the job is and what your skills are. If you're working at a bar or restaurant, go ahead and fuck everybody. That's normal in restaurants and hospitality and nobody stays long anyways. If you just got a job on Wall Street and you need to keep it then pretend these girls don't exist. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Flying to visit Plate for the weekend - I might have a STD. Help!If it's chlamydia a single 1-gram dose of Azithromycin should cure it. (Look it up and ask your doctor.) So you could do that right now today, and if the test says it's chlamydia you're good and can visit as planned. If the test comes back for something else, you're out of luck and should either tell her you think you caught something and can't have sex until it's cured, or reschedule. You don't want to knowingly spread a disease to a girl. Don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Is Women being sexually overt a shit test?If she's not ugly and you're not gay you should head over there and fuck her. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with people asking questions like this. If you get there and she's not DTF you should delete her number and never waste time with her again. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 03:23 PM |
| 3 | LTR ProblemKeep fucking her if you enjoy it, but find a real girlfriend or plate who gives blowjobs. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Is 'game' always enough?Good Looking Loser explains it, but most girls you approach are not going to be sexually available for reasons that have nothing to do with you. (She's got a final exam tomorrow, she just got married yesterday, she has terrible indigestion, she's already got a date lined up for tonight...) For the ones who are sexually available (to someone), you have to meet their looks threshold, which is more of a yes/no decision. Would she swipe you on Tinder. Are you in the top 20% of guys based on looks al… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it Always Wise to Plate?I would just keep a list, and if she's your favorite girl she's at the top of the list. You call her first when you want to do anything with a girl. If she's always available to you and you're perfectly happy there's no reason to call #2 on the list. If you're calling her up and she's not making herself available to you, call your second favorite, etc. If you're going out with #1 and she's not fun to be around, next time you want to go out call #2 first. Maybe you find out #2 is actually a lot m… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Best way to avoid oneitis?GFTOW | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Disgusted after hooking up.You need to get over the one-itis thing but there's nothing wrong with setting your standards really high. One trick is that if you know you would never want to be married or start a family with some girl, don't go on a date with her in the first place (even if she's hot). That would probably eliminate 90% of your casual hook-ups. You might be happier finding one or two quality girls every year or two vs some stranger from the bar every Saturday night. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 12:55 PM |
| 5 | What to fucking doIf you dropped the weed and gaming completely you'd have so much extra time that you could work a side job while you figure out what to do next. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Trying to understand this comfort seeking behaviourTo me it sounds like you handled everything great. You're busy living your own life, and she's realizing that she can either be a part of it or not. And if she wants to keep you around and be part of your life, she'd better make sure she's being attractive to you, having sex, making your life better than it would be without her, etc. Her hamster is hamstering. This is good. edit: The more desirable you become, the more she's going to want to keep you around. The more she wants to keep you around… | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 05:16 AM |
| 2 | I Fucked up should have STFUThings are moving in the right direction, and the fitter and more attractive you get, the less likely the sex is to be "transactional" just to keep you around. As for dressing up, I would lay the outfit out on the bed for her to put on. "Wear these shoes and that dress" or whatever it is. She can still say no but it's more effort to reject you when you're in the same room and it gets rid of the "ok I will do what you want next time (which never happens)" trap. Getting pissed off and expressing a… | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 04:59 AM |
| 9 | Connection and SexShe said something, you listened, it sounds like you're completely in her frame. It sounds like a you have a lot of work to do. A month is wayyyyyy too long. You should probably be initiating morning and night, I'm not sure how often you're initiating. The better shape you get in and the less time you spend worrying about what she wants, needs, thinks, feels, and the more effort you spend on doing your own thing without her.... the faster her interest level will go up. Frankly if she's willing t… | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Religious, stateless marriage without threat of asset split in case of divorce?There's really no way to get rid of risk entirely. You could probably protect yourself by transferring your major assets into LLC's, and then just keeping minimal stuff in your personal name and accounts. Read How To Be Invisible by JJ Luna for the basic ideas. Essentially you'd put your house in an LLC, and then your car in a different one, and then your company in a different one. Then rather than owning your own house, you'd just rent it from your LLC for $1000 a month. And instead of making … | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Being paranoid about girls and sex after reading the sub..?You're too anxious. Relax! Try something like moodgym (free site that uses cognitive behavioral therapy) you can sort of blog about what you think is making you anxious. Don't believe girls if they say they're on the pill or IUD etc. Use your own condoms and have plenty of them. I think it's better and more fun to pull out even when you're using a condom and cum on her face or tits or something so you don't have to worry that maybe the condom fell off or is broken or whatever. Provides a lot of … | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Any experience hooking up with friends?I'd either just do it (probably the best option) or if you're really great friends with your buddy ask him first if he has any objection. If this is just some casual acquaintance from class and she hasn't seen him in 6 months I wouldn't even think twice about it. It's not like you're stealing your best friend's girlfriend or fiancee. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain FAILURE at your MISSION without coming across as a BITCH?It doesn't hurt to have a couple of irons in the fire. If you're trying to get your own TV sitcom it's pretty normal to wait on tables or have a "day job" while you go to auditions. If you're trying to sell your script to Hollywood it doesn't hurt to work on other projects on the side. You need a good hustle. I wouldn't explain anything to anyone. You do what you need to do to keep the lights on while you grind away at whatever the big thing you're grinding away at is. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 04:23 AM |
| 9 | Any brothers in Japan?You sound kind of depressed. Girl goes on a date with you but has a boyfriend means you should go to the love hotel. If she wasn't interested she wouldn't go on a date. At least suggest it, if you get shot down oh well. High school girl tells you how handsome or cool you are probably also means a trip to the love hotel if she's 18 and you're not a teacher at her school. Lovers' language in Japan is rough and direct and you're expected to make all the moves as the guy. The typical nampa move is t… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 03:56 AM |
| 24 | Neighbor lesbian couple complaining about sex noises from my apartamentPolice are not going to care. Basically if you are making noise so loud that the whole neighborhood is complaining, like you're in a rock band or something, and they can hear it from their police car when they pull up, then you might have something to worry about. I would just accuse them of spying on you and harassing you. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 03:24 AM |
| 7 | Found LTR on tinderPersonally I wouldn't do anything different except fire up my own Tinder account and be a little rougher and more aggressive sexually with her. Suggest threesomes and that kind of thing. She's a horny slut (the best kind, right?) and you're not keeping her satisfied(!) so she's looking for some more action on the side. She likes you enough and she's attracted to you enough to hook up with you (which is good), now you just have to step up your game and treat her like she's a lot wilder and kinkie… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 06:39 PM |
| 20 | Ltr friendThe friend is bad news. I don't know your whole situation, but in general your LTR should not be going out to bars and getting fucked up without you. She's going to get plenty of men trying to pick her up, which would be OK if she weren't deliberately putting herself in a situation where men are going to try to pick her up. To me that sounds like an open relationship, which is fine if that's what you want. What I assume you don't want is for your LTR to have an open relationship with you where s… | /r/askMRP | 15/05/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Why the emphasis on limit strength?Olympic weightlifting works, and actually if you did competitive swimming or gymnastics you would probably get plenty jacked for RP purposes. If you're coming from overweight and unfit, the skill level required to do gymnastics or oly lifting is a lot higher than the skill level required to do the basic barbell exercises, and the investment required to master them is much greater. But if you have the strength and flexibility and background required, like you used to do college gymnastics or some… | /r/askMRP | 14/05/19 11:00 PM |
| 1 | When to cut losses, how healthy Male would respondIn general red pill is all about fixing yourself. If I'm reading your post correctly, it sounds like your wife is a lush who is drunk driving with your kids in the car? I love Allen Carr's books. Easy way to control alcohol or Easy Way to Quit drinking. If she reads it she'll almost certainly cut way back or quit drinking entirely. Wouldn't hurt you to read it too. I think it's less than 10 bucks on amazon. Don't have to talk to anyone about your problems, don't have to go to any meetings, don't… | /r/askMRP | 14/05/19 07:04 PM |
| 13 | Get her a shirtDon't overthink these things. Sounds like she was up for more sex, maybe, even though you didn't want it. You could say something like "I like you better when you sleep naked." Or you could just say something like "Top drawer on the left, I'm asleep." But you didn't really need to say anything. Where you screwed up is getting into a conversation about it and telling her how absurd it is that she's making a tiny thing into a big thing. STFU would be a better option. STFU is almost always better t… | /r/askMRP | 14/05/19 11:45 AM |
| 3 | Shit-tests while travelingTo me it sounds like playful flirting too. I don't drink but I would probably make that joke too. "Wow, that bar is so nice, I think I'm going to go and get drunk and pick up a couple of girls to bring back to the room..." You could argue the first one isn't even a shit test, more of just riffing on OP's original joke. edit: I think OP did great. Third one does sound like a comfort test, but OP's not married and doesn't need the girl to be getting too comfortable. The girl figured out she has a … | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriends guy friends creep on her/want to fuck her, should I do anything about it?At least in my experience, girls I hooked up with once will hook up with me again if they see me again. And the "take advantage of me when I'm super drunk" stuff is just a lie. She used to fuck him, she still fucks him now "but only when super-drunk and he takes advantage of me." "Oh look, Chad is here. I always fuck him and he's always got his hands all over me. I guess now is a good time to get super-drunk because I have a boyfriend I am always faithful to who isn't here to protect me..." I wo… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Been with a plate for a whileFigure out what kind of sex you would enjoy having with her, and then have that kind of sex with her if she consents. Are you having trouble figuring out how to have sex with your girl? I'm not sure English is your first language, and it seems like you're kind of confused by things that should be obvious... ? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Been with a plate for a whileWhy don't you figure out what you want to do and say, and then do and say that? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 07:19 AM |
| 0 | low dose test cycleBad idea. Use get a tens/EMS unit off Amazon. Even if you're bed-ridden you can hold on to your gains and not lose any size. You're just going to fuck up your hormones doing what you suggest. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 07:14 AM |
| 1 | LTR always complainingSend her resume to a headhunter? As long as you're getting your needs met I wouldn't stress out over it too much. Just make sure you're not rewarding bad behavior from her. Edit: You could get the book "it's a job, not a jail" and see if there are some good ideas from there you could suggest to her. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Just being a bitch?Yeah, stop being a little bitch. But you might try telling her exactly what you want her to do. Since she's into dirty talk you could get her some crazy outfits and a cosplay wig or something and tell her you want her to pretend she's a stranger trying to seduce you. Mix it up a little bit. Maybe if you get that going on often enough she'll figure out that you want her to surprise you once in a while. Even if it's not really your thing, mixing it up a bit after 15 years couldn't hurt. Just make … | /r/askMRP | 12/05/19 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Fiancé lost respectUsually it takes years of marriage for things to get this bad. You need to call it off and spend a couple of years fixing yourself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | About to meet stranger for extra rough type stuff. How to stay safe as best as possible?I'm glad it worked out! It's awesome when you meet the right girl like that. If I were you I'd go back often as long as she's in to it. Might as well be you having the fun with her instead of some other guy. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How to tell my beta friend his SJW gf is a cunt?I'm stealing this! | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 04:09 PM |
| 13 | What would you guys do in my situation?Stop being a pussy about it and just date 18-25 year olds. Reset your tinder profile to say you're 28 or something. I forgot how old uncle vasya is but if he can do it, you can do it, and he's 20 years older than you. edit: I forgot which blog it's on, but in general, about 1/3 of 20 year olds are totally cool with dating much older men. Another 1/3 would never do it, and another 1/3 might do it if the right guy happened along. You're just second-guessing yourself and you sound depressed. Totall… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 06:49 AM |
| -2 | Shit test: My girl is calling other guys “hot as fuck” while talking with me.She might like talking dirty. Next time you're having sex you could tease her about these guys who are hot as fuck but can't fuck her like you do. Whatever you do, you don't want to be butthurt or insecure about it. Some girls have some surprising fetishes. Had one plate who loved talking about she-males... | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 06:09 AM |
| 2 | About to meet stranger for extra rough type stuff. How to stay safe as best as possible?Your best bet is to video everything along with a statement from her at the beginning that she's invited you over of her own free will to engage in rough sex and that her safe word is "pineapple" and that she consents to your recording everything. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 05:56 AM |
| 10 | How do you get rid of oneitis?GFTOW works. Only 9 more and you're cured. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 05:49 AM |
| 5 | My shoulders are fucked up and I don’t know what to doI would try a different PT. Have you done all the self-diagnostic tests on youtube? There are a ton of excellent videos that will help you diagnose shoulder problems and show you exercises you can do for free at home. Lots of videos have comments like "thank you so much, I had this for 7 years and you fixed my problem." These guys are good. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owQFE-84iPE | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 05:41 AM |
| 17 | Do girls show attraction by insulting you?Shit test. The correct response is water off a duck's back. Agree and amplify. Smile and laugh. If you or her ever switch jobs hit her up for a date. If she had zero interest in you she wouldn't be interacting at all. You'd be invisible to her. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 05:27 AM |
| 2 | How to tell my beta friend his SJW gf is a cunt?You might invite the guy to come lift weights with you. If he starts improving himself maybe he'll realize that he can do better, or the girlfriend may start working harder not to be a toxic, entitled, and disgusting. If he's like most betas he's probably just thrilled that he has any girlfriend at all. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Im weak on the inside and I dont want red pill philosophy to be trueWTF dude you don't have to view women as dogs. Things that are true are true whether or not you believe in them. Red pill basically says that guys who get in good physical shape from lifting weights and who are confident and well-dressed and well-groomed and have a mission in life will be more attractive to women than scrawny, wishy-washy, smelly, needy guys who get fat and play video games. And it's true! Fix your own problems and the rest of the world will treat you a lot better than it does t… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 05:13 AM |
| 1 | She has a guyYou could invite her to come over late at night and watch a movie with you in your room if you're not comfortable actually asking for sex. Before you give up on her completely you need to at least give her the opportunity to clarify that she's not interested in having a sexual relationship with you. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | She has a guyHave sex with her first, and then if you want to be friends with her, go ahead. If she's not going to have sex with you, you should spend your time with a girl who will. If she really likes you, she will have sex with you. If she doesn't have sex with you, she's just using you. That's what everyone here is telling you. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 04:15 AM |
| 2 | She has a guyYou need to literally invite her over for sex. If she says no, she can't for [reasons] say OK, well hit me up when you're ready. If she says no because she's going out with Steve, say OK, well text me when you break up with Steve. If she's not interested in having sex with you because you're fat and weak, you need to stop being fat and weak before you can expect to hook up with 9's. If she's not putting out for you, you need to be completely unavailable to her. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | She has a guyDon't hang out with her if you're not having sex with her. If you're having sex with her, it's fine to hang out with her however much makes you happy. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 04:03 AM |
| 4 | Do you guys cut off your beta friends?I think it's bad to hang out with people like that. They're basically toxic. I've seen guys who are trying to do the whole BetaBux thing "he bought her a car, and new clothes, and he took her here and there, and he pays for this and that, and they're buying a new house, and .... he's going to marry her even though she had Chad's kids..." It's best to surround yourself with people who make you happy and help you achieve your goals. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys cut off your beta friends?Some times you can get nasty betas who try to fuck up your plates and cockblock you behind your back. You hook up with some girl who likes you, and then they "warn her" about you, and how you're a player, and you don't respect women because you fuck a lot of them, etc. That gets annoying. White Knights suck. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 03:24 AM |
| 4 | Getting monkey branched to feels kinda grossEvery girl you'll ever be with was some other guy's childhood sweetheart, or his favorite girl that he never had the nerve to ask out, or had some guy madly in love with her and convinced that she was going to be "The One". You can do whatever you want, but I don't think you're doing yourself any favors by worrying about other men's feelings when some girl wants to fuck you. If she's DTF with you it means she's not faithful to that other guy, which means their relationship, if they have any, isn… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Asked girl out and she said she wasn’t free but countered with another day but it wasn’t definitive, how to proceed?You're overthinking this. You can say "good", or "hectic", or not say anything back. Just don't be overly chatty. If you have some specific thing to invite her to, you can invite her to that. "I'm going to XYZ on 3rd until 8, you want me to pick you up?" Then she either has to flake or reply with, I can't I don't get off work until 10. And then you can suggest meeting at 10, and if she says no then just disappear for a week or two. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 07:59 PM |
| 2 | 20 year old plate just told me her body count....That's 5 guys a year for 4 years. Not hard to do at all. Figure 2 boyfriends per year and 3 random hook ups per year. Reality is that the number is probably quite a bit higher. I guess officially you're Lucky 21. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Asked girl out and she said she wasn’t free but countered with another day but it wasn’t definitive, how to proceed?I'm free after 7, I will pick you up from work. What time does your shift end? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:32 PM |
| 5 | High school helpThis is a good point, actually, if you were actually unattractive they wouldn't even know who you are to talk about you. Who? I don't think I've seen him before. He's not in any of my classes. He is? I haven't seen him. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 05:37 AM |
| 5 | High school helpThe right attitude to do well with girls is to DNGAF. Genuinely don't care. If you take some hot girl to the prom, every one of those girls who said she didn't like you will be saying OMG how come he took Becky to the prom, and they'll all be wondering why you didn't ask them instead. You don't need ALL of the girls at school to think you're attractive. If you hook up with only one attractive girl at school at a time you're doing pretty well in high school. You really should not give one shit ab… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 05:34 AM |
| 4 | Should I just pull back from the friend zone or is there some way I can turn her into a plate?You could probably hook up with her, but plating a married woman from work is not such a hot idea. If you want to play it safe, I wouldn't go out with her unless she promises to hook you up with some of her hot single friends. But yeah, if you truly DGAF, going out drinking with a married chick from work who hates her husband on a Friday night should get you laid if you have any game at all. edit: I've never gone out drinking with a girl alone ever (just the two of us) without the girl being sex… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 05:13 AM |
| 1 | FWB now telling people I’m “her man”If any mutual friend asks you about it you can say that you've been out on a date with her or see each other occasionally. If someone asks if she's your girlfriend just laugh or scoff, say something like I never kiss and tell, no, I'm single. Where you are now is probably the best situation to be in. She'll work hard to keep you happy. If you actually gave in and said OK you're my girlfriend I'm not seeing anyone else, I bet she'd be a lot less sexy and fun to be around. edit: If you're seeing o… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 05:03 AM |
