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| 8 | Are normal men sexually attractive the same way women are to men?OP! Think really hard what I'm about to say. If you got a definitive answer would it truly make you happy? You will find evidence to support your line of thinking and could find plenty to disprove it. How is it helping you to think about any of this stuff? Just radically accept there will always be gender differences and start asking questions that will actually improve your life and things you can work on. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/26 10:52 PM |
| 7 | How is Believing in Blackpill and Doomer thoughts supposed to help you?If it's like talking to you I would rather not no offense. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 03:32 AM |
| 2 | How is Believing in Blackpill and Doomer thoughts supposed to help you?Most people, men included, do not acknowledge the insecurities of men. There's a reason why the body positivity movement included people like Lizzo, but she can make a song called big dick energy and no one bats an eye. Men are simultaneously expected to tolerate this ( I can't tell you how little engagement I get when I bring this up to my women friends ), but be confident despite it. It's hard to get into the momentum of doing so. I'm only going to mention this because you have every right to … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/26 01:17 AM |
| 6 | How is Believing in Blackpill and Doomer thoughts supposed to help you?Exactly! There could be some inkling of truth in certain ways but how does incorporating the redpill-Blackpill going to be happy for the soul? I would rather be 'Naive' or 'Ignorant' and be happy and live my life than the alternative of a belief system that provides no helpful solutions and is just genuinely harmful. Redpill dudes have got to have a lot of mental issues whether they would ever admit it do to bitterness, especially if they frequent online forums discussing related subjects with a… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/26 11:49 PM |
| -1 | Terrified that my brother is getting redpilled. How do I stop it?I'm just a lurker but all of the advice on here is just so wrong. The brother has watched his sister probably been in multiple relationships since high school while he has been alone so it's only natural to get some form of resentment and not take her advice into account. It's not her fault, but we are all emotional creatures. Ya wonder what his side of the story is. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/25 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I don't believe the majority of women prefer average sized penisesTo rephrase - was it a particular Google search or Reddit search that brought you to this post? Probably or he sorted the most controversial post in the last year like I did 😆 | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/25 01:33 PM |
| 28 | Can short men ever be sexually attractive?Who would have thought that Women are attracted to mentally, emotionally, and physically attractive men? You are allowed to be insecure but like Penis size there is way more important aspects to attraction. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/24 06:31 PM |
| 19 | Can short men ever be sexually attractive?Being tall and being short are the same in a sense that you need a lot more going for you. I'm 6'1 and on my way to becoming the 40-year-old virgin trope 😆. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/24 06:23 PM |
| -9 | How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women?Eh. There's also some serious fundamental inherent psychological differences, no? Exactly! Men and Women think and have very different lives. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/24 03:17 AM |
| -12 | When can I say it is 100% my looksFor the sake of argument, okay, your looks are that bad. Now what? What are you gonna do about it? There's nothing about this subreddit that is equipped to help with that. Not much one can do, it's like Penis size. Unless it's something like losing weight or a simple facial surgery for a big nose, otherwise your face is your face, and in my experience it definitely is a huge problem. Start hating yourself over negative experiences being ugly -> Get a worse personality. It's like a negative feedb… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/24 03:07 PM |
| 0 | RP claims women live life on easy modeSo, a lonely woman is equivalent to men dying in wars 😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/23 02:12 PM |
| 7 | MGTOW is one of the biggest traps, if we are honest.They talk about Women way too much. If they went stealth mode and gave up on having relationships with Women that would be a different story. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Another big thing is incels don’t have anyone in real life guiding them.The fact is that I've never seen good-looking incels. Bingo, same. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/23 11:30 AM |
| -8 | Rejecting modern dating advice for men and choosing honest vulnerability"I realized something that night, something that years in the manosphere never even came close to teaching me. That being vulnerable is not a weakness but a strength." Really? You have to be careful how you go about this though, personally live by the saying of you can't show them that you bleed. Men have to be stoic and leaned on by women, not the other way around. Good luck finding Women that actually want to see vulnerability in men. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/23 12:19 PM |
| 0 | The sleeping with 50 women theoryWhy are you insulting him? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/23 05:53 PM |
| 0 | With "pretty privilege" being pushed more and more by society, should it be our responsibility to simply looksmax to fit in?Red pill thinking is really good at making attraction seem like it's entirely dependent on women being shallow (whether that's looks or money) which is a copout because it absolves men from addressing their own problems. Suddenly the dude that can't respect women as friends or who doesn't bathe regularly or has a serious drinking problem or whatever doesn't have to address any of those things, they can just blame it on all women being shallow b*tches. Very true! However looks are very important … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/23 01:24 AM |
| -1 | With "pretty privilege" being pushed more and more by society, should it be our responsibility to simply looksmax to fit in?So a fit attractive woman would marry a Peter Griffin look alike for his personality? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/23 09:46 PM |
| 3 | I find it funny red pillars hate sex workersOh please, like anybody wants to see our bodies lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Don't feel masculine because of my average penis sizeThese men are lying and want to be told that they're big. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/23 12:11 AM |
| -6 | What kind of demographic is most vulnerable to the red pill?You sound no better than him lol, like pot calling the kettle black. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/23 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Is it healthy to live in a bubble?Not sure why you mention "woke", that is a good thing and isn't about hating white men. What's good about woke culture? Not sure where else to hangout as anything Soley for white dudes is probably either radicalized in some way, or a Lord of the rings fan club haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 06:10 PM |
| 2 | What is therapy supposed to accomplish?From my experience it works best dealing with trauma, if your issues don't directly stem from that then it's way harder to find traditional therapy productive. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 02:08 PM |
| 3 | There are worse things than dying alone.If being in a relationship is not an option for you then try to remember that it's important to have a circle of good people around you. Good point that friendships can replace relationships, do agree that there are worse things than dying alone, but if I can help it would like to live a large part of my life not alone, if that makes any sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/23 12:20 AM |
| 8 | There are worse things than dying alone.I've been alone my entire life and can't say I like it, seclusion and isolationism are great for a while but the loneliness and lack of intimacy is not healthy imo. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/23 11:48 PM |
| -7 | How can you be attractive to women, but not from a redpiller/pickup artist's perspective?Which women are you trying to be attractive to? A broad spectrum, don't really understand your question? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 08:53 PM |
| 2 | I'm jealous of other races who date white womenThey're not judging you for your colour in this case. Our attitude towards life also plays a role. When I had/have seasonal depression, my attitude suffers and I don't have as many opportunities to hang out with friends (I'm pretty sure most of us hibernate anyways haha). Alternatively, I think you're expecting to be seen by others, have them come to you, give you sex and attention, and service you. This is a human egocentric bias. You're going to be invisible because people have their own lives… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 05:02 PM |
| 1 | No one talks about the loneliness men go through.Ok, so fighting fire with fire? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | So, how does a guy supposed to get confidence and be interesting to women?This might be one of the big problems about video games, been playing stuff since I was 5 playing a gameboy advance. Can't say I can have eloquent conversations about them though, have other niche hobbies but for me it's like I'm not funny and don't have tons of stories to tell like others do. Basically I have nothing to offer and am boring, but I'm also 24 so if I ever want to date early 30's would be the earliest which is depressing. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/23 12:48 AM |
| -3 | What is ya’lls opinion on the fact women file for divorce 70% of the time, 90% if she is college educated. The vast majority of the time for financial reasonsSo no answer then | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 07:44 PM |
| -5 | What is ya’lls opinion on the fact women file for divorce 70% of the time, 90% if she is college educated. The vast majority of the time for financial reasonsSure, and what's a great partner? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 06:15 PM |
| -14 | What is ya’lls opinion on the fact women file for divorce 70% of the time, 90% if she is college educated. The vast majority of the time for financial reasonsWhat's the point of relationships? Seriously can see why fwb culture is more of a thing now. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Is this RP statistic true?To me it seems like women make more than men | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/23 02:15 PM |
| -1 | This shit is complete suicide fuel. Cant tell me this isnt how most modern women areOk? Does this have anything to do with the question I asked? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/23 11:40 PM |
| 2 | This shit is complete suicide fuel. Cant tell me this isnt how most modern women areare too scared to approach women in real life and rely solely on dating apps to get laid. Where do you approach or locations do women actually want to be approached? Guarantee 100% of the places I go regularly women wouldn't want to have a forced conversation with a pickup artist. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/23 11:25 PM |
| 4 | redpill is the most feminine and overly emotional group"Plus the obsession with being attractive" If anything this is the only thing the redpill gets right. Women are just like men and need to find the guy attractive. Going to the gym and looksmaxxing improves one's odds significantly, especially on Old since that's the only place to meet someone anymore it seems. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Anybody else find guys who call themselves "feminist's," cringe?Something that often gets brought up are high suicide death rates, lack of intimacy etc but if you think about why those things happen: it's because men have been told over and over and over again that they need to be a very specific type of man to get appreciation or go die in a hole. This is something feminism is trying to solve - they're trying to help you It's because nobody cares about men, what is it 1,000 men a week are dying for the russians right now? Feminists, especially one's on inte… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/23 04:18 AM |
| -1 | Anybody else find guys who call themselves "feminist's," cringe?Why are you judging who I quoted, especially when it's relevant lol. You're very hard to engage with. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 03:12 AM |
| -2 | Anybody else find guys who call themselves "feminist's," cringe?Nah, Actions speak far more than words ever will "Any man who must say, "I am the King", is no true king." Tywin Lannister | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 02:52 AM |
| -2 | Anybody else find guys who call themselves "feminist's," cringe?Do you not support equal rights for women, based on the (human) equality of the sexes? Of course I do, but not going to brag or declare to others I'm a feminist, real G's move in silence. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 02:14 AM |
| -5 | Anybody else find guys who call themselves "feminist's," cringe?First off you replied to that ignoring that I said "Already do" Second off I'm not a feminist, so confused about your second sentence? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 12:01 AM |
| -13 | Anybody else find guys who call themselves "feminist's," cringe?Grow up. I think you need to grow up honestly, especially comparing this to Black Lives Matter and getting this angry over one guy's opinion. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 11:04 PM |
| -5 | Anybody else find guys who call themselves "feminist's," cringe?Any man that called himself a feminist so far in my life, felt like doing that will give him some bonus points. Thank You! That's what I thought as well, almost like the nice guy thing so women like you more, so you expect a reward or something? Already do, but hopefully someday when I have a girlfriend or wife, will 100% support them in their endeavors and also don't have to use a label to say that, would rather my actions speak for myself, know what I mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you really "choose" who you date?I hear it all the time on any advice regarding dating for men or on the topic. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you really "choose" who you date?People really need to start teaching young men to have standards Men get told to lower their standards all the time, so which is it? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/01/23 03:56 PM |
| 2 | True thoughts about nofap?Cool! Reading your comments at first and thought you were against masturbation also, that makes sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/23 04:51 PM |
| 2 | True thoughts about nofap?You still have to take accountability and actions to make yourself and your own life better, which the dopamine detox of NoFap can help with. Are you meaning porn by dopamine? Because having sex and masturbation should give the same amount of dopamine, right? Never heard a dude or a woman who has sex a lot should stop because of dopamine, that would sound goofy. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/23 02:09 PM |
| 9 | True thoughts about nofap?[M24] Last year attempted nofap, at least the variant that said no masturbation. Could only make it to 21 days before I felt like going crazy. Your libido is a huge factor in abstaining and the enjoyment of it. Personally find the idea Men have these "Secret juices," misogynistic that only guys have this "Superpower," where it's only a gift men have that women don't. Feels like a cope to try and give power back to men, totally get cutting out porn though. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/01/23 02:06 AM |
| 1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?I don't care about him, hate the term. This is worse than saying he has a small dick, because how would she know, and that would just be dismissed as stupid. What she said is that he is acting like he has a small dick, and in order for it to be an insult, that means having a small dick is a negative. I can't understand the mental gymnastics some people are doing to try and say this isn't body shaming. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?just maybe, you could not take a phrase so personally? No, I'm not going to let other people shame men for their penis size, even if you find it funny, the reverse wouldn't be ok and have no idea why men have to be the punching bag. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 05:47 PM |
| -1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?You clearly don't understand. No guy would have sex and not even get pleasure or an orgasm like women would for a small dick, even aesthetically it's not even remotely comparable. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?I don't care about him; This whole post pretty much has nothing to do with Andrew Tate, but the term as a whole. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 04:18 PM |
| 0 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?So, you wouldn't be pissed of hearing someone else getting bullied right in front of you or something like that because it doesn't concern you? I wouldn't want to be treated that way, and not out of pity, but more out of respect not going to sit and let some asshole get the satisfaction about putting someone else down. Feel like men really need to start pumping each other up and supporting oneself, know what I mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 03:23 PM |
| -1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?She didn’t say he had a small dick. That's full of shit and you know it | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?Are you an idiot? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?because she knew that this would be an insult for him. Gee I wonder why | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 03:00 PM |
| 2 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?Also she didn't even say "you have a small dick". That's exactly what she heavily implied and used it as a gotcha moment and a reason for humiliation. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?While an argument should be made that society should abandon body-shaming people that have penises, "penis size" matters a lot more to men than it does to women. Well obviously, men are the one's who live with them, clearly women do not care and hate men, which after hearing women defend this, have no idea why I would support women in any of their endeavors after this. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 02:56 PM |
| -1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?Except that's not even a good comparison. You would need to find a term for a vagina that's not aesthetically pleasing, but also doesn't function to actually pleasure, which clearly women don't understand. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 02:53 PM |
| -1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?saying a guy has a small dick Why do you think this is an insult? Clearly because men have experiences in their life to back small being bad as a fact. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 02:51 PM |
| -1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?Aren't the expectations different if they know you're ftm? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?lol | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 07:13 PM |
| 0 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?I'm average 5.5, my old friend group would joke sometimes, but never using terms like "Small dick energy," and if they did, would have left that group sooner than I originally did lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 07:02 PM |
| 0 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?The joke isn’t his dick size It absolutely is, why not say Big energy or small energy? I don't care to defend him, but I don't like the term to begin with as everyone unless someone like you who chooses to look past it, knows what is heavily implied. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 06:52 PM |
| -2 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?It's odd because in my interactions it's mostly women who defend the term religiously, like I made this post specifically because I was arguing with a woman about this morning, and she ended up saying "I still don't care lol". In my experience it's women who primarily use this term like Kim Kardashian. The problem is they don't always use the term to talk about dicks, but rather to mention a charismatic, funny, extroverted man, but by saying "Big Dick," in the phrase, heavily implying that big i… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 06:19 PM |
| 3 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?But why Not "Small Energy?". Like, wow that guy has Big Energy, or that Guy has Real Small Energy right now. People know what they're doing by putting Dick into the phrase and guarantee the term originated from the fact that Big is better, or at least that was the consensus from the originators of the term, hence why someone who is charismatic has "Big Dick Energy," as big is seen as a good thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 06:04 PM |
| -1 | What is up with "Small dick energy," and why is that ok?To be frank, don't want to make women out to be the villain, but all I hear is how I'm supposed to be confident, and then I hear stuff like this and it's like, don't blame men for feeling shitty when you spout phrases like this lol. I couldn't imagine saying a woman who's acting out in public has "Small tits energy," or something like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | What should I do with all this love I have inside of me?Beat your meat, work out, and go do some good for your community It ain't enough, honestly everytime I masturbate hate myself a little bit more. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Market ValueWell, I was just wondering what makes a guy have a high sexual value and how that's different than the term high value man? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Sexual Market ValueDoes sexual market value mean penis size primarily? Because what's the diff between this and high value man? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so cold and distant?Do you meet people at social settings? No, don't currently have an outlet like most people do. Doing simple things like going to the grocery store and leaving my comfort zone is helpful, but when I get no indication at all that they don't want to even look at me, just come back home back at square one. 100% bet could go to that store right now and they wouldn't even say Merry Christmas or anything, unless I forcibly say it first, just weird. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so cold and distant?If a large number of people are avoiding eye contact with you, you have to get to the logical conclusion that the problem is with you and not them Well obviously. Yes men interact with me totally different, they actually look and acknowledge my existence, even have pretty chill conversations, it's always with women where I feel like a freak or something. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so cold and distant?. And you give me the impression you’re just silently eye-fucking them and probably weird if them out. Well your impression is wrong, I give some eye contact and after they clearly don't even want to look at me or anything, just look away and do something else until they hand me my change and leave I guess? They sure aren't nice and smile to me, and I don't even care about that, it's the avoiding eye contact and not even wanting to look at me that weirds me out, like I'm a freak or something. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so cold and distant?Dude they're the cashiers, have never heard that I have to be the one to start any conversation or engagement, that's like saying it's the customers job at Walmart to greet the employees at the entrance, they literally pay people to do that for a reason. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so cold and distant?I wonder what would happen if you simply smiled and said “hello, how’s it going?” And “thanks, happy holidays!”. I bet you’d get more people to be social with you. Could be true, but when they don't even greet or say anything, it kinda sets the tone and have no idea how they could read my energy the literal second I walk up, unless I am ugly or something, which I don't believe so. If these people gave me literally any indication whatsoever that they would like even a little bit of chitchat in be… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/12/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so cold and distant?Do you say anything to them first? “Hello, how are you? Happy holidays!” With a smile on your face? No! Feel like that would be very forced, and giving off the body language, don't believe that's what they would want me to do to begin with. I'm receptive of other people's energy, and the energy I tend to feel is very cold or distant, which makes me that way in the process. Not even saying anything, even as a common curtesy and looking away makes me believe that for the most part I am correct, th… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/12/22 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Ex red pilled men. Have a read of what the general population are thinking. Outside of red pill circles.Why don't tall women not want to date tall men their height? I don't really understand this. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/22 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Ex red pilled men. Have a read of what the general population are thinking. Outside of red pill circles.Exactly! I'm 6'1 and all it does is make me stick out like a sore thumb lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Good looks are to dating, what being born wealthy is to your financial statusThat's interesting! Personally, I would think you're out of my league, and not in a sad/mopey way, but more of a don't want to waste your time kinda way. I'm all for shooting my shot, but if you're really attractive than it's literally 0%. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/12/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how people can recommend dating apps for menDon't you have friends from high school, college or your work? Left my highschool friend group last year as they honestly weren't that great of people. Never went to college and I work at home. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/22 01:20 PM |
| 4 | How can a 30 year old incel guy meet college aged girls?I'm a 30 yo woman in college. That's cool! If you don't mind me asking, why so late? I'm 24 and discouraged that I never went, but at the same time debt don't sound that great haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | r/IncelExit won't unblock me and are super toxicI also want to date women my age "24," but in my experience women are so far ahead of me in general with jobs, college degree, income, stuff like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/12/22 06:02 PM |
| 5 | You heard about "Pickup" and how it's said to help men get laid. These guides are man-hating themselves, even when written by men. GeneralExactly! Redpill isn't the answer, but the alternatives aren't that great for men either. I can't force a woman to like me. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how people can recommend dating apps for menLive in an isolated town, also extremely hard to find someone that I jive with. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how people can recommend dating apps for menI have no friends, but this is still good advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous and Envious of womenHello! I'm currently skinnyfat and last year was on a strict calorie deficit and got to 146 pounds before stopping, still had stomach fat and wasn't gaining muscle. I was consuming around 110 grams of protein daily, but maybe it wasn't enough with the lifting I was doing. Now I'm back to 190 and don't have a clue how to tackle this issue. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm jealous and Envious of womenI'm 6'1, my problem is the expectation of How I should be and act and how I'm not like that at all. I want to feel handsome, or sexy, just desirable to someone else. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I still don't understand how someone is supposed to be confidentit’s dealing with your body’s reaction to whatever it is that is causing your anxiety. How does this work? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I still don't understand how someone is supposed to be confident. It helps you find the underlying causes, and what triggers your anxiety and other not so pleasant feelings. A big problem for me is my looks, and how others view them. Even earlier went to dollar general and the cashier dude was far more attractive than I am, honestly wonder what he thought while looking at me and my dumb fur coat I was wearing. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | I still don't understand how someone is supposed to be confidentSo knowledge? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | I still don't understand how someone is supposed to be confidentSo, what is making you anxious? Is it anxiety? I found a combination of cognitive behavioural therapy (if taken seriously) and medication at the beginning helped immensely for my anxiety. I also treated my adhd, and that calmed me down and finally stopped me from spiralling. Interesting! I've been to therapy and a ton of different medications "Currently on bupropion," and Never felt that much of a change, especially with meds, it's like I'm immune to the actual affects of meds or something haha.… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/22 08:45 PM |
| 2 | I still don't understand how someone is supposed to be confidentA lot of it is my appearance to be honest, that's what I'm the least confident in. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/22 06:05 PM |
