When playing games 🎮 in real life goes wrong !

moorekom · 2021-08-24T14:39:43+00:00

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yellomachine · 2021-08-23T22:21:06+00:00

You're 23? Grow up and learn to treat others with dignity.

DesertLover17 · 2021-08-23T23:08:40+00:00

I hate all the "How do i let him know blah blah blah" infantile crap. Uuuuuuum Just like that, just let him know. You know words right?

HLFML · 2021-08-23T23:57:05+00:00

TL;DR - a man respected my boundaries. Tears.

GodlyAlph · 2021-08-23T22:21:09+00:00

My only question is why would the guy say are we friends unless there were doing things that was beyond friends 🤔 There's more to this story

babydaddy2000 · 2021-08-23T22:27:40+00:00

Play stupid games win stupid prizes

stavago · 2021-08-23T23:04:25+00:00

If only there was some way to let him know…

dreadie91 · 2021-08-23T22:19:00+00:00

Welp you can get the attention, but not retention

Only_Leather_3107 · 2021-08-23T23:00:40+00:00

Please tell me comments called her out

Leindo · 2021-08-23T22:33:06+00:00

Dont you hate it when there is more to the story?

ZZoMBiEXIII · 2021-08-24T04:47:57+00:00

I can sum this one up.

"I found this great guy that I wanted to keep on a hook but now he's wriggled away and is swimming free. Is there a way to coax him back to my hook?"

IJustLovetoEatBooty · 2021-08-24T02:58:03+00:00

Lmfao. Wtf did I just read? I guarantee my third testicle huge chunks of this story is being omitted. He was probably under the assumption they were dating or close to it by how much time they've spent together and they were probably banging, but as soon as they were out in public and he went for some PDA she friendzones him so other people wouldn't see her with him so she could keep her options open and him on the back burner. He said nah, fuck that. They both went childish mode and now she's interested cause he found out she belongs to the streets. That's juat my guess.

Nihi1986 · 2021-08-24T00:30:05+00:00

She somehow got 33 upvotes by saying she frienzoned a guy but wants him more than a friend now when he's finally flirting with other people?

They just can't do wrong... whatever bad happens it's always a man, I guess.

mistralol · 2021-08-24T07:40:17+00:00

Guy wants girl...

Girl puts guy in friend zone.

Guy accepts, moves on.

Girl suddenly wants what she can't have....

Girl now pissed off because of bullshit reasons she gave herself.

Girl probably blames guy for all this.

Tracker1958 · 2021-08-24T01:04:31+00:00

Play stupid games and you lose the whole game. Ladies, men don't play games with relationship. He will walk away quick.

PopularBug5 · 2021-08-24T01:55:26+00:00

A party girl who is used to receiving tons of penises and attention wants to play the friendzone game and lead men on with mixed messages and false hopes. News at 10.

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-08-24T07:01:11+00:00

Surprised she used the term friendzone. Lots of women get really angry about it and stubbornly insist it doesn’t exist and is just pure misogyny

Even someone I am very good friends with got very angry (colour rising in her cheeks) when it came up. Despite being happily married

Disciple_Of_Cheesus · 2021-08-23T23:27:11+00:00

Genius moves.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2021-08-24T05:17:26+00:00

"How to let him know I want him more than a friend?"

Send nudes!

(Stupid question deserves a stupid answer.)

Overkillengine · 2021-08-24T05:43:14+00:00

Maybe one day she'll figure out that anything you tell a man other than an unambiguous FUCK YES may as well be a FUCK NO if he has a working brain and self respect.

Haha. No she fucking won't, we all know that. She's going to end up as a single mom and/or catlady.

saruin · 2021-08-24T06:13:35+00:00

I'm a weird sort of similar situation. Girl I work with keeps referring to "us" as best friends and I hardly ever said anything to this chick at this point (like ever, I may have had some words in the past but I honestly can't recall). I really don't gaf but wondering what her game is if any at all. She's done this for like 2 weeks straight and then totally ignores me for one day. I'm pretty non-reactive about it, like I mentioned I really don't give af at all I just find it comical and suspect she's trying to get some rise out of me like "why are you ignoring me aren't we best friends????" F all that noise!

Hunk_Maggot · 2021-08-24T06:21:01+00:00

I can say the only mistake he did is trying again on someone who already say no, he should walked away without saying anything, even more important, he should have ignore her for playing with his emotions.

They say that men are emotionless, that's because there are women who are truly cruel, psycho and soulless human beings.

AdventurousAd5107 · 2021-08-24T12:36:29+00:00

“I see him almost everyday and we go to parties together”

“I pushed him away because I feel like he hasn’t invested emotionally in my life”

Ah the cognitive dissonance

Loud-Bottle-7879 · 2021-08-24T12:20:53+00:00

She only wanted him as more than a friend once she saw he could get other trim at the party. Crazy how that works, who would have thought!