| 18 | Asked girl out and she said she wasn’t free but countered with another day but it wasn’t definitive, how to proceed?To me this sounds legitimate. She wants to meet up, doesn't know her hours yet on Monday. Just figure out when she gets off work and go make it happen. I don't see how meeting her when she's not working is entering her frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Slut friend of potential LTR100% chance. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Slut friend of potential LTREspecially if there is ever drugs and alcohol involved, and with the slut friend it's practically guaranteed. She will peer-pressure the "good girl" into "living a little bit" and "having fun". "Just this once." "He'll never know." "You're missing out." "How can you say unless you try it, come on." A couple of shots, a couple of bong hits, a couple of hookups with a couple of cute guys... God forbid the slut friend is doing lines of coke. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Slut friend of potential LTRThis is the right answer, for sure. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 03:07 AM |
| 5 | Plate is convinced another plate is a LTRInvite them both over at the same time for threesome. Problem solved. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 04:35 AM |
| 4 | Need help dumping GF - most painless way?You don't really have to do anything because she's already gone. I would tell her you don't have any time to be in a relationship right now because you're too busy but you still think she's sexy and if she wants to hook up once in a while that's fine with you. It leaves the door open for her to be your booty call, which is always nice. And ironically, if she takes you up on it, she'll start liking you a lot better because you've become the self-centered uncaring non-needy alpha jerk that girls l… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Why are lazy guys girls still with themDrugs or alcohol? A lot of drug dealers seem to live that sort of lifestyle. Or like other people have mentioned they could be shockingly good in bed or have crazy mad frame control. It is strange to see people punching above their weight class like that, makes you wonder what the story is. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 07:03 AM |
| 39 | How to politely reject girls hitting on me in my new workplace?The economy is good. Fuck all three of them and then get a different job if you mess up your current one. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with moral-religious hangups.I guess there are no guarantees in life, but if you're into one of the demanding religions that still respects marriage maybe you can find a nice virgin girl from the same faith and go be Amish together in some tight-knit religious community? On married red pill a couple of years ago they had some conservative Christian guy who basically lectured his whole church on Red Pill Philosophy without using any red-pill lingo, and everybody in Church loved him. Wives want a strong husband to lead the ho… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 05:41 AM |
| 9 | GF works and ‘hangs out’ with an exI personally wouldn't care that much. It's not like you think she's a virgin or anything. If you go to college and have sex with some girl, odds are she's going to have a class with some other guy she fucked sooner or later. I wouldn't take the LTR very seriously, just enjoy it while it lasts. She fucked one of her co-workers, she'll probably do it again sooner or later. Who knows how many other guys she has had sex with before, how many ex-boyfriends? If she wants to see an ex-boyfriend to chea… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 04:41 AM |
| -9 | Asked girl to come over and watch netflix and she said she's down but now she asked "is that all we're doing?""Netflix and chill." | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Can age be a cock block?Just say I'm OK with it if you're OK with it. Invite her over for a booty call like nothing happened. Maybe offer her a drink or something so that she can say she would never do anything with someone 4 years younger, unless he offered her a drink so it doesn't count because it just happened while you were drinking. You probably triggered her ASD. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 03:28 AM |
| 2 | The late 20s phaseI have a sure-fire solution for you. Just don't date girls older than 21 or 22. PROBLEM SOLVED! | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 06:38 AM |
| 29 | what is the difference between MGOTW and red pill? is MGTOW the stepping stone to swallowing the pill or is it truely a bunch of incels trying to make excuses?MGTOW is busy complaining about unfairness and injustice and how everything is rigged. TRP is lifting weights, making money, and getting laid. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:48 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with pain ?Make sure your diet is on point, and that you're working out hard. You might try moodgym - cognitive behavioral therapy free online site. If it is going on for months maybe try Wellbutrin or something. Depression is temporary. You'll come out of it. Just keep grinding. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:43 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with pain ?Get enough sleep? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 01:33 PM |
| 2 | What's the general psyche regarding a girl initiating plans then is the one to flake that same night? Just another variety of a shit test?She may be trying to play hard to get, to see if you'll fawn all over her and beg her or get jealous. Or she may just be flakey. Since she wasn't sure what time drinks were happening with you she may have done a bunch of bong hits with her girlfriend and now she kind of forgot what day it is. Hard to say until you get to know her better. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 12:40 PM |
| 1 | I majorly fucked my life up. How can I start anew?When you get the opportunity to move, move somewhere where nobody knows the old you. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Abundance problem?If you really want to blow things up just invite plate over for a threesome with wife. | /r/askMRP | 25/04/19 12:19 PM |
| 4 | Acting on Dread 1 and 2?Of course you should initiate sex. If it goes well, be more talkative and friendly and spend more time with her. If not, be friendly but less talkative and spend a lot more time out of the house doing your own thing. Mostly lifting weights. | /r/askMRP | 25/04/19 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Attitude to respect.The high-value thing is to be totally unfazed by it. If James Bond or Superman has some drunk retard calling him names, he doesn't hang around and get in an argument with the idiot. Just have security eject the guy. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 04:52 AM |
| 7 | The greatest pill. Ever. Tables are turning.Hey, everyone has to start somewhere. It sounds like you are well on your way. Hang in there! It can be a long haul, with good days and bad days. When you are in great physical shape with a new job you will be having sex again, with wife or with someone else. | /r/askMRP | 23/04/19 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Damnit - Infertility and MeIf your issue might be fixable, why not spend the next 90 days dialing in your diet to go off IBD treatment (lots of psyllium fiber?) and increase sperm quality, following whatever advice the fertility experts recommend. Clomid maybe? Then recheck your sperm quality and go IVF if you can. There is also something called a mini IVF that's cheaper and better for wife's health that might work for your situation. | /r/askMRP | 23/04/19 08:35 PM |
| 31 | Men Love Emotionally, Women Love Sexuallytldr; 100 trillion Zimbabwean dollars and crying will get your wife anal and a can of beans from your cruel mistress. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/19 08:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if a girl is letting you down easy?You could always try the super-direct approach and see where you are. "I'm totally hammered with a big project at work/school right now. I don't leave the lab until 11. Do you want to come over tonight?" If she's legit busy but into you she will take you up on the booty call. If not, it's a waste of time. Don't bother. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Are women more likely to be open about red flags to someone they wouldn't consider for a relationship?Yes, I think some women will be more honest with strangers than LTR partners. It's the same way people will confess things to taxi drivers. They don't think they're ever going to see that person again so they're more willing to admit to having [stolen money, lied, cheated... whatever]. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Noob question... Redpilled overnight? What happened?Just stay on the path. There will be good days and bad days. Don't let it worry you. Make sure you're putting your needs first and taking good care of yourself. When she's being crazy and bitchy just STFU or leave and don't let it get to you. | /r/askMRP | 22/04/19 10:19 PM |
| 2 | LTR - how to deal with 'other guy'Unless you personally are interested in group sex parties and orgies I would say that's a hard next. If you're bi-curious and that's your thing it's a different story. Edit: I think it's big problem that the sex party is some other guy's idea. If you want to take her to a sex party, you should be taking her to your own sex party where she is following your lead and your rules. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Toxic family, moving out, and inheritanceYou can't really depend on them to leave you anything, especially if they're abusive. I had a friend who took care of his senile father around the clock for years. Father had a reverse mortgage on the house, which was worth more than $1 million. Dude is practically homeless now. You have to live your own life. Another thought, you could spend 10 years helping them, and then they get pissed off because they don't like something (your religion, your girlfriend, your decision about who knows what) … | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 08:14 PM |
| 10 | Why do I not get shit testedAs long as you're getting whatever kind of sex you want, the relationship is going great. Enjoy it! | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Is it true my mindset “is going to change when I hit 30”? I wanna bang hoes for life I never want to settleActually if you stay in good shape you can pretty much bang hotties forever. Just ask Uncle Vasya. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it true my mindset “is going to change when I hit 30”? I wanna bang hoes for life I never want to settleFamily life is its own thing, with its own pitfalls and rewards. At some point you may decide that you're bored with the whole "game" and spinning plates etc. It's not the greatest analogy, but look how excited little kids are with toys, and they wonder why grown-ups don't buy a lot of toys. Your interests may change at some point. Raising children can actually be kind of fun, which was a surprise to me. I guess it's one of those things where you don't really find out how you're going to react t… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 07:14 PM |
| 14 | Plates situation with cuck boyfriend is making me a little uneasy . NEXT ?I wouldn't worry about it, OP. I met a married girl, 24 years old, who was at least an 8+; her husband was some surfer-looking dude who made $$$$, looked like a model, had big job partner in a firm, and he didn't fuck her once for the whole 4 years they were married. Not one single time. Didn't fuck her while they were dating before they got married, either. There are people out there with sham "marriages" like that. Dude could be gay, it's probably not even his kid. It's not your responsibility… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:06 AM |
| 45 | Girls with porn addicitionExactly, don't be fat and disgusting. Fixing that should be your top priority. It's bad for you in every possible way. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Average, how easy is it to cross into the 20%?Selfishness in men a core trait that women are attracted to. Basic red pill. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 02:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with existential crisis?You might try living an organized religious life for a while and see if you like it. Orthodox Judaism or Mormon or Buddhist or Amish or Hindu... Pick one that interests you and actually go to the community and actively participate. With that and lifting you should have the spiritual and physical boxes checked off. You're probably too intellectual and over-thinking things. Even if it's not for you, it might snap you out of the rut that you've been in and broaden your horizons a little bit. Travel… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 12:40 AM |
| 4 | My wife is interested in a threesome, results or regret?Reading is fundamental. OP's wife wants a threesome with a woman. Retards gonna retard, what can I say? | /r/askMRP | 18/04/19 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Average, how easy is it to cross into the 20%?It's very simple but it's not easy. Diet is probably 70%, lifting is 20%, and the remaining 10% is fixing your personality. The closer you are already, the easier it will be. If you're 6'3", selfish, and 20 pounds overweight and dress like a dork you just have to lose 20 pounds and stop dressing like a dork. The further away you are now, the more work you will have to put in. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 10:28 PM |
| 7 | My wife is interested in a threesome, results or regret?I never regretted having threesomes. (Haven't done it since married, though.) People on here are so negative. Sure, your wife may have cheated, so what. Having a threesome isn't going to change whether or not she cheated. NOT having a threesome just kind of makes you look like a pussy who can't handle it IMHO. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/19 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Update: I fucked up.This is the right answer. It's fucking up your relationships and ability to get laid. You don't need it in your life. It will fuck up your training and gainz, too. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Getting matches/numbers but lacking confidence to hang out with themThis is good advice. These girls are matching with you because they're looking to get laid and they think you're hot. That's how online dating works. You just have to meet up with them. If you're worried that you're going to fuck it up, just start with #8 on your list for practice and work up to #1. Not all of them will go great, some will, some won't. That's life. You just have to go do it. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 03:34 AM |
| 2 | She's pregnant- Were LTRDon't go beta, it will bite you in the ass. | /r/askMRP | 14/04/19 07:50 PM |
| 12 | GF hasn’t wanted oral sex in YEARS, suddenly wanted it one night?...yes, and crossing the street is a great way to get run over. We're doomed, so why get out of bed? | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 04:34 AM |
| 22 | GF hasn’t wanted oral sex in YEARS, suddenly wanted it one night?Probably because you haven't had oral sex with your girlfriend for three years. How the fuck is that supposed to sound like an exciting sex life? | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: Tinder success is a measure of real life dating successFirst of all, it's true that if your SMV is high enough you should do just fine on Tinder and in real life. I don't think that's so much of a "skull shape" thing though. If Chad gets a job and gets fat, like most of them do, all of a sudden he can't do shit on Tinder or in Real Life. Lots of guys are Chad in High School, played on the football team, and when they're 26 they're just washed-up fat losers who can't get laid. I do agree with you that most people who aren't getting laid would do a lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome severe approach anxiety?You could make it a point to interact with ten female strangers a day, with no intention of escalating the interactions. See cashier at store, say something about the weather. Standing in line to get food, see girl behind you in line, "I can't believe it's Friday already, this week went by so fast." Of course, most of these will go nowhere, but that's kind of the point. You're at least approaching, and it isn't killing you. Some of them will talk to you for a few minutes or be interested in you.… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:38 AM |
| 2 | In the process of installing dread, should I try to fuck my wife?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:27 AM |
| 8 | Reaching the "Saturation Point" for True AbundanceJust enjoy the being in love with the girl while it lasts. Maybe "true love never dies" but the experience of being in love is a temporary state like a beautiful day. If you do simp out and get all soft and beta it will all come crashing down and re-affirm your red-pill ways. If I were you I would spend the most time with the girl you like the best, and still see the other girls pretty often, but less often than your main girl. What you're doing now is working well. Keep doing what you're doing … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | What would you recommend for an emergency 'pick me up'?Pop some melatonin and go to bed early. Extra sleep will help you. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Useful language apps?Bringing it back to TRP, just find a hot exchange student who speaks your target language. You teach her sex and English, she teaches you target language and sex. https://www.thelocal.fr/galleries/culture/top-ten-tips-how-to-learn-french | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How to converse?This article is pretty good about how to carry on a conversation with a girl. http://marriedmansexlife.com/2014/10/boo-the-villians-cheer-the-heroes/ She wants to tell you about her day or her life, treat it like a sports event with popcorn. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 04:55 AM |
| 25 | Ex Girlfriend becoming close with New GFIf OP doesn't engineer a threesome out of this I will be disappointed in OP. "[Name of ex] thinks you're really attractive, we should have a threesome with [name of ex], when are we going to have a better opportunity?" Just invite them over at the same time and tell them what's going to go down. If things get weird with current gf after the threesome you can always get back together again with ex in this situation, they should be competing for you. Ex will be going out of her way to make sure sh… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 04:30 AM |
| 15 | Need Red Pill Advice in my marriage.You should post this over on askmrp. You should read everything on the sidebar here, and basically none of the stuff people do here has anything to do with your wife. You work on fixing yourself, and she either starts behaving better or not. Once you're done fixing yourself you have to figure out if you're better off with her or without her. The short answer is that if you fix all of your own problems there's no reason why she wouldn't put in more effort to keep you happy and be less interested … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/19 06:06 AM |
| 2 | I was getting outplayed at dinner and felt helpless to do anything about it.Don't "hang out" with girls you're not fucking. It's called being a "beta orbiter". She's not your friend, she's not interested in you. You need to go find some actual friends, these people who know her are not your friends, they see you as her beta orbiter. None of these people respect you. You should find a new girl to have sex with. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 05:55 AM |
| 0 | Fucked on first date - crying during sex - soft next?This is good advice. So far so good. Keep going until you're not enjoying it anymore. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I stop being negative.If your natural vibe is always negative you might be able to make a joke about it. When you find out your friends are going on a cruise ship you can say something like "I've always wanted to go on a cruise but I'm so negative I always think the boat will sink in a hurricane or something." Just make sure the tone is that you're laughing at yourself because you know you're Mr Negative and you don't take it too seriously. You might also try staying away from news and political topics that always ge… | /r/askMRP | 06/04/19 11:25 PM |
| 18 | When should I initiate?You should be initiating a lot and should have started a while ago. If you're not having sex with your wife you should be getting divorced. So, have sex with your wife. That means you have to keep initiating often. Who has your wife been having sex with for the last three months while you conduct your experiment? | /r/askMRP | 06/04/19 04:33 PM |
| 8 | Should I cuck this guy?There's no cuckoldry without marriage anyway. If this beta guy was her husband, you could think twice about it. Some random guy who "loves her" that she's not even fucking? Lol don't even think twice. Hit it. She was never his or it wouldn't even be coming up. For every beautiful girl there's 100 lonely guys who dream that they're her boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Should I cuck this guy?Unless you're friends with the beta guy you should have sex with the girl (assuming you like having sex with her.) It's not your job to help some random beta get laid, and he's not paying you anything and would probably get upset if you tried to red-pill him. If she wanted sex with him she'd be having sex with him and not you. She wants you not him. If you're not going to have sex with any girl who has some guy who likes her but can't get laid... you're making most of the desirable women on the … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?We Illuminati now! Good post. People are terrified at having the bubble of lies around them burst. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?My friend has learned to "spin plates" without any insight, and still has blue-pilled fantasies about NAWALT and unicorns and unconditional love, etc. So he's doing great if he's trying to be a player who hooks up and has ONS with Tinder Sluts. He's not doing so good at his stated goal of Finding the One True SoulMate who will love him unconditionally... Last time I checked in on Roosh V he was sad because he'd been de-platformed and he's sad because the endless hooking-up with sluts isn't keepi… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 11:29 AM |
| 13 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?I have a friend who totally slays with PUA but he is still surprisingly Blue Pill AF in his worldview: He's a "Male Feminist" who has gotten really good at hooking up on Tinder with girls half his age. When he betas out and they get sick of him he just finds new ones. "She's not THE ONE." It's almost comical. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 02:15 AM |
| 6 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?I was lucky that when I was 14 and got one-itis over a girl an older friend of mine who was in the Army explained that you have to be kind of a jerk with girls. If they think you're in love with them they turn on you. If people actually ask your advice you can go ahead and give them good advice. If your friend is fat you can always say something like "I used to be 40 pounds overweight and now that I've been lifting weights and [doing low-carb / stopped drinking soda / quit fast food] I feel ten … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 02:08 AM |
| 1 | 30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do?In my opinion if you're in an LTR that you're happy with and you're getting laid regularly then you're doing great! Much better than most guys with no sex and no girlfriend, or with a "girlfriend" who they only buy stuff for online. Your girlfriend must have a high opinion of you otherwise she would be with somebody else. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/19 02:01 AM |
| 14 | 30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do?There's probably a significant percentage of men who are too embarrassed to truthfully answer and say they had sex in the last year when they didn't. I'd bet the real numbers are even worse. And then there's another 10-20% who had to pay for it. Probably the top 10% of guys get laid on the regular, multiple times per week. Another 10% get it once in a while, and maybe another 10% get it rarely if ever. I'm pretty sure the bottom 60% just don't get laid unless they hire someone. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 04:39 AM |
| 3 | So I guess I need to figure out relationships. They’re a lot harder than they advertise...I have told her to stop doing specific things that particularly annoyed me, but that didn't stop her right away although I can't remember her doing any of those things lately. As she falls more into your frame over a matter of months or years most of those bad behaviors should fall away. Remember you generally want to be in a good mood all the time, and if she's crying like a 2 year old you can offer her a little comfort without letting it get under your skin. Her: "OMG the sky is falling! There… | /r/askMRP | 04/04/19 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Trying for second timeGo for it. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 01:06 PM |