| 3 | I still don't understand how someone is supposed to be confident. As with all forms of anxiety, you have to put yourself into those situations, feel the discomfort, and reflect on it later to see that actually, having that conversation didn't hurt you, you're not banned from the gym because you used equipment wrong, and your life hasn't fallen apart because you said "Thanks, you too!" to the waiter who said "enjoy your meal." I relate to this so much! Once a guy walking on the street asked if I had a lighter, said no and as he walked away I said "Thanks" 😆. … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | I hate how much more power women haveWhy is not getting laid a tragedy? That's sad, all I'm going to say. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | No flirting personalityIs flirting kinda like poking fun? Like, "Wow those socks fit you good" Saying something dumb like that, but in a more playful and suggestive tone? For some reason in my head that's what I think flirting is. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/22 01:08 PM |
| 5 | No flirting personalityGenerally being confident, relaxed in your own skin I'm jealous of the people who can do this no problem | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | I cant stop resenting and seeing my girlfriend as a slut because of what she would do... Red pill CC idea doesnt helpYa, I'm confused? Was Op saying that she wanted to do gangbangs to solve her depression? That's what I thought at first, but maybe I interpreted that wrong. What set of questions lead up to her saying that? If it was an ultimatum, then that makes more sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | I cant stop resenting and seeing my girlfriend as a slut because of what she would do... Red pill CC idea doesnt helpI disagree, she could have given an answer that is more in line with OP's view on sex. She said the truth, which is good, but shows they aren't compatible in this way. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/22 01:19 PM |
| 3 | I cant stop resenting and seeing my girlfriend as a slut because of what she would do... Red pill CC idea doesnt helpNot sure why you're being downvoted, any woman that is sleeping around and having sex with tons and tons and tons of men is not relationship material, at least for me. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/22 01:14 PM |
| -7 | Is it ridiculous that I'm jealous Women can use Onlyfans as extra income?I'm not attractive and I don't have a big dick, anybody can play Minecraft, but that market is way more saturated than OF ever could be. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/22 01:42 PM |
| -12 | Is it ridiculous that I'm jealous Women can use Onlyfans as extra income?Only problem is I don't have a big dick, that's why I mentioned no one would want to see me naked. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/22 12:25 AM |
| -16 | Is it ridiculous that I'm jealous Women can use Onlyfans as extra income?Ok, was thinking women were getting around 1,000 a month, so that's a lot lower. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it ridiculous that I'm jealous Women can use Onlyfans as extra income?What's stopping you from doing that? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/11/22 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Exploring An Abandoned House- Everything Left!!Is the abandoned house a metaphor for the future of Redpilled men if they don't change? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/11/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | After watching House of the dragons, honestly see redpillers point of view, regarding the fangirls for Daemon TargaryenMany men go insane for "bad" girls I just can't relate because I don't and personally don't know any men in my life who do. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/11/22 01:09 PM |
| 0 | After watching House of the dragons, honestly see redpillers point of view, regarding the fangirls for Daemon TargaryenI know women who likes Daemon as a character but absolutely would be disgusted by him if he was a real person. But what about him is something to fantasize about? Totally understand what you're saying though, if we were to take anything away, very few men shown aren't despicable. Probably Viserys, and his second hand with the last name "Strong", are the few good men. The scene where that dude with the cane required Allicent to show her feet to him for information was so gross 😐, men aren't shown… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/22 06:04 PM |
| 4 | After watching House of the dragons, honestly see redpillers point of view, regarding the fangirls for Daemon TargaryenYa, cringed right after I made this post, felt like deleting honestly. No way every woman likes this trope as everyone is different, but I can't deny what I see and how it personally makes me feel. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How much does leaving parents and living alone improve dating chances?Yes! I've only ever lived in a small town. Would need to know how I could get a job before moving, because I assume you would need a cash flow of money before an apartment is possible. Also what if my car stalls in Iowa midway? Do I just die haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | How much does leaving parents and living alone improve dating chances?Not to get in too much detail, there is no way I could right now as I caregive for my brother, but I'm already 24 and nothing is changing for the better, so I'm kinda stuck. Wanted to go back to the gym, but the amount of money it will cost to gain muscle with food and the membership itself might be better utilized for moving. That's the thing though, I know literally nothing about moving, or how much pocket money will need for an apartment? Obviously finding a job is the first priority, all stu… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | How much does leaving parents and living alone improve dating chances?True! That's why the logistics would have to be figured out first. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you give up finding a girlfriend?How did you move across the country? Like the logistics of that. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/22 12:58 PM |
| 2 | [M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me.How do you travel? I've always wanted to go on an adventure, but always been scared of not knowing some information. Like what if your car stalled in a foreign place? How to afford the costs of travel, and as you said, the costs are really expensive! My fears are like, what if I get lost in all the traffic and stuff. I'm pretty comfortable driving in backwater Minnesota, but driving to Minneapolis on my own sounds fun, but again the thought also makes me nervous 😅. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/22 03:17 PM |
| 6 | [M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me.Hamtaro Oh my gosh, forgot about Hamtaro! "From your description of her what I feel the qualities you like are the following: confident/uninhibited in being herself, funny, and knowledgeable" Honestly, nail on the head, especially with how open and loud her laugh was, have heard people complain about annoying laughs before, but I find them an extremely underrated cool trait. I visited that sub and saw the clip of kids getting knocked down ice skating 🤣. Random, sudden stuff like that always gets… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/22 05:03 AM |
| 2 | [M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me.Hey, quick question! Do you need a specific card or anything to get edibles? Looking online and one article said that so I'm confused, because no way I'm getting a doctors letter for this haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | [M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me.Would say no, at least not the type of depression cured by Seratonin ssri's. None worked for me and gave a bunch of different brands an honest shot, but they did nothing, and I'm going to be off my parents medical in a few years, no way I could afford that, especially if there not even helping. Honestly the last thing I haven't tried is edible's. They are now legal in my state, and could really loosen myself up in social situations, never used drugs ever before, but it could help with these issu… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/22 12:50 AM |
| 2 | [M24] My personality is 100% the problem, but struggle to change that, and the Redpill never helped me., find new things, study those, learn another thing, etc. Then you just keep going for the rest of your life until you unlock God mode. Where do you find the interest, or energy to do this? If Innately I enjoyed this, there would be no issues, but a part of me likes being stagnant and not pushing myself, so stuck in a cycle if that makes any sense. My interests are basically like a 15 year olds, character development between 15-24 has been very little, at least socially. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/10/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I've been told Women think about sex in a more romantic way, how can a guy appeal to that?People say I'm average, but I certainly don't feel like it, unless personality comes into play. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/22 12:29 PM |
| 2 | I've been told Women think about sex in a more romantic way, how can a guy appeal to that?Thanks for noticing! I always read and like the responses and go about my day. Used to argue with people, so I try to not do that. I feel like the question I asked really doesn't have a straight answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/10/22 01:51 AM |
| 3 | I've been told Women think about sex in a more romantic way, how can a guy appeal to that?Thanks! I'm a clean slate at the moment, that's why I was wondering if I interpret what romance really means differently. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/22 06:32 PM |
| -3 | I've been told Women think about sex in a more romantic way, how can a guy appeal to that?So, you want to manipulate someone into the relationship while not showing who you truly are? How do you think it will end? Not good, but what I am as a person currently doesn't appeal to women, so it's just something I was wondering. Being my authentic self is playing videogames and being asocial. I'm Trying to build characteristics, even if I'm already 24. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/22 03:53 PM |
| 16 | Can someone explain the whole alpha fucks/beta bucks thing to me? Do you think it’s real? What are your thoughts. It sounds downright terrifying.I feel like this comment section proves that there is a middle ground. Redpill is wrong, but "Bluepill" or far left or feminist individuals who say this doesn't happen, or rarely so to protect women as a group are also wrong as well. Women are just as shitty as men, people need to accept that. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/22 03:03 AM |
| -3 | One of the latest studies on the outcomes fatherless families, shows that what matters more are positive male role models more than a mere father at home.Hot take, father figures are overrated. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/10/22 12:38 PM |
| 0 | Is it normal to be treated worse and invisible by people? Speaking as a man.She does look young for her age, kinda proves my point that looks are important, hence why Incellers get their belief in the first place. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to be treated worse and invisible by people? Speaking as a man.Thanks, I already knew that. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to be treated worse and invisible by people? Speaking as a man.Nope, skinny guy who wears tighter shirts that actually fit. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/22 11:16 PM |
| 0 | Is it normal to be treated worse and invisible by people? Speaking as a man.24 | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/22 08:16 PM |
| -1 | Do they not understand that freedom of speech doesn’t apply to YouTube?freedom of speech doesn’t mean entitlement to a platform and a megaphone, Convenient way to remove people's thoughts you don't approve of. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/22 11:04 PM |
| -2 | Do they not understand that freedom of speech doesn’t apply to YouTube?When did I say we used to have freedom of Speech on youtube? My point is freedom of speech doesn't exist anymore, regardless of YouTube, or any other internet platform. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/22 11:03 PM |
| -3 | Do they not understand that freedom of speech doesn’t apply to YouTube?"How do you feel when redpillers get de-platformed?" I would argue freedom of speech doesn't exist anymore. Anything anybody says will offend someone, don't speak your mind, or at least make sure it's the most popular opinion so you won't get canceled. Charles Barkley on the tnt crew can't even talk about San Antonio Women anymore, because so many people "Even a minority of women" got offended by his jokes. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Men claiming the'yre "a good guy but ignored" are usually not good in actualityI'm kind natured, but passive and shy. Actually avoid women to not have awkward situations, but I know this is a big problem. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 04:33 PM |
| 7 | Who came up with the idea that women like douchebags?Do douchebags struggle to date or find relationships? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/10/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about women with BPD.I was with a man that beat the crap out of me. As much as i was a victim, I still played my own role. I chose to date him, I stayed longer than I should have, I missed red flags, etc. Naw, you're probably older than me, and have way more life experience, but I disagree. Believe you're being too hard on yourself, being in an abusive relationship sounds scary, and putting myself in your shoes, fear and denial would be huge obstacles to overcome. You did the best you could do in the moment and taki… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Can we talk about women with BPD.If this was one of Op's first relationship, or had a deep friendship before things got further along, not sure how anyone could hold him accountable for staying, especially when he did eventually leave. That's mentally manipulated him and taking the blame off his abuser. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | I finally mustered up the courage. I'm going to see a therapist 😊Naw, she must be incredibly stupid, or naive if she would need to make a reddit post to find out she needs to dump her boyfriend, especially being the more "Empathetic" gender, as I've heard people say around hear countless times. Would love for OP to look at my message and get mad, proving me wrong, fulfilling therapy and dump the boyfriend, just saying that's probably not going to happen. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I finally mustered up the courage. I'm going to see a therapist 😊I will probably get downvoted for saying this, but your advice will probably fall on deaf ears. People like Op will always come back, or find another abusing boyfriend. You can say all you want or try to help them, but they will always go back, sometimes it's better to just move on, obviously Op knows her boyfriend isn't great. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Should we normalize men feeling fulfilled in life despite not having success in dating?But I want sex with a caring person, don't think people understand that it borders on an actual need, even if it's low on Haslows needs. Of course, can live without it, but even last night had a dream about a naked woman, it's hard to be like "Just move on and enjoy other things", when my brains like "Hey those Women are pretty cool, you should get to know some and go from there...." | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Because of my lack of success in dating, I think I've missed out on a fundamental part of young adulthood.How did things change? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 02:54 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being an incelWhat do you mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/22 12:45 AM |
| 8 | How to stop being an incelYa, and thought I had issues, you need serious help lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being an incelmuscles, deep voice, symmetrical face, strong jawline, broad shoulders Puts into perspective that I have none of these traits. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/09/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | How to be as friendly, outgoing, and even more importantly, approachable as possible?Where I live there is nothing besides church groups, even meetup.com didn't yield responses. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How to be as friendly, outgoing, and even more importantly, approachable as possible?Thanks! Need to take care of my teeth, that's kinda what I thought, last thing I would like to do is forcing it, but isn't that the whole point of faking it till you it? | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Feel bad saying this, but wouldn't want to date a woman with autismA person might be extroverted and autistic at the same time, what would you do then?!? I was thinking that in the back of my head honestly, but to be diagnosed, one must have asocial or other tendency's, right? What other things get someone diagnosed with high functioning asd? Anyway, it's like having a partner who smokes, very hard to not smoke with them, if a partner is asocial, hard for myself to push comfort zone when the other is actively doing the opposite. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/09/22 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Men & Women differences in datingAgree with everything you said, also don't think majority even want kids anymore. So being "Father of her kids" isn't that relevant. All I know is men need to be attractive, charismatic, interesting, and funny. Unfortunately it's a lot to ask for some, but men with these traits have no problem dating. You can have a few or most, but any man better have at least a few of those four traits if they want relationships, or like me have 0 chance, which is partly my fault and out of my control as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Do men need college to be successful and attractive to women?What? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Do men need college to be successful and attractive to women?There are trends though, if you were to get a picture of me and a guy in a magazine, 100% of Women would say magazine guy is more handsome and attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over the anger from being less than 6 ft? As in, how did you get around the incel-like rhetoric around women and height?Honestly, dream fantasy guys for me include but are not limited to Tyrion Lannister post injury scar (by Peter Dinklage), Indiana Jones (by Harrison Ford). They are equally sexy, fuckable, and dream wedding husbands to have a billion babies with Extremely attractive men, when will men learn that looks are more important than height, or any other trait. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do men need college to be successful and attractive to women?Probably, or at least a replacement, people also meet relationships at college too. Don't have the drive others talk about, but currently thinking anything out there I would care enough to want to be successful. Personally don't care about money much, or slaving away at a 9-5 job. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Do men need college to be successful and attractive to women?You're right that I'm not smart. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/09/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | If What we are attracted too is all subconscious, what's the point?Thanks! You say a lot of truth, a lot of advice I needed to hear. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | If What we are attracted too is all subconscious, what's the point?. I do it because I like it, Well unfortunately I don't, even lifting is a chore, going to any public meetups or something. Basically only doing it because know I have to socialize, even today going to Walmart was brutal, was wearing a stupid shirt that grabs attention, and my face currently looks like shit, sunburned acne scars with freckles. When I looked at my reflection in there, wanted to leave as soon as possible. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/09/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | If What we are attracted too is all subconscious, what's the point?Hello! Totally get self improvement for myself, I have gained some weight "185", my looks were once "average", "now slightly above average", according to redditors in the past, so not much of change lol. That's true, but my social skills suck even more than my looks, and hate socializing, just not something I like doing. My therapist moved, so now contemplating if I even want to seek out a new one. Well that's my problem, have to try to be a different person, because the way I am now is incapabl… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | society always talks about nice guys? but never nice girls....I’ve always found it funny that men have such high standards for women’s beauty, and then complain they can’t find a date. Bro, just don't want someone I literally have to take care of, if anything Women have such high standards With the Trifecta of Attractiveness, Money, and interesting/funny/Fun guy to be around. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/09/22 01:45 AM |
| 18 | How can i reverse TRP bullcrap out of my mind? I'm 29F, engaged to a wonderful man but can't help feeling that I am only ''useful'' for him in the next 4 years since when fertility goes, women have no value. I know this is false but cannot stop believing it and feeling self loathing.Thank you! This probably isn't even a woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/22 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit.Obviously lol, thanks for your insight. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/22 01:27 PM |
| 4 | Addressing the whole "80% of men are below average" clam: It's likely complete horeshit.Or women simply like ugliness lol! Masculinity can look rugged and ugly at times, unfortunately personality is where many like myself drop the ball. Have to be a funny interesting person. I just don't care to be these things or change my lifestyle to be more appealing. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/09/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers claiming that young (18-29) women are **sexually** attracted to men in their 50s/60s: are they really this fucking delusional???An internet personality named Dan Avidan is a 40 year old man who has been dating an extremely young 20 some woman. Only mentioning that as it's something I learned about not long ago. Never see the reverse happen, firmly believe women don't mind gaps at all, at least compared to men with old women. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers claiming that young (18-29) women are **sexually** attracted to men in their 50s/60s: are they really this fucking delusional???So maybe not explicitly 50 but that "fine wine phrase" shows the mentality sold where they that age doesn't effect men. It doesn't hot take, men age better, get into relationships and marry later than women do on average, why do you think that is? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers claiming that young (18-29) women are **sexually** attracted to men in their 50s/60s: are they really this fucking delusional???My mom married my dad, age gap was 20 years to 32, that's a sizeable difference. Redpill is correct that women do find older men "Experienced", more than men find older women attractive. 50's and 60's is laughable though, do they even say this, or are just making this post for upvotes? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Hi I’m eveana I’m here to meet and have fun 👅 hmu 👅😉No thanks | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Hi I’m eveana I’m here to meet and have fun 👅 hmu 👅😉Why of all subs are you posting here? Not clicking the spoiler as I can assume what it is. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 02:14 AM |
| 3 | should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore?Well, if you're legit, seek help outside of reddit, therapy has been awesome for me. You sound more intelligent than me, especially the profession you're going into, that's why you need an outsider's opinion to unravel your thoughts, because as you already know, they're unhealthy and not even close to reality. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 11:15 PM |
| 17 | should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore?Is this satire? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How redpilled guys become exredpilledWe all wanna date someone similar to us The problem for someone like me is I have a personality type that 1% of people have "According to Myers Briggs", so meeting someone like me is so low. So yes, pursuing goals and values sounds cool, but other people from the opposite sex want to match as you say. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How redpilled guys become exredpilledThe only thing that makes sense is to find your own personal reason to live. And pursue it, no matter how hard it gets, or stupid it may sound to other people. Unfortunately, nobody cares or is attracted to the comic guy from the Simpsons, no matter how interested, or intently he pursues his interests. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Where's the best place to meet good people, and avoid toxic men/women?I massively relate! Also ditched my old friend group "Currently friendless", not anywhere as severe what you dealt with though. I'm only afraid of guns 😕, like a knife will do nothing in that situation, at least if I was wearing a bullet proof vest, could perhaps survive shots, and could spray the bastard. Going to check that sub out, thanks! | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Where's the best place to meet good people, and avoid toxic men/women?Wherever you can meet diverse people was my mom’s suggestion rather than to limit my pool to where it is thought to be safer. That's an interesting point, one must consider if the pros outweigh the cons. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Where's the best place to meet good people, and avoid toxic men/women?[Trigger Warning] I got sexually exploited by 5 of my guy "friends" for years and they all had me extorted into silence until recently (covertly threatened to expose what I had shared with them in confidence if I didn't comply with their 'needs'). These are things that happened that never crossed my mind, even though I have Autism, really bad anxiety, PTSD, and loop hundreds of scenarios in my head per day without an ability to stop it. Wow, that's awful.... I'm happy to hear you got out of that… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Where's the best place to meet good people, and avoid toxic men/women?If true crime content affects you badly to the point of being scared of reasonable human contact, then you need to stop watching it. The reason these shows are being made is their shock factor. I.e. the precise fact that it does not happen all the time. Thanks! That's exactly what I thought after I made this post, have no idea how people can hear this stuff all the time. Like even heard a story of a guy luring people on his property for some solid paying work, literally in two separate circumsta… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 12:57 PM |
| -5 | Andrew tate YouTube removedDisagree. He gained a following for a reason. Nobody pointed a gun at these dudes heads to consume his content. These social media platforms making the decision doesn't help anyone, only the ad money the platforms get. Men need to make the choice themselves to change or look at dating from a different perspective. I'm sorry, but as a guy, Andrew Tate getting the following he did so quickly shows a lot of men are gross. Nothing will change, there will be a new Andrew Tate and the cycle will repea… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/22 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Would the world be a better place if Men were more like Women?Blah Blah to you pal. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to be a leader/ dominant in sex and the relationshipYou must be attractive if that's true, personally believe it's a waste of time for even average dudes, not women's fault as apps are built to be superficial, but don't need my low self-esteem pummeled even further. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be a leader/ dominant in sex and the relationshipI would pass on dating apps, everything else you said is spot on though! | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be a leader/ dominant in sex and the relationshipI agreed with everything else you said, but this was different. So what are feminine women like? Do they also grow overly dependent? Bigger point that I find worrying is what do you mean by dependent? If it's emotional support, there is a reason why men don't show their emotions to women, as someone like you comes around to say that's childish. Could be wrong about what you mean, but that's what it sounds like to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be a leader/ dominant in sex and the relationshipIf you want a totally "feminine" role, most women will not want that because you are not going to be their partner. You will be a child to take care of. Isn't this dissing women in a sense? Also showing women want masculine role, even the consequences of some who have toxic masculinity. I just thought that was odd, so if a guy acts like a woman, he's a kid in females eyes? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to be a leader/ dominant in sex and the relationshipIt makes it way harder to find a compatible partner though. Like if some kind, stoic and more dominant woman lives in Cuba, that's cool, but I will never get to meet her. It's really difficult to find someone with specific personality traits. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Cuckoldry is not a "fetish", it is the normal human sexual behavior😆 | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/22 01:04 PM |
