The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 27 - Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Take on Porn Culture + Culture Reframed Virtual Conference!

ello-motto · 2021-09-08T11:10:27+00:00

"Contrary to what porn says about men, we don't believe men are just life support machines for erect penises."

Gail Dines is fucking hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Muffcakelord · 2021-09-08T09:49:47+00:00

When you finally mentioned how we don't actually feel insecure about things before the women's magazines mention them, i felt such great relief. I've been angry at women/girls all my life for giving in to the scam where businesses mention something, anything, as a proclaimed bad feature, it could be anything. Too big lips, too small lips, thick thighs, thin thighs. It especially makes me want to explode when people say "don't care about your XYZ, you're still beautiful!" like can you imagine a more powerful insult? I can't. It's not entirely women's fault for being good at learning and following norms though, it's easier to pressure women when they have little or no power in the world and their status and value depends on how other perceive them. This is also exactly why this scam rarely works on men to the same degree, but it's starting to slowly happen to them as well since they're more dependent on how others perceive them now that the amount of potential employees has included women and because they might fear being single if they don't.

And the "body-positive" movement. Probably infiltrated by men like most other things meant for women, where people constantly say something like "you're not big enough to join" and it's obvious how they only say "you're beautiful!" if they think you "need" it. I bet anyone realize the insult in this as well. I myself started googling things about my body that i found attractive because WOMEN'S ARTICLES, meant to be "PRO WOMEN", would be saying "don't wortry about it, you're still beautiful" making it fairly obvious that it's not "normal" even though it is!

Professional-Ad-457 · 2021-09-08T11:49:11+00:00

Epic episode - I’ve signed up for the conference. I have a question - as a public figure did Gail Dines tell you if she receives similar vitriolic hate mail and if so how does she live with this? Has experience taught her it’s all hot air or does she take security measures everywhere?

annrike1 · 2021-09-09T09:58:12+00:00

"They put ugly men in porn on purpose." There was a study about men not liking porn if the men is good looking! They get aroused more if the men is ugly as hell!

Any_Membership_9674 · 2021-09-08T22:50:20+00:00

If anyone is lurking and unsure if they want to give the podcast a listen, I strongly recommend it. I was on the fence because listening to a podcast feels like a bigger commitment than scrolling on Reddit. Since listening to the pod I feel way more connected to the spirit of FDS. Listening to the podcast feels like taking a weekly dose of anti-scrote nonsense which I am thankful for!

23eggz · 2021-09-08T12:38:13+00:00

Ooo i loved Gail on her first episode with you guys, im so excited to listen to this!!

lessadessa · 2021-09-08T13:59:35+00:00

The brilliance listening to these educated women dissecting everything backwards and wrong about the porn/sex industry is so inspiring and TRULY empowering. What an amazing discussion.

hopecoperope1 · 2021-09-08T15:01:12+00:00

I cannot tell you how much I loved this podcast. I love the fact that I found this subreddit. While my country hasn't "progressed" so far as to consider sex work as "progressive", I already see a ton of men under my country's discourse who believe women have it easier since they can just SELL their bodies. How awful to be so out of touch with basic humanity. Dines is a treasure.

HereForTheFreeFoodOk · 2021-09-08T11:14:17+00:00

Lilith, Reaux + Savannah - you mentioned in the beginning you will be speaking at a conference... anonymously I hope? How will you protect your identities?

SupermarketObvious92 · 2021-09-09T13:22:33+00:00

Oooh I can’t wait to give this a listen! Gail Dines is my new idol lol, how savage she is when it comes to porn.

Noemie_Mathilde · 2021-09-08T11:57:58+00:00

Amazing as always ladies 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

Lolita_Loquita · 2021-09-09T15:19:04+00:00

So excited that Dr. Queen Dines graced us with her presence again! Today I learned the difference between "feeling empowered" and actually "being empowered."

Thank you all for your this very important work.

Edit to add that your podcasts give us the tools to advocate in a more educated way.

LittleSnackPack58 · 2021-09-09T22:17:14+00:00

Dr. Gail Dines is my favorite guest by far! Everything she says is backed by research and facts which makes her an incredible source of information.

rbholiday · 2021-09-09T11:57:56+00:00

Amazing podcast, thank you ladies and thank you Gail Dines

iacint · 2021-09-10T08:27:21+00:00

I showed this episode to my bf and he liked dr Dines a lot! She got me into feminism and i never got back

greenteathyme · 2021-09-09T16:26:58+00:00

I loved this podcast and I love Dr. Gail.

ZookeepergameGlad611 · 2021-09-10T04:07:34+00:00

I love Gail ❤ Can’t wait to hear about the conference and would love to see her as a recurring guest every few months.

Lylaeth · 2021-09-08T14:34:26+00:00

Just registered for the conference! I saw that we’ll have full access to the conference recording afterwards, does this include all of the breakout sessions?

sad-porcupine · 2021-09-10T17:38:48+00:00

MY DREAM CAME TRUE!!! Gail is my hero! I could listen to her talk all day! Thank you ladies ♥️

questionsaboutrel521 · 2021-09-11T13:49:36+00:00

Thank you for making us aware of the conference! Wow, I so admire Dr. Dines for gathering a distinguished group of academics, NGOs, and cultural organizations to really take this head on. Lots of prestigious universities represented. Great international community. Looking forward to seeing FDS’s contribution!

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slayeroftruth · 2021-09-12T16:26:04+00:00

Dr. Gail Dines is such treasure. She has always fights so hard for girls, teens and women. Love they had her on twice and how she supports women for real. She is such HVW.

FDS feels so real. Feel so lucky to have FDS. Always get good laugh with such excellent advice. I like how they give layered advice like giving different tips on how to flirt that suits their personality instead of one size fits all.

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Title	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 27 - Dr. Gail Dines Returns to Take on Porn Culture + Culture Reframed Virtual Conference!
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