| 5 | How to maintain tension with girl you see everywhere?If you're good looking you can do well being direct. If you're out on a date with her and you don't know how to kino properly, just honestly say "I really want to kiss you now" or "I really want to make out with you." Odds are she'll say something like "well why don't you" or just start kissing you. If she doesn't react well and says "Hell no, I thought you were my gay best friend!" you're doing yourself a favor and can bail out on the date because it was never going to happen. Odds are she'll r… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 01:01 PM |
| 8 | So I guess I need to figure out relationships. They’re a lot harder than they advertise...The main levers in LTR's are STFU, withdrawing attention, and dread. You want to reward good behavior. So when she's being sweet and sexy and charming and fun to be around, you want to be spending time having fun and sex with her. There isn't much you can do to "punish" bad behavior except withdrawing attention. So if she starts becoming a raging bitch and throws a tantrum or argues with your pointlessly, just shut the fuck up and don't take the bait. If she keeps it up leave and go to the gym o… | /r/askMRP | 03/04/19 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Starting my TRP and lifting journey. Am i doing this right?That's an aggressive cut, in my opinion. If you can stick to your diet and workout routine it will certainly work. You have a long way to go, but 1000 kcals is a big deficit. Certainly big enough. As for lifting, make very sure you're doing plenty of mobility work to protect your shoulders, ankles, knees, wrists etc. Joint "prehab" is very important so you don't get injuries. Be a real stickler for proper form. Chest out, back straight, etc. You're going to be at this for years so you don't want… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | [28/F] my bf purposely makes me feel insecure. Why does he do that? [30/M]Well, he sounds like a bad boyfriend but why are you posting this here? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/04/19 06:46 AM |
| 1 | “I miss you”You should at least try. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 06:45 AM |
| 11 | Where can I find the source code that programs women?//woman complete source code// //find hot guy for sex// While( state==alive; do find hot guy for sex;) //find rich guy for money// state==fucking hot guy on the regular; do find rich guy to buy things and fancy dinners;) //find beta orbiters// While ( State==smartphone on; do post vapid selfies on social media for attention;) ; //When compiled this produces object code that works on all platforms for all versions of woman.// | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Roast me so I can help myself.Anxiety and depression can be legitimate problems. It doesn't sound like the stay-at-home mom thing is really working well for your wife if you're having to clean the house while she watches TV. That's not good. Maybe she needs more direction from you. Tell her exactly what you want her to do and then compliment her on that? Kind of sounds like a "comfort test" more than shit testing. From the way you describe it, it sounds like your wife is bored out of her mind. If she's truly depressed like a… | /r/askMRP | 01/04/19 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Best book to read or advice after massive SMV gainsIf your SMV is high enough you don't have to say anything, your security guys can give backstage passes to the cute ones. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Do ltrs really work for anyone?If you get to the point where you feel the relationship isn't working for you anymore and you wish the girlfriend wasn't part of your life then you should part ways with her, but if she's keeping you happy then I don't see what's the rush. If you do get bored with her and you're not worried about losing her, you can always try to open up the relationship, too. "There's this girl at school I'm really attracted to, I want you to have a threesome with her." She may say, "I've always wanted to try t… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 04:44 AM |
| 5 | Is it normal that my roommate is hiding his gf and avoiding his roommates?It's not all that weird. Maybe the gf is super-shy, maybe she's some kind of freak that he's embarrassed to be seen with in public. I would just mind your own business and get a new roommate if it bugs you. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Do ltrs really work for anyone?Sometimes I think people on here are weird. "I have this car, it runs great. I love it. It's my favorite car. It has never let me down. I should probably get rid of it, right?" Seriously, WTF. Keep working on yourself, and if you're happy with your girlfriend in the meantime stop obsessing about it. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Best book to read or advice after massive SMV gainsWhen your SMV is high enough, and it sounds like yours probably is, the direct approach works just fine. You can literally just say, "wow, you look really good, come back to my dorm room and have sex with me." If you come too fast say, "wow, I came too fast, make me hard and let's try again." Girls who are into you and think you are hot will do whatever you want them to do to please you, so just tell them exactly what you want them to do. "Take off your bra." "Try to put the whole thing in your … | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 04:13 AM |
| 5 | How to get over my BPD ex?The answer to this is always the same. Go fuck ten other women GFTOW. There was a guy on here a couple of months ago who decided to do exactly that, and within 3 days he met some girl and got laid on the same day. He turned out to like the new girl he met a lot better than the girl he was heartbroken over. So you don't have to actually hook up with ten women to solve the problem, but the process of doing it will cure your heartbroken state. There are more women out there who are hotter and bette… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Got the commitment question after 6 months, I said no, now theres a problemSince you're not seeing anybody else anyway, you can tell her without lying that you're happy to be exclusively with her "as long as we both are willing." If you meet someone else that you want to fuck you can always tell her that, and try to make a threesome out of it first. If she doesn't want to go for that or if you're getting bored with her you can always legitimately tell her that you think it's not working out and that you should see other people. You don't have to lie or cheat or make an… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 03:40 AM |
| 7 | Where to go to find women who have a low body count? Or is that impossible in today’s day and age?I have had good luck in the past with Straight-A student types. You have to day game and cold approach. Girl sitting alone with a pile of textbooks: "Wow, differential equations, are you pre-Med?" You can do well if you can convince them that they should at least try sex, and that it won't fuck up their GPA. You need to be very not-needy and able to hook up with them around their academic schedule. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 03:24 AM |
| 4 | Drunk "wanna fuck later" text. Shit test?Opportunity may not knock twice. Get it while it's hot. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 12:22 AM |
| 2 | American men under 30 are getting less sexIt must be something in the water where you live. That hasn't been my experience, don't know what to tell you. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 05:39 AM |
| 4 | Daughter AdviceI'm not sure I completely understand your situation. Did you kick your wife out? Or you announced that you're leaving your wife and daughter and moved into a condo or something? Or your wife took your daughter and left for somewhere else? If you get your own (single) life completely back in order fast enough you could possibly get your wife and daughter to move back in or want you to move back in, especially if the wife's branch swing failed or you dumped her in the first place. Really you just … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/03/19 05:35 AM |
| 1 | American men under 30 are getting less sexOnce a week each with 3 girls sounds a lot better than only having sex once a week. I can see how that would be enough, but I wonder about what kind of girl only wants sex once a week who isn't married for 20 years... | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 05:25 AM |
| 0 | The age-old "I'm having lunch with my ex-boyfriend"It's hard to do anything here (other than not giving a shit about it) that doesn't seem like mate-guarding. I wouldn't ask about it. I wouldn't worry about it being a sexual thing unless he's objectively much hotter than you. By that I mean if you're rich and old and fat, and he's young and poor and in great shape or something like that. If that's the case you need to double up on your efforts to improve your physique and you're already in beta-bux territory. If she broke up with this guy becaus… | /r/askMRP | 31/03/19 05:19 AM |
| 1 | American men under 30 are getting less sexTo me that sounds like low libido, but I guess everyone is different? How are you having sex with multiple women each week but only once a week? You bring 6 of them over on Tuesday night or something? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 04:56 AM |
| 10 | American men under 30 are getting less sexIf you're doing one night stands, once a week is great. If you have a regular girlfriend or plates, not so great. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Beta Bux and Alpha FucksIt will be interesting to see if OP can keep the fast turnaround going. Fundamentally, though, if your only problem is that you're doing a few key things wrong, fixing those key things should get you fast and dramatic results. I've seen guys like OP before. Had a friend who was a successful local rocker, and had a good job, hot girlfriend who he married, good-looking, in-shape, tons of interest from other women and totally pussy whipped. Yes Dear, Yes Honey, I know Dear... I'm glad OP snapped ou… | /r/askMRP | 30/03/19 10:31 PM |
| 8 | American men under 30 are getting less sexThe "high scorer" category starts at once per week in this study, too. Once a week is not all that great unless you're a sailor at sea or a parish priest. It would be interesting to see what the numbers look like for the sexually successful people. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/19 10:00 PM |
| 7 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Can go for threesome too. Pretty high odds of success since she already had sex with you before and new girl is hot and right there and you're broken up all ready. Classic opportunity for "it just happened". Also sets her up to be friends with benefits later on when she is bored with new boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Going to UCLA this fall... What can I do to improve my game before College??I was just kidding but I'm sure OP the high school kid going to UCLA in the Fall would be thrilled. Hell, I'd take you up on it but I'm not going to UCLA in the fall. Might have to make a trip to the West Coast though :) Sounds like the plot of a movie. High school kid gets online buddy's older sister to show him around campus. There's a script in the making. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Going to UCLA this fall... What can I do to improve my game before College??Fuck, the least you could do is have your sister show a brother around. We family here. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 07:44 AM |
| 10 | Big and strong or lean and low body fat?210 6% BF is roids, and those guys probably do fine but you don't have to emulate them. You need to look like you work out and that you're in great shape. Not contest-ready body-builder. Anything over 14% body fat is too fat. 10% is probably ideal. 8% is hard for most people to maintain. Being very lean is rare, and should get you plenty of female attention. If you can be muscular and lean, that's even better. The moderately muscular skinny dude with abs will do better than the fat powerlifter w… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Don't Fucking Forget…[When you say Robert Smith angst, I don't know if you mean fat Robert Smith or hot Robert Smith from back in the day.] Great post! | /r/askMRP | 29/03/19 04:37 AM |
| 7 | Addicted to pornIf the guy keeps falling apart and thinking that he failed every time he relapses after cold turkey, then the "planned diet break" method works pretty well. Otherwise people tend to say "what the hell, I already failed, might as well just binge watch for the next 10 hours". edit: The people who can quit stuff cold turkey and walk away are rarely going online asking for tips saying "I keep trying to quit but I can't". | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 04:24 AM |
| 6 | Going to UCLA this fall... What can I do to improve my game before College??Hook up with ten girls at your high school before graduation? Most of game is approaching girls, being able to carry on a fun conversation, and not be a drag to be around. Your time is honestly better spent trying to be in peak physical condition, because it will make everything else much easier. If you're already in peak physical condition, read one or two books about game and you're golden. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 04:09 AM |
| 16 | How to respond when people apologize to you?If it's a minor thing, like somebody bumped into you, just say "no problem". If it's a serious thing, you could give a brief explanation of why it's a big deal. "Please be careful around the radiation machine, because it costs $800 thousand dollars and if it gets out of calibration, it could cause someone to die from cancer. You shouldn't be leaning up against it." "The gun in the drawer is loaded and you could blow your head off with it by waving it around like a toy." For most minor things tho… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 04:00 AM |
| 11 | High School Boys Create List Of Female Classmates Ranked By Attractiveness. Females Find Out And Go To Principle, Demand Apology.Instead of apologizing, he should help them looksmax themselves. Brenda, you're a 6, but you'd be a 7 if you stood up straight. Alice, you're a 8, but because you wear too much stupid make-up you're only getting rated a 5. He should charge them for tips on how to improve their ratings. $$$ money! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/19 03:54 AM |
| 21 | How to respond when people apologize to you?In general, if they're apologizing the proper thing to do is forgive them and move on. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 03:51 AM |
| 14 | Thought I was red pilled but just had my heart shattered, why did I get so invested?The standard player advice of "Go Fuck Ten Other Women" applies here. It's the only sure-fire known and proven cure for one-itis. Usually if you play it cool and actually GFTOW like you're supposed to, she'll probably come back around again. If she does, don't fall in love with her again. It's your turn, now it's someone else's turn, that's how this works. It's a cycle that repeats itself. Edit: When you say you had plates on the go, are these women that you actually had sex with? Or are you c… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Addicted to pornRather than try to eliminate it completely (which isn't working for you), why don't you just schedule it in to some time slot where it won't mess up your life. 6 pm to 7 pm on Monday or something. If there's some particular porn you want to watch you can just remind yourself that you'll watch it on Monday. Then just don't feel guilty about it anymore. You watched it when you said you were going to watch it. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 03:40 AM |
| 6 | How easy is it to get laid in NYC ?It's pretty easy. An old gf of mine said "I don't see how unattractive girls even get dates." There's a ton of model-looking women, and they're all competing with actual models. So many to choose from. There are a lot, a lot, of single women, and all of them are looking for a better deal than what they've got currently. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Do feminine women get more pleasure from sex?I was going to round it to 74%, but 73.9% is technically correct. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 10:20 PM |
| 65 | Saw a bro in the streets approaching girls today, feeling like shitAccording to Woody Allen (who historically banged a lot of hot women for a not-so-great looking guy), at least 50% of life is just showing up. The difference between you and the fat guy, is that he's actually out there doing it and you're talking about doing it. Go out there and chat up some hot women, and try to get their numbers or get them to go somewhere with you. You don't need super powers, you just need to overcome your fear of rejection. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants me to “rape” her. How do I go about this in a smart way?I would record the whole thing, video, keep it safe. "I want you to rape me now." You do? "Yes, right now!" "OK, I'm going to video the whole thing. If it gets too intense say Uncle and I'll stop. Do you consent?" "Yes, rape me now!" It's really the only way to protect yourself fully these days. FWIW I've never had any problems from girls who explicitly asked for rough stuff or fantasy rape. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do they give a long-winded explanation as to why they can't meet?That's a good point! | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Why do they give a long-winded explanation as to why they can't meet?She might just be busy. Clearly she's not truly infatuated with you or she would drop everything. I don't think she would bother with more than "Cant, busy." if she were not interested at all. If you still feel like it hit her up after Apr 7 and see what happens. Maybe her husband/bf is out of town then. Maybe she'll have finished her orchestra audition. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Girls are using my dick.Models by Mark Manson is good for this sort of thing. You need to figure out what you really want and then reject or disqualify most of the girls who would be willing to have sex with you but don't fit exactly what you're looking for. Instead of passing shit tests and hooking up, you'll be eliminating most of the girls you meet and go on dates with. Quality over quantity. It will at least give you some ideas to work with. I'm personally not convinced that this is a great idea compared to the sta… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Current LTR of two years almost never gives me head. Advice?A good time to try might be right after a shower. You can suggest 69, or just flat out tell her you want a blowjob. I doubt she'll have any problem with it, if she does, find out what the problem is. Maybe she hates pubic hair or something. Tell her what you want and see how it goes. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 06:34 AM |
| 27 | How does a young, inexperienced guy effectively absorb and utilize information on this sub without getting overwhelmed and overly analytical about every little thing.Suppose a guy with awesome game has sex with 1/3 of the women he approaches. (not likely) Suppose a guy with weak game has sex with 1/20 of the women he approaches. If you're reading anything at all and making an effort, you should do better than the guy with weak game, especially if your appearance is good. Now it just comes down to putting in the effort. Think of shooting free-throws in basketball. Nobody is scoring 100% of the time. Even somebody lousy can get the ball in the hoop once in a w… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 05:25 AM |
| 33 | How does a young, inexperienced guy effectively absorb and utilize information on this sub without getting overwhelmed and overly analytical about every little thing.Don't over think things. Approach a lot of girls. Ask them if they want to do something with you that you're going to do anyway. If they come along, try to escalate a little, hold hands, kiss, etc. If that's all going well you can just flat out ask if they want to come back to your room. Don't be mad if they say no. Some of them will say yes. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 05:12 AM |
| 12 | Possible oneitis and I feel retarded for it. Looking for advice/ opinionsGirl you never had sex with was never your girl. Find a girl to have sex with. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Ever notice how exorcisms in movies are solely performed on women and children?You could totally corner the market for adult male exorcisms. Nobody's doing it. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Are female friends worth it?Friends with benefits is OK. You can stay in touch with an ex for booty calls or whatever. I think the only way it works (being "friends with a girl") is if you're part of a couple or group and you do things with other couples, you can be friends with a group, but you wouldn't ever hang out with a woman (of the age that you could be having a sexual relationship with) one-on-one without there being some sexual relationship. If you're doing that you're basically a beta orbiter. edits: You can have… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 04:46 AM |
| 2 | What are some good Books and reading materials on game and seduction and developing itModels by Mark Manson is good too. If you're getting too many girls and want to go for quality over quantity. A high class problem to have indeed. Blackdragon's blog has lots of great stuff on it. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 04:35 AM |
| 3 | Current LTR of two years almost never gives me head. Advice?Are you letting her initiate sex all the time? If she's always taking the lead you need to tell her what to do. Your post doesn't make it clear if you're telling her to suck your dick, and she's saying no and refusing, or if you're having sex with her all the time, and she doesn't suck your dick because you've never asked for it or put it where it could be sucked. You need to tell her what you want her to do. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | aside from the main trp sub and the sidebar what are some other sources of good rp material?Blackdragon's blog has some great stuff. Also check out the side bar on married red pill, plenty of good books there, with some more information that helps in LTR's. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Moving in the right direction... seeing improvements in my lifeIn that case at 200 - 205 lbs you would probably look great. | /r/askMRP | 19/03/19 09:52 PM |
| 27 | You really can't make any mistakes with women when you're an average guy, can you?No mistakes here. You hit it and quit it. She got laid, which was what she wanted. You're not going to be her betabux (which is what you don't want anyway). It was your turn, I hope you enjoyed yourself. Now she's on to the next ride on the carousel. Your only mistake is in your head, that you're thinking of LTR with a 34 year old divorcee who is 7 years older than you. Have your fun with your cougar and let her go. There are plenty more where she came from, don't worry. The difference between y… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Moving in the right direction... seeing improvements in my lifeSounds like you're on the right path. 225 sounds pretty heavy for 6'1 though (unless you're a hardcore 'roid bro). I would bet that if you dropped 40 pounds and cut to 185 she'd be all over you most of the time. | /r/askMRP | 19/03/19 09:05 PM |
| 2 | AgeI don't think it's an age thing so much as you need to know when NOT to be an uncaring asshole. In general, you do best genuinely not giving a fuck about anyone's feelings. But if your girl breaks her ankle or is crying or is sick, it's OK to do something "sweet and nice" like Daddy would. Make sure it's something small and you're not spending a lot of money on it. Don't send a dozen roses, but it would be OK to bring her a balloon and a bag of skittles to cheer her up in the hospital or somethi… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Low SMV; What To Prioritize?Lifting, and just learn to say no, be clear about what you want, and pass shit tests so that you don't ooze niceness. Maybe pick up one hobby or interest like a sport. Don't worry about any of the money things, car, apartment, that kind of stuff is all betabux territory. Just keep your car and apartment clean. Don't put money into them. Just limit time with porn, masturbation, etc. You don't have to completely eliminate it, make sure it's not taking more than 20 minutes a week. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 04:53 AM |