| 2 | What standards or preferences do former redpill men and woman have here?I don't like jealousy, Great point! Could have went further into personality traits as well, jealousy is a backbreaker. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/22 11:13 PM |
| -2 | the key to freedom from all types of pill ideologies (red-pill, blue-pill, etc.) is realizing that women are very very similar to men when it comes to their brain."both men and women prefer handsome partners. both men and women prefer "successful" partners (whatever it mean to each person) both men and women prefer a physically attractive partner, who smells good, can maintain a good conversation, has a sense of humour, etc. etc both men and women prefer a confident partner who can lead and knows what they want from life." This is true, but also proves the blackpill right, no? Like realistically how likely can any of this change? To me it reads as genet… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/22 05:22 AM |
| 2 | Would the world be a better place if Men were more like Women?100%, privacy is really important! | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 06:23 PM |
| 6 | Would the world be a better place if Men were more like Women?Do you really think women are always super honest and open to eachother? More than men 100%. Not sure what your attitude is about but I don't care for it. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 7 | Would the world be a better place if Men were more like Women?If they talked about you behind your back, and decided to make fun of your mental health, they were never friends. Totally relate because one dude in my old group would always talk behind others backs, and say bad shit about others. It was like damn, what does this guy say about me 😆? They were never friends, sounds the same for you as well. Hopefully you found more empathetic people! | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 01:58 PM |
| 4 | Would the world be a better place if Men were more like Women?No they don't, I don't talk about sports or women with my friends much. It's just my experience with men. Replace Football with any other trivial interest. My bigger point is seeking a deeper connection with men in a friendship setting has been difficult in my experience. Like I would be looked at as a fucking weirdo even saying things like "Feelings", or "Emotions". Or 'I' Statements, like therapy has taught me. It just leads on to the point where we aren't honest with each other, because we do… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/08/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Women are of course into men, just not ugly boring ones?100% I remember reading redpill content and some of it did speak to me, but any fanatic ideology corrupts absolutely, that's what I believe anyway. It was only matter of time until it would begin to change and manifest. Like I doubt Female dating Strategy started out totally toxic. By the time I reached the redpill ,it was already toxic af though. I realized even though I'm not handsome or interesting, it is what it is, not going to manipulate other people or play games to get pussy. I want frie… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?Why are you telling me this? Could care less what you think or have to say. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 08:53 PM |
| 8 | I know a lot of you guys left red pill, but is there anything good that you have gotten out of that red pill phase?Nothing. Not from Redpill and even now not much has changed. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Advice from someone who has been married for almost 20 years...If looks aren't good enough and it can't be changed, then isn't it already over? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?Men don’t get compliments from women because we know that some of you will interpret it as flirting, and might fly into a rage if we don’t agree to go out with you, yelling and screaming about how we’re evil bitches for “leading you on.” Well this will lead to a life of being invisible and never feeling good interacting with women, like I have dealt with. Don't care the reasons or the why, telling you the result. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Advice from someone who has been married for almost 20 years...It is out of your control I know this is supposed to be comforting, but I find the helplessness frustrating. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?How many opportunities have you gotten to cheat? If another women offered you casual sex while you were in a monogamous relationship, would you have agreed? Hell no, in that scenario a woman has already claimed me for herself. Would never cheat, nor would I want to. To your last question, no I've never dated before. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?Yes on the born July to August part, but birthday is July 16 - so a cancer. Wow! Maybe the Greeks were ln to something, what are the chances 😆. I'm so close to Cancer too, personally believe when dates get that close, the signs should mix a bit haha. Totally relate with it sucking being loyal! But it's what we value, maybe will go on a zodiak dating site 😝, take care! | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?Are you born in July to August? If you believe in Zodiacs, I'm a Leo; born the 23rd of July. Leo's are supposed to be very loyal people, I also would never cheat on the person I love. Brought up the zodiac thing because I', just curious haha. Unfortunately I'm just as likely to meet z cheater than someone like you. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | How is this subreddit going to have any success at all with saving men from the Redpill with all the misandry that's going on here?I'm done trying to save them. Then why are you here? This is a huge wtf moment. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?Everything I say gets downvoted, so yes. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?This mentality is why men don't get compliments or positive validation. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?Sure, a fist bump. Not a whole post on social media telling the world how amazing she is. That's weird, dude. So, because you saw something on social media, you want to go on Exredpill and talk about how bad men are and shouldn't be praised? Since you ignored everything else I said pretty much to go on this specific tangent, what do you think Men should get praise for? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?This has nothing to do with women. When a woman helps a drunk woman by taking her home. No one makes a big deal of it because it ISN'T a big deal. We don't want/need praise for that. It's the decent thing to do. She may not want praise, but if she was my friend, would give her a fist bump and gain respect for her as it shows character. My mom had plenty of foster children when I was growing up, so I got a lot of experience around dysfunctional mothers who barely care about their children, even m… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?That sort of shit really rubs me the wrong way. Like, okay, good job for... Not sexually assaulting a woman? Great? Are you that much of a Misandrist to not see caring for the woman is why he should be praised, not that he didn't sexually assault her? Highly doubt "Everyone" in the comments was saying that. Everyone is upvoting your comments, but I see through it. Hating men is not a counter to the redpill, it causes more hate. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Is the 'bar' really on the floor for men?This whole thread is putting men down. Either man is a great father and husband, but that's "Expected", so not worthy or recognition or praise. Or men don't and are shitty, and women do deserve praise? I don't really get your point, like men should never get positive validation, but women who do the exact same thing should? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 05:43 PM |
| 0 | Can Women give accurate dating advice to men?Accurate? No. Women don't know what it's like to be a man and navigate the world as a man and vice versa Exactly! Even to your other point, I can tell a woman to wear the color red, as it's an eye catching color, but later in the mall the color blue catches my interest on a dude because it looks great on him specifically. It's not that I'm lying to the woman in this hypothetical scenario, but it takes a lot of self-awareness to give advice, and perspectives change so fast. Lots of women say they… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?It goes both ways. My point is I'm loyal to a T. Would keep a secret to my grave, and would never cheat on the woman I love. The problem is I can't say the same for any woman I form a bond with, and if my penis is satisfying enough in the long run, or maybe another man she meets one day just exudes more big dick energy than I have? Never in a million years would I ever be protective in any way. Lose all respect for dudes who check their girlfriends phones, want to know their whereabouts all the … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?So, I see something that proves a point, but chalk it up as a fallacy? If a guy dies in a hot air balloon, it's fair to say "Damn, those things are dangerous". Yes, people ride in them all the time and don't die, still doesn't mean the danger isn't evident and very real. People will die in them, regardless of the precautions they take, or which balloon they choose. To me it seems not stepping onto one is the best course of action all together. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/08/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?From people like that other dude in the comments who is legit and proof many wives and girlfriends have cheated with him? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?Except I would never do that though. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?You can't trust anyone, can spend a decade forming a relationship just to have them cheat on a masculine dude with a large dick. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?I used to think this too, but now I'm starting to believe every woman is like this. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Is the notion that another man can steal your gf stupid?Don't know why you're being downvoted, looking at your account, clearly you're telling the truth. Maybe people here don't want to admit women do this? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/08/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Is moving to Asia the only way?Statistical evidence, not anecdotal evidence. It is simply a factual statement, to literally everyone, to say that their experiences will not always be a reflection of reality as a whole, specifically because one person can only experience one perspective at a time. If someone bothered enough, could definitely make it statistical evidence. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Is moving to Asia the only way?As a general rule, your experiences aren't always an accurate reflection of reality. That's like saying a black dudes experience with police "Isn't an accurate reflection of reality". That just sounds like subtle gaslighting mixed with wishful thinking. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/22 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Is moving to Asia the only way?Attraction is very instinctive and people aren't completely self-aware about what attracts them on a primal level. So you get a lot of people who will only list stuff that they think they should be attracted to, and then behave differently in real life. This is unfortunately true, which also means the blackpill is right at least in this regard. The idea of women laying out traits men should be like, than literally dating the opposite. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Is moving to Asia the only way?Why would white women in Texas view me any different? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Is moving to Asia the only way?Most women prefer masculine men 100% I was fooled into believing what women on platforms like these have said on this topic before. I mean come on, how many times do I need to go out and see the same thing over and over again? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Is moving to Asia the only way?No, I just do my thing and chill, but do see couples, and even today, the men look nothing like myself at all. Firmly believe I will never find someone around here. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Is moving to Asia the only way?I visit Duluth often, especially the mall, bigger population, same thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 10:50 PM |
| -1 | if people were open and understanding in a lot of these young guys would not go to these communitiesInstead we see men taking the easy way out by turning the anger on women. Why not both the 1% and women? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingI already dropped the mic on you, and if you respond will promptly block, already said my piece. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingI said “people want to be around people who are fun to be around.” You're a clown, by saying that you're pointing the finger OP isn't that, because He isn't a "Fun Person", he will never have people want to be around them. Well I don't care about your definition of fun, which is subjective and you do not speak for the majority of men or women in this regard. Some people s "fun", is a nice non judgmental guy who can just hang out and chill. Some people have reasons and life experiences to not be … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingyet all my girlfriends have been very attracted to me. You must make up for it in other ways. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingYou don't give a response, but a snide remark, ok. Just look at R/ladyboners and see what the men look like, literally what I'm talking about. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingOn your part donut. Also hot take, men might be more looks based, but at least guys are into everything feasible and tastes are so varied. On the other hand it's like women are into one template, confident masculine dude with a good dick. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingTo frame it as decisive one way or the other is to misunderstand the nature of attraction itself. I will agree with you once a woman finds me attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingNo, what a hyperbole lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingI didn’t tell anyone to change anything. Yes you did lol. "Be this way or noone will like you". You talk like someone with no responsibility, what is your definition of "Fun" btw? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingWhy would anyone want to be around someone as depressing and obsessed as you are? I don't know why, but this pisses me off, but I can't really put in words why? I think that it's he needs to "Change" so he can offer someone a better personality. It just makes me angry being like "Peple lik otrt peple wo ar fn tu bee arnd" Like fuck other people honestly. Like OP responded with, he should just put a fake smile on to make others happy. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I am an underdog in datingFirst of all, there is no such thing as being attractive or unattractive, That is so untrue it's laughable. Everything else you said is very spot on though. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm in a dark place"I hear women say things like "the bar is literally on the floor" in regards to whats expected of men and its insanely frustrating." Totally relate! Sometimes I believe the majority of people are conflicted souls that are twisted, like gray characters. These women are equally attracted to men who might joke about a crippled guys condition, because he's so "Confident" and edgy, or something. Or just nasty attitudes in general, it's like the only place to find a cool empathetic person is church, b… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Why are Many Men Not Close with Their Fathers?Wow the underlying truth here is both your parents were mental. Can relate, except it was my grandmas oddly enough lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?I totally agree! I just wanted to repeat and maybe make you laugh 😁. In my head it's rational, but typing it out sounds crazy. Like women would have to be the most shallow beings ever if that was a deathkneel . like eww, this guy has hairy legs, no way I could ever date him 😂. Its incredibly stupid. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?I have felt in the past that no woman could love me because of my freckles and stretch marks. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?Plus we're coming from different angles. I'm a 40 year old married man, in a happy, solid relationship, while you're younger, and seeking knowledge. That's great to hear! Remember a poster on incelexit a year ago making posts about how jealous he was of his therapist and her family... I'm the opposite lol. Want to hear from successful people and lessons they can teach. Totally agree! Currently faking confidence and beginning the process of changing negative thought patterns to something like you… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?Plus you're not in competition to be good looking like women. Your attraction comes from showing your level of confidence. Interesting, is that true? How can you say I'm not in competition, women want handsome men as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?Oh, cool! I interpreted it as you felt better because at least you're not me 😆 See though! That's exactly what I'm talking about, that's exactly how I see things in real life, that's how misguided a mindset can be. Extremely interesting I took what you said and twisted it internally, a solid look into my psyche and what I want to change over time. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?So confused by this post but low key was a confidence boost. What do you mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?What have you done to improve yourself for YOURSELF? Not sure how to answer this, done a lot to change my physical appearance the last few years, look totally different and more outgoing which always wanted. Currently run an ebay business as a hobby. I'm in the process of faking confidence and erasing my insecurities, it will be a long journey. Also on meds and see a therapist. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?Judgement is sooo hard when all we want to do is be accepted. I know that one well. But that's all wrapped up in fear. Really introspect and see what exactly you fear. Sometimes by giving it some attention and light we can make it dissolve by seeing that it might not really be all that bad to be judged on such trivial things. It's a great way for us to make way for better people in our lives too! :) Bro totally relate with everything you said, especially this! My upbringing wasn't the best, whic… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?All I got from your post was lack of responsibility. What do you mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How shallow are women exactly?That is interesting! Was hoping someday I'm with someone and compare stretch marks 😆. Used to wear makeup to cover up blemishes, but stopped a few years ago. Now I just go out and present myself blemishes and all. The issue I run into is being or gaining acceptance on appearance is great, but there still is the feeling of judgement that's hard to deal with. Like last week, bought and ate some taki's, and they have an effect where fingers get easily stained by the seasoning. Nest morning went to … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How to look at women and not think sexual thoughts?Bro, when I play Hearts of Iron, always play as minor nations, Germany would be boring for me haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 11:01 PM |
| 13 | The Madonna-Whore ComplexThe logic in shaming women for sex is so strange to me. Like shouldn't everyone besides religious people be all for it? Is it insecurity why both genders as you put it have this idea of women losing value by sex? Healthy men and women with equally healthy relationships and sexlife wouldn't go around putting women down for being actual sexual creatures, that's what I believe anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 10:24 PM |
| 3 | How to look at women and not think sexual thoughts?Hypersexuality can be inconvenient to flat out disturbing and the shame it can cause is more complicated than "repression". IDK what OP is experiencing but constant sexual thoughts can be someone wants to change just like any other obsessive thought. What do you mean by this? I've read it a few times, but still a little confused. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 4 | How to look at women and not think sexual thoughts?Thanks! I'm more spiritualist, but my thinking is like, what if my friend is bending over and I see her butt? If I didn't control it, my thoughts would linger to look, thinking clear pervy thoughts. 100% agree that sexual thoughts between all genders is healthy, it shouldn't be sinful or something. But this would be my hypothetical friend though, don't want to do that to them, want to respect them. Awesome if I got to the point where if that ever happened, would think nothing of it, or just be s… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 01:45 AM |
| 5 | How to look at women and not think sexual thoughts?Simple. Make friends only with women you aren’t attracted to. Problem solved. Unfortunately I'm attracted to the vast majority I encounter, like it is very rare I look at someone and I'm like "0 chance of attraction". I don't believe it's low standards either, but even if someone is extremely overweight "Biggest turn off is health issues", if they showed an interest in something I like, or her personality meshes with mine, absolutely attraction will grow. Like the other person said, it will be a… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/22 11:02 PM |
| 10 | How to look at women and not think sexual thoughts?Maybe whenever this happens and you find yourself having sexual thoughts about a woman you're talking to, put those thoughts aside and think of a different, platonic but still nice scenario, like goofy-singing in the car on a road trip or building a bookshelf together or something. Anything to help your brain reprogram from "woman=sex object" to "woman=cool person, potential friend" Great point! Like you said its going to take time. It would suck to exclude half the population because of subcons… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | My birthday is today, and have no friends or family to celebrate with.It will take a very long time! I still am not secure in my looks or attractiveness, which is purely mental. No way could I even date atm. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/22 09:55 PM |
| 4 | My birthday is today, and have no friends or family to celebrate with.Thank you! Going to the mall and could eat at Applebee's. Really liked the appetizers years ago, kinda sad eating alone, will see how the experience is. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/22 03:26 PM |
| 6 | My birthday is today, and have no friends or family to celebrate with.When the storm ends go for a little walk in nature, think about your hobbies, if you want friends try to find someone of similar interest/hobbies. For ex: if you like calisthenics / gymnastics / fishing like me join a club/gym where you will find someone of similar interests. Thanks! I want this to be the last year where I have no support system or connections. I've been focusing on my physical looks the last 6 months, now as I told my therapist. Next step is to begin socializing, which is treme… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | I'm sensitive and one reason why the blackpill and redpill reached me for so long.You're right, was having a lot of fun doing this and using it as a outlet for my depression. Want to move on from this as soon as possible and enjoy card selling again! | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm sensitive and one reason why the blackpill and redpill reached me for so long.they'll have a tendency to criticize us a lot and not provide much good, so it distorts our self-image in our head). Let me guess, are you also quick to dismiss positive feedback about yourself? Totally agree! In the past definitely, because I believed there was nothing positive for anyone to say. Lately that's changed though, got some compliments for my new fade haircut, and I totally believed them, but this interaction on ebay has really screwed me up a bit. Have a therapy session on friday, s… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 11:46 PM |
| 2 | I'm sensitive and one reason why the blackpill and redpill reached me for so long.Were you emotionally abused when younger? Definitely, just a low self esteem and self worth, which ties hand to hand with how awful I feel for doing a bad "Job". Being independent has also been a big talking point with my therapist, I've never lived on my own before and have had fears, rational or irrational that I can't do it, or something like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 11:33 PM |
| 3 | I'm sensitive and one reason why the blackpill and redpill reached me for so long.Quite honestly, your view of the feedback system is very indicative of your view on yourself too. It's very telling at how much you're willing to sacrifice your needs just to stay at 100% likable. I used to be a lot like you, so I get it. No judgement. But, you do sound pretty codependent. Wow I actually didn't even think that's why. My thinking process was it would be harder to sell, but your explanation makes sense, especially when I'm not going to stay 100% regardless of what I do. No I haven… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 11:17 PM |
| 6 | I'm sensitive and one reason why the blackpill and redpill reached me for so long.I was afraid he would give me a negative review though, but in the end he gave me "Positive feedback", but it was passive aggressive as hell, and anyone who goes on my account will see it. I totally agree, but the fear of losing my 100% feedback is what made me bend over backwards, otherwise I would have done as you said. Perhaps I overrate the feedback system way too much. Journaling, definitely! Positive affirmations also, and trying to prevent negative feedback loops, as I'm prone to them. I … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Any good lifting advice or tips for a starter?Hey! I asked a question on gainit, but feel like they are biased to my certain issue. Do you have any experience with skinnyfat? It runs in my family that fat goes straight to the stomach, and lately can feel the curves of my stomach pushing against myself when I sit down. I want to gain muscle mass, but getting a beer gut is scary, cosmetically and for my physical health. I only weigh 180, but it's still prevalent. Not sure if I should bulk, get fat, and cut later? Would have asked the other su… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/07/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | How was the perception of sex presented to you when you were younger?Negatively/Sinful | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Any good lifting advice or tips for a starter?From laughing at “gym bros” That does sound like something I would say 😆. Appreciate the kind words. Will check out those subs! Have been going really early in the morning at 5:30-6:30 to avoid people 😣. My anxiety really flared up the last time I went in the day, some guy was near me and watching, it's also a really small gym. It turned me off going in the day, so far so good! Curious if going early will take its toll, or if it will turn into a lifestyle change to be a early bird 🐧 | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Any good lifting advice or tips for a starter?Ok! Will check it out. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Any good lifting advice or tips for a starter?about a month. Just realized I lift 85 pounds, not 45 at the bench press including the bar. What's frustrating is it takes a lot of money to support my body, and not seeing progress sucks. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Any good lifting advice or tips for a starter?Currently just doing basic stuff. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Any good lifting advice or tips for a starter?Oh, I was counting the 20-pound weights on both sides, didn't take the barbell weight into consideration. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Any good lifting advice or tips for a starter?What is your trainings plan and how often are you in the gym and for how long are you lifting weights? Just basic exercises like bench press, dumbbell curls, squats, stuff like that. I've been going 6:00 in the morning every other day. So one day of rest between sessions. Lift for like 40 minutes, go until my body gives out, as I'm still fairly weak, so it doesn't take long to reach muscle exhaustion. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | "Don't wish for easy lives my friends, pray to be, stronger men"Happy someone else got it😆. If only Five was easier, would have enjoyed it more as a kid. The elevator was my favorite part. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/22 12:19 AM |
| 13 | RealFemSapien is terrible personI don't know why ya'll watch and consume this type of content. All I use YouTube for is music and watching Japanese otter videos to make me happy lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Red pill gives losers like myself reassurance about women but also is a miserable hellMassive relate! | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/22 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it?and he constantly belittled me because I’m disabled and use a walking stick that I couldn’t keep up with his walking speed… What an asshole. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?: what would it take to convince you women do/can have a hard time dating? Again nothing can, totally agree women and men both have struggles in dating, but no way do women have it harder. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?There's a story of a woman making a dating profile as a man, it was right there she realized how shitty and lonely it is being a man. I personally hate it. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Nothing, because women don't have it worse. I could buy into having equal problems, but no way do women have it worse in dating, that's blasmephous. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | f*ck "bros before hoes"The saying is dumb no matter how you spin it. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 02:18 AM |