ONEJOHNSON · 2021-08-24T04:08:25+00:00

Play stupid narcissistic self serving and self gratifying games. Win loneliness as the only prize.

Actions have consequences, all women need to learn this. Their disney fairytale is a work of fiction the real world doesn't adhere too.

MisterNavit · 2021-08-24T09:34:30+00:00

I'll bet you it's women who started calling Karma a bitch.

DontWakeMeBefore12 · 2021-08-24T12:37:35+00:00

Like my grandma said: Always think at least twice BEFORE you open your mouth.

analogic-microwave · 2021-08-24T08:30:25+00:00

All i could read there was "me, me, me again. Oh and also me". Nauseating. Good for the dude to stay away.

rsa1x · 2021-08-24T17:20:19+00:00

"Invested in me emotionally" = no expensive gifts or dates

Aldabruzzo · 2021-08-24T21:15:26+00:00

A few remarks:

-if you're a 23 year old woman and you don't know how to send IOIs to a man, I don't know what to tell you

--if you pushed the guy away a month ago because you "felt like he hadn't invested anything in me emotionally", you're not sexually attracted to him. Leave him alone.

--you fucked up by friendzoning the guy. Leave him alone.

1st10Amendments · 2021-08-24T07:15:12+00:00

There are two ways out of the FZ for a man:

She initiates a stronger relationship.
He stops being her friend.

If he — HE — decides to stay in the FZ, he will be free to seek out a potential partner elsewhere and the friend is “just one of the guys” without the benefits of being the guy’s “bro,” as a guy would be.

CriticalEscapeBike · 2021-08-24T10:52:20+00:00

That ship has sailed babe. Any future adventures with this guy will now always be at 80%.

Now you're gonna have to work for it.

HowaitoHasugami · 2021-08-24T13:11:02+00:00

So you wanted him to be more than a friend yet you friendzoned him and now you‘re crying about it?

This just proves again that women have no idea what they want.

Oxynewbdone · 2021-08-24T14:07:16+00:00

This woman will have "no games" in her OLD profile. I guarantee it.

karimamin · 2021-08-24T21:27:29+00:00

This is like an episode out of a CW show. People in their late 20s acting like they're junior high school students with their "feelings".

Harry_Teak · 2021-08-25T20:08:18+00:00

What a prick! Doesn't he know that he's supposed to sit on a shelf with his genitals steam-cleaned and hermetically sealed until you decide you want to take him down and play with him? Fucking misogynists, I swear...

Or, maybe, just maybe, at 26 he's been around enough to be able to spot a psycho hose beast once they've made it bleeding obvious.

Could go either way, I guess.

Vikingbeard1 · 2021-08-28T03:45:58+00:00

I broke out the crystal ball to see what future posts she would make; they include "Why do my kids like their dads more than me?" and "Why do all of my friends fuck my boyfriends and key my car?" and finally "Why do the men I got promoted over for having a vagina not kiss my ass?"

"I'll take Inspin Tears for 500."

Matthew_Ng03 · 2021-08-24T16:59:49+00:00

can OP give me the link to the post? I want to read the comments

AkaSoldier · 2021-08-24T18:56:14+00:00

“How do I let him know I want him as more than a friend?” I mean you could start by TALKING

Dinomiteblast · 2021-08-25T05:22:01+00:00

I just dont understand the “and now he started talking about his exes who find him attractive and he doesnt them.” part.

KingWhoCared86 · 2021-08-29T14:38:47+00:00

Pretty sure this is me. Got really close and friendly with a girl and casually tried to see if she wanted it to me more. For the most part she politely declined and I moved on to other prospect and then would get blown up later with texts from her and her friends about how I played games with her. I honestly can say I don’t miss college that much.

JustAnotherGuyXD · 2021-08-29T15:17:23+00:00

To be fair it seems like the guy came on to her multiple times which I don’t agree with HOWEVER she is obviously leading the guy on and is dumb af if she thinks that guy is supposed to know she likes him

88Double · 2021-09-24T21:05:08+00:00

When he’s nice - yuk go away Becomes an arsehole - mmm tingles

Nighter1222 · 2021-10-10T16:17:23+00:00

Erm wot? He tried to kiss her so she said no. Whats wrong with that?

player89283517 · 2021-08-24T03:58:37+00:00

I don’t think she’s playing games I feel like she just doesn’t feel ready or doesn’t feel the connection to him yet

Title	When playing games 🎮 in real life goes wrong !
Author	GodlyAlph
Upvotes	666
Comments	157
Date	August 23, 2021 10:09 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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