| 7 | Huge fight with LTR, helpIt wasn't a legitimate debate, you said it was something inconsequential. Therefore you should not care about the consequences, and furthermore, you have no business debating inconsequential matters. Read "When I say No I feel guilty". He has a whole exercise he does with a class where they practice yelling silly things at a person until the student gets good at genuinely not caring what other people think. "Your shoes are too big." "You arrived 2 minutes too early." "You should have voted for a… | /r/askMRP | 18/03/19 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Huge fight with LTR, helpThe standard advice that works well for a woman yelling and screaming and being bitchy is to STFU. You can calmly wait for her to finish, if you think she's going to calm down; or if it's really bothering you you can politely walk away and go make better use of your time. It's a big loss of frame to get sucked in to the argument. Imagine you're an important person walking to your important place to go and some smelly bum in the alley starts insulting you, your religion, your parents, your clothe… | /r/askMRP | 18/03/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Wife gets overt and angry when I pass shit testsIt's possible to over-do the agree-and-amplifying. It sounds like you're still passing the shit tests which is good, but you could mix in a lot more STFU and fewer snarky comebacks and maybe do a little bit better. Imagine there were some stranger standing around when the wife starts being obnoxious. You don't ever want to be the one arguing with an idiot, because (as the old saying goes) a stranger can't tell who's the idiot. So make it your plan not to get drawn in to any pointless arguments. … | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How to admit to lying?I wouldn't mention it again. In the future don't bother lying about your age. Or just say you're over 21 or something. If you want to laugh it off with a stupid excuse if she ever finds out your real age (unlikely) just tell her that you've been claiming to be 21 since you're 14 so you could get into bars or something. Old habits die hard. You already slept with her, don't worry about it. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Will I be permanently affected by not getting women in my early years?You can overcome it. Friend of mine was total fat beta loser virgin until he was like 26? Then he had a little luck with a drunk girl at Mardi Gras, then he discovered PUA and got pretty good at game, then he lost a ton of weight and started working out all the time. Worked on his personality a lot, too. Now he slays on Tinder like it's nobody's business. If you knew him from before, you wouldn't even think it was possible. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 01:59 AM |
| 8 | As my awareness of TRP increases, paired with my physique bordering on ripped, it feels like life is entering easy mode. Is this all it takes to be in that top percent?>they are all terribly out of shape, half of them smoke on breaks, they all buy doughnuts and chocolate milks for lunch, dress poorly, and act noticeably more blue-pilled when any of the female classmates are nearby (agreeing with them, laughing at everything they say, smiling non stop, apologizing for petty things) The good thing about the Red Pill and the terrible state of the Western World is that it's still pretty simple to go from Average or Slightly-Below-Average to Way-Above-Average just … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 03:59 AM |
| 5 | Wife Checking on Where I AmHer checking up on you is a good thing. She sees you getting in shape, wearing new clothes, going out on your own... naturally she's going to wonder if you've got a young girlfriend or are having a "midlife crisis" or something. Keep your foot on the gas. If she's crying and losing sleep and convinced that you're cheating on her then you'd be wanting to apply more comfort. But if she's just asking her sister, "Hey, is he really out fishing with your husband? What are the boys really up to?" th… | /r/askMRP | 16/03/19 02:41 PM |
| 9 | Long term attractive women without oneitis for themYou might like blackdragons blog. He does multiple long-term open relationships. It seems to work for him. At some point you may decide you want to focus on family life, which is kind of fun in it's own right. You'll still need all the MRP tools to keep it going. Because of all the legal crap in the West you're probably still better off not getting married. But having kids and raising them can be a big part of life, and very fulfilling. But after 20 years your hot girlfriend or wife is not goi… | /r/askMRP | 15/03/19 12:22 PM |
| 10 | Would you rather have condomless sex 1-2x per week with one woman, or be free to have protected sex with a rotation of women?If you're swearing off other women for this girl, you better be having a lot of sex with her. Maybe every day is unrealistic, but I'd be going for multiple times per day most days per week. Quickie in the morning, maybe longer at night. 1-2 times per week is way low for a girl you're being exclusive with. Even if it's not "sex" every time you should be making out with her a lot and having a lot of fun with her. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 04:21 PM |
| 13 | Is there nothing we can do?Times are changing. Look at the "Get Woke, Go Broke" trend. Feminism and the crap you're talking about is getting passe. People are sick of it. Don't get depressed, obviously. Get in great shape and be in the top 10 or 20%, you'll do fine. The social trends are cyclical. Look at the free-love hippies of the 1960's. 20 Years later we had Reagan and the Soviet Union fell apart... these things come and go. I would bet money that in another 5 or 10 years the normies will be as sick of all this crap … | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 05:24 PM |
| 8 | UCSF administers puberty blockers and hormonal treatment to gender dysphoric kids 8-12 turning young boys (and girls) into happy trans kidsI wonder if you can send a woman in to get testosterone for you just like a sixteen year old has a homeless guy buy him beer? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/19 09:06 PM |
| 7 | UCSF administers puberty blockers and hormonal treatment to gender dysphoric kids 8-12 turning young boys (and girls) into happy trans kidsI was wondering if that would actually work. If you claim to be a F to M transsexual, do they challenge you and call you out or just give you your script for testosterone? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | 63kk job ( 5 min commute) vs ( 72k job ( 45 minute commute )Keep the current job. The extra time is more valuable than the extra money. It's not worth it to switch. Wait for a better opportunity. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/19 11:50 AM |
| 3 | What exactly does MONK MODE mean?It's like checking yourself into rehab without the rehab and 12-step programs. Basically you swear off all your vices for a while and spend all your time on self-improvement. Don't watch porn, don't try to get laid, don't overeat, quit smoking, quit drinking, lift weights religiously, adhere to strict diet, don't spend money on frivolous things, don't play video games, etc. Your whole life revolves around work, diet, exercise, and lifting weights. Once you've hit your goals or fixed your problem… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 11:55 PM |
| 8 | Working out and lifting after 40If your testosterone is at all low, fixing it will have a huge impact. Either through TRT or AAS. If you're natty and haven't plateaued, I would say keep going with what you've been doing. Make sure your diet is on point. Vitamin D, DHEA, maybe pregnenolone, lecithin, pygeum, B-vitamins, vitamin C, arginine, citrulline. I like Now Sports for supplements but I'm sure there are other brands that work fine. Post 40 I lifted hard for a year and plateaued, with sleep and diet on point, then kept lift… | /r/askMRP | 05/03/19 04:17 PM |
| 3 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.As long as you're getting what you want from her, I wouldn't worry about the beta chumps showering her with gifts. I had a gf for a couple of years who worked at a bar as a cocktail waitress who literally had thousands and thousands of guys giving her business cards, multiple stacks of cards that could have filled a dozen rolodexes. I'm sure they all wanted to have sex with her, and I doubt any of them ever did. Spending thousands of dollars on bottle service to try to impress. When you go out w… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | She said she's bipolar...Bipolar is manic-depressive (the old name for it.) When she's in a good mood she's hypersexual and has lots of energy (maybe even to the point of being nuts.) When she's depressed she wants to kill herself. If she's out on the town she's either got it under control or she's manic. If you are going to do anything with her, hit it and quit it. Maybe have a threesome with one of her hot bi friends. Don't expect it to be a LTR. Or you could follow the traditional advice about "Never stick your dick … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 05:42 AM |
| 20 | Discipline is freedom. How Do I get disciplined (EC help)?Lifting weights will help a bunch. If you're religious about going to the gym and strict about maintaining your diet, you've already won half the battle. The rest of it is maintaining frame, being honest with yourself and other people about what YOU want, and avoiding distractions. If you don't keep a calendar, you should start, that helps too. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Is it ever ok to open up to Women?This is the right answer. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 03:20 AM |
| 3 | The final proof TRP is workingUnless you're convinced she's going to give you some deadly disease you should certainly hook up with a girl you're into when given the chance. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/19 07:34 PM |
| 59 | Is it ever ok to open up to Women?As long as the story ends on some kind of positive note where you became a stronger person you can probably admit to having had negative feelings in the past. "My stepfather was a drunk and used to beat me when I was 9 years old. That's why I vowed to lift weights and join the Marines and decided never to drink." Or, "I was so sad when my mom died that I was miserable, and I had to do everything around the house and take care of my little sister. I will always fight to protect the people I love.… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 02:21 PM |
| 129 | Is it ever ok to open up to Women?It's probably OK to say something along the lines of "I had to deal with a bunch of bullshit but it's all taken care of now." In general you want to be in a good mood and confident that you can handle everything. Expressing any genuine worry or concern to her is a bad idea, as she may think you're weak or unstable or out-of-control. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go now?If you want LTR strategies try the married red pill sub. The problem with long term relationships is you need to balance comfort and dread, and the moment you make them too comfortable they'll turn on you. If you're in a Western country like USA you're probably a lot better off just spinning plates and enjoying the player life. The deck is stacked against you if you're going for family life in the Western world these days. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 04:59 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with an ex reaching out to you after you broke up with her a few months ago?Depending on why you broke up with her, just tell her that you've been really busy lately and aren't looking for anything serious, but if she wants to hook up for old time's sake, that's cool. There are crazy girls who are not that much fun to hang out with but who are great in bed. If she's one of those, take the free sex. I had one artist gf/plate I really like who is into political activism (totally different politics from me but she's sincere about saving the world.) Lots of fun to have sex … | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 05:44 AM |
| 7 | Can you realistically mitigate oneitis?The time-honored cure discovered by players from around the world is to Go Fuck Ten Other Women. GFTOW. It actually does work. But being in love is a nice feeling. Enjoy it while it lasts. I remember being a teenager, with my high school girlfriend, and we were walking into a movie. Some old lady saw us and said "Oh to be young and in love again." There's a Buddhist concept too, that all relationships are temporary, and all life is temporary. Maybe that's too deep, but when you start a new rel… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Why should I tolerate any women flaking on me/standing me up even once if there are plenty of women out there that wont do either?I had one LTR girlfriend who was super-hot and also kind of flakey. She couldn't show up on time somewhere to save her life but she was pretty reliable in the sense that she would show up, always DTF etc. Lots of fun to be around. Anyway, you can save yourself a lot of trouble by never meeting her in a place that is difficult for you. For example, never say "I'll pick you up at 3:45 pm at the corner of 1st and Main outside your building" because then you're stuck waiting with nothing to do until… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 10:25 PM |
| 2 | When starting an LTR (yes, I know this is ill-advised), how do you explain it to your plates in a way that maximizes your chances of getting them back after the LTR ends?I wouldn't say anything to anybody. If your LTR is still there 3 years from now, she was an LTR. If she is gone in 3 weeks she was a plate. Girls you date don't need to know about each other unless you're having threesomes. You haven't promised exclusivity to anyone, don't go talking about your other relationships. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 10:08 PM |
| 8 | What to say when a girl mentions her working out?Her: "my core hurts ow" You: "I'm going to come over and massage it." Easy invitation to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 09:55 PM |
| 9 | Are you trying to become Chad? Or where you him all along?I think red-pill is a lot easier to swallow if you always used to be Chad without knowing it. If the only reason you became "bluepilled" was that you were trying to be on good behavior and be a good boyfriend to sustain an LTR or marriage it's easy AF to go back to your natural alpha behavior. The guys who were naturally beta have a lot more work ahead of them. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?If the guy is (used to be) a good friend I would probably try to talk to him and express some concern. Just like you would if the guy were becoming a drunk or getting addicted to a drug and didn't realize he had a problem. But if he doesn't want to hear it then you can cut him loose and at least you tried to do the right thing. It's pretty common for this to happen to guys. I have had a couple of my friends go that route. Ultimately you never see them because they're not allowed to leave the hou… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:35 PM |
| 17 | Be a shitty alphaThe perfect is the enemy of the good. If you're a fat fuck, you don't need a perfect diet and exercise plan, you just need a non-retarded diet and exercise plan and stick to that. Too many guys get bogged down in details, how do I respond to this or that, etc. Get the big things right and the major pieces in place. You'll be on the right path. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Now imagine being her and being married to a man she doesn't find remotely attractive?Some guys run "clue" and swear by it. I've never tried it. There was some free app called habit bull that was pretty good. You put in goals, It pops up reminders on your phone and then you check off whether or not you met your goals kind of like Stronglifts 5x5. You can put in stuff like cold approach 3 women, or run 2 miles, or whatever you want. All of those "self-improvement" apps are useful to a point if you don't over-do it. | /r/askMRP | 24/02/19 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Now imagine being her and being married to a man she doesn't find remotely attractive?As long as you don't let her know you're doing it, I think it's a good idea (or at least worth doing for a while). There's guys who don't get laid who only initiate every three weeks (and then wonder how come they never seem to get laid or only have sex 6 times a year.) If you're initiating 12 times a week and having sex 8 times a week, that's a lot better than once a week or twice a month with no denials. Even though it's a geeky thing to do, there's a lot of truth to "what gets measured gets m… | /r/askMRP | 24/02/19 04:03 PM |
| 2 | how to build a meaningful life from scratch?If you get in good shape you can get laid as a philosopher with no money no car and no job. Lots of beach bum / surfer bro guys do really well with women. Fix diet, sleep, and training right now. Drop or cut way back on porn and games. You could find some kind of part time job that you don't hate. Maybe be a tutor for philosophy or English or something. Or figure out how to become a bartender. Instead of trying to change everything at once, just make small changes. Get a job at a bar for 4 hours… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Guys 30+ who get girls in their young 20s, where do you meet? How do you initiate?There are lots of 18+ girls working service industry jobs. Cute girl behind the counter at the movie theater, coffee shop, mall retail, etc. When it's slow you can just chat them up, get date or phone number. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Long time Red Pill Lurker, first time poster. Inspired by Rian's talk.Stop worrying about the soap. Don't binge play games. Just let her send the package and be done with it. Just focus on your job and your lifting. Try to initiate sex more often and don't get involved in stupid arguments. If she's giving you a hard time about something just STFU. You need to go ahead and read all the books on the sidebar. | /r/askMRP | 24/02/19 05:06 AM |
| 4 | Did I marry an alpha widowYour situation doesn't sound that bad. Yes, probably she's still attracted to the old boyfriend or at least how he was 15 years ago. If you have weight to lose, and need to up your game, and get in great shape... you should do it immediately. That stuff is all an RP no-brainer. Any self-improvement you do is only going to help your relationship and give you more options if your relationship ever heads south. Better late than never, get started immediately! | /r/askMRP | 24/02/19 04:54 AM |
| 4 | Every girl I meet is fucking damaged in some way. Where do you guys find girls that are LTR-potential? Seems impossible in my late 20's to find a decent girl.It's not easy. You could try to go for some girl who has never dated before. Sometimes the straight-A student is so focused on school that she never went to the prom. The problem with girls like that is they may be so serious about their studies that they don't have much time to hang out and have fun. Girls in medical school and top PhD programs might suit you. They won't fall into your lap. You have to go out and find them. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Men who don’t drink alcohol. How do you meet new friends ? Do you still go out? Do women act different towards you ?I agree with this. Being sober around people who are drinking is game on easy mode. Who's more likely to pull the hot girl? The guy slobbering and slurring "I thhhhink youoooo're hawt" or the player who brought his A game? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Want to game women but not enough money for dates or time to work? Thoughts? (I'm a high schooler)I think you need to broaden your focus from one particular girl to women in general. The betas compete by having more money and showing their provider skills, which sounds like it still might actually work in your country. (Which country are you in?) You're not trying to play that game, so your "value" is that you're in great physical shape, think very highly of yourself, are lots of fun to be around, and come up with exciting and interesting things to do that don't cost money. Like go walk to s… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 09:22 AM |
| 4 | Want to game women but not enough money for dates or time to work? Thoughts? (I'm a high schooler)Skip the dating and just go for hookups. You can walk home from school with her for free. Visit her at her house when her parents aren't home. Go make out on a park bench. You need to find some girl who you like who thinks you're hot. You don't have to spend a penny. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Does wrinkle cause erectile dysfunction or penis sensitivity issue due to over masturbation?I seriously doubt it, but if you're really concerned have a doctor look at it. To me it sounds like you're overly worried about your dick. If it gets hard and you don't have an STD, what's the problem? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Does wrinkle cause erectile dysfunction or penis sensitivity issue due to over masturbation?Stop doing Meth and quit masturbating so much. I'm sure your dick will recover in a week or two. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Matched with a girl in my class who I sit next to every day but have never spoken a word, what should I say?I don't think so. Never having talked to her makes you sound "not thirsty". Why would you go and talk with her when you have a million other people to talk to. Now that you guys matched on Tinder, you actually have a reason to hook up with her. Beta guy would be buying her flowers, trying to help her with her homework, telling her how pretty she is all the time, etc. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 08:50 AM |
| -2 | Matched with a girl in my class who I sit next to every day but have never spoken a word, what should I say?Hi, we matched! Want to come over to my dorm room tonight at 8? I have half a pizza and I'm going to watch Spiderman. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Narcissistic parents, bad grades, nearing financial deathI think you're better off quitting school than staying in and getting bad grades. If I were you I'd try to take a year off, and focus on getting the best grades you possibly can this current term. Go talk to the school's counsellor / academic advisory and say you're having family problems right now and need to take a semester off, also you're very worried about your current grades, maybe they can let you take a couple of incompletes instead of getting bad grades. Then focus on getting your grade… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 07:12 AM |
| 7 | Are there really women with intrinsically weaker sex drives or is that bullshit?It's mostly bullshit. Sex drive is a basic human drive like eating food. Maybe there are a few mentally ill people who will starve themselves to death. Under the right circumstances with the right guy, most women will become horny "high libido" sex-loving horndogs. Drugs can mess up sex drive just like they can suppress appetite for a while. If you're with a girl with a bunch of mental problems who claims to have no sex drive, you should probably move on to the next girl rather than trying to fi… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 06:10 AM |
| 185 | Red Pill Men who don’t drink alcohol. How do you meet new friends ? Do you still go out? Do women act different towards you ?Just go to the same bars or parties or whatever and don't drink alcohol. You can tell the bartender you're the designated driver and tip him a few bucks. He'll be happy to let you drink water for free all night. Get the same cups or glasses or whatever everyone is drinking from and fill it with water. You don't have to tell anybody you aren't drinking tonight. You also don't have to tell them you never drink. If somebody is actually trying to hand you a bottle of whiskey or something and pour it… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Shit tests turn me offWell, I know what you mean. But, that's just the way it is. If you want to live in LA, you have to deal with traffic jams. If you want to go duck hunting, you have to get up at 4 in the morning and go hide in the woods. If you want to go eat in a fancy restaurant you have to tip the waiter and pay the bill. Want to lift heavy weights, you're going to get calluses on your hands. You're married to a woman. It's her nature to shit-test. If you want to stay married and enjoy sex with your wife, yo… | /r/askMRP | 23/02/19 04:15 AM |
| 7 | Why do they hide the truth ?I think a lot of problem is "white knighting" by beta males. Universities used to be almost all male. I'm sure back in those days people talked honestly about women. As soon as they started admitting women, they started changing the curriculum and lectures to be "less offensive." And then, it gradually devolved to the situation we have today, where you can probably be thrown out of school for saying "I believe children should be raised by two parents, a man and a woman". Now everyone is expected… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/19 07:56 PM |
| 31 | Day 0 of Swallowing the pill after my wife mocked me - Is my marriage salvageable?The short answer is probably, yes. But nobody knows for sure until you fix yourself. Don't worry too much about sex or the marriage right now. Your priority is to get in the gym and lift and go on a cutting diet for the next 6 months or a year until you're under 15% body fat. Both lifting and diet are super-important, but diet is more important since you're fat. Keto / Low Carb diets work well for a lot of men. You should probably start immediately. If you lose a pound a week you'd be back at 18… | /r/askMRP | 21/02/19 04:48 AM |