| 2 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?Not sure how reverse shaming men with ED is helpful. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Why would a girl be interested in me?Dating apps are a waste of time. Never will go on one for your exact same dilemma. Its extremely shallow, any woman who uses Tinder as their main dating technique is probably very shallow, and looking for a hookup with a very attractive man. Why else would they go on a platform that gets random dickpicks and they are swarmed by men? Meeting people in real life is a better strategy, to bad I live in a small town of 2,000 people 😅 But I firmly believe that's the best way for average or below looki… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?I'm not trying to offend anyone, post was about how this will affect dating in the future. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?The war comparison definitely put it into perspective. Brought up the acne stuff because I'm assuming birth control is next. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 10:25 PM |
| -1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Unfortunately you're right, at least in my experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?I regret making this post, but won't delete since I've been called out before doing that. Not going to argue. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 08:18 PM |
| -7 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Explain why women have it worse in dating than men? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 06:20 PM |
| -1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Less woman in the dating pool, not wanting to risk pregnancy. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 06:14 PM |
| -11 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Ask Blake Griffin or Andre Drummond, women who got pregnant on purpose to steal their money. Obviously having unprotected sex is stupid, but they put themselves in that situation to have that happen. Heck, lots of dudes take used condoms with them, can't trust a woman after sex to use the condom to get pregnant, as fucked up as that is. My point is no man should want a woman to get pregnant outside of a relationship, even more with Roe V Wade. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 06:06 PM |
| -7 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Bc you just said men would have it worse and now you’re asking why anyones making it into a competition? Ask yourself lol I walked back on that, and I meant for dating, the point of this post? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 06:01 PM |
| -13 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Who has it worse in dating depends on how many incels you’re polling. The men I date have no trouble getting dates and won’t have any problem with it now because they support abortion and know how to not get a woman pregnant. First off any form of birth control isnt 100%, second nice subtle brag you get dates. Of course women have it worse, my post was about the dating angle of it, which I firmly believe hurts both men and women equally. Like absolutely no way I would have have casual sex in the… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 05:48 PM |
| 12 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?I'm against abortion for me personally and so is my wife. However, I don't think enforcing my views on the rest of the population is right, especially when its up for debate when life actually begins. Exactly! This country has a lot of issues, previous abortion laws wasn't one of them. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 05:43 PM |
| -39 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?I’m tired of men pretending this outcome is somehow worse for them or even equally bad. If we are talking about dating, it's going to be just as bad. Not sure why we are having a who has it worse competition. I'm not wrong and not going to be talked down to like this. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 05:24 PM |
| -57 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?True, I should have said "Just as" not "Even More". The prospect of getting a woman accidentally pregnant, or she wants it on purpose is a scary thought. Getting trapped in a relationship with someone, or paying child support is not ideal. Just like that other guy said, best be with someone where if a baby happens, not the end of the world. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 05:00 PM |
| -2 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?It would make it harder for me, a woman, to date you, that you appear to see this as a you-problem, where women in your country are having their rights and bodily autonomy taken away in an alarming pace. I totally get this! Majority of people are saying this though, that's why I wanted to bring a different perspective. I'm assuming by "Contraceptives", Justice Thomas means female birth control. I've been on accutane for cystic acne, was around women who have to use birth control to fix hormone i… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?That's a good point! | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 03:01 PM |
| 6 | Will the Roe V Wade decision make dating even harder in the future?Second, go get a condom and figure it out.. you don’t wait till you’re up in the air to learn how to land the plane… It was kinda a joke at my expense, my point is shit happends and anything can go wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | To those who think that all women would not care about men's emotions and would be repulsed by his crying (I know it's a prank, but girl did not know that)He's also attractive, I'm average, but even that's enough of a diff to make a reaction completely change. Halo effect is annoying. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Any hope for older incels?If I was happy or confident, those would be my two things. I'm not confident with my appearance, which at this point is a mental illness. I barely have the courage to go out, let alone an interview, or talking to women. This is just stuff I deal with. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Any hope for older incels?I'm 24 and have his same circumstances. I'm not moving, so it's quite easy to feel hopeless at times. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/22 09:54 PM |
| 11 | Any hope for older incels?Very helpful | /r/ExRedPill | 25/06/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Beta male triying to not believe in the Red PillIt's about dudes that have confidence must have a large cock, while if I have "Small pp energy", means I'm a boring and dull person who has a small dick. Making the point that Big dick is good and small dick is bad. If it meant anything else it would be called "Big Energy", why bother adding dick unless someone's proving a point, shaming men like myself. Unfortunately Women of my gen use the term just like you do, which makes me avoid them. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/22 04:36 AM |
| 6 | Beta male triying to not believe in the Red PillWe love big dick energy Can you stop using this term? It's disrespectful and disgusting, no way would the phrase "Big boob energy", ever be allowed, never will be around someone who uses this term regularly. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Do more attractive women get snatched up quicker?They can be very intimidating also. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/06/22 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Got bullied in High school, left me to change myself, that's when I lookssmaxed and found the redpill. Before and After!Will give it a look! Never listened to one before, definitely into nonfiction, self-guide stuff, so this sounds perfect. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/06/22 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Got bullied in High school, left me to change myself, that's when I lookssmaxed and found the redpill. Before and After!Thank you 😄. I relate a lot! Like you said, it's about adjusting my trajectory! | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Got bullied in High school, left me to change myself, that's when I lookssmaxed and found the redpill. Before and After!I would make a bad redpiller, because the one thing that remains the same over the last 5 years is my skinny body 😂, lifting is hard for me lol, or to be specific, adding mass is hard. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 01:26 AM |
| 15 | Got bullied in High school, left me to change myself, that's when I lookssmaxed and found the redpill. Before and After!Ya, she's great! Keeping myself busy has helped a lot, especially managing ebay stuff 😄 | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 11:12 PM |
| 10 | Got bullied in High school, left me to change myself, that's when I lookssmaxed and found the redpill. Before and After!Dude if you are ugly, I'm a beast. LOL And here I am married happily with my 10+/10 wife. What will help you is this. People are different. Women are different from each other. Therefore what you need to do to "get the girl" will differ from woman to woman. I think in your case, maybe volunteering at your local church will put you in contact with girls that you can relate to. Oh, don't believe I'm ugly anymore, but it was the way I used to look like, and bullying that hurt me mentally. I'm just … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 11:03 PM |
| 0 | Since I left the redpill, it’s been extremely harder to be in a relationship.What's it right about? And don't say lifting, any health care official recommends that from an early age, or just general physical activity. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Why women with families divorce men.I'm confused, are you making a point against the redpill's take on this, or are you supporting it? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Im not a big fan of being a manTotally agree, both men and women have pros and cons. I'm happy I don't have to deal with periods. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Why do women in the infield video never notice the very obvious camera guy?Is this baseball related? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | I’ll never get out the redpill.I can see why you have negative karma. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 08:46 PM |
| 17 | I was deep into RedPill, predominantly MGTOW, about two years ago before those subreddits got banned. I still consider myself MGTOW today"Of course Im generalizing here, Im not talking about all women but of women in general". No shit. Don't know if you realize generalizations are trivial and not a great way to prove a point. If you're part of a group called 'Men Going Their Own Way', isn't that what you should be doing? Why aren't you hiking, or metal detecting, or becoming an author? Instead of spending time generalizing and seemingly hating half the planet. Seriously never understood why people like you even talk or write abou… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/22 12:57 PM |
| 5 | sensitivity in men is seen as whining, complaining, and annoying but normal in women"As a man I should be able to remote anyway and even be able to break down emotionally without my woman losing respect or emasculating me". Context is important here. My dog that I had since the age of 4, needed to be put down as it was finally time a few years ago. Watching his eyes slowly close broke me down and in that moment I "Broke down emotionally", as you would put it. Was alone at the vet, but if I had a partner with me, couldn't imagine any women with a shred of empathy, would respond … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Ya, extremely confused also. Him not responding to the comments shows he just wanted to dump this here without any actual discourse. His points are all over the place and hard to even decipher, but he got our attention, all he probably wanted. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 02:43 AM |
| 7 | How much does money help you get women? Is it overexaggerated?For me personally I don't care about money... No seriously I really don't. I want a solid job, because one of the most common questions on a first date will be "So.... Where do you work?". I want to tell a person something cool, or rather, don't want to appear like a deadbeat loser. Imagine a lot of women feel that same way, because at least I sure do. If it's not a well paying job, better be something I'm passionate about. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/22 10:11 PM |
| 7 | Slutshamming isn't a big dealIt goes both ways. If you could live a month in a women's body, your perspective would shift, views on sex would shift. In the end you could end up as miserable as you're now. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Let's face it...My point is she wouldn't have made this comment, unless she likes mean, and or bad boys, hence why she's flipping it around to shame men. Why else would this woman go out of her way to say this? And again, she's completely wrong, Men don't always go after mean women lol. Lots of men cant even have a choice to be picky at all, don't understand this post at all. Can't be the only person who sees this. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 05:05 PM |
| -1 | Let's face it...Not true in the slightest, I would date a nice/kind woman in a heartbeat. This post actually confirms redpill/blackpill beliefs, which I'm not a fan of. She's justifying her preference for mean, or bad men. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Why should I leave the red pill?Even if everything you said was true (It isn't), none of these things are the nail in the coffin. If you use self-loathing, or practice the redpill, it will push you further into a negative feedback loop, damming yourself into a future you don't want. I don't have practical advice since I'm in a similar situation to you, albeit different circumstances. But I know damn sure what you're saying and doing is only hurting you and your future, today is Sunday, have any plans, or go out for breakfast? … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 12:44 PM |
| 3 | trp doesnt understand physical attraction,so they give men bad advicesI'm 6'1 and height is more of a detriment. Only in the case of a bear attack is it useful, and that's only for intimidation, like wearing a backpack to look larger, literally that's it lol. Women love men in their height range, what woman wants a stool to just talk eye to eye, not including kissing 😂. Personality is king, being interesting is the crown. I'm average to below in looks btw, but I now understand personality is literally everything. What good are looks if you have nothing to say or t… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 06:39 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!They couldn't do it without me. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!I live in moose lake Minnesota, there is a bar, but I'm not a drinker, very limited here, but I caregive for my autistic brother. At the moment, not leaving, so I'm just stuck. The limited experiences I have interacting with others is cringy to say the least, especially when I talk to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!Have no idea, where I live, not many options. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/06/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!Currently I'm selling my pokemon cards on ebay, to save up for an expensive metal detector, that's about it. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 11:29 PM |
| 2 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!Thank you! I'm happy that I'm not the only person who feels the same, like I'm in no rush to lose my virginity. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!I don't understand why you're saying this? I made this post just to say that I want to have sex with someone I love, or really like, and don't like the redpill's casual sex fixation. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 07:20 PM |
| 0 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!And in the very next line “women will judge me waah” lol. What? I'm extremely confused, I said that because that's why a lot of men do this to finally lose it, to avoid the shame. I'm saying that's the path I would take if I cared, which I don't and why I don't want to lose my virginity in that manner. People are so hostile and misconstrue what I say. Actually, like your takes and advice too, but not this. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 07:11 PM |
| -1 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!I disagree with a lot of what you said here. If I cared about what others think, that would actually drive me to an escort. Women shame men for being virgins, or at the very least it's unattractive. Some will care and some won't. I would rather keep my virginity, and wait for someone I love or like a lot. You downplay sex, but a guy who posts here regularly is asexual, and found out how women actually do value sex, at least the partners he had. Which hurt his relationships. Also I want to find t… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 06:23 PM |
| 0 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!Why do you post here? If you posted on Incel Exit, they would ban you in a week, I don't want to hear another word from you. You would have fit in with the women at FemaleDatingStrategy, especially with your responses to that Doomer guys post a few days ago. You clearly hate men, and want to argue. I'm blocking you after I submit this comment. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!Can you read? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!Have sex how you want That's my point? A lot of people, especially redpillers use casual sex, flings, even escorts as an outlet, pump and dump, or whatever. I'm just saying I don't care about that, even the women on this sub advertise, or recommend escorts to men, and that's not my thing. If I can't ever find a partner, or relationship, than I will just remain a virgin forever, not as a punishment to myself, but more so just upholding my values. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.Well, I meant the other person's mood. A woman you pass on Monday might be grumpy and not even notice you, but on Thursday she's in a happy horny mood and thinks you're cute. Oh, that makes sense! Does that mean every women I've been around's been grumpy? Just kidding 😜, just joking that to my knowledge, nobody's been into me before. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.In a good mood, you might look into the mirror and think, "wow, I look pretty good today." In a bad mood, "wow, I look like shit." The same can happen for other people. In a good mood a woman might look at you and think, "he's kinda cute." In a bad mood she might not notice you at all or think, "meh, he's not my type." This is very interesting! I know when I felt attractive in the past, was at my best mentally. Can't say I've ever had a person check me out when I'm in a bad mood 😆, so that does … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.Ya, that's why I made this post, even after the responses, still kinda confused haha. At this point, want to just look clean, and moore put together. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.Thanks! I still need to figure out the hair, recently got a haircut, but it still isn't perfect, my hair doesn't like sticking up, so hair products have been difficult to find. Gel is only good for slicked back in my experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.I just significantly trimmed my facial hair and already feel better, going to keep it the way I have it now. I totally get that! Finding what the best version of myself looks like is the hard part. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.I did just shave, and feel better lol. My long neck is exposed without facial hair, but oh well. Now it looks cleaner, have a thicker 5 o clock shadow look. So I did end up following their advise in the end 😄. I'm just going to embrace my giraffe neck, better than hiding it with facial hair, and feeling worse. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.If youre thinking about your looks, what I would want to know is what are your style influences? How and where did you learn about fashion? What products do you use for your skin and hair? Do you have a pair of formal elevator shoes to use if youre going on a date with partner who will be wearing heels? Do you have a personal trainer/meal plan? What are your sources for fitness advice/your workout regimen? What are your date spots with the best kinds of lighting? What are your tips for taking go… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.Well now I'm doing it for your preferences, aren't I? I look like an 8 year-old babyfaced boy shaved, stop talking like you know what I look like from crappy kindle pictures. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 09:34 PM |
| -2 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.Well einstein, what do you advise? I'm not shaving because I will look even worse, and already got a haircut, have no idea what you want from me. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.I know this is kind of a meme, but have you tried getting a haircut and shaving instead of making endless Reddit threads all about "tfw no gf"? Got a haircut recently, and I already know what I look like shaved. Why should any of this matter anyway? As you say, looks are objective, right? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 09:01 PM |
| -3 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.but yes, beauty and attractiveness are subjective Yes in celebrities, but what of an average to "Fine", looking man. I find it hard to believe anyone would find that person "Hot", especially when people have rated him average in the past. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Went to the mall today at the request of my therapist, feel very 'meh' after coming back.23 going on 24, aren't unattractive dudes embarrassing to be around, like embarrassing for a woman to introduce to her other friends? That's the way it was in high school at least. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Interesting discussion on the difference between Introverted men, and boring men.Thanks! I just need to get better at being assertive, get more confident, believe that's a part of my problem. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Interesting discussion on the difference between Introverted men, and boring men.I understand! Even today, went to the grocery store to get some jelly filled donuts, and I was so awkward in front of the female cashier 😆. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I hate being black. Being darkskin is a curse unless you’re an athlete or rapper.Plenty of black women will date a black guy regardless of his status. I'm a software engineer, I just broke it off with a black guy that works at a fast food 🤦♀️ Is this actually true? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 07:34 PM |
| 5 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityI'm more blackpilled, or the feeling of being doomed. Redpill is supposed to help, but I learned that's a lie a long time ago. Heck I hate lifting, redpillers would despise me for saying that😝 | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 01:14 PM |
| 3 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityNo it's because I have an awful personality, meh face, ugly body. That's literally it. I don't blame women at all, not like men have ever been attracted to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 01:11 PM |
| 4 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityYou aren’t willing to give up misogyny because it makes you feel superior, more human than women. Does he hate women, where did you get that from? I relate with his struggle of feeling sexually attractive, hearing people say they've had over 50 partners in the past, while supposedly like me he has none. It begins to fuck with the mind, and asking questions and seeking help should be a normal response. In his case he's even said in the past he's attractive, so he doesn't have the excuse of being … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 12:55 PM |
| 0 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in reality"This is a type of thinking I've noticed in myself and some other people here. Basically for the longest time I've been seeking the 'truth' on how relationships and attraction works. However whenever I'm confronted with the answers they make me feel worse about myself and make me feel like shutting down" Same man. Like a guy coming here with an 8 inch penis being insecure when I'm only 5 😐. I stopped going on reddit and my life still sucked, going to therapy and it still sucks, look at reddit an… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity of girl leaving for a "bigger" dudeAre you a troll? Im not that small at all (~7.5/8x5"). That is literally a porn dick.... I'm extremely confused by you and this post in general lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity of girl leaving for a "bigger" dudeI didn't even think of the different measuring scales 😂. He seriously has nothing to worry about. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Insecurity of girl leaving for a "bigger" dudeBut isn't average 5? What op has is a porn dick, even looking at his post history. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Insecurity of girl leaving for a "bigger" dudeI do NOT enjoy a huge penis. But the OP does have a huge penis, or am I missing something here? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 01:39 AM |
| 6 | Insecurity of girl leaving for a "bigger" dudeI have a 5 inch penis and I'm 6'1... You're insecure? Kill me. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Interesting discussion on the difference between Introverted men, and boring men.That being said, if you are shy or anxious or even have mental health issues that is deeply unattractive. Especially for men. How much this is fixable really depends on the individual. You can't make someone neurotypical and even things like anxiety or depression are not always successfully treatable. Exactly! This is what I'm starting to find out for myself. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 04:26 PM |
| 0 | How can I stop feeling resentment and jealousy towards women?Focus on being the best version of yourself So 3 to a 4? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Well I did lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/05/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I just watched Rocky, are Adrians out there?I'm a hardgainer and barely can gain muscle. Just got my testosterone checked, will see the results. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Dude, I looked awful in glasses, they were restrictive and hid away my best feature, which is my eyes, or so I'm told. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 10:09 PM |
| 3 | I just watched Rocky, are Adrians out there?Maybe? Everyone's definition of chad is different. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I just watched Rocky, are Adrians out there?I could get muscles, but I would still be me. Not sure if muscles make a chad. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Trust me, glasses brought my looks down. Certainly never had a woman attracted to me while wearing them. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/05/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?I had Buddy Holly type glasses for the longest time, I kinda look like Ed Sheeran with glasses, which wasn't ever a big fan haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 10:49 PM |
| -11 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Aren't you changing the subject, because you know men have it harder? It's a complete package, everything has pro's and cons. I believe the con's outway the pro's of being a man. Would like a mulligan. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?I’ve worn glasses since I was in third grade and have never had any problem forming meaningful romantic relationships. Well good for you, I'm not attractive and glasses made me look like Jimmy Neutron, or some nerdy tv show character. It was expensive, but well worth the money. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 07:09 PM |
| -6 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?You deal with being sexually harassed and stalked on a regular basis? You said harassed, not sexually harassed. Men can have stalkers, get killed, raped by other men , hell even woman, but woman can do no wrong in a lot of peoples eyes. Not surprised you think men go out and life is like Candyland or something. Btw, I just spent 4,000 dollars for Lasik surgery, so I don't have to wear dorky rimmed glasses anymore. Used to wear makeup, but stopped when I started Accutane, which I also payed for. … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?I realize you're talking about green grass in a metaphorical sense, but make that concrete. Unless you're in northeast Siberia or the southern hemisphere, it's probably going to be summer where you're at soon. The grass will very literally be green enough for you to go sleep in the sun on it soon. Along with everything else you can do for yourself that you enjoy that is NOT going out of your way to try to get people to make you feel better who are the exact wrong people to be doing that and who … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 05:21 PM |
| -3 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Women have a huge “issue” with being stalked, harassed, raped, and murdered. Ya think men have that even harder? I literally deal with the same thing. Men are shamed for being virgins, that's why I've thought about losing it to an escort, but that's not the answer. Women are more attractive than men on average, I've put more money on my physical appearance then most women my age. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 05:19 PM |
| -10 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Do you keep looking over your shoulder at night to make sure no one is following you? Do you keep alert on the bus so no creep rubs his dick on you again? Do you keep you keys in your hand walking across a deserted parking lot late at night, in case you need to stab someone? Why are these gender exclusive? A lot of the other parts you mentioned I have to deal with. You think I could fight off a able bodied dude? I have old grandma arms, even at 6'1 a woman could easily kill me if she wanted. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 05:15 PM |
