One thing I see a lot on Reddit by scrotes is: If you're dating a man who treats you badly, it's because you are dating out of your league.

This is victim-blaming, offensive, and makes no sense.

First, if he's really such a catch, there's no reason for him to be entertaining women he has no attraction or interest in. LVMs have this weird obsession with a fat, ugly woman who is ~too confident~ going for Chad, and him pumping and dumping her. If Chad is really that attractive (LVM have very low standards for a man being attractive), he can find attractive women to sleep with and date.

Second, if he's treating someone like shit because he's "above them", he's not the catch he thinks he is. Even if he were to start dating a woman he thinks is out of his league, someone like that has a major insecurity problem, and his issues would affect her eventually.

Why is it that he treats a server at a restaurant poorly, we see this as a red flag and an indicator for how he will treat his girlfriend eventually, but treating a woman he was previously dating or in a relationship poorly isn't held in the same regard? Oh wait, I know, because a lot of Redditors can relate to people in customer service positions, but need to demonize women they see as "unattractive" and "confident"--the two worst things a woman can be, according to LVM.

We also know that scrotes can believe they are attractive and a catch, despite no women being interested in them. They talk all the time about how they get no matches. A woman finally matches with them, but they decide they could "do better" (with who?!) but they no one else interested so they are going to date her...but treat her like crap....because they are out of her league...but she's the only woman who's interested in them...? Make it make sense!!