| 2 | [FIELD REPORT] 1st time "shotgun" cold approaching at huge outlet mall. Lots of revelations. Got 2 #'s out of 20+ approaches.Upfront is good, nothing wrong with it when it works. Watch XXX on TV tonight is fine too. Pretty much guaranteed make-out or lay unless it's some really great TV show and her TV is broken or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 12:43 AM |
| 7 | How do you guys deal with starfish sexCaveman. Use her to get your sexual needs met. Tell her exactly what to do or position her like a barbie doll. Some girls are just bad lays though. I had one plate/non-exclusive gf who was stunningly gorgeous, and shockingly bad in bed. Great blowjobs though. Fun to hang out with, great sense of humor, very willing to please, great attitude, but just a really bad lay. I wouldn't have believed it if I hadn't experienced it myself. One of my close friends ended up fucking her too, and compared not… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Sick feeling that LTR of 5 years has cheated. How I do I deal with this?For LTR stuff you might try the married red pill sub. The answers are the same. Pretty much you need to lift, lift, lift, and lift. And then you need to not worry about what she thinks and make sure that your needs are getting met. And probably in a situation like this where you know she cheated you should find a new girl. From a TRP perspective you need to get in really good shape and fuck other women. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Being too friendly/invitingNo, I read it on paperback. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Being too friendly/invitingYou can be a friendly guy, and easy to get along with, but when you say no to something you don't have to go explain your reasons and you can just be firm about it without apologizing etc. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Being too friendly/invitingRead When I say No I Feel Guilty. Just have a hard edge and say no when you want to. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 08:02 AM |
| 5 | She asks for advice. How to respond?I would tell her exactly what you want. Wear pink nail polish tomorrow. Do your hair this way. Put on that lipstick. Wear these shoes. It sounds like she wants you to tell her what to do, have her do what you want her to do! | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Where to position myself to maximize the volume of my exposure to women between the ages of 18-21?If that doesn't work you can be like Harvey Weinstein and start a modelling agency / production company. jk For sure there will be some pretty girls at the local community college. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 07:15 AM |
| 5 | Where to position myself to maximize the volume of my exposure to women between the ages of 18-21?If you have friends in colleges or universities (grad students or profs or whatever), there are always a ton of 18-21 year old women there. So go hang out with those friends or go take a comedy improv class or some cheap extension class on some campus with beautiful women or just eat in the cheap places that are popular with students there. Another thing you can do is if you have a friend who is slaying on Tinder or online dating with that age group, just hang out with him and his Tinder hookups… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 07:04 AM |
| 12 | [FIELD REPORT] 1st time "shotgun" cold approaching at huge outlet mall. Lots of revelations. Got 2 #'s out of 20+ approaches.I wouldn't chat over text. I would structure it more like "I'm doing X at 7pm tonight, do you want to come?" Whatever X is doesn't matter very much. "My roommate is making pizza tonight and we're going to watch Spiderman on TV, you want to come over?" Make sure it's some specific thing, even if it's lame. It's still a lot better than, Hey Jane, this is John. Do you want to get together some time or go on a date? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 06:47 AM |
| 27 | It fucking stings.This is excellent advice. Great reply! I never really thought about it before but one of the advantages of plates over LTRs is that it doesn't matter if they "cheat" because you're seeing other girls already and you weren't expecting them not to. You avoid the whole thing of feeling like you've been stabbed in the back, betrayed, and lied to | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Girl goes from obsessed with me to radio-silence. Soft next?If you want to hit it again it's worth it to hit her up. You don't need any excuse. You were busy with midterms, finals, training, rock climbing, some girl name Lulu, doesn't matter. See if she wants to come over and have sex. She can say no, but then you're no worse off. She might say sure. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 06:06 AM |
| 1 | #1 plate had other guys bring her flowers on valentines dayHe's doing all the work, and you're the one getting paid. That's a red-pill lesson for you right there. The poor chump who spent a hundred dollars buying flowers is masturbating while you're over there fucking the love of his life in front of the flowers he sent. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for isolating?Other side of the room, fresh air, balcony, get something to eat across the street, are all good excuses. If you have a friend with you you can bring 2 of the girls from the group to go with you and your friend (to go eat something or whatever.) Then usually it's pretty easy to leave with girl if she is going to leave with you. Friend can leave with other girl, or you can leave the two of them together to go somewhere else. Any true excuse will work. It's too loud here. It's too hot. It's too da… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 05:00 AM |
| 6 | Am I not meant to be sarcastic?Some cultures and audiences don't "get" sarcasm. I find a lot of British and boarding-school people tend to use and appreciate irony and sarcasm a lot. If you're in a different part of the country or world and you find people aren't getting your humor, you either have to adjust your humor or find new people to hang out with. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 04:43 AM |
| 24 | [FIELD REPORT] 1st time "shotgun" cold approaching at huge outlet mall. Lots of revelations. Got 2 #'s out of 20+ approaches.If you have money for it, you might try becoming a regular at some spot where there's lots of girls in whatever demographic you're going for. Tip the waitress an extra buck each time. Like a cheap restaurant / diner / dessert place with a bar or coffee shop attached where lots of students hang out. You should have a couple of single guy friends you can hang out with. It will give you a base of support for your operations, and more practice just hanging out and having fun without having an agenda… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 04:26 AM |
| 8 | Girl goes from obsessed with me to radio-silence. Soft next?I would just move her to the back-burner / injured reserve list. Don't act like you noticed or cared. Go out with other people. Hit her up again in a couple of weeks or a month again like nothing happened. She probably got laid in the interim, who cares. Hopefully you did too. It's not like you were married. Just be busy with everything else going on in your life, odds are pretty good that you can keep spinning her as a plate for a long time, until you get bored with her. Edit: Hey, I see this… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 04:05 AM |
| 7 | One rejection and I'm feeling de motivatedIf you want to ride the bike, you have to get back up on the bike when you fall off. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 03:51 AM |
| 14 | [FIELD REPORT] 1st time "shotgun" cold approaching at huge outlet mall. Lots of revelations. Got 2 #'s out of 20+ approaches.First of all it sounds like you did OK. There's nothing wrong with getting two numbers in a day. (Are they real?) Secondly, you might try just making it a habit to chat up girls randomly, and then only ask for the number if the conversation seems to pick up a little bit or you get some kind of IOI (indicator of interest.) If you talk to 5 or 10 random girls per day, you probably don't have to alter your daily schedule at all. Then you might only ask for numbers a few times per day and still pick… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/19 03:47 AM |
| 5 | Haven't had sex in eleven yearsStop turning down opportunities when they present themselves. You can certainly get laid without paying for it as a relatively tall, in-shape guy with a decent face. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 02:54 AM |
| 2 | I *think* I’m a plate?Depending how long awhile is, and on how old you are and how old he is and what "phase of life" you're in and he's in, you could start talking about your own attitudes towards children and having a family, etc. If the guy is 35, and he just bought a house, and you're 23 your odds are probably a lot better than if the guy is 21 and he just moved in to a house with 7 guys from his frat, and he's considering doing a semester abroad, and you're 25. How often are you seeing this guy? If you're hookin… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Why women lie they are virgins?Depending on what culture or community you're from or dating in, they may think it's a deal-breaker for you if they're not "virgins". | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Just got done with date, I realize she didn’t hit me with a single shit test.Should try to hook up with her after the exam tomorrow. Some girls are shy in person and wild in the sack. Some are just not very bratty-flirty but still DTF. Some are polite and well-mannered and maybe just not into you at all but don't say anything. You really have to try to escalate with her and see what happens. You won't find out until you try. Worst case is she wants nothing to do with you. Best case is she's like "Thank god you called me, get over her NOW!" | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 11:33 PM |
| 5 | Just got done with date, I realize she didn’t hit me with a single shit test.You should try to hook up with her. That's how you find out if she's thrilled to be with you and thinks you're amazing, or just not shit-testing you because she's eager to go home and do homework and play with her phone. Don't assume you screwed up and talk yourself out of getting laid. Find out where you stand. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Appropriate steps to move Plate to LTR?See her every night of the week... start sleeping in her bed every night... move your shit into storage and stop paying rent.... red flag would be living in a state with common-law marriage. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Next the plate?Unless she completely lied to you and swore she was a virgin, wear condoms, take the antibiotics, and continue on as if it didn't happen. Some huge percentage of college girls have or will have chlamydia. I doubt you're any more likely to catch something from her now than from the next girl. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 10:55 PM |
| 0 | When the woman is acting like the man in the relationshipHallelujah, and pass the ammo! | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:37 PM |
| -1 | When the woman is acting like the man in the relationshipIf the guy is getting his needs met from the relationship, then that's pretty much it from a TRP perspective. If he's a kinky dude who wants his girl to play with his ass, who are we to judge? Sounds like he's doing great, found a girl who's into his kink. There's nothing in red pill that says you're not allowed to find a girl who is taller than you are to eat your ass. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:36 PM |
| 5 | When YouTube Red-Pills the Love of Your Life - MEL MagazineDo you really think there is a guy in this story, or do you think the author watched a few youtube videos and decided to write an article about a "woman" (not her real name) and a "boyfriend" she imagines would be the type to watch these videos . | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | When YouTube Red-Pills the Love of Your Life - MEL MagazineWell, I made it past sitting in the dark closet to "Master of Psychology" and had to stop reading there too. I don't think I'm missing anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/19 08:13 PM |
| 19 | Why do I attract BPD girls like flies on shit?I used to have a "theory" that a high percentage of the available women are crazy, because the relatively sane and stable ones get into relationships that last for say on average 2 years (making up numbers here), and maybe they have random hook ups twice a year. The crazy ones who look hot get into a new "relationship" every week, and maybe have a random hookup a few nights a week. So even if the crazies are only a small percent of the total population, they're a very high percentage of the girl… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Do majority of women really desire casual sex?If an opportunity presented itself where some clean, beautiful, sexy girl, who smelled great and was really into you and laughed at your jokes really wanted to have sex with you today and you knew you could do it without being caught and there would be no consequences... would you want to do it? Of course they want it. It's like running into a billionaire who is handing out $500 cash grants to anybody he meets, no strings attached. Would you want the free money? Hot guy is offering them free sex… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 06:10 PM |
| 4 | I'm having a hard time being my true masculine self. I need some advice from people with this shit figured out. My question is kind of specific but any advice is appreciated!Maybe try broken record technique. Just memorize a few one-liners or canned responses and stick to them. If they keep prying, just repeat them word for word. "After my old job as a bouncer and debt-collector, I got tired of throwing drunks out into the alley, so I decided I wanted a change and chose this career so I could help disabled folks." Tell me more... "I didn't like my old job so I decided to train for a new job." Oh so how come you chose this job? "After my old job as a bouncer and debt… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Have any of you guys ever wondered how discussing TRP with parents or a therapist would be received? Have you had that convo? If so, was it regarded as crazy?All moms are like that :) | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 07:09 AM |
| 27 | Have any of you guys ever wondered how discussing TRP with parents or a therapist would be received? Have you had that convo? If so, was it regarded as crazy?Never talk about Fight Club. Just don't use any red-pill lingo and everyone will agree with it. I've decided to get in really good shape because my health is important to me. I have to focus on my own needs first right now. Before I commit to anyone, I want to date a variety of people. I got too involved in a bad relationship in the past and got hurt, so I've decided not to get so deeply involved right away... I over-invested in a previous relationship and discovered that even though I was faith… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Advice for self-made 18M college studentUnless you suffered from an industrial accident and lost half your face, I don't personally think you have any business seeing escorts. Ask girls in your classes to hang out with you. Invite them back to your dorm. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 12:55 AM |
| 25 | Why do so many girls lie and say "I literally never do anything/I have no friends"?I always treat that as an invitation to have them come join you. "What are you up to?" Nothing. "Come watch me play hockey tonight, you can hang out with me after the game." | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 11:45 PM |
| 9 | Been trying to manage Red Pill awareness with my life, need some help on how to proceedLift weights, and get your body fat percentage down. No matter what kind of personality you have, you're going to have better luck with women and a better life in general if you get in really good physical shape. It's probably the single biggest thing you can get from TRP. When you look good people treat you a lot better. Period. Your posture will be better, people will judge you as being better at your work, etc. As you see from the fake Tinder profile experiments you can literally be an idiot … | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 11:31 PM |
| 9 | Question about girlsCan be a million reasons for stuff like this. Wants to see if you freak out and beg her to come back Got an F on a test and realizes she has to study this week or get kicked out of school Got drunk and swears off partying for a week Falls in love with Daria the Lesbian and decides to become a lesbian, then reassesses When it happens just note that she's flaky and scratch her off the list of potential serious girlfriends, but leave her on the booty-call list. Hook up with her when she's available… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Got accused of sexual assault/rape. How to proceed?No charges filed because this is bullshit and she's on the record saying nothing happened. Forget about it and move on. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Can anyone explain the phenomenon of the couple that has been together since high school?Wife is probably getting plenty on the side if the dude is truly beta. Husband may be getting escorts or just not getting laid for years. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 07:35 AM |
| 7 | Ways to self improve.Play a sport. Learn chess. Ask some girls you like to hook up. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 08:49 AM |
| 4 | The "All your other girls" shit testWhen a girl thinks you are a player who is drowning in pussy, I've never seen that be a bad sign. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 08:47 AM |
| 8 | Is there anything I can do to help out a case of vaginismus?I have been with a couple of virgins and non-virgins like this. There's actually a ton of fun sex stuff you can do that isn't PIV. And they make dilators that she can get to help make you fit inside her if that's what you want to do. Assuming you like her and want to keep her around, you can get some teeny tiny vibrator that will fit, and gradually work up to larger sizes... As for fun sex stuff, here's your chance to play Barbie with her, have her dress up and model for you however you want… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 08:10 AM |
| 16 | Kicked a girl out after she disrespected me, did I handle it right?In any relationship you want to keep asking yourself: "Am I enjoying this? Is this a good use of my time? Is this making me happy?" If the answer is YES, you just ignore and laugh off any stupid shit she says "Blah blah blah, whine whine whine." When she gets bored with that have more sex or do something fun. This is where you pass shit-tests. If the answer is NO, then you did the right thing. Pull the plug. Go do something with someone else. Next! | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 07:53 AM |
| 5 | Reducing Turnover by Solidifying Plates Via AttachmentI think it's more fun to have sex multiple times with girls that you genuinely like than to just go for one-night-stands. If you travel a lot it's particularly easy, because you can just hook up with your old gf/plate when you go to her city. "I'm going to be in London next week, which night are you free?" You don't really care or expect her not to have some kind of man/boyfriend/ltr/etc in her life. It always seems weird to me on TRP that people are like "My plate had sex with a guy, I'm dumpin… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Day 0 - Valentines day off to a great start... Taking the pillEveryone is so hard on new guys here... Welcome to Fight Club! You're off to a good start. It's hard to decide to take the first step (but easy to take), and you've already decided to take the first step. Lifting weights is absolutely not optional, so you need to get that going right away while you read all the books. Just choose Stronglifts 5x5 for your phone or get the Starting Strength book and do that. You need to figure out what your body fat percentage is and bring that down fast, which us… | /r/askMRP | 15/02/19 04:33 AM |
| 10 | Wife tried to control what car I was buying; handled shit test but not sure what to do nextThe books on the sidebar are extremely helpful. No More Mr Nice Guy, When I Say No I Feel Guilty, Way of the Superior Man, Book of Pook--I'm not sure how many you've read yet but they're all useful. It's a long haul but it sounds like you're starting from a better place than a lot of the men who find their way here. | /r/askMRP | 10/02/19 03:10 AM |
| 22 | Wife tried to control what car I was buying; handled shit test but not sure what to do nextDon't apologize for anything, and stop turning down sex when she initiates it. I don't think you should be turning down sex. When you have it go aggressive with it. As for stuff she says, you need to just not care about it and don't consider it a big deal. Now, if she's actually allergic to the seat covers and they give her hives, then of course it's OK to worry about that. But if this is supposed to be your car and she's telling you to get it in pink and yellow flowers, well you make your own… | /r/askMRP | 10/02/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | First date idea for ppl in college?Walk to some campus landmark and get snack there and then walk back to her dorm room and hook up. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 06:28 AM |
| 3 | How do you restore your SMV and dignity after being with an ugly girl?I wouldn't worry about it at all. Also, one man's ugly girl is somebody else's hottie. I'm sure you have friends who have oneitis for some girl that you don't even think is cute. Don't even give it a second thought, don't call her ugly or anything, don't kiss and tell. If people are asking you "I heard you hooked up with Stacey" just say "I don't remember that" or "Did I? Maybe I did, maybe I didn't." Pretty soon there will be rumors circulating that you fucked three girls at the same time. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Girls in same social circleIn my experience, if you break up with a girl you can usually hook up with her friends immediately. It works best if the other girl wanted to be with you in the first place and couldn't understand how her friend got with you first. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 06:20 AM |
| 3 | How to get women to pursue me?Lift weights. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 06:16 AM |
| 4 | I am in a small rural town for 3 years during my Medicine Residency, how to make the most of it?Lift weights. You could be pretty jacked by the time your residency is over. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 05:55 AM |
| 8 | Do you have access to your wife/LTR's phone, passwords etc?That must have been a shock, and a real betrayal thinking you knew someone well enough to get married and then find out about it the way you did. Total mindfuck. Would be a lot different if she had been up front about it, I guess. It's amazing how many surprises there can be in life, you never know what's coming around the next corner. Glad you're still around and doing well these days! | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 03:02 AM |
| 6 | Do you have access to your wife/LTR's phone, passwords etc?Out of curiosity, did she ever talk to you about it? It would be kind of interesting to figure out how much "love and affection" money can buy on those sites. I could see it could either be an ego boost or depressing. Ego boost if you were getting for free what everyone else had to pay for, depressing if you're spending a fortune compared to "market price." | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 01:51 AM |