| 0 | Someone just messaged me that black women are basically argumentative and demasculating, is this true?Exactly! I relate with black women too, especially with feeling insecure with not fitting in to beauty standards. Again, I'm attracted to all race and genders haha. I just don't understand why People put black women down, it's like even black dudes do this. Just my opinion from an outsider looking in. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 05:44 AM |
| 0 | Someone just messaged me that black women are basically argumentative and demasculating, is this true?Black women are people. Exactly! I don't really understand stuff like this. Anti Black women agendas are weird, I certainly don't view this topic the same way others do. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 05:41 AM |
| 0 | Someone just messaged me that black women are basically argumentative and demasculating, is this true?What? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 04:25 AM |
| 0 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillMy argument is if they had my body, would regret everything and want what they used to have. These complaints to me are like when the rich complain. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillListen, if I were to judge all men by what I've heard from incels alone, not to mention mgtow and the redtide pill. I would want you all under lock and key. If I had to go from my crazy female family members, even my mom, would hate women. Unlike you, I haven't fully gotten over it yet and certainly don't trust women. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 02:08 AM |
| -2 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI get it, but you're talking to a guy who is valued for nothing, so you can see how I would believe the way women have it is the better of two evils. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 01:50 AM |
| -3 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillTo say that it's extremely easy for women to find romantic relationships if they're looking for them is such an overstatement. It's just as hard for women to find meaningful relationships as it is for men, regardless of this difference in access to sex. Because women's standards are extremely high? They always have options, but if someone like me was orbiting, I wouldn't even be considered. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend has gotten into Fresh and Fit the past year... can this be undone?Oh my gosh, I feel for you! I took care of my pomeranian until he was around 17. He had no teeth, couldn't see very well, had three paws for the majority of his life, a real fighter. Eventually had to put him down, the eldest years are the toughest! I was 21 at the time, know this because I got him when I was 4. 2020 was a really shitty year. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that society cares about women more than men?I think so? In western cultures definitely, but women don't have much power in the middle east, and we all know how China thought of women for the longest time. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/05/22 12:37 AM |
| 2 | I would appreciate advice on confidence.Currently into metal detecting, and pokemon cards. So its a little niche. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/05/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I have a fear I’ll be missing out on dating women.I'm talking about infatuation love. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I have a fear I’ll be missing out on dating women.ost people including most white men do not die of suicide, I'm white, and will probably add to this statistic. And you're wrong, not everyone can find love, love doesn't exist. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What are some good ways for a guy whose not used to seeing himself as sexually attractive to get sexual validation?What I'm saying isn't a negative cope, or dismissing as shallow, it's facts. Or at the very least my experiences. If my life didn't counter what you're saying, or what even my therapist says, would blindly agree, smile and move on. But it's not my reality. What I say is how women interact and treat me, clearly OP has had similar experiences, and I personally relate heavily with his problems. Other dudes look different, have deep pleasant voices, natural suave charm that makes women feel safe and… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | What are some good ways for a guy whose not used to seeing himself as sexually attractive to get sexual validation?I get what you're saying, but if only handsome men get attention, what does that say about women in general? People say men are the shallow ones, but I'm starting to think women are secretly far more. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What are some good ways for a guy whose not used to seeing himself as sexually attractive to get sexual validation?Oh wow, let me guess tough guy, are you going to next tell me about cold approaching like a typical redpiller 😂. What the fuck do you mean passive btw? Gender standards are annoying, people like you reinforce it. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | What are some good ways for a guy whose not used to seeing himself as sexually attractive to get sexual validation?Unless a man is 9/10 or 10/10 in looks, women don't give a shit about you, have no value, and again in my experience, they act like I'm not even there. Lookism is probably one of the few things the blackpill is actually right about. Here's the joker moment here....... The gym isn't the savior either 😆. Realistically nothing I can do to reach 9/10. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some good ways for a guy whose not used to seeing himself as sexually attractive to get sexual validation?If women actively treat men like this, which they do btw, my whole life is experience of this, then yes I'm going to grow resentment. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | What are some good ways for a guy whose not used to seeing himself as sexually attractive to get sexual validation?Well to me that's exactly what it sounds like. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | What are some good ways for a guy whose not used to seeing himself as sexually attractive to get sexual validation?Men really just don't get attention like that even when they're attractive. Usually only exceptionally attractive men get actual obvious female attention. And that's because most women will not reveal an interest in your appearance that quickly, they won't tip their cards unless they evaluate your looks as so exceptional that they're willing to risk it. Why is this ok? Makes me not like women. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | [Follow up post] Should I obstain from masturbation, and store my sexual energy as fuel to self-improve?I'm circumcised, so I'm already pretty much numb down there lol, unfortunately. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | [Follow up post] Should I obstain from masturbation, and store my sexual energy as fuel to self-improve?That's kinda what I thought, so just use my imagination? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | [Follow up post] Should I obstain from masturbation, and store my sexual energy as fuel to self-improve?Really 🤣. Ya, maybe not a good idea than lol | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | [Follow up post] Should I obstain from masturbation, and store my sexual energy as fuel to self-improve?After masturbating? Can't be the only guy who feels this way, right? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | [Follow up post] Should I obstain from masturbation, and store my sexual energy as fuel to self-improve?What, why? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Is porn actually that bad?rather than watching porn as porn is damaging to the brain, Wait is it actually proven? I always thought it was nofap mumbojumbo. Seriously though, can see downsides, why get a girlfriend if I can just masturbate? I don't think that, but masturbating does make me tired and lose ambition, but that's not about porn though, just the act of release in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Is porn actually that bad?Porn itself is not great for a variety of reasons. Why? At the very least it's an outlet for men who don't have many opportunities, for the actors, and people watching. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 01:44 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my life would be easier if I was white.I'm white and hate my life, want to trade places? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 03:40 AM |
| 6 | My ex-girlfriend confuses me!!I would have moved on, it's like a game honestly, whoever reaches out first loses, and looks desperate in return. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | What are some good hobby ideas to develop as a healthy man?Pick something that: Gets you exposed to people you enjoy hanging out with Adds to something you already know so you can be really good in a general area Benefits you mentally, physically, or emotionally. This is a great point! That's where metal detecting is lacking, but can be my solitary hobby. Archery is interesting! I'm 24 this July, work at home caregiving. That's funny you mentioned a night job, because I like the idea of working the nightshift, might be more openings too since a lot of p… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Thought: People who really listen rarely say it.For me, not even a belief that's being challenged, more like a fact. Do I have mental issues, yes. Am I trying to fix the problem, yes. Has anything changed, no. Am I average looking, yes. Is it good enough, no. Why? Because personality is far more important. Can I change my personality, maybe. Have I been trying, yes. As you guessed it, nothing has changed. So I don't know, it begins to be a point where will see it when I believe it, you know? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Befriending women has made me less misogynistic but more red/blackpilled.Well, did you? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 11:07 PM |
| 2 | I'm extremely weird, where can I find women who are like me?As someone that has a partner I talk to myself out loud all the time, it's something that I've done as a kid and it just gives me an odd sense of direction sometimes so I know where you're coming from. Exactly! Mine started as a kid also. Totally agree with finding similarities in beliefs as apposed to just hobbies. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm extremely weird, where can I find women who are like me?I've done some self-testing before and I don't fit with a lot of the autistic traits. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/05/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How to get sexual validation?Why do you even post here? I looked in your post history and you even admit you're attractive, and your goth photos look slick, even if you're wearing a mask. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm extremely weird, where can I find women who are like me?I talk aloud to myself sometimes when I'm alone too -- sometimes purposefully and sometimes I don't realize I'm doing it. I'm not hearing other voices nor do I think I'm actually talking to someone -- it's just one way my brain likes to work through certain things. Same! Like I was alone in a hotel room last night, and I couldn't imagine sitting in silence lol, like my brain keeps itself busy, when I'm alone I like to engage with myself lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm extremely weird, where can I find women who are like me?How is this self talk thing? Do you mostly listen to your own thoughts said out loud? Or do you imagine like debating someone or rehearsing some sort of social interaction? Is this involuntary or can you suppress it in front of other people? I will say stuff like, can't wait to get taco bell later, what should I get? Damn, I shouldn't have gambled tonight.... I speak out my thoughts, but always when I'm alone. Embarrassed to do it around people. I can go on tangents like "If I was the gm of the … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 08:56 PM |
| 6 | I'm extremely weird, where can I find women who are like me?That all sounds super cool! I once went to a Metal detecting group, it was all old dudes, nothing wrong with that, but it gave me the impression this is an old mans hobby. The best thing I've found wasn't even an item at all! Discovered random cinderblocks in the middle of the woods by my local town. A dead rat was sliced open on one of them, somebody put it there, but why? Anyway it must have been a dumping ground for some reason, but who would carry ton, white blocks in the dense woods? Must h… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 05:30 PM |
| 11 | I'm extremely weird, where can I find women who are like me?My hobbies are metal detecting, and sport video games. It's just too male dominant, that's why I need to find something else. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some good hobby ideas to develop as a healthy man?Wow, thanks for all the ideas! Volunteering and creating something sounds really cool! Our town is known for agates, when I was a kid loved looking around for them lol. My cats would eat any plants I got in the house, but always wanted to have like a big cactus plant or something 😆. Local bank has one right when you walk in, plants and flowers are cool! | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | What are some good hobby ideas to develop as a healthy man?Definitely want to get good at cooking! Might sign up for a cooking class, nearest city is like 30 miles though. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What are some good hobby ideas to develop as a healthy man?Bro that's cool! I've gotten a lot better talking with strangers, but have a long way to go. How did you get past the feeling that they don't want to talk to you, or an annoyance? Because that's how I always feel. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/22 02:26 AM |
| 4 | Being tall might be one reason why I'm a virgin.I suspect there are more serious factors to blame your virginity on. That's why I said one reason. Like that other guy said, it's always something. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you love about a healthy man?I don't know what healthy means in this context, my health is good, but assume it's more about a man with value? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?Fair enough, totally relate. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?Guess I need to get interesting. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?Want to be happy | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?Well, change in what way? A lot of who I am is set in stone, matter of fact, besides the clothes on my back, can't really change all that much. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?Work at home, live in a small town in Minnesota, no activities to do, even if I cared. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Can we talk about boring?Seek therapy immediately. Already have, but in the end its just words. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?highlighting a negative self-image. I have a very negative self-image, but at the same time, I have no physical traits that are desirable. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?My parents aren't even that bad, I'm just a loser. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?You just assuming women aren’t interested in the things you like They aren't lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?It's an experience I've never had before 'Relationship', and it's not normal to be a soon to be 24-year-old virgin, like there is something wrong with me, and perhaps there is. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?Really? I live in Minnesota, so always assumed black women wouldn't be interested, don't blame them at all for not feeling comfortable. So anyway, that's where my belief came from. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?extremely hard to find anyone and my interests are more niche. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Can we talk about boring?I've been to therapy and a cocktail of different medication. It's all a farce, I believe at this point it's not my brain that's the problem, but rather it's the world we live in. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 07:05 PM |
| -2 | Can we talk about boring?Professional help won't change anything. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 06:48 PM |
| -1 | Can we talk about boring?It's not about women, as much as it's a confidence boost to be big. Imagine the average confidence of a small dude like myself, compared to larger. Couldn't imagine the feeling of walking around with that, instead I got the statue of david penis. I could rant all day about this lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?True, never had self pity in high school, it really started around 2020. Then I realized how I was treated by girls back then and now I've grown a resentment for my entire class, never want to see any of them again lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?I recently got back into Magic: the Gathering of all things. Same! Except its Hearthstone for me, but meh, game still sucks lol. Isn't the same card game it used to be back in 2014-15. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?Those douchebags(assuming they actually were) had something to offer, whatever it was, it was at the very least enough to get a temporary girlfriend. Probably not enough for a long term relationship because almost nobody finds their life partner in highschool. They were funny, good looking. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?Self improving like the gym is cool, getting hobbies that I don't care about to be interesting to women isn't cool. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:36 PM |
| -1 | Can we talk about boring?Well I say that because vast majority of dudes who give me advice have a reason why they're "Happy", if you had my body, you wouldn't have a lust for life. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:32 PM |
| -1 | Can we talk about boring?You're probably good looking, or have a big dick, or some other trait that gives you lust for life. I have none of those things, of course I hate my life. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?That's also been my feeling too, like if women around me like men who have these tendency's, no one is like me, like I'm the alien who is different. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?Women aim up, and wouldn't want my white ass lol. It's not a guess, but a fact. Would love to be wrong, but I know I'm not. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?What kinds of things do you do for your own entertainment? Play videogames, like to be a manager and rebuild teams in American football, baseball and basketball. At the moment been playing mlb the show and doing a pitcher mycareer. Watch YouTube a lot, lately been interested in dino's and earths previous generations of animals. That's about it though, don't have any interest in outdoor, or hobbies that involve other people. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:17 PM |
| -3 | Can we talk about boring?Prime of my life Am ugly, little money, virgin, no job prospects, lives with parents.. Hate to see what my 30's will look like if this is my prime. Your advice is wrong and any compliment I've gotten is backhanded at best. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Can we talk about boring?I guess that's why I'm not relationship material. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?I live in Minnesota, majority white, and doubt other races, especially black would be interested in a white guy. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?They value what I'm not, clearly. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about boring?I can't provide a list, white women aren't attracted to me and I don't pursue in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Can we talk about boring?I don't mind, literally would be my looksmatch. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Can we talk about boring?Also in this instance, why would I want to become interesting just for women, like I'm a dancing monkey? I don't care to be interesting, just like the things I'm into. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 04:38 PM |
| -1 | Can we talk about boring?That picture is extremely misleading, you have no idea what I used to look like without facial hair, trimming it would make me look even worse. Also I have a big forehead that my hair covers up, you have no idea what you're talking about. Outside of that stupid kindle pic, look far worse than that on a daily basis, wouldn't even say I'm average. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 04:36 PM |
| -4 | Can we talk about boring?They weren't attracted to me before the self-pity, matter of fact they caused it to begin with. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 04:04 PM |
| 3 | What is your opinion on purplepilldebate?“Women only like good looking assholes and not nice guys like me!” In my life this is true, but my definition of nice is treating others kindly, but also being boring as a side effect. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?I don't know, don't really believe it, especially with my real-life experiences. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Thanks again for the advice! Had to dig into my history to find this. Getting my haircut next week and I wanted this pic as a reference for what I want haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | I can't ever be sexually attractiveMan, I'm done responding to you, I just never get where you're coming from at all. Are you seriously asking why I want a relationship? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | I can't ever be sexually attractiveWhy the hell would you care how someone values you? Because I want a relationship? If women all look at me and treat me the same, my sexual market value is low. No amount of haircuts, beard trims or showering will fix that. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 03:21 PM |
| -2 | I can't ever be sexually attractiveThere is your problem there, if you don't think you have value why should anyone else? You got it twisted. It's other people, especially women who choose I have no value. It's not like I decided one day "Oh I have no value", it's built on a lifetime of experiences. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 01:39 PM |
| 0 | I can't ever be sexually attractiveYou're asexual though, who later found out relationships aren't for you. I just want to experience it for myself and go from there. The fact that I cannot shows how little value I hold, relative to the common man. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | I can't ever be sexually attractiveThere are people who find all different types of people attractive. Attractiveness isn't a universal constant. It is individual preference. You are attractive to someone, possibly many someone's. You just have to find them. It's not even about that really, my point is I just don't have the swag or charm needed to seal the deal. Not that any woman in the last 5 years has even found me physically attractive, but I digress. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 12:31 PM |
| 0 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?I don't play games | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 03:41 AM |
| 2 | I can now see why women don't like men cold approachingWow you must be handsome lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | does this proves looks don't matter? he owns multi casinos and a multi billionaireBut I lost 120lbs and get treated a lot differently. Because you got attractive, doesn't that support the blackpill? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?Are you handsome? Just asking because majority of men struggle with women to an extent, besides you. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 02:51 PM |
| 0 | does this proves looks don't matter? he owns multi casinos and a multi billionaireI was shy as a kid, no different than now, was born with this personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 01:25 PM |
| 0 | does this proves looks don't matter? he owns multi casinos and a multi billionaireIts not his attitude, he just has a good personality, which is genetic. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Being The Man That Triggering Female DesireWell am I wrong that those two traits are extremely difficult to change? Even saying that might be under selling it. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Being The Man That Triggering Female DesirePersonality is harder to change then looks, that's why incellers like me are at such a disadvantage. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | does this proves looks don't matter? he owns multi casinos and a multi billionaireWhat? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Being The Man That Triggering Female DesireHow do you 'work' on an ugly face. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 03:19 AM |
| 0 | does this proves looks don't matter? he owns multi casinos and a multi billionaireIts not a life of being treated like an ugly freak that causes this shitty attitude? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Being The Man That Triggering Female DesireOr perhaps just both? Would argue my defeatist personality came from surroundings and a life of failures. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?I think one has to either have tattoos or be a bad boy. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?I look like a bloated grasshopper with long legs and arms with various of skin ailments. I look like a platypus, but without the charm of one. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?I would prefer a relationship | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?I look around and the types that are partnered look nothing like myself. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?No men arent, but I would say the majority of women, like 60% to 80% in my age group are. Next would be liberal and owns cats. Not to say this is a bad thing, but this type of woman doesn't find me attractive, which would argue that's a problem. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?Seems like the vast majority of women my age do, just saying its like women are indeed a monolith to an extent. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?You need a quick reaction time and intelligence to be funny, which I lack both. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?I would like one, but would need to save up money for it. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?I'm not funny, wealthy, or good looking. Guess I could get rich, but not sure how being a sugar daddy would be very fulfilling. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?Well all are rich and famous, seems like when a woman has it all 'money' 'fame', bad boys are what their after. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?Height means nothing though. I'm 6'1 and feel like being shorter would be better, at least with attracting women. Height doesn't matter for bad boys or dark triad personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?What's the best version of me? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?Seems like it, maybe just a trend though? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?Do you also smoke weed? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?The problem is no one is in my range | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?Do they have the bad boy traits I mentioned in my post? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?Demeaner, tattoos. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 07:52 PM |
| -1 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?How did you know I like pokemon? Here's a video I made back in 2014 when I was like 16 lol. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ehShjbyAF2c | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 06:11 PM |
| -9 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?To be fair I used two women. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 04:01 PM |
| -18 | Is the trick to getting women being a bad boy with tattoos like Machine gun Kelley or Pete Davidson?Just be yourself which I know is the lamest cliche ever, but it's so true... If I followed this advice, would stay a virgin forever. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes the best one can do is to abstain from any interaction with females for a whileI certainly hope no one else does. What do you mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Masculine men.Ya, that makes sense! | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Masculine men.As for "masculine" - well, that really depends on your culture and the culture of those you're interested in. I'm not classically masculine in that I don't care about cars, hunting, mechanical objects, bodybuilding, etc. I danced ballet in undergrad, worked in college radio, am a massive death metal fan, and have lived in my car for months at a time when going hiking. And yet, my girlfriend absolutely loves those things and finds my interests interesting. Op was just talking about physical chara… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 09:12 PM |
