Friendly reminders 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

SuitablePerformance3 · 2021-08-21T02:37:41+00:00

Yes!! Being in a state of confusion and/or anxiety is a sign of abuse. I will repeat this until I die. If you are unsure, anxious, confused and/or already making excuses for behaviour then RUN.

And another note, my sis is glowing in literally every way. What a gorgeous woman, and considering what type of advice she's giving to fellow women, she's gorgeous inside and out.

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-08-21T03:07:45+00:00

Yes! The nanosecond I feel confused, I’m out. I spent a decade “confused”. NEVER AGAIN. It’s now a full hard stop like a railroad track guard with flashing red lights.

daglowup · 2021-08-21T04:22:52+00:00

Amazing video! Also I wanna add that you shouldn’t FOR A SECOND fall into the rabbit hole of “oh why is he treating me like this, if I were gOoD enOugH for him he would be much nicer.” Sis, no. If he can’t treat a woman he doesn’t like with respect, that’s a huge sign that he has no integrity. A real HVM would let you know pretty early that your relationship wasn’t heading anywhere because he recognises that if not him, you deserve to find someone who’s fully into you. It needs to be uniform, respectful energy across the board for every woman.

Hikari3747 · 2021-08-21T13:16:38+00:00

It's common knowledge guy chase women they like. They make it very known.

Guys are so easy to read. They are like puppies, they get excited when they see you and sad when you're not around.

If the guy isn't acting like a happy puppy around you, he doesn't like you.

pickmieshaexorcist · 2021-08-21T02:50:03+00:00

She is absolutely STUNNING. 😍

spicyspa · 2021-08-21T02:41:16+00:00

Good advice. Gorgeous woman with amazing eye makeup.

Determinedblonde · 2021-08-21T06:26:44+00:00

2 simple, easy principles to follow. Stunning woman with a chilled, cool vibe 😎

KateJ1982 · 2021-08-21T04:25:19+00:00

Pure wisdom.

alichuchu · 2021-08-21T13:05:05+00:00

She’s giving women and girls advice of the century!!

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-08-21T15:36:41+00:00

Yes #2 is SO important. A confusing man is a dangerous man. I live by this.

bombas- · 2021-08-21T20:44:27+00:00

Confusion is the feeling of someone lying to you.

If you are truly CONFUSED, you are getting contradictory information. Reality doesn’t contradict itself. Someone is lying to you.

curiousiberiantiger · 2021-08-21T05:35:22+00:00

when you start to question everything that happens in the relationshit I suggest you begin your google searches with "why narcissist abuse" or "radical feminism" lol

Risoa · 2021-08-21T16:48:57+00:00

Can't upvote this enough

usernamewhichiafree · 2021-08-21T14:02:49+00:00

Advice number 2 is so good. If he wants to he would. Always. Mixed signals, "I like you but..." all BS.

CougarCat19 · 2021-08-21T04:57:08+00:00

Yes! I love the act like you can’t hear whatever he’s saying and just sit back and watch him like a hawk, so true! Thank you for sharing this amazing advice on when to bail, hopefully it can spare someone some time and hearts.

raindropsonnoses · 2021-08-21T15:09:41+00:00

Two fantastically summarised points of gatekeeping yourself.

haggis_rising · 2021-08-22T10:34:03+00:00

Yes! And there's probably a huge difference in energy between a LVM pretending to like you because of the benefits he can leech from you vs a HVM who is into you as a human being and potential life partner.

I say 'probably' because I've never met a HVM to test that gut theory!

I'd love to hear more of her thoughts on observing actions, even little things like body language. I feel I'm always on the defensive...it would be nice to know when someone clearly has good intentions 😅

GCFDSthrowaway · 2021-08-21T15:58:58+00:00

This is 💯⭐👍💰✅👌🏼🏆

Title	Friendly reminders 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Author	LevelUpWoman
Upvotes	876
Comments	32
Date	August 20, 2021 11:20 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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