| 2 | I feel shittyJust because you're not exclusive doesn't usually mean you can't see her anymore. You know, from how you describe her, she sounds like a great girl who really wants to please you. Why don't you just go for some threesomes with her and some other girls? From how you describe her she'd probably be up for it. Just tell her (truthfully) that you don't deal with exclusivity very well but you can't be dishonest and don't want to cheat on her. Of these 5 other plates, at least one would gladly fool aro… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Looking for advice on last night for me.I like his wife too. It *is* a funny remark. She has a sense of humor. OP should have played along, could have gone in a bunch of different directions. Just needs to make sure he satisfies himself when he fucks her in a situation like that and leaves her wanting more. Could get up and leave right after he cums and say "I'd go for round two, but only if you let me tie you up with that hoodie and make me hard again". OP is taking his wife's flirty-bitchy remarks too seriously. Treat her like a bra… | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Looking for advice on last night for me.I think this is a much better answer than refusing. "You'll take what you're given" is kind of bitchy-flirty dirty talk. Once you get going get creative and flip her over, make all kinds of demands, see where you can go with it. Climb up and straddle her face while she's in the hoodie. Just because it starts with her clothes on doesn't mean that it's going to end up that way. Have some fun with it. Could even role-play. "You're that cheap slut in the hoodie who wanted a ride in the bus station."… | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Looking for advice on last night for me.I think you should have had sex anyway, just go caveman style, hard and fast. Then take the hoodie off or slide it up or whatever. Once you're fucking tell her to take it off. If she says no, that's fine, just tell her that it's going to get all messed up when you cum all over her. If she still wants to wear the hoodie, that's fine. Fuck her in whatever way will make you come as fast as possible. I'd make sure cum gets all over her face and hoodie, especially if that's not your normal style. Hav… | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 06:57 PM |
| 31 | Eye opening encounter - is this normal?Don't allow any more hot girls into your room ever again without at least making out with them, and ideally having safe sex. WTF is wrong with you? If she doesn't want to have sex with you she doesn't have to come into your room at 2:00 in the morning. Are you saving up for wizard powers or what? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Slept with girl from my class, said sex was too rough?You certainly don't want to dump some girl right after she thinks you're scary and too rough! Then she'll be furious because you "hurt her and then dumped her." Gotta have sex at least two more times. Everybody else seems more worried about this than I am, it sounds like pretty typical girl behavior. Tell her don't be scared, you're really into her too. Tell her next time you can do it really soft and slow if that's what she wants, or you can switch back and forth. (I would spank her less hard i… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 04:06 AM |
| 5 | How to attract a girl from a sport class?Ask the girl with the IOI where she's going afterwards. See if she wants to go get a protein shake. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 08:21 AM |
| -1 | Booty shorts and make upIf they're all dolled up they're looking for attention. Chat them up, see if it goes anywhere. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 08:17 AM |
| 4 | How to not be a loserSeven girls matched with you and went on multiple dates. I would bet money that at least three of the seven would have been DTF right away if you had just asked them to have sex after the first date. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 08:13 AM |
| 3 | How to not be a loserIf you have a car, you can tell them that your car is parked right around the corner at the end of the first date, and that your apartment is 20 minutes away. Keep your car really clean. You can either make out with them in car (depending on the safety of the location), drive to her place, or drive to your place. If you're taking Uber, same thing. It sounds like the first date is pretty good, but instead of trying to set up a second date, try to get her back to her place or your place. Even if s… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 08:07 AM |
| 6 | How to not be a loserInstead of trying to set up a second date, why don't you invite them back to your dorm for sex or invite yourself over to her place for sex. You can just be blunt about it. "Come over to my dorm, let's hook up." A lot of girls on hookup apps are actually looking to hook up, and they probably liked you for your gym body not for your engineering studies or your personality. She's probably going back and complaining to her roommate that this guy didn't even try to kiss her and just talked her ear… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 07:55 AM |
| 4 | first approach ever - trying to understand shit testsDon't forget that approach is a numbers game, too. You shouldn't be talking to just one girl you're interested in. You should make a habit of chatting up girls all the time. After a while it becomes second nature. Cute cashier? Say hi, ask how her day is going. Lady cop? Say hi, ask about the weather, etc. You don't have to try to get laid with these girls. Some of them will be interested in you, and you can try to meet them again. You can invite girls to do free stuff too, like whatever you hap… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Are full body routines really enough?There are guys who can get jacked just from callisthenics. Gymnastics works well too. Barbell probably is the best way to do it, and then if you still have extra energy, swim, play sports, etc. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 06:51 AM |
| 78 | Moved to LTR’s country, got treated like shit. Now announced I’m going back home and she worships me.Book of Pook is really good on this particular topic. Girls love the wild, untamed beast. The moment they think you're willing to live in their cage they lose interest in you completely. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/19 06:42 AM |
| 53 | Moved to LTR’s country, got treated like shit. Now announced I’m going back home and she worships me.If you think moving to be closer to a girl is bad, try getting married sometime... "Oh? I own him now? Great!" | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/19 06:40 AM |
| 32 | 2nd day of cold approaching - ACTUALLY GOT LAID! - now what?!Just a few days ago OP was depressed and wondering how long it would take to get over the LTR who cheated on him. What a difference a day makes! You just have to go out there and make it happen. Take the good days and bad days in stride. Hopefully your post will inspire the many others who are feeling miserable to go out and approach some girls and take some chances. Getting rejected is better than staying home alone and miserable. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill take on Overt Sexual BartersUsually treating the wife like a whore is a good idea, but in the sense of un-apologetically getting your sexual needs met. You've set it up that she's not expected to have the kind of sex you want unless you go to her job and provide free labor? Terrible idea! | /r/askMRP | 01/02/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Ex messaged me after 5 years NCIf she's hot, and you know better than to simp out again, she could be a fun plate. Here's your chance to try all the different things with her you always wanted to do but never did. Threesome? Why not. Go wild. What's the worst that can happen? She decides you're too kinky or horny or studly for her and decides to disappear for another five years. "Wow, NBDer, you've changed a lot in 5 years! I had no idea you were like this." Don't try to reestablish a relationship, just look at it as a fun fl… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | getting over a betrayal - just how long does that last?You can always try "cold approach". Just go chat up girls, not necessary to try to pick them up. Some of them will be friendly and cool. Do enough of it and you will eventually meet a couple of girls that you actually like who you could try to hook up with. Some of them will be interested in you, too. The key thing is to not be invested at all. You're not going for a particular outcome. Just chatting up some girls. If you did 3-4 per day for the next month, that's more than 100 girls. In a few m… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 07:12 PM |
| 0 | getting over a betrayal - just how long does that last?It probably wouldn't hurt. Regarding semi-ugly chicks: There are some surprisingly hot girls who can't dress worth a damn. I've seen some who look dumpy in baggy sweatshirts who turn out to have huge tits and narrow waist. The way they dress you would have thought they were fat. I'm sure you've seen the "porn stars without their makeup" posts. There are plenty of HB5's out there that would be HB8 if they had a make-over. You might discover a hidden gem! | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 06:52 PM |
| 2 | getting over a betrayal - just how long does that last?My main girlfriend from high-school had been fucking me for more than ten years since high-school whenever we got together, which was often, even though we lived in different cities. She suddenly got married to some guy she she met at Harvard that I never heard about (she went there for grad school). It kind of bugged me a lot even though I always had other girlfriends and she was dating other people after high-school because I didn't get any heads-up about it. She had me over multiple times in … | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | getting over a betrayal - just how long does that last?The old PUA adage was go fuck ten other women. Which does work pretty well. But anyway, you just have to hit the gym, keep working on your mission, whatever that is in your life, get back on the horse, keep hooking up with hot girls. You dodged a bullet, Bro! How would you feel if you were that guy who married this girl and then found out for the last 3 years she was engaged she was cheating on you with (you) and some other guys? Can't live in the past, wishing for things that never happened. … | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Disrespectful LTR, where can I improve?It doesn't sound like this girl is all that much fun to be around anymore. Her "not being around for sex" is no good. You sound over-invested in her. Start seeing other women. You're lucky that you're not married with a family that you have to consider. If she wants to win you back she's going to have to do a lot better than that. Next! | /r/askMRP | 30/01/19 01:21 PM |
| 17 | Feminine menI've seen some solid "pretty boy" game. A lot of artist/musician/rock star type guys can pull it off. Usually RP focuses more on the "jock" or athletic guys, because that's probably the easiest thing to do. But there are skinny / druggy guys who are art majors and look totally emo and thin bodies that can still get massively laid. Girls still react to that kind of alpha where the guy doesn't give a fuck about society's rules and seems to be very into himself. You see models hanging out with arti… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 01:38 PM |
| 2 | My wife says I am too alpha and just a dickI would just say "I'll be out in 10 minutes, wait your turn" and then shut up. You don't actually have to tell her to go away. You can even open the door and let her come in, if you want. If your 9 year old was throwing a temper tantrum you wouldn't go leave for the night. I think you need to work a little on not letting minor stuff like this bug you so much. Tell her to come in and take her shower anyway and that you'll watch or help or whatever. If she doesn't want to do that tell her you'll b… | /r/askMRP | 29/01/19 01:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you resolve internal conflicts? Morality, values etc.You don't have to do anything immoral to be RP and still have sex and stick to your rules. Nobody at a party where people are drinking and taking drugs remembers or cares what you're drinking. Just get water or club soda in the same type of glasses or cups everybody else is using (if you want to go to that party at all). Just own it, don't bother explaining it to anyone, don't call any attention to it. You don't have to lie to girls to have sex with them, you can tell them up front that you're… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you become less of a robot?The sidewalks outside were really icy today. I blame porn. :) | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:54 PM |
| 3 | How much is not enough?There are other issues besides that one, although that's a very common one that could be causing the problem. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/19 06:52 AM |
| 4 | How much is not enough?Not to sound like /r/bigdickproblems but they actually have vaginal dilators that your wife can use if she's tiny and you're huge. They're basically increasing size glass tube/dildo things that her doctor can give her that she's supposed to put in every day. Have been with virgin (now ex virgin) who used them. Blowjobs are fun, but yes, I think you should have sex with your wife's vagina. It's certainly a fixable problem. Was she a virgin when you met her? The wetter and more attracted she is to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/19 06:49 AM |
| 2 | My wife says I am too alpha and just a dickIt's tough, because most people are coming here because they're upset with how their wife is acting, and then all the stuff we have is about fixing the guy who came here. "No you fools, I don't have any problems! I'm great! She's the one who is broken and needs fixing! I tell you I'm sexy, smart, and doing everything right already!" | /r/askMRP | 29/01/19 06:23 AM |
| 3 | My wife says I am too alpha and just a dickOK, I see from one of your other posts that you don't lift weights anymore and your wife liked you better when you were heavier. 6'0 165 lbs. The general advice on here is to lift heavy because it also affects your personality and testosterone levels. You might see if you could lean bulk up to 185 or 200. Lift heavy, apply more comfort. See if you can get the wife involved in something good for her mental-health like work or volunteer work. That's about all I got for you. | /r/askMRP | 29/01/19 06:12 AM |
| 2 | My wife says I am too alpha and just a dickJust take some of your money from the last Hollywood super-hero sequel you were in and install Tinder on your phone and stop worrying about some crazy 35 year old Latina. Nobody believes you're anywhere near as hot as you say you are because it sounds like a bunch of bullshit. I guess link us to your instagram so we can see why the Greek God can't manage his crazy 35 year-old wife... | /r/askMRP | 29/01/19 06:03 AM |
| 1 | My wife says I am too alpha and just a dickThis sounds pretty troll-y "Damnit not this again. I wish I could have a picture of my physique next to my name so everyone would shut the fuck up. In her words, I am a greek god. I get hit on and complimented by everyone from old women, hot chicks, gay dudes and even straight dudes. Stop with this shit unless you want me to DM you a pic because you are a faggot. I am 10% bf or less with abs and arms that make straight dudes jack off. Happy?" | /r/askMRP | 29/01/19 05:56 AM |
| 1 | My wife says I am too alpha and just a dickI guess you need to separate out your finances and accounts and stuff like that so that she has her computer and you have your computer. Are you seeing other women on the side? Usually dread works wonders, but maybe you're already doing too much. Maybe just have sex, praise her, tell her everything is going to be OK, and that she need to not worry so much because you have everything under control. Does she have stuff to do during the day? Maybe she's just going psycho because she doesn't have en… | /r/askMRP | 29/01/19 05:53 AM |
| 4 | My wife says I am too alpha and just a dickRedpill and MRP is all about identifying your own problems and fixing them, not fixing other people. You sound like a guy who doesn't realize he's got a big fucking problem. Letting her see what you're reading is no good. That's a pretty major screw up. If she's being a bitch and no fun to be around, go do other things. I would still invite her along to do fun stuff and give her an opportunity to be fun to be around (and practice not being a bitch) as often as possible. From the text you poste… | /r/askMRP | 29/01/19 05:17 AM |
| 2 | How to approach when they are talking to others?I wouldn't ask for the guy's number unless you genuinely want to be friends with him, and with the girl you're just trying to get to know her a little bit rather than pick her up right away. If she seems like she wants to give you her number or add you on snap then that's fine, but if she's on some kind of schedule where she's going to be in that place at that time on a recurring basis (like she just got out of class) you could always get her number when you bump into her again in the same spot.… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?Oh, well, that's great, it makes your life easier. The better looking you are, the more success you're going to have. If you look like you're 25 and your girlfriend is 20 years old, nobody is going to have any issues with it at all. I wouldn't talk about how old you are until you've had sex at least 3 times with the girl your with though. Don't even bring it up or make any kind of issue out of it. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?That's easy: If her mom looks great that's probably a good sign. I met the girl I was LTR for a few years who was 18 at a hotel bar (of all places), she was there with her mom having lunch. She'd never dated anyone before. First kiss, first everything. We hit it off right away. She was a 4.0 student just out of HS. I got her number. Started seeing her all the time after that. So it's certainly not impossible. You would need some good luck and good timing. Maybe meet up with some exchange student… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 07:21 AM |
| 1 | How to approach when they are talking to others?According to PUA lore of old, when you see a woman that you're interested in with a guy, there's only a 1/3 chance that she's romantically involved with him. 2/3 of the time he'll be her brother, a guy she works with, someone from her class, etc. So just start talking to the guy first and then ask him how they know each other. If he's her boyfriend it's no big deal because it wasn't like you were hitting on her in the first place. You were just talking to him. So you're not going to be in an awk… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?If you want children you're pretty much going to have to date women younger than you are unless you pick one of your previous girlfriends or existing relationships to have children with. It's probably sane and reasonable to spend a few years vetting any new woman you run into before you decide to make them the mother of your children. If you started dating a 35 year old today and decided after a few years to have children with her, you're near the end of her fertility window and at the point whe… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:54 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she won't take selfies with me?You could always just ask her what the deal is too. Maybe she got burned by some crazy stalker ex-orbiter who was really into selfies and plastered her all over facebook or something. Recoiling in fear is a strong reaction. Maybe there's some trauma in her past or something. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:31 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she won't take selfies with me?I take selfies all the time with girls I'm not even dating and don't even know whenever I'm standing in front of any kind of tourist attraction. Most girls are into it. Maybe she thinks selfies are stupid or something, or thinks that you were being weird. In any case don't worry about it. I'd treat it the same way as if she recoiled when she saw a tomato in her salad. I don't think it has any great significance. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?If you haven't dated someone much younger than yourself you owe it to yourself to at least try it. If you're 29 now you have six years before you're 35, maybe you can use that time to find someone you think you can start a family with. Presumably you don't want to marry anybody that you've not known for a couple of years. As a free-thinking atheist you're probably not going to start families with the Radical Islamic girls who expect to be beheaded if they cheat on you... Do you have a list of 10… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:20 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she won't take selfies with me?I wouldn't worry about it at all then. She may think she looks like crap because her hair is messed up from hiking in the woods and having sex and not having her make-up on. If you're into taking pictures I'd make that one of your activities. Tell her you want her to model for you and take whatever kind of pictures you want on a future date. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:10 AM |
| 6 | What does it mean when she won't take selfies with me?On third date you were supposed to be having sex with this girl, not taking hiking selfies. If you're not having sex or something close to it already, try on date number 4, otherwise don't bother with date number 5 because it means she's not into you at all and you're wasting your time. If you're having sex with her already out in the woods where you've hiked off to some remote location together, it means the relationship is going great but she doesn't want evidence of it floating around on soci… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Making this post for my older brother. He suspects wife is cheating on him.If his wife isn't sending this guy nudes I would be less worried about cheating, but no matter what's going on your brother is going to have to be doing all the stuff that make him attractive to women if he wants his wife to stay attracted to him. Lift weights, be the leader, take great care of himself, etc. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/19 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?Look at President Trump and Melania. They're sort of making it work. Hardly the average couple. If you're 29 and you're determined to recreate the life your parents had, you'd probably do well to find some kind of traditional girl from a traditional family like yours with strong religious convictions who likes to cook and intends to stay home and raise kids, or wants to work some kind of traditional female job like school teacher until she has children of her own to raise. It probably helps if y… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Making this post for my older brother. He suspects wife is cheating on him.Maybe link him to this. It's probably going to take a year or two to get him red-pilled and fix whatever issues he has so that the wife values him again. At that point he might be better off starting over with someone else. A long difficult road lies ahead. https://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/19 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?If you want a large family you'd better find a younger woman (or women?), otherwise you're dealing with IVF and fertility issues and you don't want kids who have mental problems. No matter what you do Life is going to throw some curve-balls at you along the way. Let's say you're 30 and you marry a 30 year old and have kids. 10 years later your wife could get cancer, you could have a heart attack, war could break out, she could inherit millions of dollars, you could get sued for millions of dolla… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?KellyK, I think you have the wrong idea about relationships from a Red Pill perspective if you think it's a bad thing when they end. All life is temporary, and all relationships are temporary. One chapter ends and a new one begins. On to the next adventure. Next, Next! | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?I think when you've got a good thing going on you do whatever works if you value it enough. Uncle Vasily is a few years older than me and he literally wrote the book. There's a time and place for everything! | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?No, it was due to my moving away, but then while I was on the East Coast and she was on the West Coast I had a couple of new girlfriends and a whole bunch of new stuff started happening in both of our lives. It's one of those things you can never know. If your parents had moved to France when you were in middle school and you went to school in France instead of wherever you went to school would your life be different now? Probably, right? Nobody knows. I think actually if you date an 18 year o… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?Things were going great, then my life got turned upside down and went off in a totally different direction for a while, and she got a modelling contract with a lot of money and a bunch of model friends with ridiculous ideas, so it probably would have fallen apart anyway but who knows. It was a lot of fun while it lasted! | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Help me out.Can't worry about one particular girl. See if you can hook up with her. If yes, great. If not, there are many other girls on this planet, including more than you could ever meet right in your own city or town. Don't worry about what she thinks. Decide what you want, and then go for it. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 04:58 AM |