| -2 | Masculine men.I relate with this post because I've thought this before. It must be natural for feminine women to be attracted to masculine men. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?My argument is control is a fallacy, at least with how our brains think and function. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Genes determine everything about our brains, or am I missing something here? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?You miss my point. Identical twins still have different genetics/brain makeup since we are all different. One twin can like baseball and one can like soccer, and in that same scenario one can be shy and introverted, while the other is funny and outgoing. Genetics determine these things. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?I would hope you were not attractive to adult women as a 4 year old. You know what I meant. Anyway, my original point is outside factors are not why I'm like this. That's why I brought up when I was 4, genetics are the sole reason why I didn't like people and enjoyed watching Pokémon and yugioh, while other local kids thought those things were dumb. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Bro I was like that when I was a little kid, environment isn't going to change myself that much when I'm 4. Was out of the box unattractive to women, and that's genetic. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Meh of the three I like mini marshmallows, about it. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Nothing makes me happy, that's the problem. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Basically, you've got a fundamentally limited understanding of what it means for something to be caused by 'genes' and you've extrapolated it into supporting your world view. When really the concept of 'genes' is so, so, so much more complex than you are allowing for, because your understanding of it hasn't taken into account how batshit and complicated the concept of genetics really is. I was a shy, nervous kid who wanted to be left alone, while many others were the complete opposite. Genetics … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?There is truth in finding the good in things, but I don't care about that. Have honestly thought about killing myself. Besides never being happy and hating my life, waking up everyday is a chore. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?and get actual help. Like what, therapy lol? People like you spout stuff like this when you know you're wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Genetics make up who we are, have no idea how I could be wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Also, you're just incorrect about things being factual and that genetics are the be all and end all. I disagree. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?All I have are negative thoughts, not even trying to quote that stupid joker movie. What I've come to realize is people who are happy can't really comprehend what it means to be the opposite. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?I think it's worth trying out therapy and maybe taking SSRIs or perhaps anti-anxiety medication. Are you dense? I'm already doing this lol. Even now just swapped medicine which is making me dizzy because that's what these stupid ssri's do to me. Wish I never even started taking medication last year, just introduced more problems in my life that I don't need. That's what I get for listening to other people. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?So why go to therapy then if you don't have mental health issues? Because idiots like you tell me to go lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Are genes control how we interpret our experiences. Genetics control our preferences and how women are attracted to masculine men. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?You have control over your own happiness. No I do not. Even after meds and therapy, don't even know what it feels like to actually be happy. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 04:57 PM |
| -2 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Genetics are just one aspect of who you are. We are also shaped by other things, like our experiences and thoughts. Genetics are everything? They literally control our thoughts and how we think in general. Genetics also control what women are attracted to. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?That proves my initial point that we don't hold the keys to our prison cell. Which I don't believe that I even have mental health issues btw. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?Stop involving others in your self harm behavior, get into therapy, take SSRI's, touch grass, hit the shower and the gym. This honestly pisses me off even more thinking about it. Like I'm not already doing these things, and you write off my concerns with this. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?I disagree with both, especially body dysmorphic disorder. Do therapy harder? What does that even mean man. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 03:20 PM |
| -2 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?get into therapy, take SSRI's, touch grass, hit the shower and the gym. I'm in therapy, on meds, I shower lol, and gym is a waste of time. Are you going to diagnose me, what mental health issues do I have? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 03:16 PM |
| -8 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?yet you refuse to face reality when people tell you it's not all about looks/status/money. Those 3 are vitally important, but personality is also important, and just being honest here, my personality is boring and bland just like how I repeated words in back to back sentences. I'm repulsive to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 03:10 PM |
| -5 | Hate how much emphasis people put on 'personality'Try having a bad personality and looks, at least a decade of therapy can change personality. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Not being good-looking can be a blessing in disguiseI wouldn't mind being good looking, at least I could just focus on my personality than. Instead, it's both that are the problem, and need to somehow fix both at the same time. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach success a myth?Oh, fair enough, just was asking what type of skills are needed. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 07:58 PM |
| -1 | Is cold approach success a myth?What are the skills? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach success a myth?The moral of the story is that friendships with women win out every time. Get to know women. Become their friends simply because you’ve learned you’re able to enjoy female company…and then you will have plenty of options from women YOU vetted and know are great for you. Makes sense that a lot of incels like me have no luck, because we are incapable of forming friendships with women. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Given upYou need to get your general life sorted before you try to add another person into the picture. The essential thing is to become intendent and self-supporting. You're definitely right. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Given upPerhaps look into an entry level union job and build from there. What do these type of jobs look like? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Given upAre your parents supporting you? I live with them, but that's about it. If I didn't have their insurance, wouldn't be able to even afford therapy. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Given upGo to college, even if it is community college and STFU. You or your parents got money to pay for that. And you probably have a curriculum good enough to get on a major. There are plenty of courses you can follow. I and my parents have little money. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Hey, quick question. What's the sub where you ask ma's and pa's advice? Like internet parents. I found it somehow months ago, but can't find it anywhere. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Thanks! | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Which I was genuine nice back in high school, polite, was the worst years of my life. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'There probably were girls that were interested in you and you didn’t notice their body language clues. And even if you could notice the body language, timing is your confidence. And girls vary about this. Never happened. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'I was nice and it didn't work, now being a jackass doesn't work. Nothing works, my face doesn't work, my bloated stolmach. Idk even know anymore man. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'We will see I guess, have absolutely no optimism at all though. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'We don't want a dancing monkey. Do you think we see our friends as dancing monkeys? Well, I have to get hobbies I don't even care about to just get female interest. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Well I'm defeated, your response forced me to outright say it. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'But yeah like, nice is nice. Be nice to men and women. Be nice to old people, be nice to kids. Nice isn't about sex. Looking down the comments. What is in it for me to be nice? Do you think our ancestors were nice? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Then I am. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'you seem to be a bit insecure and have low-self esteem. To rebound this back, why would I have high self-esteem? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Once you have learned how to have friendships, then you can try to make friends with women and, if there is a mutual attraction, you can date them. This would take years and a lot of hard work that I wouldn't enjoy for a moment. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'For the most part to start a relationship there needs to be a combination of factors, some of which will rely on luck and chance. E.g. the person needs to meet basic levels of human decency (or they need to have the same understanding of what base-level niceness is), have a similar sense of humour, find they have similar interests or at least be interested in the other person's likes/dislikes even if they're not actively into them personally, met when both are single, be at least nominally physi… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Same with eating healthy, or finding a good career, or anything like that. The point is that giving a shit about yourself is a worthwhile thing to do for yourself that ALSO JUST HAPPENS TO BE an appealing trait. I just don't find any enjoyment in any of this, suppose it's because I don't care about myself honestly. If I was truly alone and didn't have immediate family and pets, wouldn't mind killing myself. Already experienced and seen probably all I need to in this life, I though Elden Ring was… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'People are just saying have things going on in your life. No one wants to date losers. Have these things to entertain women? Chad thundercock doesn't need to be a dancing monkey to have women interested. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'First, to my understanding I'm taller than you. Second, I'm not "Getting Mad at women", I'm mad that I have to be some kinda dancing monkey. This is why women are so interested in true crime, for whatever reason women are just obsessed about being interested. Could be why women are so interested in rockbanders and are the majority in casino's when I'm there. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'You live in USA and you are a white male, without any lack of food, shelter or access to the internet, meaning that you are one of the most privileged human beings on this planet earth. I don't see how any of this is that great. Remember a guy a few years back remarking how actually cool it is that us men can pee like we have our own squirt gun... And I'm like, pretty much all mammals have this ability lol, we aren't that special, nor is being white something I care about. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'You do too. Not really, but you said in general, so that does invite outliers. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'You do too. Not really, but you said in general, so that does invite outliers. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Was defeated a long time ago, you're pretty much talking to a Deadman. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'What makes you interested in the people you're friends with? Them being a human, or is it other qualities that you find appealing? I have no friends, so really don't know anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'But being nice to other people is NOT why you were romantically unlucky in high school. Probably ugly and introverted didn't help me much either | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'What do you suggest? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'boring What is boring to you? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Try Minnesota | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 05:22 PM |
| -1 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'By majority I mean all. Trust me I don't like white women either. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'It's the vast majority surrounding me, so yes. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 05:07 PM |
| -7 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'If you don't give a fuck then why are you sending me a message lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'I've never even begun to play the game, I just want to know how to play, but after seeing these responses, would have to 180 and totally change who I am as a person to even begin to enjoy the torture of becoming "Interesting" "Exciting" "Intriguing". Don't care to be that kinda person. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 05:03 PM |
| -7 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'you weren’t actually nice to begin with So is that your response, to be more nice? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 04:59 PM |
| -2 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'isn't intriguing. So now I have to be intriguing? This just all sounds like a stupid game to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 04:55 PM |
| -15 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'So what hobbies are you next going to tell me that will somehow make me interesting? Btw, what if I don't want to be interesting? Why do I have to be the one that has to be interesting while the basic white women just watches Netflix. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 02:24 PM |
| -36 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'to all people preferably, but don't expect it to get you noticed by women Trust me I know. I stopped being nice after high school, don't swing that way anymore. Would rather be mean as hell to people then a nice doormat to be stepped on. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 02:20 PM |
| -24 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Well full offence your problem is your about as interesting as a potato. So I'm a jester to entertain a woman lol. I'm also not a fucking dancing monkey that a woman can insert a coin into for cheap thrills. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'people just want to generally be treated well. This is why we see people who are usually jerks attract women, I don't understand this. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.So average is bad in your eyes? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.Thank you! I felt like you've dealt with this in the past, that's why you're the only one bring this up. Actually started a therapy session like a month ago and how I compulsively post on reddit. She didn't know what reddit was 😅. So it was difficult to really talk about it in full. I'm currently on venlaflaxin, which I've enjoyed! It's made me chronically constipated though lol. It's nice talking with someone, especially because I have no friends lol. Have you ever had lasik surgery before? Jus… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.Hello! Do you have experience with feeling inferior, is that why you said this? I don't feel totally inferior to other men, but my face isn't very masculine looking, that was a main topic with my therapist when I first talked with her. Also just recently posted on R/toast me and I'm sad it hasn't gotten a response, that it was funny lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.So do you think average is very good? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.For me, the thing that makes sex so wonderful is the connection and love I have for my fiance. His body, every bit of his body, is the packaging that contains the person he is. Totally relate! That's why I won't lose my virginity to a fling or escort, want it to be with someone that I care for and vice versa. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.Very, very few women like getting their cervixes pounded, that shit usually hurts like hell. Totally true, my insecurity is more that my girth is small "Insert is it in meme". | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.What? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.those with the vagina you so desire. That's a weird way of saying it, but I get it. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/04/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.Even "just talking about sex" you have a weird body focused view of how sex works. Isn't everything about bodies in the end? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.You probably need to mature a bit before you try to date a human being. Women bring way more to the table than bodies. And so do men. Of course, just talking about sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.All a sham, also not worth the damage these practices can cause. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 09:34 PM |
| -7 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.If big dicks are such an inconvenience, why does evolution have most men have them? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.Most guys measure from the side not the pubic bone Unfortunately my measurements are with pubic bone. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 04:33 PM |
| -6 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.I believe there is a middle ground here. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 04:32 PM |
| -6 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.Women don’t care about penis size. But can you speak for all women? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.Also as man who is a little above average (7.5 curved up to 5.5 around) even I experience feeling like my penis is not big enough. Why does everyone on reddit have a big dick? I'm starting to think the real average is closer to 6.5 rather then 5.5, same goes for girth. I just realized your girth is as large as my length 🤪 | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?Totally agree! I'm also a caregiver, so it's kinda complicated haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?What do you mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 11:31 PM |
| 0 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?I have too many negatives to overcome at the moment, just need to get rid of these negatives one step at a time. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?I can definitely be open, but should expect it as a negative for a lot of women. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I can now see why women don't like men cold approachingI'm just saying I understand how cold approaching isn't the best option, leave me alone lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | I can now see why women don't like men cold approaching"I totally get womans fear of dangerous men after this" It's interesting that the realization somehow missed you before this but, you know, better late than never. Well fuck you too lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?Well that's encouraging. He must have had a seriously cool personality! | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 06:18 PM |
| -4 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?That's a good point! I still believe I'm going to have to move out before even considering dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 03:46 PM |
| -5 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?I believe this is closer to the truth. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?Seriously! Was it in high school? That's crazy to me lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?So it just lowers the odds? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | If women have never been attracted to me before, isn't that a large enough sample to concur I need the redpill?Generally speaking, both genders like acts of kindness, generosity, and commitment. Hard disagree. Just looking at women around my age it would be Interesting, Attractive, and funny. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | If women have never been attracted to me before, isn't that a large enough sample to concur I need the redpill?If someone isn't what women want, what good is dating advice? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | If women have never been attracted to me before, isn't that a large enough sample to concur I need the redpill?So you gotta ask yourself. Do you want a relationship or do you want a hook-up? They’re two totally different things. Red pill will not get you a relationship. I want a relationship. Ya, don't want to lose my virginity to a hookup, escort, something like that. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?That's not how things work, I'm not fat lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?ou have a lot of power to make yourself more attractive. I can't control my body type or the way my body looks in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?Thanks! I thought as much, pretty much asked an impossible question. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?If 10,000 people around the world are my only options, winning a jackpot in a casino is better odds. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?Hey! You're a woman, who is also attractive to women. I have absolutely no idea how to be attractive in a womans eyes. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?No I don't have any of those things, feel like we've had this Conversation before. Like I haven't ever even had sex or a relationship before, how am I to know if its a reason to live or not? I want to at least experience these things so I can form my own opinions. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 01:38 PM |
| -5 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?Do you understand how low odds that is? You basically just told me to kill myself. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?Not to be negative, but its hard for me to believe I have options. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?What do you mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Is it really just a numbers game, after all?First, I don't think there is a magic "soul-mate" out there. There is a small percentage of people with whom we are compatible with for marriage or long term relationship That's kinda sad if true. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 12:30 AM |
| 2 | I'm an actual "Nice Guy".It’s really great to see you finally say that you don’t actually hate women. And I mean that in a congratulatory way! That’s a huge deal considering how fundamental it seemed to your internal narrative around your struggles, and now you can actually begin to work on the core issues that were masked by your projected self-loathing. I’m honestly so here for all your progress, my dude. 🌟 Ya, a lot of people even at the time said it was more self-esteem related, while I have a lot of self-hatred and… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/22 04:59 AM |
| 3 | I'm an actual "Nice Guy".Have you genuinely never been interested in anything? Why have you not made friends? Not really, even now any hobby ideas I see sound more like a chore then general interest. I wanted to be alone, but it was an addiction to self-isolation I believe. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/22 04:40 AM |
| 2 | I'm an actual "Nice Guy".Tried for 21 days, had urethra irritation and constant precum. It all went away after I resumed fapping too. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/22 03:36 AM |
| 4 | I'm an actual "Nice Guy".I totally agree, it's frustrating that I'm so far behind. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | When do you think happiness can finally happen?Idk, don't really care about money. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Well that's cool! In my experience black women aren't interested which is completely understandable. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?I'm 24? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/22 05:44 PM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?There’s nothing wrong with having standards for your partner. But one of the things I keep in mind is “if this is a standard of mine, do I fit the criteria of said standard?” I don’t ask people to be better then I am personally. Oh, I meant women's standards are high, not my own. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/22 04:41 PM |
| 14 | I can now see why women don't like men cold approachingI take being a man for granted sometimes, at least I can defend myself. It was just my mom and grandma in a fairly isolated part of the casino. My mom now wonders if he had just come out of prison. He said he only lives 20 minutes away, but again strange that my mom has never seen this man before if he's a regular. He wanted my mom to call him, but he came back saying he basically doesn't even have a phone. My moms a Saturday evening regular so she's going back, unfortunately Dave could be there… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Thanks for the pic! Ever since 2015 I've wanted to find my own style, that fade could be mine! Was def planning on seeing a stylist and seeing what style is the best for me. This one is interesting since I've gotten my ears pierced since I took that pic, so having a fade would show the ears off a lot more! | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?There’s a gajillion ways to change how you look. Workout, eat better, clean up your fashion and general wear, wear a scent that compliments who you are, become more confident, fix your body language. It's a process, but there is only so much I can do. If I'm a 4 now, then realistically a 5-6 would be my cap. Standards are also very high, so being in that range would make things very difficult, and that's if I get out of 4. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?I had a lot of insecurities about my looks even before browsing those subs. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Looks must be subjective because some say handsome, others say average or a bit below. I want my mid to late 20's to get better! | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 12:54 PM |
| -2 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?I was always taught the best way to take a compliment is to just smile and say thank you. So then why have I never been complimented? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 03:36 AM |
| -1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?maybe increasing your status might help. Why not work towards improving your career/wealth/status? This would prove my hatred of women if that's what I have to do. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?This is way more realistic, thank you! | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?What's not true? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?So I guess everyone is invisible and nobody talks to eachother with your logic. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Everyday I go around being invisible reconfirms those reddit posts. How I'm a soon to be 24 year old virgin who has never even had a female friend before. I get what you're saying, but my whole life has lead to this, even my fucked up female family members. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 02:20 AM |
| -1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?I could compliment others, but that would force them to say one back to me which is a lot less genuine. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?You life would have been better and easier if you were amazing looking That's Why I can't be "Cute" or "Handsome", right? When I saw those comments on incelexit it made me feel sad, like they're all trying to hype me up or something. I totally agree with you finding happiness is important, definitely have to find what that thing is in general. I don't want to be popular, but that feeling of confidence because I'm handsome would be cool, also encouraging. Attraction is very important for relation… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Incel subs and also posts on quora. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 02:07 AM |
| -19 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?How often do you go around looking at others and telling them their hair looks great, or they just look awesome? What does this have to do with me never getting positive validation though? Plenty of men and women get compliments completely out of the blue. It's not like women can see a meter over my head saying I haven't complimented enough people today. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 02:05 AM |
| 5 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Ya I wouldn't even attempt dating right now, unfortunately I'm a late bloomer. Might take to my mid 30's to finally get my shit in order especially with social situations. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 12:24 AM |
| 0 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?You're already convinced that you're ugly and you say you hate women. With this attitude, why would any woman try to flirt with you? You got it backwards, I began to hate women and started to doubt my looks around early 2020 when I began to browse reddit for the first time. My beliefs aren't built in a day, it's built over my lifetime of occurrences. People "Especially women", never even look, let alone eye contact. I'm very sure I've never elicited interest. Not to throw a pity party, just voic… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 12:02 AM |
| 4 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Thank you! I was going to print the photo off and show it to my therapist and have a convo about the comments and how I reacted/made me feel. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Without it I have a chubby baby face, one of the worst aspects it will also make my neck look longer, with a skinny neck to boot. Kinda like the nfl player Mike Glennon. So it is a feeling of me not looking good either way in a sense. It goes back to how am I "Cute" or "Handsome". I felt like the ugly girl who get asked out for prom just as a nice gesture, you know what I mean? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 5 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Start focusing on how to be happy and how to be a good person, stop worrying about what you aren't getting from others. Ya totally agree, it's definitely a process. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:24 PM |
| 3 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Point here is fix your perception and internal issues and you will instantly become more attractive. How is someone supposed to do this? It reminds me of the job fallacy, you need to have experience to get a job, and can't get a job because I lack the experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:23 PM |
| -6 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Sure, but I even went to prom with a girl in 11th grade and that would have been an opportune time to receive this info and other times also. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:21 PM |
| 3 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?l but you have a look of sadness and hopelessness in your eyes, That's an interesting point, I definitely didn't feel sad when I took the pic, so perhaps it's just my personality leeching out unconsciously. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers and incels believe asian women want white men?but plenty enough women will even call it as 'bettering next family generation', just to get your sperm inside her. You might be cringing hard right now, but it is what it is. So they're actually taking advantage of me to further there own personal agenda? I wonder if these women realize how close they're to Hitlers beliefs written in mein kampf, that's wild if a large sum of women actually believe that. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Why do redpillers and incels believe asian women want white men?All three are very outdated, even though the medium.com article is recent, it is still relying on 2014 dating research sources. The world has changed a lot in the last 10 years. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Why do redpillers and incels believe asian women want white men?Couldn't they be after a green card if they think I'm from the west? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 09:32 PM |
| 9 | Why do redpillers and incels believe asian women want white men?But that's more of society brainwashing, why would an asian women in the west though? When I heard that I was like, uhh I'm pretty sure asian woman are individuals and like the same things white women do lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundAnd maybe you are one of those male spinsters? And if you are? Well...so what? Well I'm not picked, maybe that would make you happy, but not me lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 09:02 PM |
| 2 | The Female Mating Strategy Curve. (Theory)Hostile in most cases is an aggressive word that makes your husband sound like he abuses children. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 08:59 PM |
| 4 | The Female Mating Strategy Curve. (Theory)Well that's great, but you said hostile.... Which is an interesting word to use, are you a native english speaker? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | The Female Mating Strategy Curve. (Theory)I specifically had a preference for men who were hostile to children. Wtf? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundWell I believe they're shallow like men, also untrustworthy. Do you have a big dick if I may ask? In my experience bigger dick dudes have your confidence and smaller have mine. Just an assumption because I believe positive validation can reinforce and change the mind for the better and negative can have the opposite effect. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundIf I had your standards would never find anyone, incels don't have the luxury to have preferences. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundAnd what do you mean by "Didn't find my type until recently", are you talking about white women? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundWell maybe I should listen since you made a whole post about it after all. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 03:41 PM |
| -1 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundI'm 6'1, shorter height is actually an advantage because taller dudes are more threatening looking . "Treats them right", what a load of crap lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundSo what if you were never picked and hate women for it? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 03:22 PM |
| -1 | Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way aroundIt would be a lot more easier for women to simply stop commiting to men altogether, giving them children and getting into monogamous relationships then it would be for women to stop prostitution. Are you assuming we should end our species? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Let’s Talk About PTSDI have the bottom two paragraphs to a T, but the top two can't say I have. Don't really think I had trauma as a kid, sure not great, but also not terrible childhood? Strange, but our brains are so complex, perhaps I got hit in the head as a toddler and developed ptsd symptoms, who knows 🤷♀️ | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 02:53 AM |
| 5 | Fellow autistics, did you also start masking heavily after finding TRP?I have high functioning type, but I'm the stereotypical shy, awkward, aspie form of autism. Relate with what you wrote here and took the "Fake it till you make it" advice. Well it lead me to pretend I was someone else, and realized the redpill route of how to treat and communicate with women is something I'm not capable of doing. I'm not Chad Thundercock unfortunately, though wish I was. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Importance of Demographics and trp's idea of evidenceOk, so this is just a scenario, not like something happening in most countries? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Importance of Demographics and trp's idea of evidenceFair enough! | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Importance of Demographics and trp's idea of evidenceI still don't think you answered his question? I'm also a bit confused. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/22 01:13 AM |
| 0 | How much do you care about sex ?Even though I am good-looking but older, I get a lot of compliments from women, and do get hit on. However, I am done with women. I prefer porn, hands down. Literally proof of what I've said in the past, if I was "Handsome", would know about it by now. It's not like no men ever get compliments, but you need to have positive traits that are capable of compliments. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | How much do you care about sex ?Too much, part of it is just being a horny man, compulsive thoughts of yoga pants and breasts. I relate that my body loves the idea, but in actuality sex doesn't even sound that great, especially how women don't even get much out of piv sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/22 09:41 PM |
| -1 | Women aren't hypergamous, they have more options for sex, while simultaneously having lower libidoThe population is 7 Billion. How the fuck do you think that happened? Lol Women are forced to by society's and lots of women want children, and unfortunately sex is needed for that to happen. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/22 08:17 PM |
| -4 | Women aren't hypergamous, they have more options for sex, while simultaneously having lower libidoI've never heard, or seen any proof that woman are just as horny as men, or can be as myself. Like that other guy said, the population would be like 16 billion if true. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/22 08:10 PM |
| -2 | Women aren't hypergamous, they have more options for sex, while simultaneously having lower libidohere are women who masturbate like all day long. I guarantee there are women who are as horny as you. I strongly disagree, you have no idea how awful my libido and thoughts are. Even ssri's couldn't completely kill it! This is why I've asked about permanent libido killers in the past. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/22 07:49 PM |
| -7 | Women aren't hypergamous, they have more options for sex, while simultaneously having lower libidoWomen aren't as horny as me lol. Absolutely no way women's sexuality even is remotely in the same hemisphere as a mans. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Women aren't hypergamous, they have more options for sex, while simultaneously having lower libidoFair enough, that makes sense! | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/22 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Women aren't hypergamous, they have more options for sex, while simultaneously having lower libidoBeing educated isn’t just about knowing stuff, but having the wisdom to use that information to improve your life in a meaningful way. How is hypergamy supposed to improve my life in a meaningful way? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?See that's the difference between you and me, you like to do typical manly things and hobbies, I never have, nor care about doing housework or anything like that, let alone enjoy it. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?It sounds like a chore, yes. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?I can't mention I'm suicidal otherwise could lose my job as my brothers caregiver, we both have the same doctor. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?Well I've went everywhere else and never got an answer, and yes I'm ugly. Trimmed my facial hair and look way worse lol. That's what I get for listening to others advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?You've asked it a bunch of times before. You know you're not gonna get a useful answer. Can we please stay on topic, how can I kill my sexdrive? Preferably without having to go to a doctor because no way mine would do castration. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?What do you mean dumb question? Are you going to actually answer my dumb question, or just call me lazy even when you don't know me or my life lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?Well the main issue is my doctor won't do it, and that's why I was hoping someone would tell me another solution. I already know about castration/ ssri's, said so in the description of my post. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?I went 21 days on no fap "No masturbating or porn", and I just felt awful, and was horny constantly. Had a lot of precum with a constant tingly sensation in my urethra that finally went away when I started masturbating again. No offense, but I believe the male sexdrive is a completely different beast compared to female, it would be impossible for you to relate. I just want it killed off humanely if possible. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?Well anything that tampers testosterone/estrogen can have huge debilitating consequences. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?So basically there is no way then, typical. Not surprising though, never will get what I want or be happy in life. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?Doesn't change I was actively doing something I hated. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?Of all things I mentioned, why is this the topic of convo? I want to kill my sexdrive so like you just said, can become asexual where I permanently have no sexual threats or erections. Do you have any advice on how to achieve this? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?If it wasn't for the side effects, would be an option. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?I'm saying for those brief moments, had no thoughts or attraction of the opposite gender, which was the happiest I've felt in a very long time. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 12:55 PM |
| 0 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?I would rather end it honestly, all of that sounds like hell. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?What's this about? Personally want to stop thoughts about women, and to not have erections anymore. No amount of will power or discipline will do this though. That's why need something external to do it. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 11:33 AM |
| 0 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?Nah, not doing nofap voodoo again. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?My question is the side effects, my doctor would never do it either. I have no friends lol. Edit: I just look what P shot is.... This is the opposite of what I want. I want to kill my sexdrive and to stop having erections, not stronger erections haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?Bro, sitting idle will just make me horny. Meditation is like reading a book where thoughts will wander. Yes, I hate my sexdrive because I can't form relationships, so its literal torture. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?Already been on them, don't know why it didn't kill it for me. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?I went on nofap for 21 days and felt terrible with constant precum and other issues. Not the answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?I'm on Venlaflaxin currently, not sure if depression meds are the answer for killing sexdrive permanently though. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?Well, you could also try to fix your brain and get a relationship… I've been trying, I'm not even sure I want one at this point anyway. I just don't want a sexdrive or erections. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?I went to the gym for like 4 months and hated every minute of it, especially the other dudes who were in there. Gave up and ended my gym membership, seriously don't get the feel good endorphins that everyone talks about. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 03:26 AM |
| -1 | Hello! I've searched everywhere, is there a way to kill my sexdrive?See, if there is seriously no alternatives. I will plan my suicide at some point, not trying to dramatic or an attention seeker, but I'm genuinely serious. Don't want to live like this anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to find a woman who doesn't care/isn't attracted to confidence?As a woman, the top two qualities that draw ALL women are confidence and a sense of humor. Two things many people don't have. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to find a woman who doesn't care/isn't attracted to confidence?Sometimes you just have to fake it until you make it. This phrase is so overused. I can fake, fake, fake, fake it, eventually I crack because this facade isn't me. The real me is ugly and no value. I totally agree with everything else you said and OP should listen! Just can't stand that saying haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsIt was just a situation where I actually went of my own comfort zone, took a risk to share my personal life stories to, only to realize after months, never even really new this person. Caught them in lies and was revealed in the end that she wasn't messaging as much was other dudes or something, I dunno just blocked her and vowed to never make friends again. I just don't like women honestly, really wish that there was a 100% to kill sexdrive. Unfortunately no way that I have access too, ssri's d… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsI don't really care to talk about it, just want to forget about it and move on. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsI'm talking about how this person had a handful of other dudes that were talking to her daily, I wasn't even really a friend, just another guy who was probably boring her compared to the other guys. Nothing about me is special not my hair, or face, eyes, body, height, even my penis below average going by studies. It makes sense why I've never been complimented in real life before, because there is nothing to compliment. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsThat story was just to describe female nature and why I don't want to ever have online friends again, especially with women. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsI don't know what I am | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsThough if these women were actually nice, or wanted to talk to me, would feel differently. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad Traits. People don't want you. It's not cause they want a bad boy. It's cause you suck. Thanks for reminding me. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsWomen are just people, like men are. They have varied interests, values, and preferences. Hard for me to believe that when every women I encounter partners with a masculine douchebag with tats, or a black dude. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsI would have never come, even if you payed me lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsUntil I see what I'm saying not play out in real life, will not just go against what I see. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsWomen aren't attracted to a template. Hard disagree. Men care about looks more, but their tastes are so varied and different. Go on R/Ladyboners and all the men there look the same. Women are all attracted to confidence. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:33 PM |
| 0 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsEww, no thanks lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsI will continue down my own path, thank you. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsThey don't want me to talk with them, and judging by how hyper masculine these dudes look and act, proves my point. I'm ugly and that will always be a wall in social interaction. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsBased on what you're saying, you sound like you'd be abusive yourself. So, perhaps they actually aren't attracted to abusers at all - else they'd find your anger and entitlement attractive? That's quite an assumption | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsThat women are nasty, yes. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsYes, but the hour goes by quickly. No, but haven't had anything yet. You're right. I'm ugly, low IQ, have a below average penis size among other things. Therapy can only do so much, and therapy won't change the world around me and how women are attracted to a template that isn't me. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 12:51 PM |
| 0 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsYes, women are the problem here, bc god forbid they have opinions and don’t kowtow to your bullshit Excuse for them being bad themselves and being attracted to DTT men. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsWomen have never wanted to talk with me, never liked me, or found me attractive because I'm ugly. That person was just a mistake that will never happen again. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsI want a good person, yes, not someone who is attracted to dudes with neck tattoo's who will clearly become abusive lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsWomen get with bad boys all the time. My advice was to get out more and the couples I see are scary looking men with women lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 12:19 PM |
| 0 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsGetting out so far only reconfirms my beliefs. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 12:17 PM |
| -2 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsAnd you go after bad girls because you’re….. emotinally intelligent and empathetic? I don't go after any lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 03:13 AM |
| -1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsSo I can go out and see nasty women with attitude's? That's all I see wherever I go. Cash register women are the worst lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:49 AM |
| -6 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsAre you talking about my family members? Easy to assume when I can observe their behavior. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:46 AM |
| -4 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsThat song from the 80's 'All girls want to have fun", honestly is a perfect comp to what I'm talking about. DTT guys are very fun, and even if there should be clear signs that something is off, hitch with them anyway. My take is Women actually like it, to escape from their mundane lives, this is why boring ugly men like me are repulsive to women. Big part of my disdain for women, it's just women's nature in general to want this type, high school is a good place to observe this behavior and women… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:44 AM |
| -12 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsSo you want to put the blame on me for womens behavior? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:39 AM |
| -3 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsThose are the type of women that get with "Fun" guys who later become abusive. My argument is women do this to themselves, and actually seek out these men because they're the dark triad traits themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:37 AM |
| -1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsI'm saying that women aren't physically imposing like men, so instead of being physically abusive like men, women are emotionally abusive. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsMinnesota | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:17 AM |
| -2 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsIt's hard for me to think I need to "Unlearn" anything when I believe I'm right, which is maybe why therapy hasn't done that much for me in a month. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:16 AM |
| 0 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsMy account isn't new? I don't understand what anything I'm saying is this blasphemous. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:12 AM |
| -20 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsI'm already in therapy, and don't see how anything I said was wrong. There is a reason why women go for bad boys, because they're bad themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:10 AM |
| -6 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsThe women my age are all party-goers who wear tattoo's, are liberal, and smoke weed. Someday I will move out of here, but currently stuck. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:08 AM |
| -1 | Women are the Dark Triad TraitsI Would argue that women are manipulative and are good at emotional abuse. Is that worse than men? No, because men can be manipulative too, but the argument of which is worse doesn't ever solve anything. Online friends are flaky and untrustworthy, never again will I waste my time and energy trying this. Also goes for xbox buddies and other gaming things, if I'm to meet someone, it needs to be in real life. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.It's the DADS that push circumcision Really? I will take your word for it, but women have voiced their opinions about cut and there is a reason why most dudes in porn are cut. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I wouldn't feel obsessed if I didn't see it everywhere, and white women have never found me attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.You're surrounded by idiots. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I don't need a therapist, need a penis that has actual feeling lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 2 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.Well my overactive sexdrive makes me think about women constantly. Trust me, if I could, wish I could kill my sexdrive so there could be weeks and months at a time where a woman doesn't even enter my thoughts or think about them in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I don't want acceptance, I want change. Either from our society or to have women in this country to stop having preferences for cut and to actually stop having their children circed. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I hate women for robbing me of any pleasure I could ever get from sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.There is a stigma in the U.S to being uncut, and women turn down men who aren't cut. Reinforcing this trend to continue. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I don't know how it isn't women's fault. Sure a man started it, but after that it's mothers and their aesthetic preferences that have main stayed the trend. Guaranteed if I went to your country, majority would find my dick unattractive, but most of all would be that sex with me would result in them only receiving pleasure lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.There is no man who isn't religious who wants his son circed in 2022. it would be women who do that, and it goes back to preferences. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 10:04 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.You must know nice people. My dick is basically like a vagina, or a cut one like the egyptians do where the feeling is barely there, and even if one time was good for my standards, have absolutely no idea why and there is this mysterious energy surrounding it. btw, good for me is feeling anything at all haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 10:02 PM |
| -1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I stand firm when I know for a fact, just like the majority of U.S women don't like intact, foreign women won't like cut. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.crippled people and burn victims, most of the time those are accidents or unfortunate circumstances, rng riddled bad luck. This was something done to me, on purpose by my own mother. I'm never going to find peace about this because I have been wronged, I'm of the stance that I have done no wrong and it's not me who needs to accept anything or change. Again, fuck women. I'm not the problem here. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.So should I also hate women because they like big dicks too? mine is only average, not that any of this matters anyway. I will die a virgin, no point of having sex in my current state, and have no love in my heart for a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.The reality is women have these preferences as an affection of a practice that was begun by men. They didn’t create it. They aren’t responsible for it. Many women have never seen an uncircumcised dick, so when they do they see it as unattractive or different. The first penises they see are circumcised, it’s normal to them, thus the preference. They aren’t at fault for it. They aren’t at fault for not being attracted to it. They are responsible for it and it's continued existence. They keep the t… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.True, but women are treated like subhuman in those parts, which isn't right. What's frustrating is the U.S is a free world, and I still see women have open preferences for men who are cut, continuing onward the cycle of having young toddlers mutilated in their first few days of existence, just to appease the women in this country who think its "Clean" or "better" this way. It's not even done for religious reasons anymore, just the selfish ambitions of the ones who should no better, but they get … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:36 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.All I hear about is acceptance, which I can't stand that. No matter what I do, will get judged for it, either find a woman in a different place in the world who won't like my penis for getting cut, or focus years of my life trying to restore what little skin I have "Would take at least a decade, very tight cut", just to have some American woman judge me the second she sees it because it's not to her "Liking". | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.The best orgasms I've ever had were when I was at the most, very excited. Overall though it's very random. I kinda have a vagina in the way how getting it off is harder, and has that mysterious energy where sometimes I just don't know why it felt better one time, then the next is literally nothing. I did go 21 days on nofap like a month ago. The longest streak in my adult life, I felt like crap by day 21 and my penis was constantly filling up with precum and just got the feeling that this wasn't… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.No, I never have. In a way, I might be coping right now. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I was on bupropion before Lexapro, but had to get off of it because of really bad stomach pain. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.Been on ssri's. Never reduced anything, currently on lexapro and it hasn't helped either. I firmly believe that chemical castration is the only way, but that won't happen. So I'm just left here like this. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:02 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.Whatever, punch me down further. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:01 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.A few years ago read some white dudes accounts of travelling abroad and how the women reacted to the cut and how "Different" it was. There was also some story on reddit about a guy with an asian wife, and the dude caught her sending messages behind his back, basically laughing about how weird his penis was and looked. Even ignoring these things, I highly doubt women in these countries would look at a very uncommon looking dick, that is dry and not as pleasurable, and be like "This is for me!". | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.No, I can orgasm, but the feeling up to it, and the orgasm is weak. Really hard to describe because my dick unfortunately is very unique. The surgeon cut it extremely tight, so there is like absolutely no extra skin anywhere. I've tried to experiment with other things like toys, fleshlights, etc. It's all the same as my hand. What's the worst is I can feel like something should be happening when I orgasm, but it never happens, like a wire was cut in half and it needs to be repaired to get the el… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:53 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.No woman could ever lift me up, nor do I want them too. I will continue to keep my distance like I always have and resent them for now that sex is pointless, have even less of a want, or desire for a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I'm not wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.How can anyone heal me? Nothing can be regained. The fact that a common human enjoyable thing "Sex", is basically pointless for me now is an irritating, awful predicament. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.So women don't prefer cut penises in the U.S and don't give the A-OK to have their children circed? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.What perspective would make me happy or give me an actual feeling penis? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:29 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.What am i wrong about exactly, like from all the things I've read, being cut in foreign places outside the U.S is a huge red flag. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I don't know if you're being sarcastic or not, but it does suck, all because a decision my mom made with out my consent when I was like 5 days old. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.Personally, the honest best bet would be to find some way to kill my sexdrive, I firmly believe it all goes back to that. I constantly think about something that would give me no physical pleasure. Unfortunately, no way that my doctor would allow chemical castration, and we both know I'm never going to be in a relationship anyway. But for now, will have constant thoughts about sex, and women, even if I hate women and can't even feel my penis barely lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:25 PM |