| 6 | If a girl sees you with another girl does it make them want you more?It helps a ton. Suppose you're dressed like a surfer or a bum. If you're alone, you could be some kind of weirdo or loser. If you're with a cute girl on your arm, maybe you're some pretty cool guy who is going to hang out at the beach today. Maybe you're a rock star or artist or drug dealer or something. Girls see you with a hot girl and they want to know who you are all of a sudden. Their interest level skyrockets. Obviously you're not a freak or a loser or a weirdo because a hot girl (who can … | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?Just keep it interesting. Don't always do the same thing. Girls in college tend to have a lot of free time depending on how many classes they are taking, so the more control you have over your time the better. If you have an office job and have to work late every night that's not likely to go over so well because she's going to get lonely and bored while you're at work all the time and can only see her at night. If you own your own company and can keep your own schedule it's a lot easier. You ha… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Any experience dating a much younger woman?Find the right girl for you and it can work great. Totally do-able. When I was 28, had gf who just turned 18. Relationship lasted 2 years until I moved to a different city. Women are women. The younger ones are less likely to expect to get married right away. God forbid you should date a 28 year old--know her a couple of weeks and get "So, where is this going, when are we getting married?" | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 04:25 AM |
| 5 | How to approach when they are talking to others?If there is a guy in the group with them, start talking to the guy first. The girls will introduce themselves. After a minute of talking to the guy you can ask how he knows them. If there's no guy in the group with them, see if they're actually busy or not. If they're working hard on something don't interrupt when it's obviously going to be a bad time. If they're standing doing nothing, like waiting in line, you can say almost anything. "Are you guys from State? Are you taking Wagner for statist… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 02:07 AM |
| 7 | Would it be beneficial or detrimental to my goal of fucking more girls if I delete all my social media?It would probably help. Unless you're world-famous for social media your time would be better spent in the gym. Who's going to get laid more? The really hot guy who looks like a male model or the average guy with a bunch of social media accounts? "OMG Stacey, did you see the size of his Facebook account? It must have 7TB of content!" | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 01:56 AM |
| 19 | One night stands seem like an impossible goal...I wouldn't worry about it. It sounds like you're doing just fine. An hour drive is excessive. It's much easier if "your place" is across the street or on another floor in the same building, like if you're both guests in the same hotel. The usual PUA rule is that you have to change venues, so if she's at the bar, you have to go to some other location first, and then back to your place or her place. Isolate and escalate. You're making out at the club already, so the interest is clearly there, then… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Older men's increased SMV . How true is that shit?You need to talk to Uncle Vasily. Basically you've got a smaller pool of 18-23 year old girls to work with when you're over 35. About 20% are really in to older guys, and maybe half of them are OK with it. That's still millions and millions of beautiful girls, more than you could ever meet in a lifetime. Usually the older player guys just get tired of the scene and find some woman they're happy with. But the ones who want to can still do just fine. SMV doesn't go up for guys as they age beyond… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Should I hold frame to girls I‘m not interested in?Yes. It's like you should still carry yourself with good posture even when nobody is looking. It's proper form. It's good for you. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | One night stands seem like an impossible goal...Just be in the 10-20% of men who are attractive to women and it's just as easy. You'd be surprised. But you're right in the sense that an average or slightly unattractive woman can get laid a lot easier than an average or slightly unattractive guy. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:13 PM |
| 3 | 6”2 roided chad called me nigger behind my back don’t think he would have a problem doing it again either. What to do in future if it happens again?There's always some idiot trying to start a fight. Don't let yourself get baited into it. I guess in six months you will be out of school and on to bigger and better things and you'll never have to see him again. It's tempting to murder the guy but that would potentially mess up your life so don't do it. Like everyone else already said you need better friends to hang out with. Eventually he'll pull the same shit with somebody who will just shoot him in the back of the head. I would bet money tha… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 09:36 PM |
| 54 | One night stands seem like an impossible goal...I don't know if it happens to the average joe, but if you put in some effort at the gym and look and smell good and develop a little bit of game it certainly happens all the time. Think about it this way, if some girl from your university who is decently fit, clean, and better-than-average looking was up for having sex with you right now, would you be up for it? Probably. Why not? It's the same thing. It's certainly not an impossible goal. You don't even have to go to bars or clubs or raves. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Hooked up with my former oneitis and why you should never do it.Don't do it if you know you're going to over-invest and be a wreck afterwards. If you can hook up and not GAF then hook up. When you just enjoy it for what it is, it can be great. But I guess if you're prone to one-itis it's like an alcoholic deciding to just take one drink. Reading the rest of your post carefully, you would indeed benefit from more gym time. Don't go for four years without getting laid. That's way too long. Just be happy that you ended a 4-year streak and decided to get back … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Girl has an amazing body but her face is not so great.I would only do stuff with her that you enjoy doing. If she wants to go shopping and you don't, then don't go. If you really do want to go do this couple stuff but you're worried someone else won't think her face is pretty enough, then yeah, you're probably being too shallow. Only do stuff you want to do with her. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:28 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to this shit test?In general, the best advice with a shit test is to STFU. If she's asking you to do something she can do for herself, just say no, go do it yourself. But in this case, if she wants to go visit the dolphin museum and you don't, you can just say that you want to go snorkeling or whatever it is that you want. Or if you do want to do her activity just agree with her that it sounds like fun and sign up for it. Don't get into a conversation with her about why you didn't sound enthusiastic about her ide… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:25 AM |
| 3 | LTR shit testing another guy in front of meThis is the right answer. You could care less what she does with her phone and social media. It's boring. Go chat up some chick while she plays with her phone. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:08 AM |
| 26 | When dancing and girls start dancing really close to you and back up into you what do I do I am lostI would just make out on the dance floor or in the club, and tell the girl your phone is out of batteries and let her take you to her place if she wants to. You don't really have to "go anywhere", you can just go to the other side of the room or outside or in the alley or whatever. Don't overthink these things. She's rubbing up against you because she's horny and she thinks your hot. That's it. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:04 AM |
| 11 | When dancing and girls start dancing really close to you and back up into you what do I do I am lostI'm almost thinking the opposite. If OP is clueless but good-looking enough to have multiple girls grinding on him in one night at the club, I don't think he's going to be able to maintain a proper conversation for day game. Leave it at "Are you DTF? I'm drunk. Let's go to your place." Or "I'm high as hell, I can't really talk right now. Let's go make out." That would probably be good enough cover for OP's lack of social skills. Maybe just go make out on a sofa or in the bathrooms, not even try … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 09:58 AM |
| 35 | When dancing and girls start dancing really close to you and back up into you what do I do I am lostIf she's grinding up against you on the dance floor and rubbing her ass on your dick it's a pretty strong indication of interest. After a song or two of that, you should grab her by the hand and lead her out of the club and then find out where she wants to go next. "Hey, it's too hot in here. Let's go outside. Do you live near here? Let's get an uber back to your place/my place/xyz hotel. What's your name?" | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 09:52 AM |
| -1 | This is not on. Need adviceIf he said one single false or misleading derogatory thing that cost you a penny I would shut him down permanently and tell him to go fuck his mom. Why the fuck are you being such a pussy? Don't tolerate that shit for a second. Quit being a faggot and over-thinking the situation. He stabbed you in the back, you go for his throat. Just some practical non-legal advice for dealing with backstabbing enemies. When he is out of business, you can scoop up his old customers. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/19 06:07 AM |
| 2 | 5th date...no sex. “Traditional” girl who says she only has sex in a relationshipIf she's blowing you three times every time she comes over that's a good sign. Invite her over 6 times for 18 blowjobs. Then you can point out that you're basically in a relationship already and might as well have sex some other way. I wouldn't make any false promises to her. Just invite her over whenever you want a blowjob and see if things keep moving in the right direction. Maybe next week you'll be doing blowjobs and anal but no sex. And a week after that it will be blowjobs, and anal, and t… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:09 AM |
| 5 | 26M. Been with 30+ women from cold approach + online. But cold approaching AND online feels "phony" to me now so lost interest in it. I mostly want a sweet romantic relationship though. What to do brahs?Sometimes really old people can hook you up with shy high-quality girls who don't do the bar and club and tinder scene. Don't immediately discount the old lady or grandpa who says their grand niece just got accepted to college or medical school etc. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 05:41 PM |
| 3 | I always go back when they return. Can you guys put some brain into me.Don't go back to them for relationships but if the sex is good just treat it like a booty call if they call you back. If they want to hook up, that's cool. If they expect you to be their boyfriend then forget about it. Just claim to be super busy with work or school but see if they want to come over for an hour between 10 and midnight. If she says no, just say that's the only time you have available this week, maybe call me again in February... | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | 26M. Been with 30+ women from cold approach + online. But cold approaching AND online feels "phony" to me now so lost interest in it. I mostly want a sweet romantic relationship though. What to do brahs?Married red pill, aka redpill on hard mode. Geared for LTR as opposed to pump and dump. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 04:44 PM |
| 14 | 26M. Been with 30+ women from cold approach + online. But cold approaching AND online feels "phony" to me now so lost interest in it. I mostly want a sweet romantic relationship though. What to do brahs?Find some cute young virgin girl and fall in love. Set your standards really high, see how long you can keep it going. Just know that all the same old RP truths apply. The second you start acting needy or failing shit tests she'll stab you in the back. Read MRP for LTR game ideas. You've spun 30 plates for a while and you're bored with that, now you're trying to see if you can keep one or two or three spinning for years at a time. At some point you can get bored with being a player, there's noth… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 08:53 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with nihilistic feelings?There's lots of beauty and fun to be had in life. Don't focus on things that make you depressed or angry. People get upset when they find out the Disney Fantasy isn't real, but you can't dwell on that. Find stuff that you're good at that you enjoy doing and fill up your time with those activities. Eventually people envy you because you bang women and you seem to be enjoying life. Get in good physical health and your mental health ought to come along for the ride. There's a million things to do o… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Took red pill, not attracted to wife anymoreYou've only been lifting for two months. If you stick it out for a long time (years), you may discover that your wife all of a sudden has not only a lot more sexual interest in you (which in itself will make her more attractive and better in bed), but also that she starts taking much better care of herself and working out a lot in order to keep up with you. At some point she's likely to notice, "hey, my husband is in really great shape and he's really hot, I'd better find some way keep him aroun… | /r/askMRP | 25/01/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Wife's DesireOther posters have given you good advice, but it sounds like you're about 70 pounds overweight, which is probably at least two-thirds of the problem with your wife's desire. You're way too fat! If you keep lifting weights and cut down to about 6' 175 lbs you'll be much more attractive, not only to your wife, but to everybody else, as well. | /r/askMRP | 25/01/19 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Discovered wife has had an affair, have kids, she doesn't know that i knowIf I were in your situation... I would not confront her now. You know what's up, and you need to get your SMV up as fast as you can. She's already checked out and cheated on you, so you're free to fuck any girls you want as far as I am concerned. Use this time to get control over all the assets as best as you can. Protect yourself! Draw down joint accounts, start hoarding cash where only you have access to it, don't let her run up credit cards, etc. She could try to financially stab you in the b… | /r/askMRP | 24/01/19 08:49 PM |
| 10 | Got rejected, friend told me I should have invested furtherThe only thing I would do differently is that you might save her number just so you can invite her for some kind of casual party along with other girls. When your friend Dave is going to have a bunch of people over to watch a football game on TV you can call her and 3 other girls from your back burner list. If any of them decide to come your friend Dave is not going to be upset that you brought a couple of HB9's to his party. Even if you never hook up with her it will give you some social proof … | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Should I try banging her or tell her my intentions?My view on this is that you should have sex with her several times. Don't just have sex once and ghost her, because that can create drama. But have sex with her several times, and then if the relationship is going badly, you can say that you don't think it's working out. Alternatively, if the relationship is going great, then congratulations. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:57 AM |
| 8 | I'm getting a lot of attention from women but I still live at home for the next 6 months until I finish my studies. Should I still bother in trying to plate wamen?You can just be vague and mysterious about your home situation. If you DGAF really want to get laid fast tell them that you just got out of jail or escaped from a mental hospital and that you're staying temporarily with some shady character "so we'll have to go back to your place or do it in your car." I'm only half-kidding. Your home life really doesn't matter and don't show any sensitivity or weakness or it will make you look weak AF. You're not trying to get laid by impressing her with your g… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Should I try banging her or tell her my intentions?No reason to next at all, it sounds like everything is moving in the right direction. You made out, then you were fingering her etc... I don't see what the problem is. Keep escalating. If it gets to the point where you're sick of her and it's not fun, then you next. But right now it seems like everything is going great. Why would you next? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:33 AM |
| 4 | I'm a broke guy in a field of rich kidsOne thing that's helped me is to remember that "it's just a bunch of guys." Even if you're talking to a group of billionaires and CEO's or celebrities or Kings and Princes or Admirals and Generals, if you start thinking about how "important" they are and worrying that you're going to screw up it's going to mess you up. If you're talking to a girl she's just a girl. It doesn't matter how rich and famous her parents are. If you're talking to people at your college they're just a bunch of college k… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 06:58 PM |
| 14 | How to lift?Stronglifts 5x5 app works great. Starting Strength book is very helpful. Youtube is also a very helpful resource. The ideal situation would be to find someone who really knows how to do the lifts to give you hands-on advice. Most gym bros are pretty friendly. If you see some guy who seems to know what he's doing using the squat rack and tell him, "Hey, I just started lifting last week, can you check my form? I don't know what I'm doing..." most guys will help give you some pointers. You don't wa… | /r/askMRP | 22/01/19 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Time to use Dread?It would probably work, but I would advise you to stick with things that actually happened rather than trying to make up any stories. You could turn off your phone for three hours and leave it in your gym bag. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 02:10 AM |
| 2 | is porn really that bad? What's so wrong with occasionally watching it for stress relief?I don't mean this disparagingly but if after a year of serious effort you are really getting nowhere in the gym you should have your testosterone levels checked. Most guys don't work out. Getting into the top 20% should not be any kind of impossible challenge. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Time to use Dread?Dread works wonders. You don't have to "do anything" other than let her see other girls that are expressing genuine interest in you. If you're waiting for her in a public place strike up a conversation with an attractive female. If some girl who likes you calls on the phone or texts you you can take the call or respond to the text in front of her. It could even be eye-contact. "Hey, that girl was checking you out." All of a sudden you go from that boyfriend who wants too much sex to the guy she'… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 01:56 AM |
| 3 | is porn really that bad? What's so wrong with occasionally watching it for stress relief?Maybe I was misunderstanding you and being unnecessarily rude. As a practical matter, however, you will do much better with women being in top physical condition and well-groomed regardless of your race or employment status. You don't have to be a body-builder but you better look like you're in great shape and you certainly must not be fat. Money doesn't really help as much as you would think with banging hot chicks unless you want to trade money for sex, which works less well than trading sex f… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 01:41 AM |
| 8 | is porn really that bad? What's so wrong with occasionally watching it for stress relief?OK you win. You're a hopeless loser who should just jerk off to porn and will always be who you are right now because you're out of high school already and can't read the sidebar and lift weights like I fucking told you to. Happy now? And you're probably right that only Marvel Superstars have sex with the porn starlets who are unattainable for mere mortals. You're a minority so life is impossible for you. Did I miss anything else? The things that work for everybody else who puts in the work won'… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Best weapon to defend yourself in your home?My first thought was squat rack. Just drop the plates on the intruder. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 01:00 AM |
| 2 | is porn really that bad? What's so wrong with occasionally watching it for stress relief?If you want to move from jacking off to porn in your room to banging women who are as hot as the ones you jerk off to, then you really need to read the sidebar and lift weights. Your view of what women want and how the world works is very different from reality. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 12:55 AM |
| 2 | is porn really that bad? What's so wrong with occasionally watching it for stress relief?I don't know what you look like, but if you actually max out your looks through a lot of hard work at the gym and work on your game and personality you should be able to pull girls who are as hot as the girls in porn assuming that you are starting from somewhere near average. It's not that difficult to be in the top 10-20% of guys if you really put in the effort. You don't have to be Brad Pitt or Arnold Schwarzenegger. The typical personal trainer at the local gym can get with women who are in p… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 12:41 AM |
| 29 | Where to find RP bros?It's an interesting question. I've seen guys who are Natural Chads--totally alpha and constantly slaying pussy--who become complete simps after they get married and then end up divorce-raped. I think a lot of the naturals never end up in the manosphere until something goes sideways in their life. When everything's going great for them why bother? Lifting heavy weights is probably at least half the battle, so your best bet would be the guys in your gym. RP is an interesting combination of game an… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 12:24 AM |
| 4 | is porn really that bad? What's so wrong with occasionally watching it for stress relief?Just don't use it as a substitute for the real thing. Your time is valuable, figure out how much time you are wasting on it. Maybe only look at it on days when you've already had sex twice. Nobody's saying you can never eat a doughnut or a Big Mac, but those things aren't a healthy part of your regular diet. For a lot of people it seems to be a crutch or an addiction. Don't overindulge. You'd be better off making your own instead of watching it. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | So is sex the only goal for trp?If you focus on self-discipline and improving your health and fitness, not only will your sex life improve, but many other areas of your life will also improve, including your relationships with other people. If you clear out your head and get rid of false beliefs ("bluepills") that you've had, you'll make better decisions and lead a more fulfilled life. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | TV Shows and SexRead the books and the sidebar and lift weights, as a starting point. As a practical matter, as you become more attractive she'll need less booze and weed to want to fuck you enthusiastically (the same is true for every other woman as well.) Her wanting to watch TV and smoke and drink before sex doesn't make you a beta faggot, your going along with her stupid time-wasting stuff because you want to get laid does. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Need a little help with this shit test"Sure, I'm DTF too, why don't you come by and we'll go hang out afterwards." I once suggested to a girl that we get dinner and a movie, and she said why don't we just go to your place and have sex. I said, OK, sure, that works too. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag for a woman to have gay friends?I think the gayer the neighborhood, the less of a red flag it is. In San Francisco it would be weird there if any girl you were fucking didn't have some gay friends and neighbors. That said, Gay men tend to be hard-partying, so if she has a bunch of gay friends you can assume she's going to lots of scenes where there are all kinds of drugs and tweakers and various fucked-up things going on. Know the thot by the company she keeps. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Wife said she doesn't want to touch meIn general you shouldn't be apologizing for things like that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/19 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Wife said she doesn't want to touch meYou really need to just not care at all what your wife says, especially when she makes a snarky comment. It's just a classic shit test. "You look weak, you're too fat, I hate sex with you, I never loved you, I wish I never married you, your muscles are too big, you care too much about weightlifting, you only want me for sex... blah blah blah." You're in a good mood and happy living your own life and attracting lots of female attention no matter what she says, and then she'll start staying stuff … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/19 04:55 AM |
| 11 | Gillette advertisement on being better men.In the current system, a woman can shove, can throw things or can hit her boyfriend or husband in the face because she's annoyed with him. If he tries to defend himself he's the one who will go to jail in most jurisdictions. The nanny-state encourages bad and abusive behavior from women. No consequences! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/19 08:08 PM |
| 4 | Gillette advertisement on being better men.In fairness to Gillette, maybe they noticed that there's a whole shit-load of betafaggot soyboys who don't shave and said, hey! Untapped market! What if we could get all these fuckin' hipsters to shave off their stupid beards and moustaches, money! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else bored of companies like Gillette jumping on the let’s all hate men bandwagon?Retards running these companies need to get the message that shitting on their customers to win White Knight points from feminist hate-groups isn't going to increase their profits and revenues. Dumbfuck virtue-signalling has found its way into the board room, and it needs to find its way into the unemployment line. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 07:47 PM |
| 2 | How do deal with guys around you (or friends) who are always trying to act superior to you/one up you in some way?Unless you're in prison and these guys are your cellmates you just need to hang out with somebody else. Toxic people who are no fun to be around don't make for the best friends. Find some new activity or group and befriend the people there. If somebody is genuinely annoying just move on. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 05:22 AM |
| 4 | How do deal with guys around you (or friends) who are always trying to act superior to you/one up you in some way?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ljAOgWK8NOI Just be in a good mood and only hang out with these clowns if you enjoy it. I've had some friends like that before where its just basically a running joke and you can't take it seriously. Sometimes people act like that because they're desperately insecure, sometimes people act that way as a style thing. "Hey loser!" "Whats up faggot?" "We're going to the bar." "Are you bringing that fat chick again?" You can't take that kind of stuff seriously. If it b… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:50 AM |
| 1 | LTR of 5 years about to dump me. How to react?Move to "injured reserve" list. I guess my LTRs were really more like OLTRs and I was never all that oneitis-y... I would just demote to plate and use it as guilt-free chance to openly date or hook-up with whoever's on the wait-list. Girlfriends are always stirring up drama. I'd say there's at least a 10% chance that OP's gf is just trying to get him to propose or see if he breaks down crying or something. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:42 AM |
| -3 | LTR of 5 years about to dump me. How to react?I always think you should have sex one last time, then propose being friends with benefits, and then hook up with her friends. It's never failed me. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | My first time alone at a barHere's a trick that will save you a ton of money. When you go to the bar solo just announce to the bartender that you are the designated driver for those people over there, and that you're drinking water and club soda all night but in a (whatever style of glass people are drinking from). You can tip him a few bucks right at the outset and they will generally be happy to keep your glass full. You'll do much better on your approaches. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 06:05 AM |
| 18 | Would you ltr a party girl?These kind of girls can be lots of fun for awhile but you pretty much have to accept the fact that she's going to self-destruct. The hard-partying lifestyle ages girls quickly and it's really not healthy for them. Party girls are kind of like former child stars. Everybody wants them for a little while when they are hot, and then they come crashing down. Enjoy it while it lasts and move on to one of her friends. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Is it normal to want to isolate yourself and "start over" after getting RP'ed?Don't get depressed, hang around the friends who add value to your life. Don't waste time on the energy vampires who drag you down or make you feel miserable. Either find something you enjoy doing that you can do with one of your old friends or else find new friends that you can go and enjoy spending time with. One chapter of your life ends, the next one begins. On to the next adventure! | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 05:51 AM |
| 1 | LTR bitchy in public(friends, family)Don't bring her along to these gatherings of friends and family if she's going to be bitchy, or just let her go to these things on her own. Depending on how old you guys are maybe she's trying to shame you into marriage or something. If the sex is good I would just focus on that and if you want to do other things with her, try to find activities where being bitchy isn't an option... maybe you guys can play tennis together or go swimming or something like that. Since she's LTR you can always deci… | /r/askMRP | 07/01/19 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Rebuilding attraction with wifeI would recommend you go for a few months without discussing any feelings with her at all. Just be friendly and cheerful and very busy outside the house. Might try to get your body-fat percentage down too. Could you get pretty shredded if you cut to 200 pounds? Initiating a lot is not a bad idea, but don't talk about sex or feelings. If you're already low body-fat maybe just buy new clothes and go out 4 or 5 nights a week doing your own thing with your phone off. You could realistically line up … | /r/askMRP | 07/01/19 07:17 AM |
| 3 | The Diminished Respect for Fatherhood and "The Simpsons"Married with Children seems like Al is getting laid and he basically DGAF all the time. Wife Peggy is pretty hot. https://www.youtube.com/watch?=LESGWIeeEyk Daughter is a slut. He's certainly not much of a Beta Bux working a crappy job for minimum wage. The joke was more that the girls/women in the house are sluts who look pretty but can't cook. Al is always bitching that there's no food in the refrigerator, but never that he can't get laid (unless I remember it wrong...) This clip is pretty fun… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/18 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Free Muffins!The problem is guys who can't figure out how to hit it and quit it, and don't bail when they see the signs that a girl is crazy... If you take a bite of something and it's gone off, don't eat the rest of it. Instead they try to fix the "perfect girl" they found and try to stay in a relationship. Enjoy it and move on. I've never heard of a crazy girl throwing acid on Chad who had a one night stand with her and never gave his phone number. That's not how the world works. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Wife stopped initiating sex 4 years ago until we decided to have our first childIf you want to get off the booze (which you should), check out Allen Carr's books The Easy Way To Control Alcohol, etc. Works like a charm. No programs to join or anything. It will make getting fit much easier for you. | /r/askMRP | 20/12/18 10:23 PM |
| 19 | Free Muffins!Fair enough. If the muffin doesn't look and smell delicious you just have to leave it alone, Brother. It's certainly not without risks.... Good luck finding the bakery where everything is virgin and pure and untouched by human hands. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 10:16 PM |
| 38 | Free Muffins!I just see so many guys getting all freaked out wondering what they did wrong because the muffin was there yesterday and now it's gone. Why won't it come back to me? Who's eating my muffin when I'm not here? It's amazing how strong the one-itis can be for a lot of dudes. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Wife stopped initiating sex 4 years ago until we decided to have our first childYou have to get in good enough physical shape that even if your wife doesn't want to have sex with you, it won't matter anymore, because there will be plenty of other girls and women in your neighborhood trying to have sex with you. But at that point you won't need them probably because the wife will be wanting to have sex with you too. Read the sidebar, hit the gym today. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | The Wrong Way: Don't Be This GuyI certainly don't blame her for not wanting to be with that guy. I wouldn't want to be treated like that! He needs to do a ton of work to fix himself before he could be with anyone, IMHO. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/18 08:01 PM |
| 6 | Post Wall Woman spends 10 years on the CC, "Why can't I find a relationship?" The comments alone could fill this sub.Maybe she is just a really bad lay and not that much fun to be around. Back when I used to be Chad, if a girl like that were hot and fun I would always go back for more. Why not? Some really hot, good-looking girls turn out to be a big disappointment and kind of annoying to be around. It sounds like not only are the guys she's seeing not committing to her, they're not even coming back for a second date. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/12/18 07:58 PM |
| 2 | The Wrong Way: Don't Be This GuyI know. It's grim. Unfortunately I think it's pretty common these days. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/12/18 05:19 AM |
| 2 | The Wrong Way: Don't Be This GuyProbably alcoholic, I'd guess. Really needs to fix himself first before he worries about the wife's issues. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/12/18 10:53 PM |
| 10 | The Wrong Way: Don't Be This GuyIt's not really being distant. It's just being busy. The husband needs to be having lots of fun being very busy living his own life. Eventually the wife sees that the husband is always in a great mood and having lots of fun and starts saying, well, why can't you take me with you when you go [play tennis, lift weights, play guitar in the rock band, go rock climbing, camping in the woods...] | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/18 07:24 AM |
| 28 | The Wrong Way: Don't Be This GuyIf he walked in the bedroom, gave her a kiss, and said "See you later, honey, I'm off to the the gym, why don't you make some fried rice and a salad for later. Bye!" I suspect she'd be doing a lot more around the house. Eventually she'd be in the "Aww do you have to go to the gym again? I never see you. I'm lonely...stay here with me!" "Sorry babe, have to go hunting this weekend, back in 3 days." You get the idea. The whole dynamic there is sick and dysfunctional. She should be the one asking h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/18 06:52 AM |
| 0 | Back from the Dead - Long Term Cancer SurvivorThanks for the suggestions! I will look into it. For me personally, it was totally worth it to get on replacement test (or more), I was feeling miserable at 300+ (looking back on it) and I wish I had done it a decade earlier (knowing what I know now). If you've already done all the lifestyle changes you can do (sleep, exercise, diet, etc.) and you're still at 300 I would do something about it for sure. Supposedly above 800 is where you need test level to be in order to feel it actually doing som… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/18 09:00 AM |
| 0 | Back from the Dead - Long Term Cancer SurvivorChemo brain really sucks, and I'm doing a lot better than I was, but I still don't feel as clear-headed as I think I should. Thyroid helps a bunch. The Proviron (DHT) was an unexpected huge help too. It's one of those subtle things where you just get used to the new baseline and settle in to it, and then when it lifts it's like... whoa! How did I ever not notice that was going on. The encouraging thing for me is that it seems like some of the damage from the chemo is actually reversible. I tho… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/18 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Back from the Dead - Long Term Cancer SurvivorThanks for your reply! Pregnenolne is precursor to a lot of other hormones you need behind the scenes, and my current thinking is that if you shut down your natural testosterone production by taking exogenous testosterone, you may inadvertently shut down production of pregnenolone as well. I hope that having it floating around will let it do its job if it needs to be there. Supposedly it's pretty active in the brain, and as far as I can tell it's not known to be particularly dangerous. I've only… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/18 12:28 AM |
| 2 | The best place to learn about humanity's hidden nature is by watching documentaries.Very interesting article. I think you're wrong about depression though. Depression is very adaptive in certain circumstances, think of it as the "go back to the cave" instinct. Suppose your tribe of 40 gets attacked by a tribe of 200 and is losing badly because you're outnumbered 5 to 1. Everybody in your tribe who is fighting to the last man gets killed. You say "Fuck this" and go hunker down somewhere sleeping all day long, only occasionally coming out to hunt something at night, not eating a … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/18 08:15 PM |
| 4 | How certain traits from the Big Five Personality paradigm may challenge how easily you ‘maintain frame’Interesting article, but I think you can make the Red Pill work for you with any underlying personality type, it's just going to be more effort. All of the various personality traits got passed down through the generations because they are useful. The paranoid personality guy does really well in a war situation where there are booby traps everywhere. The shy cautious guy avoids walking into the enemy ambush and ends up mating with the girl over the next mountain range instead of getting stabbed … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/18 07:35 AM |
| 9 | [Mod] What to do if you're approached by a reporter for an interview about The Red PillIf the reporter wants to write negative stuff, they'll just find someone to say a bunch of garbage and then quote whatever sounds the most obnoxious. Since we don't have 'card carrying members' they can find anyone to pretend to be Red Pill for a twenty second soundbite. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 06:15 PM |
| 25 | [Mod] What to do if you're approached by a reporter for an interview about The Red PillIf the reporter is hot, bang. If not, next, obviously. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/16 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyway to recover from failing to cum the first time you fuckDon't even worry about it. When you're done having sex, just pull out and go throw the condom away yourself. If you're fucking five girls a day you can run dry but so what? If you're not trying to get her pregnant, it doesn't matter, and even if you are trying to get her pregnant, it doesn't matter either. Literally don't even give it a second thought. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Hiding YourselfJust DGAF about it and own it. Listen to whatever kind of music you want and don't be a pussy about it. You would probably be happier in the big city where there are tons of other people who share the same interests. If you go to a high school in a small town, you maybe benefit from your 'mainstream' image, but once you are out in the world you would be better off doing the stuff that you are actually interested in, just as long as it isn't taking over your whole life. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 05:02 AM |
| 0 | Struggling to rid myself of a fetishI had a super-hot (regular female) plate who was into shemale porn. My personal opinion on something like that is that you can watch whatever you want as long it's not taking over your life or exposing you to some dangerous consequences. I like action movies, it doesn't mean I am going to go jump off a cliff. My advise to you would be to relax about it and not make a big deal out of it. Watch it every couple of weeks or whenever you feel like it, not all the time. It's not going to make you gay … | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Childhood sexual assault seems to be hindering physical escalation, any advice appreciated.Lay off the alcohol. Try cognitive therapy. You can do it yourself. Use mood gym or something like that. Yes it is like approach anxiety and the more you do it the easier it is. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 04:48 AM |
| 1 | How to handle scars from cutting on arm?I'd leave out the depression part and just say you went through a phase where you were edgy and cool or something. Gang initiation. Tell her you used to be violent and mysterious. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Joining the army soon + polygraphUse your time in the army to lift weights and put on muscle. Go to the best University in your country. People are almost never sad that they went to the best university. Relax about the polygraph. They won't find out anything that you don't tell them yourself. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 04:27 AM |
| 1 | am I mis-accurately assessing my SMV?Switch up your venues and the people you hang out with. You're going to the wrong places. Find some activities that you like that have girls like a class at the local college and pick up the girls there. Fish where the fish are. Go learn a new language and find yourself an 18 year old conversation partner who wants to learn English. That never fails. When you are stuck in a rut, change it up. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Wife kicked me out: Should I "unconditionally surrender" to keep the relationship until I make the RedPill transition?People here have come back from much worse. At least you're not a heroin addict and you're not 200 pounds overweight, I hope. You need to go home, get rid of the extra apartment, read the sidebar from start to finish, and start lifting weights and go on a keto or paleo diet until you look like an athlete or male model. Just live your life as if she's an annoying roommate that you don't have time for until you get your own act together. If you have some fun thing to do with your daughter you can … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you react to legitimately racist women?You can have sex with all the purple haired fat acceptance feminist social justice warriors with acceptable political views, and OP can have sex with all the skinny racists with nice tits who are racist pieces of shit. Isn't the world wonderful place? Someone for everyone! | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Moving to NYC: Need RP adviceHot girls from other countries who are in NYC for two days and looking to get laid before they leave, that's who. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Improve SMV vs starting to approachApproach at least 5 women a day. You don't have to try to befriend them or get them into bed or anything. Polite small talk is fine. "Is it raining outside?" "Have you ever tried the sushi here?" While most of these conversations will go nowhere and end soon, some of them will go somewhere, and then you can get to know the girl a little bit and invite her to go wherever. "I have to leave to go to the gym in 20 minutes but come have coffee with me..." | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:48 AM |
| 0 | Ltr questionIt would look bad and kill her attraction for you fast. Instead invite her to model or pose for you because you're interested in erotic photography or something. Maybe invite her to come over and cook you dinner and hang out. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:33 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, where does the red pill principles differ from Mark Manson's "Models"?Models is more about "game" than self-improvement. His approach seems to be about rapidly filtering out women who think you're lame so that you spend less wasted time dealing with shit tests and find someone who likes "the real you". Hence he recommends that you make yourself vulnerable. TRP, on the other hand, is about self-improvement and making yourself "not lame" so that you become an attractive person. They complement each other nicely. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:10 AM |
| 2 | How do you react to legitimately racist women?If you want to have sex with her you don't take it too seriously. Say something like actually my great-grandfather was Black and then when she apologizes or freaks out just say kidding he was the head of the KKK or Adolf Hitler's second cousin, or whatever. Basically whatever outrageous thing she says is a test of your frame, and you're happy and have a good time regardless of whatever nonsense comes out of her mouth. Treat it the same way you would treat a remark by her that she was abducted by… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Moving to NYC: Need RP adviceNeighborhood: Check out LIC, Murray Hill, Battery Park City. Slightly more affordable than Williamsburg or Greenwich Village. Groups: Get an IDNYC for free and it will give you free admission to lots of museums and cultural stuff for a year. Lots of fun cheap/free dating opportunities at Central Park Zoo etc. Transport: Just buy a monthly unlimited Metrocard and pay the $150 for an annual Citibike subscription. Sell or give away your car down South: it's only a liability in NYC and you can alway… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 04:43 AM |
| 6 | I fucked my aunts niece last night(no blood relation). Yet still feeling heavy regret right now.Dude, stop worrying about it. Enjoy it for what it is. Read Alan Carr's Easy way to Control Alcohol. Use condoms. No need to spend another moment worrying about it. Who cares what Auntie and Uncle think. Chalk it up to a good time and move on. You should probably have sex with her a few more times before you "break up" so she doesn't feel pumped and dumped. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/16 10:39 PM |
| 1 | JadedI do have some advice for you: Change up your diet and your exercise routines and hobbies. Join some totally different social circles and hang out in completely different places. Spend less time around your wife at home, and more time out with her doing stuff you have never done before. Same old, same old, gets BORING. Go vegan for a month or two or try paleo. You're stuck in a rut. You're bored with your life and your wife. Maybe make a point of only having sex with her in unusual places or som… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/16 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with physical shit tests.If you can physically pick her up and carry her around safely and her attacks are not too violent (say she slapped your face or was pounding on your chest or back or threw a wet towel at you or something...) you might consider laughing at her and picking her up and talking to her the same way you would if a three-year old girl did the same thing to you. "Now now, you know it's not nice to hit daddy. You're going to have to have a time out and go to your room until you can play nicely." Basically… | /r/askMRP | 09/03/16 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How likely am I to be the father?First of all if you used a condom properly and it did not break as you claim, then it's not your kid. I have seen girls pull this kind of thing when they ARE NOT EVEN PREGNANT. They get bored, need some excitement, decide that their last period felt different, and make shit up to see if you will marry them or take care of them forever. Her story is total bullshit. It's obvious that it's her ex's kid, if she is even pregnant at all. In the future to avoid any confusion, when you want to come, tak… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Wife HATES the ass slap.Mix it up a little, don't be boring and predictable. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Motherfucker. Wife's 911 call and I'm now in a hotel by the highway.Spend five bucks and get her this book: if she actually reads it there's a huge chance it will help her fix her alcohol problem. It's basically a "red pill" for booze. Allen Carr Easy Way to Control Alcohol or Stop Drinking http://www.amazon.com/Easy-Way-Stop-Drinking/ http://www.amazon.com/Allen-Carrs-Easy-Control-Alcohol-ebook/ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/16 03:26 PM |
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