| -2 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I've read stories and accounts of western men who were cut, and how the "nice" asian women reacted to their penises. By humiliating and saying it looked like a worm. It makes sense too, considering it would be extremely uncommon for a European or asian woman to encounter a cut penis, so their reactions won't be pleasant of the sight of it. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:08 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I don't care how they view it, and I do hate them. I'm not going to mince my words to make people who I will never meet, like me a little better. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 08:05 PM |
| -1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.Many women across the pond, even in europe do not like men who are cut. I don't think it's to take advantage of them, as much as they would actually give us a chance. Might find us more attractive than the traditional western white women. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.How am I not a victim? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:47 PM |
| -1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.My concern and resentment is valid. Even if I was to ascend and by the grace of an imaginary god, get into a relationship someday, would have a penis with little to no feeling, and not even a big size to boot lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:43 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I don't want your pity, I'm one step away from being a eunich. I don't hate women around the world, just in the U.S. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:40 PM |
| -2 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I don't see anything embarrassing about it. All I do is feel bad for men who feel like they have to be cut, or feel shame for being uncut because of the female gaze. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I hope not a single black people will bump into you at the grocery store. What? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:28 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.You're delusional if you think many of the women who have their kids cut were "Forced into it". No surprise though, many people believe women can do no wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I literally can barely feel anything. How would you like it if your penis was like mine lol | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.You don't think the mother has the final say to have her child cut, or not? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:06 PM |
| -5 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.not obsessing over your penis or how you believe women are responsible for it — because they are not. Women are responsible. They have their "Preferences" for cut in the U.S. Many women like my mom were adamant to have their child cut. From my perspective, have no idea how it isn't women's fault. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:06 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.My mom did it. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 07:04 PM |
| -3 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.We’re talking about circumcision being made to children which is not women’s fault. How are women not at fault, they have the final say lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I just don't understand how getting told that I should have been beaten, would change my mindset on the spot, or get my foreskin back, or any of the countless other issues that I have. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 0 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.It's spread around by women, between preferences and how "Gross" uncut men are. I used to have a friend who actually had his foreskin cut as an adult because his girlfriend didn't want to have sex with his foreskin intact. Told him he would regret doing it, can't imagine he feels too good doing that in hindsight. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 06:33 PM |
| -4 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.What am I wrong about? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.Respect women? Why do they deserve my respect? I literally have trauma from my toxic female family members, you have no idea who you're talking to here. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 06:28 PM |
| -10 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.They don't. Like nba players like Lebron James who only cares about black rights, and didn't give a rat's ass about hong kong or anything chinese related, because it was an issue that actually affected his pockets and wasn't relevant to himself in any way. I literally see no difference. There's a lot of men who are feminists who support women, have absolutely no idea why they do, women wouldn't do the same. I will go on another reddit thread and see women giving their preferences for "Cut" penis… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.You're just saying a bunch of shit that isn't relevant to anything. You tell me I needed to get my ass beat, HOW ABOUT YOU GET YOUR ASS BEAT! How about that? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.I would be taller than my father in this scenario lol. I blame women, because they're to blame for its continued practice. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 06:18 PM |
| -14 | My hatred of women also extends to circumcision and the problems that come from it.Do you know how frustrating it is to have a penis at like 30-35% feeling, ugly, and an extremely high sexdrive? I'm like what sociopaths are literally made from. I'm sorry, but I hate women that prefer cut. They should not be allowed to have a preference. Do you know the absolute uproar if men wanted women in the west to cut parts of the clit for "Aesthetic" reasons? No, I hate women, because they don't care, only about their own issues. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Tall dark and handsome is a saying for a reason. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?If you are the kind of person who needs to have the last word, by all means feel free to respond, but I am done hitting my head against a brick wall for the day so I shall take my white ass and go watch some Tyler Perry flicks so I can fantasize about sexual relations with all those successful, sexy, masculine black men and secretly laugh at blonde and blue effeminate white guys. 🙄 I know you're being sarcastic, but this is what I imagine a lot of women do when they give advice, say one thing an… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 07:28 PM |
| -2 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I believe that white women aren't attracted to feminine men, and to only masculine men, especially black, and then I read your first two sentences and hear that you dated a masculine black dude, I didn't need to readmuch after that. You can insult me, just makes me hate white women even more. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I also firmly believe that women on reddit virtue signal about other things like penis size, sure maybe some don't care, but I bet in real life the majority of hetereo women would prefer a man with a big dick, which might be another reason why white women seek out black men. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Why do I have to repeat myself? I live in a white majority area, and plus it's my own race, why wouldn't I prefer white women lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 02:25 PM |
| 4 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Basically, your feelings on this matter have decided not to care about the facts. You're 100% Right, which is why going to therapy is probably the best decision I've ever made, don't know how I could ever fight my own thoughts and beliefs alone. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:51 PM |
| 2 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?In my experience women will say they don't like facial hair, but the men who can pull off looks without facial hair have attractive masculine facial features that are attractive. Of course, women would find them attractive. In your case maybe you look like a attractive woman clean shaven, I look like a 12 year-old boy haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:49 PM |
| -1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?But are you feminine looking though? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:46 PM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I firmly believe black dudes are more masculine looking/behavior, which attracts women , especially white women, which contradicts my therapist, which I want to believe her that women, even white women do find feminine looking men attractive, but I find that increasing hard to believe. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:45 PM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I'm a blonde white dude, and I see a lot of blonde white women go for black dudes like Addelle who is dating Rich Paul. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?You posted that study, and I wish I looked like George Clooney or Michael B Jordan haha. I think there is a huge disconnect here. I say my features are feminine, but that doesn't mean I'm attractive with these traits. I have absolutely no idea how MBJ is feminine btw, besides clear skin he looks like a lot of black dudes that white women in my area go for, he is far from feminine looking. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:31 PM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?What about the women who are white supremacists? A very small pool for me to choose from haha. I wouldn't want to date them though anyway, black dudes are cool, just unfortunate that my own race prefers them, but it's not black dudes fault. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:28 PM |
| 2 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Seems weird you associate eye and hair color with femininity. Because blonde hair and blue eyes are notorious that women have them? If you go on any site on the internet and have women voice their hair preferences on men, it's always black, rarely ever blond. Which might be another reason why white women prefer black men over men like me with lighter complexions and hair colors like blonde or ginger. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:26 PM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?But... I'm pretty sure statistically there are fewer interracial couples/marriages than there are same-race couples. So if white women like black men more... surely we'd be able to see that reflected in dating and marriage habits. Times are changing, guarantee the numbers are rising, and will continue to do so. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:24 PM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Because they are my counterpart? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 01:23 PM |
| -7 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I just believe white women like black men more than white men, feels like I have to do what redpillers say and move to asia or something lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 03:55 AM |
| -3 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?A woman on this post said she has dated a black dude and a black guy/white woman met eachother on this sub and literally made a post about it. I never see or here about white dudes and black women in relationships, wonder why? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 03:30 AM |
| 2 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Bro I have my own issues, not going to start debating about heightism exists or not. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?If anything taller women are the only type to have a disadvantage. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 02:57 AM |
| -1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Would you not consider dating outside your (Uber Aryan presenting) race? And plus why should I have to? If I have to, doesn't it prove my point that white women like you only go after more masculine looking guys, either you know it, or subconsciously? | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?For how low the pop of black men is in my state, it is weird how often I see it. They're are all attractive celebrities dude, I'm a nobody. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 02:37 AM |
| 2 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I can just call them ugly haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 02:36 AM |
| -6 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?. So, I am white and I have dated a black man before. That's all I needed to hear lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I resent white women because that's all I've ever been around. I never always had this mindset. I was viewed the same way in highschool, where coincidentally my looks were the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 02:31 AM |
| -1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I'm saying that it's odd how I've never been attractive to a woman before. When I constantly see white women dating masculine looking men, it's fair for me to assume that black dudes are more what white women in my area are looking for compared to someone feminine looking like me. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I'm saying it's strange to not get any interest. I believe in my case, reasonable to just expect that women just not into me, and a lot of that is my looks, especially with men that have masculine traits getting most of the interest. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 12:24 AM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Why are you focused on white women with black dudes? Thats exactly why you’re in a miserable situation. It’s not because of your body it’s because you have a shitty, entitled PERSONALITY that no woman wants to be around. Your personality and behaviour turns women off. I'm not entitled to white women, I'm just clearly ugly and unattractive to them, or to what society says they should be interested in, either way this is a fact, at least where I live. Just strange to be the same race as a group wh… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?But what does the majority that impacts my life like? If someone who lives in Cuba would like me, that is useless knowledge to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Weird? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 11:57 PM |
| 2 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I would prefer to be me, but have explored gaining muscle. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 11:57 PM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?That you know of. There are tons of girls who like guys but never tell them, just like there are tons of guys who like girls and never tell them. No this isn't true, or at least if you go by the "Signs", that others preach about that someone has interest. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 11:57 PM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Also, in another comment you dismiss a girl having a crush on you because of the age difference etc. But like... she still had a crush on you. The fact it could not turn into a relationship because of the age difference and you be like 'um, no thanks' isn't actually the relevant part - the point is, she found you attractive. So, if no women possibly could, how come she could? She was 12, not a victory or something that makes me feel better about myself. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 11:55 PM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Your resentment stems from something many white men seem to have plenty of: entitlement. You are resentful that white women aren’t with you because you feel entitled to one. Worwe, you are resentful when a black man has a white partner because you feel entitled to her first. You feel that you should have “first dibs” on white women and then black men can have - what?- your rejections? Like, white men should be in the front of the line at the factory when it comes to passing out all the Caucasian… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?What does height have to do with anything? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?I live in a majority white area, and no, I never had black friends. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 07:32 PM |
| 0 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?There's ALWAYS someone who will be super attracted to you, no matter what your body type is. Ya, never had a woman attracted to me around my same age. The only time the opposite gender has ever been attracted to me was when I was a senior in high school, a 6th grader was clearly interested in me..... Like she did pretty much everything in her power to show she was interested in me, which was weird and gross because of the age difference haha. I know that she has been the only one because she gav… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?There are roughly 3,904,727,342 women in the world. That's just way, way, way too many for you to say 'no women like x' - because, that's 3.9 billion people, chances are very high that at least some do in fact like x. You would think, right? Unfortunately I am limited by my surroundings and culture though. Like a large portion of that 3.9 billion could be in different countries and cultures, and the only reason why they would like me would be that culture praises or fetishizes white people, whic… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 06:58 PM |
| 3 | How the hell do you meet people?No I haven't went just yet, it's a town of 2,000. Live 30 minutes from a town of 11,000, but everywhere I've went hasn't really gave me many options to meet people. Will ask my therapist about this because she lives in the city of 11,000. Maybe she would know about some meetup groups that I haven't been able to find. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?I'm being dramatic here a bit, of course personality is important too, we would definitely have to jive and get along with eachother. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do you meet people?what happens if you do leave? and are your parents the ones who are putting this responsibility on you? If I left he would be forced to go in a grouphome because no way they can take care of him alone. You could say they're putting that on me, but I also don't want to abandon the only family I have. You're right, if I met that hypothetical person, nothing would come of it. Can't really even meet her in private, unless she lives alone or something. He's only 1 year younger than me, and he can hav… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you meet people?I refuse to ever make a dating profile. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 03:11 PM |
| 2 | How the hell do you meet people?Can you expand your radius for online dating. Plenty of people I know who live remote meet people online first and then after a few months meet in person because of the distance. Could, but I've had bad experiences in the past and would never again want to be friends with a woman online. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 12:46 AM |
| 3 | How the hell do you meet people?I help my parents take care of my autistic sibling. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | How the hell do you meet people?Ya, don't think there is an answer unfortunately. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 07:06 PM |
| 7 | How the hell do you meet people?Yes, you're right | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 05:34 PM |
| 9 | How the hell do you meet people?I caregive, not an option to leave. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 04:41 PM |
| 12 | How the hell do you meet people?Can't unfortunately. My therapist acknowledged what you said also, but don't know what the answer is. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?Outside of the waist to hip ratio and facial symmetry... Which is literally my two major flaws, good lord {Face smack emoji} | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?Unfortunately we men have less options, I have no options, or my only options would be a detriment to my own life, like being a caregiver or something. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?Anime character? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?Are you able to grow facial hair? Yes, but it still doesn't look great, I have blonde facial hair so it doesn't stick out, and have a skinny neck. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?Are you looking to feel romantically desired? Do you value parenthood and plan on becoming a father? What role do you want a woman to play in your life that is not being fulfilled by anyone else? Let's start there. Yes, and I've never even had a woman as a friend before, so would like to actually experience that, unless I'm not allowed too or something. I agree, as a man we have to seek out what we want, no way the "Just focus on yourself, or it will happen when you give up", is honestly true. M… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?My parents are good looking, unfortunately I got a lot of my looks from my mom and not my dad. So I have a lot of feminine facial features that would look good on a woman, but not on a dude. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?What I'm saying is if I did what women do and reject people and be picky, then I will never be in a relationship because those are my only options. Not that those opportunities have ever even presented themselves either haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?I thought societal class is influenced by how much money someone makes? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 03:41 AM |
| 0 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?That doesn't bode well for me, considering I never went to college haha. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 03:22 AM |
| 0 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?Therapy is non negotiable though, especially if you find yourself suddenly now getting attention from women post-surgery. Many a man have turned into aggressive misogynists because they felt that their belief that women are 'shallow' has been proven right. Well that misogynist would be proven right, right? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?The fact that you even exist is owing to the fact that two people found eachother sufficiently attractive enough to create you. My parents are far more attractive than me. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?Nothing in this rethoric means that black pill is true. Recognizing that looks can be consensually judged doesn't mean that women will only want you for your looks, nor that only the top 80% are actually attractive, nor that it's over for you if you ain't got looks. Admitting that looks can to some degree be consensually judged doesn't automatically mean the remaining fantasies of black pill are true. So the line is somewhat blurred in the middle? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to escorts.and focus on things you can (dress, haircut, working out.) In my experience this isn't enough | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 05:33 PM |
| 0 | I’m addicted to escorts.I'm assuming by not responding I'm right lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 03:32 PM |
| 0 | I’m addicted to escorts.Your physical appearance isn’t all that important when trying to become attractive. You're a woman, so I will take your word for it, but isn't attraction really important? Like for sexual attraction? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 01:59 PM |
| 0 | I’m addicted to escorts.My face is ugly.... Been told this by men and women alike. You said men need to work on themselves to meet women's standards. How am I supposed to change my face? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I’m addicted to escorts.A lot of men are just generally unpleasant people and do nothing to work on themselves in order to meet women’s standards. How should I fix my facial structure so a woman would actually find me attractive, wise one? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/22 01:47 PM |
| -1 | Isn't the fact that people hitch up with others with similar attractiveness prove leagues exist and looks aren't that subjective?The difference is that most men have no standards while women have dignity and self respect, and also a wide range of possibilities... If I had standards then I would remain a virgin forever. I lack those same wide range of possibilities. Have no idea how I could not grow disdain with this knowledge. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/22 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Why?I went the redpill path because my current route didn't get me where I wanted. Unfortunately found out that even redpill couldn't help me, no women would ever choose me as their partner. My personality is as repulsive as my looks. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/22 02:49 PM |
| 6 | A couple words about looksI have an ugly monotone voice, low IQ and have resting bitchface so my smile is pretty unattractive. When people mention ugliness, I like to imagine they take everything into consideration when they call themselves ugly. Moving to other traits like voice, smile, humor, smarts, just seems to be moving goalposts to me. Like it's more ways that I don't add up, not even mentioning my facial structure or the way my body looks in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?I wouldn't call it self defeatist, more like a fact. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?Thanks! I have no passions or real interests. Boring, which makes me not relationship material. That's why I want to focus on other things instead. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?I'm ugly and don't have the innate personality to have relationships. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?I'm not meant to be in relationships, it's not the end of the world, but more important to find other things rather than obsessing about something that will never happen. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?Prime Steve, especially as mr pink in reservoir dogs isn't bad looking at all. I'm far uglier than him. I'm too ugly to be in a relationship. The best thing for me is finding different outlets that can replace relationships. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/02/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?Makes sense! In my case just want to find other things in life that are healthy replacements for love, companionship, and sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 11:15 PM |
| 3 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?Been on antidepressants and my libido remained unchanged. I am a rather horny individual, so maybe that's why? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?I already gave up on the idea of relationships. It will never happen, made this post to see what options I have to find joy and acceptance. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 11:13 PM |
| 3 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?hold your hand and show you? no, you have to find it yourself I'm going to continue playing video games lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 07:29 PM |
| 3 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?Exactly! A lot of my drive is because of my libido, if it weren't for that I wouldn't even care about relationships. That's why I was wondering if there was a humane way to kill one's sexdrive. I've been on ssri's in the past and it didn't lower it like I thought it would. My thinking is if my libido was gone, would no longer ever even think about, or concern myself with women or ponder relationships since the literal need would be gone. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 06:06 PM |
| 4 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?You don't think I already do? Walking is "Getting a life?" | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 2 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?Literally nothing else to do where I live. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 04:21 PM |
| 2 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?I've been in therapy for over a month. I really like the therapist, but nothing has changed. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 04:11 PM |
| 5 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?get a life Like what lol | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 03:59 PM |
| 5 | I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless?maybe try chanelling that desire into a hobby or something that brings you relief. Ya, that hobby would be video games for me. Been playing Elden Ring, fun so far! | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/22 02:44 PM |
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